Spring 2010 - Assumption High School
Spring 2010 - Assumption High School
Spring 2010 - Assumption High School
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Dawn Deweese, Guidance Counselor<br />
Counselor Corner<br />
Key Keepers = Misplaced Compassion<br />
As gardens bloom and the<br />
temperature rises during this<br />
season, our social calendars<br />
usually fill with a flurry of annual activities.<br />
There are proms, graduations, Thunder<br />
Over Louisville, Derby, vacations, and<br />
other rituals of celebration occurring<br />
aplenty during these spring and summer<br />
months. As the celebrations occur, are<br />
you a parent who attempts to demonstrate<br />
compassion for your daughter’s<br />
desire to celebrate by permitting<br />
underage drinking in your<br />
home so long as everyone<br />
spends the night and hands<br />
over their keys?<br />
Are you a key keeper?<br />
Sometimes, what seems like a good idea<br />
is not always the wisest choice.<br />
It might seem like a good idea to keep<br />
the keys of teenage drivers who drink<br />
and party in your own home, but it is a<br />
decision that brings many risks. While a<br />
parent who keeps the keys in an effort to<br />
prevent a teen from driving home drunk,<br />
it is important to remember the inherent<br />
risks of alcohol poisoning that come from<br />
a night of excessive drinking. What about<br />
the risks of sexual inhibitions falling by the<br />
wayside from a night of excessive drinking,<br />
leading to a sexual assault or pregnancy?<br />
What about the risk of driving home the<br />
next morning while still having a BAC level<br />
over the legal limit? Depending on how<br />
late a teen consumes alcohol, leaving in<br />
the morning may not mean automatically<br />
that a teen is sober enough to drive home.<br />
Who bears responsibility for what goes on<br />
in your home? You do.<br />
Alcohol is an addictive depressant. The<br />
dangers of drinking alcohol are the very<br />
reason why alcohol is illegal for persons<br />
under 21 to consume. So what does<br />
Kentucky law state in terms of underage<br />
drinking and providing alcohol to minors?<br />
“A person under 21 years of age shall not<br />
possess for his or her own use or purchase<br />
or attempt to purchase or have another<br />
purchase for him or her any alcoholic<br />
beverages. No person shall aid or assist<br />
any person under 21 years of age in<br />
purchasing or having delivered or served<br />
to him or her any alcoholic beverages.”<br />
(KRS 244.085.3)<br />
If you still think that you are being<br />
compassionate by allowing teens to<br />
drink supervised in your home, think<br />
about Kecia Whitfield of Powder <strong>Spring</strong>s,<br />
GA. According to cnn.com, shortly after<br />
midnight on January 24, 2009, a 16-year<br />
old boy crashed his car into another<br />
car. Garrett Reed, a football player, died<br />
instantly. According to police, the death<br />
investigation revealed that a Ms. Whitfield<br />
allowed alcohol to be consumed in<br />
her home where Reed was<br />
attending a party. Police<br />
charged Ms. Whitfield with<br />
furnishing alcohol to a minor and reckless<br />
conduct. If convicted, she could<br />
receive up to a year in jail and potentially<br />
thousands of dollars in fines. (www.cnn.<br />
com/2009/CRIME/02/12/coolparents.<br />
drinking/index. html)<br />
The Hazeldon Foundation of Minnesota,<br />
a leading treatment facility for addiction,<br />
suggests that the role of parents as<br />
compassionate role models is crucial and<br />
offers the following suggestions when<br />
allowing your teen to host a party:<br />
• Stress to your teen the fact that it is<br />
unacceptable and unnecessary for minors<br />
to entertain with alcohol or other drugs.<br />
• Set boundaries with your teen before<br />
allowing a party to take place in your<br />
home such as who attends, what parts of<br />
the house are off-limits, etc…<br />
• Establish a zero-tolerance policy for<br />
underage drinking in your home and<br />
establish consequences of what will<br />
happen if you see underage drinking in<br />
your home.<br />
• Greet teenage guests at the door<br />
personally and check on the party<br />
frequently at random time intervals.<br />
• Do not leave a party unattended ever.<br />
(www.hazeldon.org)<br />
Please reconsider your role as a key<br />
keeper if you are a parent who<br />
allows underage drinking in your<br />
home. Show your compassion by NOT<br />
allowing teens to drink in your home. Give<br />
serious consideration to all of the liabilities of<br />
underage drinking and not just the impaired<br />
driving concern. One teen’s injury while<br />
attending a party at your home could create a<br />
life-changing situation for all involved.<br />
Alumnae Class Updates<br />
1996 continued<br />
Anita Seidenfaden<br />
Hess and<br />
her husband,<br />
Brian, are glad<br />
to announce the<br />
birth of their second<br />
baby girl,<br />
Ashley Nichole,<br />
Ashley Nichole and Breanna Hess on August 27,<br />
2009. She weighed 6 pounds, 12 ounces, and<br />
was 19 inches long. Her big sister, Breanna, is<br />
very helpful.<br />
1997<br />
Class Ambassadors: Laura Blaser, Jessica<br />
Evans, Emma Hayes, Katie King<br />
Kristie Kaiser Beaven and her husband, Chris,<br />
welcomed their first child, Sawyer David,<br />
on November 20, 2009. Sawyer weighed 7<br />
pounds, 2 ounces, and was 19½ inches long.<br />
Rebecca Lynn with brother,<br />
Joey Cordaro.<br />
Heather Renfro<br />
Cordaro and her<br />
husband, Rob,<br />
proudly announce<br />
the birth of their<br />
second child,<br />
Rebecca Lynn, on<br />
January 20, 2009.<br />
She weighed 5<br />
pounds, 6 ounces,<br />
and was 20 inches long. Becca joins proud big<br />
brother, Joey.<br />
Rebecca Clary Eisenback and her husband,<br />
Corey, proudly announce the birth of their<br />
second son, Reid Matthew, on June 5, 2009.<br />
He joins big brother, Gavin, 2.<br />
Mason Allan Kitchen<br />
Keegan William Kline<br />
Beth Kurtz Kitchen and<br />
her husband, David,<br />
proudly announce the<br />
birth of their baby boy,<br />
Mason Allan, on October<br />
12, 2009. His big brother<br />
is a freshman, playing<br />
basketball at St. X, and<br />
his sister is in sixth grade<br />
at St. Margaret Mary.<br />
Laura Kremer Kline and<br />
her husband, David,<br />
proudly announce the<br />
birth of their first son,<br />
Keegan William, on<br />
January 20, <strong>2010</strong>. He<br />
weighed 8 pounds, 3<br />
ounces, and was 20<br />
inches long.<br />
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<strong>Assumption</strong> Magazine <strong>Spring</strong> <strong>2010</strong>