A DeAth in Your FAmilY - City of Prince George
A DeAth in Your FAmilY - City of Prince George
A DeAth in Your FAmilY - City of Prince George
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What Do I Need to Know about<br />
Re-Arrang<strong>in</strong>g My Own Legal Affairs?<br />
• In time, you may wish to change your Will<br />
if the death <strong>of</strong> your loved one means your<br />
old Will is out <strong>of</strong> date.<br />
• It may be appropriate to review your<br />
arrangements for future plann<strong>in</strong>g, such as<br />
Power <strong>of</strong> Attorney, Advance Health Care<br />
Directive, or Representation Agreement.<br />
• If you have lost your partner, you may need<br />
f<strong>in</strong>ancial advice or help with reorganiz<strong>in</strong>g<br />
your bank<strong>in</strong>g arrangements. Talk to your<br />
bank or credit union. A trusted friend or<br />
family member can accompany you there<br />
for emotional support, but it is wise to take<br />
charge <strong>of</strong> your own f<strong>in</strong>ances.<br />
• You may wish to keep decision-mak<strong>in</strong>g to<br />
a m<strong>in</strong>imum for the first year. If you have<br />
lost your partner, it may be a good idea to<br />
rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> your home if you are able to do<br />
so. Don’t make decisions to sell <strong>of</strong>f your<br />
assets until you have had time to grieve<br />
and properly assess your f<strong>in</strong>ancial and<br />
personal situation.<br />
4. Where to F<strong>in</strong>d Support Dur<strong>in</strong>g<br />
Bereavement<br />
Griev<strong>in</strong>g is an important process that requires<br />
much more time than our culture <strong>of</strong>ten<br />
acknowledges or allows. Support dur<strong>in</strong>g<br />
time <strong>of</strong> bereavement can help br<strong>in</strong>g heal<strong>in</strong>g,<br />
renewal, and hope for the future.<br />
Family and friends can be a great source <strong>of</strong><br />
comfort. Express<strong>in</strong>g your feel<strong>in</strong>gs with them<br />
can help you <strong>in</strong> the griev<strong>in</strong>g process.<br />
You also may wish to l<strong>in</strong>k up with resources<br />
<strong>in</strong> the community that <strong>of</strong>fer comfort, support,<br />
referrals, and services, when needed.<br />
The follow<strong>in</strong>g are some suggestions.<br />
BC Bereavement Helpl<strong>in</strong>e<br />
www.bcbereavementhelpl<strong>in</strong>e.com<br />
Helpl<strong>in</strong>e: 604 738-9950 or 1-877-779-2223<br />
The BC Bereavement Helpl<strong>in</strong>e is a non-pr<strong>of</strong>it<br />
society that facilitates the care and support <strong>of</strong><br />
the bereaved throughout BC, <strong>in</strong> part through<br />
telephone support and <strong>in</strong>formation.<br />
On the Helpl<strong>in</strong>e, volunteers assist callers to<br />
f<strong>in</strong>d bereavement support.<br />
Helpl<strong>in</strong>e hours are 9 AM to 3 PM, Monday<br />
to Friday.<br />
The Helpl<strong>in</strong>e also produces brochures and<br />
a prov<strong>in</strong>cial bereavement support resource<br />
directory.<br />
For more <strong>in</strong>formation, contact:<br />
Telephone: 604 738-9950<br />
Toll-free: 1-877-779-2223<br />
Fax: 604 873-5002<br />
email: bcbh@telus.net<br />
Box 53530, 984 West Broadway<br />
Vancouver, BC V5Z 1K7<br />
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