Farewell to the Oddens Farewell to the Oddens - The Taft School
Farewell to the Oddens Farewell to the Oddens - The Taft School
Farewell to the Oddens Farewell to the Oddens - The Taft School
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S P O T L I G H T<br />
visits <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> infirm and <strong>the</strong>ir many<br />
thoughtful letters of praise, thanks, and<br />
sympathy; also Lance’s fun-loving tributes<br />
<strong>to</strong> compatriots departing; and those<br />
heartfelt eulogies, which are masterpieces<br />
of eloquence and personal loss. Finally,<br />
all <strong>the</strong>se gestures of loyalty and appreciation<br />
have prevailed in <strong>the</strong> remarkable<br />
continuity of <strong>Taft</strong>’s teachers.<br />
Moreover, <strong>the</strong> <strong>Oddens</strong> have extended<br />
<strong>the</strong>mselves <strong>to</strong> people as far away<br />
as Sou<strong>the</strong>ast Asia. As humanitarians who<br />
have traveled <strong>the</strong> world, Lance has served<br />
as spokesman for diversity and as a trustee<br />
for several philanthropies; Patsy has taken<br />
her teams <strong>to</strong> compete in Europe. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />
greatest initiatives, however, have been directed<br />
at <strong>the</strong> humanity of young people.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Oddens</strong> continue <strong>to</strong> encourage<br />
students <strong>to</strong> see a world beyond <strong>the</strong> mall.<br />
For all <strong>the</strong>ir own privileged education in<br />
<strong>the</strong> ’50s, <strong>the</strong>y want o<strong>the</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> have what<br />
<strong>the</strong>y <strong>the</strong>mselves had missed, like <strong>the</strong> best<br />
in coeducation, community service, and<br />
direct attention <strong>to</strong> people of all nations.<br />
• • •<br />
<strong>The</strong> faculty once thought that <strong>the</strong><br />
<strong>Oddens</strong> would leave <strong>Taft</strong> for Andover,<br />
Prince<strong>to</strong>n, or Washing<strong>to</strong>n. (Originally<br />
Lance had come <strong>to</strong> <strong>Taft</strong> largely by chance,<br />
and Patsy with, perhaps, less deliberation.)<br />
It was during his announcement<br />
last fall that he <strong>to</strong>ld <strong>the</strong> assembly why he<br />
and Patsy have stayed for all <strong>the</strong>se years.<br />
Between <strong>the</strong> explicit reasons about<br />
teenagers, opportunities, trustees, a single<br />
sentiment flowed: Lance and Patsy have<br />
always felt a deep affection for <strong>Taft</strong> people<br />
as <strong>the</strong>ir extended family—all <strong>the</strong> more so,<br />
perhaps, because each of <strong>the</strong>m had lost a<br />
parent early in life, and what better place<br />
than <strong>Taft</strong> <strong>to</strong> raise Jake ’86 and Laurie ’89.<br />
<strong>The</strong>refore, as we celebrate <strong>the</strong> luminous<br />
careers of <strong>the</strong> <strong>Oddens</strong> in a season<br />
of old and new beginnings, we also pay<br />
homage <strong>to</strong> <strong>Taft</strong>. Both <strong>the</strong> old and new<br />
school are strikingly visible from <strong>the</strong><br />
hill—and immensely durable. But for<br />
those leaders <strong>to</strong> come it will be <strong>the</strong> statesmanship<br />
of Lance and Patsy, like <strong>the</strong><br />
character of Horace and Winnie, that<br />
holds <strong>the</strong> light. Meanwhile, we <strong>the</strong> people<br />
are most grateful that Headmaster Odden<br />
has had <strong>the</strong> best job in <strong>the</strong> world and his<br />
best friend <strong>to</strong> share it with.<br />
At a panel discussion in 1990, Lance laughs with New York Times<br />
reporter Steve Erlanger ’70 and former Headmaster John Esty<br />
Lance and Patsy<br />
with retiring faculty<br />
members Susan and<br />
Jol Everett in 1999<br />
Patsy, Lance, Laurie, and Jake<br />
travel with Dinny and <strong>the</strong>n direc<strong>to</strong>r<br />
of development Fred Genung ’63<br />
and <strong>the</strong>ir first child, Alec, in 1973 on<br />
one of Lance’s alumni <strong>to</strong>urs around<br />
<strong>the</strong> country.<br />
22 Spring 2001