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Summary What is L'Arche becoming? - Arche Deutschland

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The cry of a newborn baby brought the neighbours running.<br />

They had seen the pregnancy of the 15 year old girl and knew<br />

it her time of giving birth was not far off. But by the time they<br />

reached her, she had delivered the baby by herself without<br />

any support, medical or otherw<strong>is</strong>e. The baby died as the result<br />

of a fall. Th<strong>is</strong> <strong>is</strong> the story of Mus<strong>is</strong>i. Mus<strong>is</strong>i has been a victim of<br />

sexual abuse for most of her short life. After being abandoned<br />

by her mother, she was lodged with her grandfather. He<br />

could not cope with her mental d<strong>is</strong>ability, and left her in a<br />

bedroom with no door, no privacy, no bed and no bedclothes.<br />

Men would v<strong>is</strong>it the grandfather. More abuse followed. Then<br />

another pregnancy. Mercifully, a neighbour helped her deliver<br />

the baby, which <strong>is</strong> now in an orphanage.<br />

Now, 24 years old, Mus<strong>is</strong>i has been living in L’<strong>Arche</strong> for the<br />

past two years. She was helped to come to our community by<br />

an Ir<strong>is</strong>h friend, who could no longer stand Mus<strong>is</strong>i’s abuse. It<br />

<strong>is</strong> true that her village community tried to look after her, but<br />

she really needed a secure home in order to develop her full<br />

potential as a person. Thankfully, the abuse of her life has at<br />

last stopped. But the scars remain. For her, one lifelong scar<br />

<strong>is</strong> HIV. To be honest, we all had our fears and were asking<br />

ourselves: “how <strong>is</strong> it going to be to live with someone with<br />

HIV? After all, we share everything together in L’<strong>Arche</strong> and<br />

many r<strong>is</strong>ks are involved.” But that seems a long time ago now,<br />

when we were still afraid. Mus<strong>is</strong>i made us forget our fears,<br />

greeting everyone with a beautiful smile and even kneeling<br />

down as a sign of respect.<br />

... Important reading<br />

Life can be cruel. Sometimes, very cruel. We have debated very seriously about whether to include<br />

or omit th<strong>is</strong> next story. Shockingly raw, it comes from a community in Africa. In the end, we decided<br />

to share it: as members of a world-wide family, we need to be aware of the extreme suffering that<br />

some of our brothers and s<strong>is</strong>ters have endured. We hope th<strong>is</strong> encourages our bonds of solidarity,<br />

and deepens our understanding of L’<strong>Arche</strong>’s role in the world. Obviously, names have been changed<br />

to respect the person’s dignity.<br />

The story of Mus<strong>is</strong>i<br />

By an ass<strong>is</strong>tant in Africa, introduction by Jim Cargin communications director of L’<strong>Arche</strong> International<br />

L’<strong>Arche</strong> has been able to give Mus<strong>is</strong>i a room, food, care and<br />

friendship. But she <strong>is</strong> still lacking a lot of things like clothes,<br />

underwear and hygienic items as she came with very few<br />

belongings to L’<strong>Arche</strong>. We are still learning how to live with<br />

her, but are grateful for the opportunity to get to know her.<br />

She has only been for a short time with us, but she fully<br />

participates in community life helping with housework, taking<br />

care of the core members who are weaker than her. She loves<br />

dancing at celebrations. She never learned how to write or<br />

read, but has an outgoing personality and likes chatting to<br />

people. Sometimes, she asks for her babies. We don’t really<br />

know what to say but we do our best.<br />

HIV/AIDS In AfrIcA<br />

As the above story shows, L’<strong>Arche</strong> <strong>is</strong> deeply<br />

involved in the <strong>is</strong>sue of HIV and AIDS. We know<br />

we cannot solve the problem of AIDS in Africa.<br />

But we can give an example of how to support<br />

Mus<strong>is</strong>i giving her the care, love and friendship<br />

she needs.<br />

Th<strong>is</strong> story shows L’<strong>Arche</strong>’s engagement in a big social<br />

<strong>is</strong>sue of our world. We encourage you to write us with<br />

other examples of th<strong>is</strong> kind of engagement with the<br />

world.<br />

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