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Mary Jane Roach Masters Memoir - University of Illinois Springfield

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Q. Another Tom and Viv.<br />

A. Yes, in a sense and very much so. Very hard on the boys, and Adlai brought his sister here.<br />

Ellen wouldn't come down here and do any <strong>of</strong> the duties as a hostess so he brought his sister who<br />

was a very colorful character. Lots <strong>of</strong> fun but difficult.<br />

Q. Who was his sister?<br />

A. Mrs. Ernest Ives. Elizabeth 'Buffie' Ives. She died a couple <strong>of</strong> years ago. Anyway, she was<br />

quite a character and he never really gave her authority. He wanted her to do a lot <strong>of</strong> things but<br />

she didn't have the authority. She had a difficult time trying to help him in the mansion. She<br />

loved it and it was home to her because her father had been down here and she had been his<br />

hostess when she was a teenager and she had a husband in the diplomatic service so she thought<br />

she knew how to do those things, but her position. . .and she was a volatile person. I became<br />

very fond <strong>of</strong> her but she was sure difficult during his administration.<br />

Q. She mellowed.<br />

A. Yes, she mellowed. (Chuckle) But still the same old Buffie. She was fun, more fun that Adlai.<br />

She was a failed actress and was very entertaining.<br />

Q. Another failed actress. No not failed. Another "want to be" actress?<br />

A. Yes, another wannabe.<br />

Q. Were you involved in your husband's work?<br />

A. Not really. We had separate worlds and he was very supportive <strong>of</strong> mine. Very.<br />

Q. So you each supported each other?<br />

A. A real partnership.<br />

Q. What do you think <strong>of</strong> the pressure on women today?<br />

A. I think it's tremendous. They do want to have it all and it just can't be done.<br />

Q. Have we brought it on ourselves?<br />

A. We needed to. We were exploited, we really were. This is a very natural revulsion. I'm not<br />

sure we're getting far. I worry about what's going on in Peiping; after all, will they blow it? The<br />

Chinese are making it very difficult with what must be accomplished? But my heart is with many<br />

<strong>of</strong> them.

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