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A DeAth in Your FAmilY - City of Prince George

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What Do I Need to Know about<br />

Re-Arrang<strong>in</strong>g My Own Legal Affairs?<br />

• In time, you may wish to change your Will<br />

if the death <strong>of</strong> your loved one means your<br />

old Will is out <strong>of</strong> date.<br />

• It may be appropriate to review your<br />

arrangements for future plann<strong>in</strong>g, such as<br />

Power <strong>of</strong> Attorney, Advance Health Care<br />

Directive, or Representation Agreement.<br />

• If you have lost your partner, you may need<br />

f<strong>in</strong>ancial advice or help with reorganiz<strong>in</strong>g<br />

your bank<strong>in</strong>g arrangements. Talk to your<br />

bank or credit union. A trusted friend or<br />

family member can accompany you there<br />

for emotional support, but it is wise to take<br />

charge <strong>of</strong> your own f<strong>in</strong>ances.<br />

• You may wish to keep decision-mak<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

a m<strong>in</strong>imum for the first year. If you have<br />

lost your partner, it may be a good idea to<br />

rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> your home if you are able to do<br />

so. Don’t make decisions to sell <strong>of</strong>f your<br />

assets until you have had time to grieve<br />

and properly assess your f<strong>in</strong>ancial and<br />

personal situation.<br />

4. Where to F<strong>in</strong>d Support Dur<strong>in</strong>g<br />

Bereavement<br />

Griev<strong>in</strong>g is an important process that requires<br />

much more time than our culture <strong>of</strong>ten<br />

acknowledges or allows. Support dur<strong>in</strong>g<br />

time <strong>of</strong> bereavement can help br<strong>in</strong>g heal<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

renewal, and hope for the future.<br />

Family and friends can be a great source <strong>of</strong><br />

comfort. Express<strong>in</strong>g your feel<strong>in</strong>gs with them<br />

can help you <strong>in</strong> the griev<strong>in</strong>g process.<br />

You also may wish to l<strong>in</strong>k up with resources<br />

<strong>in</strong> the community that <strong>of</strong>fer comfort, support,<br />

referrals, and services, when needed.<br />

The follow<strong>in</strong>g are some suggestions.<br />

BC Bereavement Helpl<strong>in</strong>e<br />

www.bcbereavementhelpl<strong>in</strong>e.com<br />

Helpl<strong>in</strong>e: 604 738-9950 or 1-877-779-2223<br />

The BC Bereavement Helpl<strong>in</strong>e is a non-pr<strong>of</strong>it<br />

society that facilitates the care and support <strong>of</strong><br />

the bereaved throughout BC, <strong>in</strong> part through<br />

telephone support and <strong>in</strong>formation.<br />

On the Helpl<strong>in</strong>e, volunteers assist callers to<br />

f<strong>in</strong>d bereavement support.<br />

Helpl<strong>in</strong>e hours are 9 AM to 3 PM, Monday<br />

to Friday.<br />

The Helpl<strong>in</strong>e also produces brochures and<br />

a prov<strong>in</strong>cial bereavement support resource<br />

directory.<br />

For more <strong>in</strong>formation, contact:<br />

Telephone: 604 738-9950<br />

Toll-free: 1-877-779-2223<br />

Fax: 604 873-5002<br />

email: bcbh@telus.net<br />

Box 53530, 984 West Broadway<br />

Vancouver, BC V5Z 1K7<br />

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