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eal life story<br />

My name is Sarai Kliskey, I have written a book<br />

called Project Baby Lucy.<br />

I have always wanted to write a book, I love writing.<br />

I did start to write one a while back but due to a<br />

hectic life it fell by the wayside. After the first set of<br />

IVF treatment failed I decided to make a go of the<br />

writing. I feel it was a way of me coming to terms<br />

with things and also wanting to share my story so<br />

other ladies did not feel alone.<br />

After having I.V.F treatment for the first time and<br />

then failing I decided to go for it again to fulfil my<br />

dreams of writing! This is where Project baby Lucy<br />

started. The story itself is pure fiction the main<br />

character finds she needs to have I.V.F treatment to<br />

start a family. I based her timeline of treatment on<br />

my own so the dates are based on my experiences to<br />

life as is the outcome!<br />

We were lucky enough to be able to attend a private<br />

clinic for our treatment and they were fantastic from<br />

day one. Information was thrown at us by the book<br />

load and we were kept up to date with every detail<br />

throughout.<br />

I was deeply upset when I found out I had to have<br />

IVF treatment although the problem did not lie<br />

directly with me but with my husband who was just<br />

as devastated as I was. Having IVF was massively<br />

important to me. My husband and I desperately<br />

wanted to have children of our own.<br />

Unfortunately my dad suddenly passed away in<br />

2006. This was painstakingly hard to deal with<br />

knowing my children will never have the privilege of<br />

meeting there Grandad.<br />

I underwent one round of IVF ICSI treatment in<br />

which I decided to egg share. (ICSI, stands for<br />

intracytoplasmic sperm injection, this may be used<br />

as part of IVF treatment). Half of my harvested eggs<br />

would be given to another woman who unfortunately<br />

could not have her own children. Sadly on that<br />

occasion I did not produce enough eggs to share, I<br />

was devastated for her even though I had no idea<br />

who this lady was. The whole egg share donor<br />

process is lengthy and takes a lot of thinking about,<br />

for it not to work out was disappointing. To add<br />

Sarai’s Story<br />

further sadness into the mix, the process failed for<br />

me and sadly I did not fall pregnant. It almost felt<br />

like I had been through so much for nothing!<br />

Your body goes through a rough ride with all the<br />

combinations of drugs that you have to self inject for<br />

weeks then the operations etc at the end to remove<br />

and replace the eggs. I felt cheated and upset for<br />

everyone involved.<br />

I had my husband<br />

for support and<br />

we spend many<br />

hours talking to<br />

each other about<br />

our feelings but I<br />

desperately<br />

wanted to speak<br />

with other ladies<br />

in the same<br />

situation as me so<br />

I joined an online<br />

forum. The<br />

advice and<br />

support which I<br />

received from the<br />

forum was<br />

second to none. It was so nice not to feel alone<br />

during the process, to ask for tips and eventually<br />

give them back to newer people on the forum and to<br />

share in to people‟s good news and be a supportive<br />

shoulder for people wanting to share bad news. We<br />

eventually all became good friends.<br />

Eventually the treatment was successful and I gave<br />

birth to beautiful twins Maisey and Oliver who are<br />

now 18 months old, amazing!!<br />

Do I plan to have any more children? Who knows<br />

what the future holds?<br />

I do have a second book in the pipeline, but when I<br />

actually have the time to write it is another matter<br />

but I will be sure to let you all know.<br />

To buy a copy of Project Baby follow the link:<br />

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Project-Baby-Lucys-<br />

Journey-1/dp/1466459964/ref=sr_1_1?<br />

ie=UTF8&qid=1355751844&sr=8-1

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