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eal life story<br />
My name is Sarai Kliskey, I have written a book<br />
called Project Baby Lucy.<br />
I have always wanted to write a book, I love writing.<br />
I did start to write one a while back but due to a<br />
hectic life it fell by the wayside. After the first set of<br />
IVF treatment failed I decided to make a go of the<br />
writing. I feel it was a way of me coming to terms<br />
with things and also wanting to share my story so<br />
other ladies did not feel alone.<br />
After having I.V.F treatment for the first time and<br />
then failing I decided to go for it again to fulfil my<br />
dreams of writing! This is where Project baby Lucy<br />
started. The story itself is pure fiction the main<br />
character finds she needs to have I.V.F treatment to<br />
start a family. I based her timeline of treatment on<br />
my own so the dates are based on my experiences to<br />
life as is the outcome!<br />
We were lucky enough to be able to attend a private<br />
clinic for our treatment and they were fantastic from<br />
day one. Information was thrown at us by the book<br />
load and we were kept up to date with every detail<br />
throughout.<br />
I was deeply upset when I found out I had to have<br />
IVF treatment although the problem did not lie<br />
directly with me but with my husband who was just<br />
as devastated as I was. Having IVF was massively<br />
important to me. My husband and I desperately<br />
wanted to have children of our own.<br />
Unfortunately my dad suddenly passed away in<br />
2006. This was painstakingly hard to deal with<br />
knowing my children will never have the privilege of<br />
meeting there Grandad.<br />
I underwent one round of IVF ICSI treatment in<br />
which I decided to egg share. (ICSI, stands for<br />
intracytoplasmic sperm injection, this may be used<br />
as part of IVF treatment). Half of my harvested eggs<br />
would be given to another woman who unfortunately<br />
could not have her own children. Sadly on that<br />
occasion I did not produce enough eggs to share, I<br />
was devastated for her even though I had no idea<br />
who this lady was. The whole egg share donor<br />
process is lengthy and takes a lot of thinking about,<br />
for it not to work out was disappointing. To add<br />
Sarai’s Story<br />
further sadness into the mix, the process failed for<br />
me and sadly I did not fall pregnant. It almost felt<br />
like I had been through so much for nothing!<br />
Your body goes through a rough ride with all the<br />
combinations of drugs that you have to self inject for<br />
weeks then the operations etc at the end to remove<br />
and replace the eggs. I felt cheated and upset for<br />
everyone involved.<br />
I had my husband<br />
for support and<br />
we spend many<br />
hours talking to<br />
each other about<br />
our feelings but I<br />
desperately<br />
wanted to speak<br />
with other ladies<br />
in the same<br />
situation as me so<br />
I joined an online<br />
forum. The<br />
advice and<br />
support which I<br />
received from the<br />
forum was<br />
second to none. It was so nice not to feel alone<br />
during the process, to ask for tips and eventually<br />
give them back to newer people on the forum and to<br />
share in to people‟s good news and be a supportive<br />
shoulder for people wanting to share bad news. We<br />
eventually all became good friends.<br />
Eventually the treatment was successful and I gave<br />
birth to beautiful twins Maisey and Oliver who are<br />
now 18 months old, amazing!!<br />
Do I plan to have any more children? Who knows<br />
what the future holds?<br />
I do have a second book in the pipeline, but when I<br />
actually have the time to write it is another matter<br />
but I will be sure to let you all know.<br />
To buy a copy of Project Baby follow the link:<br />
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Project-Baby-Lucys-<br />
Journey-1/dp/1466459964/ref=sr_1_1?<br />
ie=UTF8&qid=1355751844&sr=8-1