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4. Talking And Listening 85 The 'Blue or Gold Shoes' Strategy Why Males Can't Talk Proper Boys and Their Schooling Why Women Are Great Talkers Why Women Need to Talk The Hormonal Connection Women Love to Talk Men Talk Silently to Themselves The Downside of Silent Talk Women Think Aloud The Downside of Thinking Aloud Women Talk, Men Feel Nagged Why Couples Fail How Men Talk Women Multi-Track What Brain Scans Show Strategies for Talking with Men Why Men Love Big Words Women Use Words for Reward Women Are Indirect Men Are Direct What to Do About It How to Motivate a Man to Action Women Talk Emotively, Men Are Literal How Women Listen Men Listen Like Statues How to Use the Grunt How to Get a Man to Listen The Schoolgirl Voice 6
5. Spatial Ability: Maps, Targets And Parallel Parking 118 How a Map Almost Led to Divorce Sexist Thinking The Lunch-Chaser in Action Why Men Know Where to Go Why Boys Hang Out in Video Arcades Boys' Brains Develop Differently Diana and her Furniture Testing Spatial Ability How Women Can Navigate What if You Can't Find North? The Flying Map The Upside-Down Map A Final Test How to Avoid an Argument How to Argue While Driving How to Sell to a Woman The Pain of Reverse Parallel Parking Women Are Safer Drivers How Women Were Misled Spatial Ability in Education Spatial Skill Occupations Billiards and Nuclear Science The Computer Industry Maths and Accounting All Things Being Equal... Boys and their Toys How Women Feel Can You Improve Your Spatial Skill? Some Useful Strategies In Summary 7
Page 2 and 3: WHY MEN DON'T LISTEN & WOMEN CAN'T
Page 4 and 5: Acknowledgments CONTENTS Introducti
Page 8 and 9: 6. Thoughts, Attitudes, Emotions An
Page 10 and 11: 9. Men, Women and Sex 216 How Sex B
Page 12: ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Ray & Ruth Pease, B
Page 15 and 16: I t was a sunny Sunday afternoon as
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Page 19 and 20: CHAPTER 1 SAME SPECIES, DIFFERENT W
Page 21 and 22: talking, not giving enough love, no
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Page 25 and 26: neuro scientists. The brain differe
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Page 29 and 30: This book deals in facts and realit
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Page 35 and 36: T he party was already in full swin
Page 37 and 38: The Eyes Have It The eye is an exte
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Page 43 and 44: white portions the word FLY will ap
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Page 47 and 48: and boys. Most males don't have a c
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Page 55 and 56: The X-Philes Our evolutionary roles
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CHAPTER 3 IT'S ALL IN THE MIND 57
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Why We're Smarter than the Rest Loo
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Men joke that they sleep by the doo
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Today, latest research reveals that
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that skill. This is why it's as har
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Specific hot spots in the brain usi
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unrelated activities and throws a g
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Try the Toothbrush Test Most women
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foetus is a genetic boy (XY) it dev
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The Brain-Wiring Test This test is
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8. You're in an unfamiliar place an
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17. When planning your day's activi
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27. In school how did you feel abou
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The higher the score is above 180 f
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CHAPTER 4 TALKING AND LISTENING 85
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darling?' Most women are taken abac
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The different ways the sexes expres
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and the girls' maths and science sc
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are pre-wired for better use of lan
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There is no convincing evidence tha
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dry cleaning and get the car washed
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Fiona: 'That's good. He can be a re
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This is good news for men - you're
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multi-tracking several subjects, me
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Women have been the butt of jokes f
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trying to make a strong or forceful
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Indirect talk builds rapport among
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needs to listen effectively, using
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John: 'Not true! I don't always dis
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This is a light-hearted look at mal
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It is important to know that studie
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How a Map Almost Led to Divorce R a
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at which males excel, and the pursu
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Men are so obsessed with watching a
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the boys are more obsessed with the
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The following spatial test was deve
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when given verbal instructions. Thi
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Women, however, are impressed becau
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map around and feels incompetent. T
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woman it's just a page of irrelevan
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drivers had made a claim in the las
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equired and neither is great left b
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as much as the men, they'd be just
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the same material over and over aga
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are organised are the culprits. Man
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tional skills come more naturally t
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CHAPTER 6 THOUGHTS, ATTITUDES, EMOT
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Why did Moses spend 40 years wander
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in the group if the hierarchy feels
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Talking Dirty Women have always ass
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For women, emotion operates on a mo
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important to her that it does to hi
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weather and not return until he has
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Why Men Hang Out with the Boys For
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Why Stressed Women Talk Under stres
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The famous Rodin sculpture 'The Thi
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and so this is the key to getting b
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How Men Alienate Women If a man sus
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Real men do cry but only when they
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How to Give a Woman a Sincere Compl
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P eter asks Paula to go to dinner.
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meant to be easy ...' 'That's for s
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Neural evidence shows that the phen
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gangly-shaped toys don't. A woman o
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specific point, about midway throug
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considering sentencing for women ch
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Blood tests eventually revealed Bar
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spotted hyenas, is so high that the
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ties such as walking and long-dista
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etter engineer than one who looks l
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CHAPTER 8 BOYS WILL BE BOYS, BUT NO
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and then a second dose to alter the
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sion to a superior, as is also the
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Why People Look to the Father When
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The Case of Identical Gay Twins Ext
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ered to be ethically wrong, we are
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young age with testosterone, they c
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with male brain circuitry. As child
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Are we Slaves to our Biology? Scien
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look gay. Just witness the number o
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S tella and Jeremy met at the party
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history, however, no connection was
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cantly lower sex drives than men an
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notice on the chart that the sex dr
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under which the hormone cocktail is
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One American study found that all w
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Monogamy and Polygamy Polygamy is w
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of a moth gives it an instinctive a
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Male sex urge is so strong that Dr
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gorilla, for example, weighs four t
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Balls Have Brains Too Dr Robin Bake
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It doesn't mean that the man immedi
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C D What Men Look For What Women Th
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Why Sex Suddenly Stops The person w
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Men fantasise about having sex with
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A woman's brain is not pre-wired to
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achieved a result. Most men never u
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aphrodisiacs guaranteed to work are
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'How to keep him hard all night', i
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CHAPTER 10 MARRIAGE, LOVE AND ROMAN
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So, what's the advantage of marriag
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figure that dropped to 32% among wo
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position of love in the brain. Whil
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eason are better connected in a wom
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answer and this is why many women f
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with a man's attractiveness to a wo
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supermodels who look more like aspa
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Never forget that a woman is a roma
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4. Bring flowers. Most men do not u
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Why Men Grope and Women Don't The h
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Recreating Infatuation The good new
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CHAPTER 11 TOWARDS A DIFFERENT FUTU
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many of their priorities are quite
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If you are a woman working in a tra
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primary schools women now dominate
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Where else can you now see greater
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Israeli kibbutzim have for years tr
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The good news is that when you unde
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REFERENCES Allen, L.S., Richey, M.F
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Carper, Jean., your Miracle Brain,
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Gardner, Howard, Extraordinary Mind
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Jensen, Eric, Brain-Based Learning,
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McGuiness, D., 'How schools discrim
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Rosenblum, L. A., 'Sex Differences
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