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Porn in the Pews - International Pentecostal Holiness Church

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Dim<strong>in</strong>ished trust between <strong>in</strong>timate couples.<br />

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The abandonment of <strong>the</strong> hope of sexual monogamy.<br />

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Belief that promiscuity is <strong>the</strong> natural state.<br />

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Belief that abst<strong>in</strong>ence and sexual <strong>in</strong>activity are<br />

unhealthy.<br />

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Cynicism about love or <strong>the</strong> need for affection<br />

between sexual partners.<br />

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Belief that marriage is sexually conf<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g.<br />

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Lack of attraction to family and child-rais<strong>in</strong>g. 11<br />

Many wives of porn users develop deep psychological<br />

wounds, report<strong>in</strong>g feel<strong>in</strong>gs of betrayal, loss, depression,<br />

mistrust, devastation, anger, and sexual <strong>in</strong>adequacy.<br />

More than half of those engaged <strong>in</strong> cybersex lose <strong>in</strong>terest<br />

<strong>in</strong> sexual <strong>in</strong>tercourse, and one-third of <strong>the</strong>ir partners lose<br />

<strong>in</strong>terest as well. 12<br />

<strong>Porn</strong>ography’s Impact on Teens<br />

Accord<strong>in</strong>g to a study cited <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> Wash<strong>in</strong>gton Post, more<br />

than 11 million teenagers view Internet pornography on a<br />

regular basis. 13<br />

In a survey of college students, 82% of men said <strong>the</strong>y had<br />

been exposed to pornography by age 14. In <strong>the</strong> same survey<br />

that <strong>in</strong>cluded <strong>the</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ions of 11,000 college females,<br />

52 percent of <strong>the</strong> women said <strong>the</strong>y had been exposed to<br />

pornography by age 14. 14<br />

When a child or adolescent is directly exposed to pornography<br />

<strong>the</strong> follow<strong>in</strong>g effects have been documented:<br />

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Last<strong>in</strong>g negative or traumatic emotional responses.<br />

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Earlier onset of first sexual <strong>in</strong>tercourse, <strong>the</strong>reby<br />

<strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> risk of STDs over <strong>the</strong> lifespan.<br />

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The belief that superior sexual satisfaction is<br />

atta<strong>in</strong>able without hav<strong>in</strong>g affection for one’s<br />

partner, <strong>the</strong>reby re<strong>in</strong>forc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> commoditization of<br />

sex and <strong>the</strong> objectification of humans.<br />

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The belief that be<strong>in</strong>g married or hav<strong>in</strong>g a family are<br />

unattractive prospects.<br />

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Increased risk for develop<strong>in</strong>g sexual compulsions<br />

and addictive behavior.<br />

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An <strong>in</strong>ability to contextualize <strong>in</strong>correct <strong>in</strong>formation<br />

about human sexuality as an adult bra<strong>in</strong> would.<br />

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Overestimat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> prevalence of less common<br />

practices (e.g., group sex, bestiality, or sadomasochistic<br />

activity). 15<br />

<strong>Porn</strong>ography’s Impact on Work<br />

70% of Internet porn traffic occurs between 9 a.m. and 5<br />

p.m., when most people are at work. 16<br />

Half of Fortune 500 companies have dealt with at least<br />

one <strong>in</strong>cident related to computer porn over a 12-month<br />

period. Offenders were fired <strong>in</strong> 44% of <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>cidents and<br />

discipl<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> 41% of <strong>the</strong> cases. 17<br />

In 2009, <strong>the</strong> agency <strong>in</strong>spector of <strong>the</strong> National Science<br />

Foundation (NSF) had to shift his primary focus from grant<br />

fraud to f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g out who was us<strong>in</strong>g government computers<br />

to search for porn. 18<br />

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Deputy Inspector General Tim Cross said, “We<br />

were consumed with a lot of <strong>the</strong>se cases.”<br />

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One senior executive spent at least 331 days<br />

look<strong>in</strong>g at pornography and chatt<strong>in</strong>g onl<strong>in</strong>e with<br />

partially clad or nude women (his “humanitarian”<br />

defense was that he frequented <strong>the</strong> porn sites to<br />

provide a liv<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>the</strong> poor overseas women); this<br />

cost taxpayers anywhere from $13,800 to $58,000.<br />

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One worker perused hundreds of pornographic<br />

websites dur<strong>in</strong>g work hours <strong>in</strong> a three-week time<br />

frame <strong>in</strong> June 2008; that employee received a 10-<br />

day suspension.<br />

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Ano<strong>the</strong>r employee was caught with hundreds of<br />

pictures, videos and even PowerPo<strong>in</strong>t slide shows<br />

conta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g pornography.<br />

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Ano<strong>the</strong>r employee stored nude images of herself<br />

on her computer.<br />

In 2010, an <strong>in</strong>ternal <strong>in</strong>vestigation of <strong>the</strong> Securities and<br />

Exchange Commission (SEC) found 31 serious offenders<br />

<strong>Porn</strong> <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Pews</strong> • © 2010 CovenantEyes<br />

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