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Dawn Deweese, Guidance Counselor<br />

Counselor Corner<br />

Key Keepers = Misplaced Compassion<br />

As gardens bloom and the<br />

temperature rises during this<br />

season, our social calendars<br />

usually fill with a flurry of annual activities.<br />

There are proms, graduations, Thunder<br />

Over Louisville, Derby, vacations, and<br />

other rituals of celebration occurring<br />

aplenty during these spring and summer<br />

months. As the celebrations occur, are<br />

you a parent who attempts to demonstrate<br />

compassion for your daughter’s<br />

desire to celebrate by permitting<br />

underage drinking in your<br />

home so long as everyone<br />

spends the night and hands<br />

over their keys?<br />

Are you a key keeper?<br />

Sometimes, what seems like a good idea<br />

is not always the wisest choice.<br />

It might seem like a good idea to keep<br />

the keys of teenage drivers who drink<br />

and party in your own home, but it is a<br />

decision that brings many risks. While a<br />

parent who keeps the keys in an effort to<br />

prevent a teen from driving home drunk,<br />

it is important to remember the inherent<br />

risks of alcohol poisoning that come from<br />

a night of excessive drinking. What about<br />

the risks of sexual inhibitions falling by the<br />

wayside from a night of excessive drinking,<br />

leading to a sexual assault or pregnancy?<br />

What about the risk of driving home the<br />

next morning while still having a BAC level<br />

over the legal limit? Depending on how<br />

late a teen consumes alcohol, leaving in<br />

the morning may not mean automatically<br />

that a teen is sober enough to drive home.<br />

Who bears responsibility for what goes on<br />

in your home? You do.<br />

Alcohol is an addictive depressant. The<br />

dangers of drinking alcohol are the very<br />

reason why alcohol is illegal for persons<br />

under 21 to consume. So what does<br />

Kentucky law state in terms of underage<br />

drinking and providing alcohol to minors?<br />

“A person under 21 years of age shall not<br />

possess for his or her own use or purchase<br />

or attempt to purchase or have another<br />

purchase for him or her any alcoholic<br />

beverages. No person shall aid or assist<br />

any person under 21 years of age in<br />

purchasing or having delivered or served<br />

to him or her any alcoholic beverages.”<br />

(KRS 244.085.3)<br />

If you still think that you are being<br />

compassionate by allowing teens to<br />

drink supervised in your home, think<br />

about Kecia Whitfield of Powder <strong>Spring</strong>s,<br />

GA. According to cnn.com, shortly after<br />

midnight on January 24, 2009, a 16-year<br />

old boy crashed his car into another<br />

car. Garrett Reed, a football player, died<br />

instantly. According to police, the death<br />

investigation revealed that a Ms. Whitfield<br />

allowed alcohol to be consumed in<br />

her home where Reed was<br />

attending a party. Police<br />

charged Ms. Whitfield with<br />

furnishing alcohol to a minor and reckless<br />

conduct. If convicted, she could<br />

receive up to a year in jail and potentially<br />

thousands of dollars in fines. (www.cnn.<br />

com/2009/CRIME/02/12/coolparents.<br />

drinking/index. html)<br />

The Hazeldon Foundation of Minnesota,<br />

a leading treatment facility for addiction,<br />

suggests that the role of parents as<br />

compassionate role models is crucial and<br />

offers the following suggestions when<br />

allowing your teen to host a party:<br />

• Stress to your teen the fact that it is<br />

unacceptable and unnecessary for minors<br />

to entertain with alcohol or other drugs.<br />

• Set boundaries with your teen before<br />

allowing a party to take place in your<br />

home such as who attends, what parts of<br />

the house are off-limits, etc…<br />

• Establish a zero-tolerance policy for<br />

underage drinking in your home and<br />

establish consequences of what will<br />

happen if you see underage drinking in<br />

your home.<br />

• Greet teenage guests at the door<br />

personally and check on the party<br />

frequently at random time intervals.<br />

• Do not leave a party unattended ever.<br />

(www.hazeldon.org)<br />

Please reconsider your role as a key<br />

keeper if you are a parent who<br />

allows underage drinking in your<br />

home. Show your compassion by NOT<br />

allowing teens to drink in your home. Give<br />

serious consideration to all of the liabilities of<br />

underage drinking and not just the impaired<br />

driving concern. One teen’s injury while<br />

attending a party at your home could create a<br />

life-changing situation for all involved.<br />

Alumnae Class Updates<br />

1996 continued<br />

Anita Seidenfaden<br />

Hess and<br />

her husband,<br />

Brian, are glad<br />

to announce the<br />

birth of their second<br />

baby girl,<br />

Ashley Nichole,<br />

Ashley Nichole and Breanna Hess on August 27,<br />

2009. She weighed 6 pounds, 12 ounces, and<br />

was 19 inches long. Her big sister, Breanna, is<br />

very helpful.<br />

1997<br />

Class Ambassadors: Laura Blaser, Jessica<br />

Evans, Emma Hayes, Katie King<br />

Kristie Kaiser Beaven and her husband, Chris,<br />

welcomed their first child, Sawyer David,<br />

on November 20, 2009. Sawyer weighed 7<br />

pounds, 2 ounces, and was 19½ inches long.<br />

Rebecca Lynn with brother,<br />

Joey Cordaro.<br />

Heather Renfro<br />

Cordaro and her<br />

husband, Rob,<br />

proudly announce<br />

the birth of their<br />

second child,<br />

Rebecca Lynn, on<br />

January 20, 2009.<br />

She weighed 5<br />

pounds, 6 ounces,<br />

and was 20 inches long. Becca joins proud big<br />

brother, Joey.<br />

Rebecca Clary Eisenback and her husband,<br />

Corey, proudly announce the birth of their<br />

second son, Reid Matthew, on June 5, 2009.<br />

He joins big brother, Gavin, 2.<br />

Mason Allan Kitchen<br />

Keegan William Kline<br />

Beth Kurtz Kitchen and<br />

her husband, David,<br />

proudly announce the<br />

birth of their baby boy,<br />

Mason Allan, on October<br />

12, 2009. His big brother<br />

is a freshman, playing<br />

basketball at St. X, and<br />

his sister is in sixth grade<br />

at St. Margaret Mary.<br />

Laura Kremer Kline and<br />

her husband, David,<br />

proudly announce the<br />

birth of their first son,<br />

Keegan William, on<br />

January 20, <strong>2010</strong>. He<br />

weighed 8 pounds, 3<br />

ounces, and was 20<br />

inches long.<br />

continued on page 13<br />

11<br />

<strong>Assumption</strong> Magazine <strong>Spring</strong> <strong>2010</strong>

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