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Quaker Thought and Today - Friends Journal

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cion held in Syracuse in September 1852.<br />

"We have seen a practical exhibition of<br />

the consequences that flow when a woman<br />

leaves her true sphere where she wields all<br />

her influence <strong>and</strong> comes into public,"<br />

wrote a Herald reponer in 1852. "Some<br />

of the women are old maids, whose personal<br />

charms were never really attractive,<br />

some have been badly mated <strong>and</strong> are therefore<br />

down upon the whole of the opposite<br />

sex." Mott, happily married <strong>and</strong> the<br />

mother of six, ignored such criticism (if<br />

she ever read it) but paradoxically objected<br />

only when the press commented on<br />

her domestic <strong>and</strong> womanly skills.<br />

In autumn of 1841, she spotted a recipe<br />

for com pudding, a staple of her home of<br />

Nantucket, denigrated in the Philadelphia-based<br />

United States Gazette. She objected<br />

to the culinary comments <strong>and</strong> sent<br />

what she considered a better recipe to the<br />

editor, Joseph Ch<strong>and</strong>ler. She received a<br />

note of thanks that read, "I have learned<br />

that much which seemed repulsive, or at<br />

least of doubtful benefit in itself, has, when<br />

presented by Mrs. Mott, been found palatable<br />

<strong>and</strong> nutritious."<br />

In another rare case, Mott challenged<br />

the press after her ladylike modesty had<br />

been compromised. When preaching for<br />

FRIENDS JoURNAL September 1998<br />

more peaceful means to solve international<br />

disputes at New York Yearly Meeting<br />

in 1872, she complained to friends<br />

about a New York Herald reporter's description<br />

of her taking off her hat before<br />

she spoke-something she never did.<br />

Suffering Rejection<br />

by <strong>Friends</strong><br />

Even among <strong>Friends</strong>, Mort's ardent<br />

abolitionism was criticized. Despite<br />

<strong>Friends</strong>' stated suppon of the antislavery<br />

movement, they were exhoned to "avoid<br />

all contention." Ministers, including Mott,<br />

who preached on the subject were disparaged<br />

in the Society <strong>and</strong> its publications.<br />

Mott became a pariah as she urged <strong>Quaker</strong><br />

women to speak our in meetings <strong>and</strong><br />

pushed <strong>Friends</strong> towards political activism.<br />

Hatred against her surged in the 1840s<br />

as her activism <strong>and</strong> fame increased. Conservative<br />

<strong>Quaker</strong> leader George White<br />

preached <strong>and</strong> wrote against her in a pamphlet,<br />

reminding <strong>Friends</strong> to stay away<br />

from such political activities. "Join not<br />

these associations . .. they are abominations<br />

in the sight of God," he said, referring<br />

to antislavery groups that Mott promoted,<br />

such as the American Anti-Slavery<br />

Society.<br />

Mott fought back, castigating <strong>Quaker</strong>s'<br />

tendency to "disparage all good work<br />

not done within the enclosure of one's<br />

own particular section" in the National<br />

Slavery St<strong>and</strong>ard in 1841. Mott continued<br />

to Jove the Society despite "hating its<br />

reluctance to change," as biographer<br />

Margaret Bacon writes.<br />

Far from managing her press image,<br />

Mott unwittingly encouraged newspapers<br />

to follow her radical abolitionist <strong>and</strong> feminist<br />

efforts by declining to write editorials<br />

or letters to the editor. She seldom read<br />

what the papers wrote about her <strong>and</strong> rarely<br />

commented on the tangle of praise <strong>and</strong><br />

criticism she found.<br />

In ignoring the dictates of her time,<br />

she changed the public image of women<br />

from homebody to reformer. Her ability<br />

to intertwine her roles as wife <strong>and</strong> mother<br />

with that of social revolutionary was<br />

modern, even by today' s st<strong>and</strong>ards. Despite<br />

her reluctance at autobiography, Mott<br />

believed her work would live into the<br />

future. Indeed, her influence on <strong>Friends</strong><br />

continues to be felt in the public (<strong>and</strong><br />

often contradictory) media image of<br />

women today <strong>and</strong> in the Religious Society<br />

of <strong>Friends</strong>' social activism around the<br />

world. 0<br />

An 1869<br />

Harper's<br />

Weekly<br />

cartoon shows<br />

a pantheon<br />

of famous <strong>and</strong><br />

Infamous<br />

activists at a<br />

party for The<br />

Independent,<br />

a radical<br />

abolitionist<br />

newspaper.<br />

Lucretia Mott<br />

Is seen at the<br />

front; Elizabeth<br />

Cady Stanton<br />

follows.<br />

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