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CHRISTIAN PSYCHOLOGY DR. E. C. BRAGG - Trinity College

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called upon to use all his knowledge of human nature to deal with them. Too<br />

many have one cure for every ill, like a doctor with but one pill for all ills. The<br />

preacher must know how to deal with each individual; to do this, he must know<br />

their own peculiar outlook, feelings, and problems, if he is to help them. Here is<br />

why there are usually only a few in the average preacher's church that he can<br />

help, while many find no help from him in his counsel. He is a stranger to their<br />

particular problem as he has no understanding of their natures. All too many can<br />

only help those who have similar natures to their own, since their case is known<br />

by experience to them.<br />

2. It is important because there are many problems of a natural nature not<br />

necessarily, nor actually, spiritual, needing the preacher's advice and help. It is<br />

amazing what they can ask you! They expect the preacher to be a paragon of<br />

wisdom. Often he is asked or feels the need to counsel, about marriage problems,<br />

home problems, etc.<br />

3. It is important because the preacher will be called upon again and again to<br />

use every bit of knowledge of human nature to make groups at variance to be<br />

reconciled or various cliques within the church to cooperate in concerted effort.<br />

There is no large group but that diverging interests divide into cliques.<br />

4. It is important to keep down various ill feelings arising out of real or<br />

imagined wrongs on the part of touchy members. There are folks who think they<br />

can sing, for usually they make so much noise so close to their ears they can't<br />

hear their off-key rasping. The ones who can sing, won't; and the ones who can't<br />

insist on singing. It will take all the preacher’s knowledge of psychology and<br />

diplomacy to keep them from singing, yet keep them happy. This is why the<br />

choir is often called “the war department of the church” There are also issues<br />

with the average board, with at least one splinter on it.<br />

5. It is important, for you will find a great deal of sympathetic understanding as<br />

well as patience in dealing with them, if you understand their peculiarities. If you<br />

know from your understanding of psychology that the person has some innate<br />

quirk of character they cannot help, you will be able to deal with them patiently<br />

and also to help them. You will not quickly underrate them, belittle, nor ridicule<br />

them. It ill becomes us to laugh at some infirmity of personality or body. In<br />

every church you will find these folks; if you understand them enough, you can<br />

help them and fulfill the ministry God has given you in that place.<br />

6. It is important, since as a minister, you will be called upon to listen<br />

sympathetically to a lot of confessions. Psychologically it is necessary "to talk it<br />

out" many times to find peace of mind. The urge is overpowering to tell someone<br />

who understands and in the telling, mental rest is found. It is not easy to be a<br />

good listener at times like that. No supercilious air, no levity, no selfrighteousness,<br />

no spirit of criticism, nor of condemnation will do, but real heartfelt<br />

sympathy and understanding.<br />

7. It is important to the right understanding many times of certain Scriptures. It<br />

will clarify many doctrines and portions of the Word to know the psychological<br />

aspect.

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