Summary What is L'Arche becoming? - Arche Deutschland
Summary What is L'Arche becoming? - Arche Deutschland
Summary What is L'Arche becoming? - Arche Deutschland
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The cry of a newborn baby brought the neighbours running.<br />
They had seen the pregnancy of the 15 year old girl and knew<br />
it her time of giving birth was not far off. But by the time they<br />
reached her, she had delivered the baby by herself without<br />
any support, medical or otherw<strong>is</strong>e. The baby died as the result<br />
of a fall. Th<strong>is</strong> <strong>is</strong> the story of Mus<strong>is</strong>i. Mus<strong>is</strong>i has been a victim of<br />
sexual abuse for most of her short life. After being abandoned<br />
by her mother, she was lodged with her grandfather. He<br />
could not cope with her mental d<strong>is</strong>ability, and left her in a<br />
bedroom with no door, no privacy, no bed and no bedclothes.<br />
Men would v<strong>is</strong>it the grandfather. More abuse followed. Then<br />
another pregnancy. Mercifully, a neighbour helped her deliver<br />
the baby, which <strong>is</strong> now in an orphanage.<br />
Now, 24 years old, Mus<strong>is</strong>i has been living in L’<strong>Arche</strong> for the<br />
past two years. She was helped to come to our community by<br />
an Ir<strong>is</strong>h friend, who could no longer stand Mus<strong>is</strong>i’s abuse. It<br />
<strong>is</strong> true that her village community tried to look after her, but<br />
she really needed a secure home in order to develop her full<br />
potential as a person. Thankfully, the abuse of her life has at<br />
last stopped. But the scars remain. For her, one lifelong scar<br />
<strong>is</strong> HIV. To be honest, we all had our fears and were asking<br />
ourselves: “how <strong>is</strong> it going to be to live with someone with<br />
HIV? After all, we share everything together in L’<strong>Arche</strong> and<br />
many r<strong>is</strong>ks are involved.” But that seems a long time ago now,<br />
when we were still afraid. Mus<strong>is</strong>i made us forget our fears,<br />
greeting everyone with a beautiful smile and even kneeling<br />
down as a sign of respect.<br />
... Important reading<br />
Life can be cruel. Sometimes, very cruel. We have debated very seriously about whether to include<br />
or omit th<strong>is</strong> next story. Shockingly raw, it comes from a community in Africa. In the end, we decided<br />
to share it: as members of a world-wide family, we need to be aware of the extreme suffering that<br />
some of our brothers and s<strong>is</strong>ters have endured. We hope th<strong>is</strong> encourages our bonds of solidarity,<br />
and deepens our understanding of L’<strong>Arche</strong>’s role in the world. Obviously, names have been changed<br />
to respect the person’s dignity.<br />
The story of Mus<strong>is</strong>i<br />
By an ass<strong>is</strong>tant in Africa, introduction by Jim Cargin communications director of L’<strong>Arche</strong> International<br />
L’<strong>Arche</strong> has been able to give Mus<strong>is</strong>i a room, food, care and<br />
friendship. But she <strong>is</strong> still lacking a lot of things like clothes,<br />
underwear and hygienic items as she came with very few<br />
belongings to L’<strong>Arche</strong>. We are still learning how to live with<br />
her, but are grateful for the opportunity to get to know her.<br />
She has only been for a short time with us, but she fully<br />
participates in community life helping with housework, taking<br />
care of the core members who are weaker than her. She loves<br />
dancing at celebrations. She never learned how to write or<br />
read, but has an outgoing personality and likes chatting to<br />
people. Sometimes, she asks for her babies. We don’t really<br />
know what to say but we do our best.<br />
HIV/AIDS In AfrIcA<br />
As the above story shows, L’<strong>Arche</strong> <strong>is</strong> deeply<br />
involved in the <strong>is</strong>sue of HIV and AIDS. We know<br />
we cannot solve the problem of AIDS in Africa.<br />
But we can give an example of how to support<br />
Mus<strong>is</strong>i giving her the care, love and friendship<br />
she needs.<br />
Th<strong>is</strong> story shows L’<strong>Arche</strong>’s engagement in a big social<br />
<strong>is</strong>sue of our world. We encourage you to write us with<br />
other examples of th<strong>is</strong> kind of engagement with the<br />
world.<br />
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