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an exception to this prohibition is warranted<br />

because of extraordinary circumstances,<br />

it is social workers—not their<br />

clients—who assume the full burden of<br />

demonstrating that the former client has<br />

not been exploited, coerced, or manipulated,<br />

intentionally or unintentionally.”<br />

Of course, this would be a difficult—if not<br />

impossible—burden to meet if it came<br />

before an ethics committee. Nonetheless,<br />

it leaves open the possibility, as rare as it<br />

may be, and does not claim that “once a<br />

client, always a client.”<br />

<strong>In</strong> most all states, laws prohibiting<br />

sex with clients are limited to current<br />

or recent clients. Washington State is<br />

one exception. However, assuming the<br />

former client does not file any complaint,<br />

how enforceable would such laws be?<br />

For example, what if the former therapist<br />

and patient got married, were in a committed<br />

relationship, and had children?<br />

Would or should an ethics committee<br />

have the authority to interfere with a<br />

marriage or union among consenting<br />

adults? What about our belief in the right<br />

to free association?<br />

What is the rationale for the prohibition<br />

against sex with patients? Many<br />

believe it is the power differential. However,<br />

Dr. Stephen Behnke, APA Ethics<br />

Director (2006), says otherwise. Behnke<br />

points out that many relationships have<br />

significant power differentials, including<br />

partnerships and marriages, and that we<br />

often do in fact put our own interests<br />

above those of clients when we charge<br />

fees, for example. So, neither a power<br />

differential nor putting our own needs<br />

first is in and of itself unethical. Rather,<br />

Behnke says, it is because we have a fiduciary<br />

relationship that is compromised<br />

and creates additional risks that are not a<br />

necessary part of the therapeutic relationship,<br />

making psychotherapy impossible.<br />

But fiduciary relationships are not static<br />

and change with time and circumstances.<br />

What makes the therapist/client fiduciary<br />

relationship any different from any other<br />

fiduciary relationship?<br />

So, how did so many of us come to<br />

the belief that “once a client, always a<br />

client” and that virtually all dual relationships<br />

are harmful? Some would argue<br />

it is based on psychodynamic theory,<br />

and perhaps those who practice psychoanalytically<br />

have a higher standard.<br />

But interestingly, there is nothing in<br />

psychodynamic theory or psychoanalysis<br />

that would state such. <strong>In</strong> fact, as Fredric<br />

Reamer points out in his book Tangled<br />

Relationships, Freud himself and other<br />

early founders of modern psychotherapy<br />

engaged in behaviors that by today’s<br />

standards would be unthinkable and<br />

could result in ethical charges. <strong>This</strong><br />

would include taking patients on vacation<br />

and conducting analysis in hotel<br />

room beds. Many clinicians are shocked<br />

and dismayed to learn that people we<br />

revere and respect would have acted<br />

in a way that would be unthinkable by<br />

today’s standards. We tend to forget that<br />

that was a different time with different<br />

standards. Therefore, perhaps, our reactions<br />

could possibly be a way of denying<br />

and reacting against the behaviors of a<br />

previous era we find frankly embarrassing<br />

and indefensible.<br />

Another possibility is that, whereas<br />

all of us require structure of some kind,<br />

some of us need more structure and clear<br />

inflexible rules more than others. Some<br />

fear that if they bend the rules just a little,<br />

they may go down a slippery slope and<br />

cross all reasonable bounds. To therapists<br />

who believe they are just one rigid<br />

rule away from harming their patients,<br />

I say maintain all the rules you need.<br />

However, not everyone requires such<br />

inflexibility. Attempting to impose such<br />

rigidity on everyone is not good practice.<br />

It is not good for our clients or the field.<br />

Although many therapists across<br />

disciplines will hold onto the view that<br />

“once a client, always a client,” it is not<br />

without serious unintended negative<br />

consequences. If we hold that belief to<br />

be literally true, then it would not apply<br />

only to sex. We are responsible to protect<br />

our clients from harm to self and others.<br />

But if we make no distinction between<br />

current and long past, can we in this<br />

litigious society be sued for the actions of<br />

a long past client?<br />

Perhaps the strongest argument<br />

against the “once a client, always a<br />

client” notion that many of us have is<br />

that it does not conform to reality and it<br />

infantilizes our clients. Our clients grow<br />

mature and often leave us behind. If we<br />

do our jobs well, we have given them<br />

the tools to move on. It is unrealistic to<br />

think that, after several years, we mean<br />

the same to them as when they came to<br />

us for help. It is not like a parent/child<br />

relationship, although even in a parent/<br />

child relationship, roles often equalize<br />

and even reverse. It is more like a mentor/mentee<br />

relationship, in which one<br />

expects in time that the mentee will catch<br />

up to, and perhaps even surpass, the<br />

mentor.<br />

References<br />

Behnke, S. (2006, June). The discipline of<br />

ethics and the prohibition against becoming<br />

sexually involved with patients. APA Monitor,<br />

37 (6). Retrieved online at http://<br />

www.apa.org/monitor/jun06/ethics.aspx.<br />

Lazarus, A. A., & Zur, O. (Eds.). (2002).<br />

Dual relationships and psychotherapy. New<br />

York: Springer.<br />

John A. Riolo, Ph.D., is a retired private<br />

practitioner who operates a number of educational<br />

Web sites and blogs on mental health<br />

issues. His Web sites include Civil Discourse<br />

Blog, The <strong>In</strong>sider, Your Advocate <strong>Online</strong>, Law<br />

and Ethics in Mental Health, and Listen to<br />

the <strong>In</strong>sider Podcast Series.<br />

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