CHRISTCHURCH SOUTH - Parents Centres New Zealand Inc

CHRISTCHURCH SOUTH
PARENTS CENTRE
NEWSLETTER
September / October 2007
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CHRISTCHURCH SOUTH PARENTS CENTRE CONTACTS
President Susan Dyson dyson.home@gmail.com 332-8004
Vice President
Vacancy
Secretary Andrea Mears a_amears@paradise.net.nz 338-8833
Treasurer Lisa Davis-Miller lisa.richard@xtra.co.nz 329-9969
Funding Coordinator Lisa Phelan lisaam@paradise.net.nz 942-4579
Antenatal Convenor Andrea Wong chchstheditor@xtra.co.nz 332-3533
Baby & You Convenor Marilyn Renault fastcar_writers@hotmail.com 331-6270
Moving & Munching Convenor Angela Sheat sheat.k@actrix.co.nz 322-9383
Tinies to Tots Convenor
Vacancy
Focus Night Convenor Laila Holland laila_baku2@hotmail.com 980-0010
Membership Officer Lucretia Downs l.downs@xtra.co.nz 339-6637
Librarian Janette Mitchell 349-3023
LP Liaison
Vacancy
Marketing Laila Holland laila_baku2@hotmail.com 980-0010
Volunteer Coordinator Izabel Lyall mi.gk@hotmail.com 942-0652
Newsletter Editor Kay Male hackthorne@clear.net.nz 337-6255
Coffee Group Liaison Cathy Robins robins.cc@xtra.co.nz 338-7558
Christchurch South Parents Centre, PO Box 33033, Barrington, Christchurch, Phone 332 5651
Monthly Meetings
Did you know that all members are welcome at our monthly meetings?
If you are interested in finding out what happens at a meeting we would love to see you.
You could bring a friend if you don’t want to come alone.
Talk to any of our Committee members - we can arrange for one of us to pick you up.
Next meetings are: 3 rd September & 1 st October
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Christchurch South
Newsletter
In this Issue
From the President ...................................4
From the Editor .........................................5
Rainy Day Ideas..........................................6
Coffee with a Parents Centre
Volunteer .................................................8-9
Just for fun! ............................................. 10
Date to Remember....................................11
Situations Vacant..................................... 12
Joining Information: ............................... 13
Toy Library Information........................ 13
Childbirth Education ............................... 14
22 ways to teach values ................... 16-17
Kids Spot.............................................. 18-19
September / October 2007
Parent Education Courses......................20
From our members .................................. 21
Receipes.....................................................24
Book Review...............................................25
Dial-A-Mum ...............................................26
Notices.......................................................27
Members Discounts.......................... 28-30
New Arrivals ............................................. 31
Naming your baby - What's in a name?
.....................................................................32
Library................................................. 33-34
Support Network.....................................35
Parents Centre NZ is a nationwide, voluntary organisation set up by parents for parents in 1952. Affiliated centres throughout New
Zealand educate in birth and parenting, support parents in their role, and advocate improving community attitudes and facilities.
Positive birth experiences and informed parenting in a community where parents are supported
and highly valued in their role.
The view and articles in this newsletter are not necessarily those of the Editors or Christchurch South Parents Centre
and do not necessarily reflect Parents Centre New Zealand policy. Advertising in this newsletter does not imply endorsement
by Parents Centres New Zealand. Contributions to the newsletter are always welcome. The deadline for the next issue
(November/December 2007) is 5 th October 2007.
Contact details
Christchurch South Parents Centre: Address: PO Box 33033, Christchurch
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From the President
Now that Ella and Laura are
five and three I thought we
had moved on from the
paraphernalia stage, when
going out involved lugging a
large nappy bag containing not only bottom
supplies but also toys, snacks, spare
clothes, phone, purse etc, etc Not so. We
have just started the girls on skis and
while it a great family activity it also
involves a great deal of paraphernalia. So
while Ian was having his turn at adult skiing
I was attempting to manage three pairs of
gloves plus hats, goggles and ski’s. It didn't
help that while on a chair lift Ella decided
her hands were too hot and the glove
tumbled onto the snow many meters below.
Perhaps therein lays an opportunity for
someone to invent gloves and hats that can
be attached by bungee cord to the ski suit.
Until they do I'll have to rely on my jacket
with many pockets. And the chest ones
stuffed with gloves are the closest I'll
ever get to large breasts so there are
advantages to everything!
Did you see Parents Centre at the Parent
and Child Show this weekend? The
feedback has been very positive. It seems
people’s main concern it that they are
unable to book onto childbirth education
classes because demand exceeds
availability. If you feel passionate about
this please make your voice heard either
by writing to the paper or your local MP.
We are again very keen to get some of you
wonderful people helping as liaison people
at our Childbirth Education classes. If it
was a great experience for you we'd love
you to share your time and experience with
our prospective parents. You don't need
any special knowledge, just a desire to give
something back by assisting our Educators
to provide great classes.
Roll on Spring!
Susan
Contribution......
Would you be interested in writing a story or
about your coffee group or other antenatal
group outing? We are collecting names of
people interesting in telling us about their
group for the rest of the year’s issues.
We have a few $10 Book
Vouchers to give to successful entries
Email the Editor on
ChchSthEditor@xtra.co.nz or text to
021646963
DAYLIGHT SAVING
EXTENDED!
New Zealanders will
soon be able to enjoy
more summer days.
Clocks will go forward an hour a week
earlier than usual this year - on the last
Sunday in September and will go back an
hour on the first Sunday of April, Instead
of the third Sunday in March.
So don’t forget to put your clocks
forward 1 hour before you go to
bed on Saturday 29 th September!
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From the Editor
Hello! Spring is almost upon us
and so I for one am hoping that
the weather starts to get a little warmer –
although not holding my breathe as when I
arrived here to live in September 2005
there was snow! Can’t believe that we have
been living here for 2 years now already –
where does the time go?
We’ve had a busy few months, George’s
nursery organised a photography
fundraiser so we booked a session &
managed to get our only photo of the 3 of
us to date! (See below!) We also had a
lovely shot of George on his own and we
know all our family in the UK will love
receiving a copy of both photo’s.
perhaps a thought for future courses? It
was a little scary going back over our
previous births & remembering all about
labour and then sleepless nights!! We hope
to schedule another of these courses for
early next year – speak to Cathy if you are
interested.
There is hopefully something for everyone
in this edition of the newsletter. So grab
yourself a cup of something warm and use
us as an excuse to take 30mins time out!
You can find out all about me on page 8 – in
our regular feature ‘Coffee with a Parents
Centre Volunteer’ – Happy Reading!
Our committee is in need of some new
members, we have lots of vacant positions
to fill, please see page we are a friendly
bunch!
Oh & don’t forget its Fathers Day on
September 2 nd !
Kay
P.S. Is there anyone out there who might
like to help produce the newsletters? With
the impending birth of baby no.2 in
November it will be a little tight to get the
November/December & January/February
editions produced. If you would be
interested in helping then please see the
advert below or call/email me & we can
discuss further.
I also attended the 3 week ‘Birth Second
Time Round’ course which was a great
course to attend. We had hoped both of us
could attend, but we couldn’t get a
babysitter on the days and so I went alone
– Thankfully I wasn’t the only one, many
people were in the same position – so
VACANCY - NEWSLETTER ASSISTANT
We are looking for someone to assist with
the production of the newsletter for a few
months! Speaking to advertisers, sourcing
articles, getting information from other
committee members, pulling all the
information together in the newsletter
format and sending for printing. Call Kay on
337-6255 for more information
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Rainy Day ideaÊs!
Play Dough
Play dough is fun and easy to make.
Children like to make it too – with help of
course!
Play dough helps to develop coordination in
fingers and hands and strengthens growing
muscles. Children can learn about
measuring, shapes, sizes, numbers and
weight. Your child will enjoy playing with
play dough, particularly if you make time to
sit and talk and talk and play too.
Squeezing, prodding and rolling play dough
is soothing and relaxing – and excellent on
a wet day!
Play Dough Recipe
3 cups of flour
1 cup of salt
About 1 cup of water
Mix together and knead until it feels
smooth. You may need to add a little
more flour or water to get it right!
You can add food colouring to the
water if you would like coloured play
dough.
10 FUN ÂRAINY DAYÊ OUTDOOR
IDEAS!
1. If it’s really pouring put a
container outside and check
with a ruler every now and
ten during the day to see
how much rain has fallen.
2. Write a letter to Grandma and
venture out in the rain to post it.
3. Gather up old crusts to feed the
hungry ducks.
4. Draw a picture on the concrete with
chalk and see how long the rain
takes to wash it away
5. See how many
snails and worms
you can find around
your garden and on
your paths.
6. Put on your gum boots & waterproofs
and go for a walk and
splash through all the
puddles
7. Wrap up warm and
brave the rain for a
walk to your nearest
café. Reward yourself
with a good coffee
and your kids with a fluffy,
8. Go for a blast along the beach,
watch the crashing surf and play
chasey with the waves as they roll
onto the beach.
9. Head out on your
bikes and look
for puddles to
ride through.
10. Look at flowers and plants with the
rain shining on them – you’ve
probably never notices how beautiful
they look.
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Coffee with a
Parents Centre
Volunteer
This issue we catch up with me!!
My name is Kay Male and I’m the
Newsletter Editor for
Christchurch South Parents
Centre. I am married to Andy &
we are parents to George 27
months old & awaiting the arrival
of baby no. 2 in November.
Tiger George!
• How are you today? A little
stressed – trying to get the
newsletter finished and ready to
go to print!
• Favourite Sandwich filling?
Sorry – but if I’m honest then it
would be Egg Mayo!
• What star sign are you?
Virgo – And apparently a very
typical one!!
• If you were a crayon,
what colour would you
be?
Purple
• What is your most embarrassing
music album you own?
Probably my New Kids on the
Block album! I was a big fan when
I was younger!
• What was your favourite toy as
a child?
My Rupert Bear teddy
• What food do you
dislike?
Shellfish – Yuk!
• Do you untie your
shoes when you
take them off?
It depends which shoes!
• Would you bungee jump?
No!
• What do you miss most right
now?
Sleep!
• Any Siblings?
1 younger sister
• Favourite ice cream flavour?
Mint Choc-
Chip
• Favourite day
of the year?
Christmas day
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• Favourite
food?
Pizza
• If you could change one thing
about yourself, what would it
be?
To be less self
critical
• Summer or
winter?
Summer –
think I suffer
with that SAD
syndrome….
• What car do you drive?
Nissan X-Trail
• What is your favourite TV
show?
Home & Away (Sad I know!)
• What’s the best Birthday
present you’ve ever received?
A helicopter
ride of the
glaciers here
in NZ in
September
2005. It was
great & a combined gift from my
Dad & Andy.
• Any confirmed holiday bookings?
We’re going back to England a
month over Christmas and we
can’t wait. Will be lovely to see all
the family and for them to see
George at Christmas and meet our
new baby.
• Favourite drink?
Cranberry & Orange juice
• What did you want to be when
you were little?
A School Teacher or
a nurse (I’m actually
an accountant so
very different!)
• What was the last
film you saw at the
cinema?
Amazing Grace
• If you could go anywhere on
vacation, where would it be?
Ummm…. I should say back to
England to see our family &
friends…. But to be honest, it’s
not really much of a holiday! I’d
have to say a relaxing beach
holiday somewhere nice, hot,
sunny and quiet! Perhaps if we won
the lottery we could pay for all
our family and friends from
England to be there too!
• Finally - How did you become a
volunteer with Parents Centre?
I ticked a box on the course
evaluation sheet when I attended
a Tinies to Tots course!!
Are there any questions that you
would like to ask our committee
m embers?? Email in your questions
& we will ask on your behalf!!
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Just for fun!
FAMOUS QUOTE:
I am not finding pregnancy much of a joy. I
am afraid of childbirth, but I am afraid I
can't find a way of avoiding it.
Brigitte Bardot
TRUTHS ABOUT PARENTING
- A baby usually wakes up in the wee-wee
hours of the morning.
- A child will not spill on a dirty floor.
- A young child is a noise with dirt on it.
- An unbreakable toy is useful for breaking
other toys.
- Avenge yourself; live long enough to be a
problem to your children.
- Be nice to your kids, for it is they who
will choose your nursing home.
- God invented mothers because he
couldn't be everywhere at once.
- God invented guilt so mothers could be
everywhere at once.
- Having children will turn you into your
parents.
- If you have trouble getting your
children's attention, just sit down and look
comfortable.
- Insanity is inherited; you get it from your
kids.
- One child is often not enough, but two
children can be far too
many.
- The best thing to spend on your children
is time.
FUN ANAGRAMS
The answers to these anagrams are names
of some of the companies that adverts in
this edition of the newsletter……
1. MY AGE TEN GRIT
2. GO MY BOAR
3. KNELT UP
4. CRAFT BAY BOY
5. AS IM MET OR RECEIVE
(Answers on page 24)
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Sudoku
We have a prize for the
first correct solution
submitted to the editor by
email!
8 9 1 7
3 5 4 2 1
6 5 2
2 3 5
7 9
5 9 8
8 5 9 6
4 5
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A Date to
Remember!
FATHERS DAY!
Sunday September 3 rd 2007
It is said that the first Father's Day
celebration was conceived in Spokane,
Washington State, 1909. Sonora Louise
Smart Dodd, the daughter of Civil War
veteran William Smart, proposed a day to
honor fathers around the country. Her
father, who after the death of his wife
during childbirth in 1898, had raised her
and her 5 siblings alone. Inspired by this,
she wanted to let him, and the world, know
how special he was to her. The idea is said
to of come to her whilst listening to a
Mother's Day sermon.
By 1916 the idea had spread across the
country, and was even promoted by
President Woodrow Wilson. In 1956
Father's Day was recognised by a Joint
Resolution of Congress. It wasn't until
1966 that President Lyndon Johnson
proclaimed the third Sunday of every
June, the official Father's Day. Later in
1972 President Nixon established a
permanent national observation of the day.
The 19th of June 1910, Spokane
Washington, was originally when and where
the first Father's Day celebrations were
held, being in the home and birth month of
William Smart.
Harry C. Meek is also given credit for
founding the idea of Father's Day. A
President of a Chicago Lions Club, Meeks
gave speeches to various groups about the
need to honor fathers through out the
United States. In appreciation for his
work, the Lions Clubs of America
presented him with a gold watch,
with the inscription "Originator of
Father's Day," on his birthday, June
20, 1920.
Today, Father's Day is celebrated in
a number of countries around the
world, on different official dates.
New Zealand celebrates Father's
Day on the first Sunday of
September, the 3rd this year. The
white or red rose is the official
flower for Father's Day. Wearing a white
rose honors a father who is deceased and a
red rose for a father who is living.
• USA, UK, Canada and most parts of
the world - the third Sunday of June.
• Australia and New Zealand - the first
Sunday of September.
• Spain and Belgium - 19 March.
• Sweden - the second Sunday of
November
“ A man knows when he is growing old
because he begins to look like his
father."
Gabriel García Márquez (b. 1928),
Colombian writer
Things that Dad’s always say...
* When I was at school we had to walk
home in the snow!
* Go ask your mother!
* Just wait until I get you home!
* No of course I'm not crying - there's
something in my eye
* My father used to tell me...
* When I was your age....
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Situations Vacant
Christchurch South Parents
Centre is totally run by
volunteers. Our committee has people
looking to move on other things, so we’re
looking for new joiners. Can you help?
TREASURER
We are looking for an enthusiastic, money
minded person to take over this role. Being
Treasurer takes up just a couple of hours a
week and simply involves managing the bank
account and reporting on the ins and outs
each month - which is probably what most
of us do for our own accounts already. You
also get to meet a great bunch of people on
our Committee for monthly meetings and
social outings. If you’d like to know more
please call Lisa, on 03 329-9969.
MOVING & MUCHING CO-ORDINATOR
This is a small position keeping a list of
class participants, contacting class
participants to remind them of the course,
organising class handouts, opening the
church and arranging seating, introducing
the speakers and organising supper.
Courses are held four times a year.
Perhaps you and a friend would like to
share the role. Please contact Angela on
322-9383 for more information.
BABY & YOU ASSISTANT
Would you like to help new parents in
caring for their babies? A second
volunteer is needed to assist with the Baby
and You Course, which is run on Thursday
mornings for 5 weeks each term, 4 courses
per year. If you are interested and would
like more information please contact,
Marilyn on 331-6270.
LP Liaison
Introduce LPs to venue, class structure
and list of tasks before during and after
class. Follow up any issues that they have
during class. Ensure their tasks are
completed in appropriate times.
Most tasks are actually management and
follow up of LPs tasks. Good (well trained)
LPs make everyone’s life easy!
Please call Susan on 332-8004 for more
information.
LPÊs
WE NEED YOU!! Liaison people are needed
to assist our Childbirth Educators over a
eight night course. No special skills
required, just a desire to help give others
a great experience as they begin their
journey as parents. And more LP Dads
please! We are running an information night
in October, if you are interested in
attending or would like information please
phone Susan on 332-8004
TINIES TO TOTS CO-ORDINATOR
Would you like a small position as the
convenor for Tinies to Tots course? This
role involves taking phone bookings and
being at the course over three evenings
(four times per year) to welcome
participants, organise supper etc. Perhaps
you'd like to share the role with a friend?
For more information please phone Ave on
376-5090
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Joining Information:
Do you know someone who wants to
join CHCH South Parents Centre?
What Christchurch South Parents
Centre Membership offers you:
* Kiwi Parent Magazine – 6 issues per
year
* Local Newsletter – 6 issues per year
* Retailers’ Discounts
* Parenting Education
* Reduced Rates for Parenting Classes
and Focus Nights
* Training Sessions and Leadership
Certificate
* Free Toy Library Membership
* Social Events
* Access to Parenting Books and Video
Library
* Friendship and Support with other
Parents
* The opportunity to join a VERY
FRIENDLY committee
Types of Memberships available to
you:
1 Year Membership - $60.00 ($20.00*)
2 Year Membership - $115.00
* Discounts for Community Services
Card Holder
Please contact Lucretia on 339-
6637 to find out more about
becoming a Parents Centre Member
TOY LIBRARY
(for children from birth to 3 years)
- Free Membership -
When: Saturdays from 10.00 am to 12.00 pm
Where:Shirley Community Centre, Corner
Shirley Road and Slater Street,
When you become a member of the
Christchurch South Parents Centre you are
entitled to join the Toy Library which is
run by the Christchurch Parents Centre.
To join please take your current
membership card along with you to the
above address and the Toy Library
Committee will be happy to help you on
your way to experiencing the joy, fun and
laughter that your child/ren will receive
from the many toys offered.
** NEWS ** NEWS ** NEWS **
The library has had a toy-buying spree
lately!! Around $800 worth of new toys are
soon-to-be in circulation. The focus has
been on stimulating and education toys for
the under 12-month age group.
We have decided to switch to a cardissuing
system instead of being
computerised. All our families will be
issued with the new library cards in the
coming weeks.
Please remember to return toys clean and
with all their parts and working batteries!
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Childbirth
Education
Antenatal Course
This course is designed for those
expecting their first child. Courses run for
eight successive weeks. The course is
taught by a Childbirth Educator and
facilitated by Parents Centre Leaders. The
content covers Healthy Pregnancy,
Parenting Preparation and Childbirth
Preparation.
A range of resources is used including
video, discussion, visiting speakers and
parents sharing from their own
experiences. Courses run continuously
throughout the year.
2007 & 2008 Course dates are as follows:
9 Jan – 6 Mar (full)
31 Jan – 21 Mar (full)
13 Mar – 1 May (full)
11 Apr – 6 Jun (full)
8 May – 26 Jun (full)
27 Jun – 15 Aug (full)
3 Jul – 21 Aug (full)
28 Aug – 16 Oct (full)
5 Sep – 24 Oct (full)
23 Oct – 11 Dec (full)
14 Nov – 16 Jan 2008 (full)
10 Jan – 21 st Feb
4 th Feb – 17 th Mar
12 th Mar – 23 Apr
Extra Weekend Classes:
15, 17 and 24 Feb 2007
6, 12 and 19 Aug 2007
To make a booking or further information,
please contact Michelle or Denise at the
Parents Centre Office on 385-4640
CITY SOUTH
GymbaROO, a sensory perceptual motor program, is based on research that isolates
the first years of life as being critical for laying foundations for later higher learning
abilities.
PREPARE YOUR CHILD FOR ACADEMIC SUCCESS!
GYMBAROO WILL SHOW YOU HOW!
For further information
PH 383 2326
MARCHELLE SHATFORD
GymbaROO City South
(Owner/Operator)
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Pepe Parenting Discussion Groups
Your Growing Baby
Your growing baby – Parenting from 6 weeks to 1 year focuses on parenting of
infants aged from six weeks up to one year of age. This course aims to empower
parents to understand wheat is occurring for their infant, as well as to build their own
confidence as a positive parent.
The course comprises of four modules:-
1. Introduction (getting to know each other), Objectives, Health Worker /
Karitane
The Karitane’s role in this session is to assist parents with any concerns they
may be experiencing in the first few weeks of life with their new baby. This may
involve – settling, sleeping, feeding etc.
The course facilitator will also cover topics including – physical and emotional
wellbeing, change, becoming a new father (if applicable), support within the
community.
2. Active Movement (SPARC).
This session is designed to give parents some strategies and activities which
they can implement in their homes to encourage baby’s physical and mental
development. This is a fun, practical session.
3. CPR / Choking / Safety.
This session is facilitated by the Red Cross for the first hour and covers infant
CPR and choking. Parents are encourage to ‘have a go’ with the mannequins.
The PEPE facilitator will spend the remainder of the session discussing ‘safety’
issues and promoting baby’s well-being.
4. Parenting Styles / Your local Plunket.
This is a session based on the SKIP module of ‘Conscious Parenting’ and
introduces parents to the three parenting styles and encourages them to think
about the type of parent they would aspire to be. A great, insightful session!
The Plunket liaison will also spend some time in this session promoting their local
plunket and the services it provides and answering any questions that the parents
may have.
As well as the above topics the facilitators are skilled in discussing many other
topics and are happy to deviate from the scheduled format if that suits the needs
of their group.
These courses are provided free of charge to all First Time Mothers. For more
information and to enroll in these courses, please call Karen Gowans Telephone:
349-3678.
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22 ways to teach values. Parenting, Issue 24, Autumn
2006. pp.42-43
1. Affirm with positive words the kinds of behaviours you want from your
child and the kind of actions you expect: “we use our indoor voices in the
library”. “Words are for building people up not tearing them down”.
2. Point out that our actions have consequences. Let your child know that if
she chooses to misbehave, for example, he is choosing to experience a
“timeout” away from playmates or other appropriate consequences. Be
certain to follow through.
3. Respect the differences of opinion each family member has, no matter his
or her age, by “agreeing to disagree” when discussing a controversial
matter of an issue with different sides to it.
4. Major on the majors – pick a few issues and boundaries that are important
to you with regard to household rules and stick to them.
5. Provide a small notebook for your child or teenager to write down her
daily “to do” and “to call” lists to keep her focussed and prevent her from
feeling overwhelmed by demands of school and home responsibilities.
6. Don’t permit putdown humour in your home when children consistently
tease one another, make fun of a younger sibling, or use biting sarcasm.
Create penalties and call a family meeting.
7. Follow through and do what you say you are going to do with your child,
even (and especially) if it is inconvenient. In the process, you will be
modelling the keeping of ones word.
8. When things get hard help your child learn perseverance by saying, “Press
on - you’re going to make it” “we’re proud of you for hanging in there with
your soccer team even though you haven’t won any games yet,” or “That’s a
really long assignment, but stick with it and you’ll get the problems done.”
If the job seems overwhelming, divide it into two or three blocks and
encourage a break in between.
9. Insist on manners even in the small things. Manners are the disciplines of
the thinking of others.
10. Play the game “inventor” to stimulate thinking and coming up with
solutions, a vital skill in problem-solving. Ask questions: What are all the
uses you can think of for an old tyre, an empty ice-cream cone, a shoebox?
11. If children steal or make a mistake support them as they put it right,
make restitution, say sorry.
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12. Spend twice as much time with your children and half as much money. Play
games and teach them how to be a good loser and a humble winner.
13. Decide together on a family motto” “you can count on me”, :No empty
seats”, “Let your light shine”
14. Many children don’t try new things because they fear failure. Share that
failing at a few things doesn’t make a person a failure and no one can win
all the time. Then read about people who failed but made outstanding
contributions – Thomas Edison, Winston Churchill.
15. Instill the value of hospitality in your child by having someone to your
home at least one meal a week. Rotate a different family member inviting
a guest each week. Include your child in the menu planning, preparation,
making an interesting centrepiece and giving guests a warm welcome as
they arrive.
16. During chore times and on a daily basis use statements that encourage
effort like: Keep up the good work! You catch on so fast – you’re doing a
terrific job. You are working so efficiently and making great use of your
time! I’m so proud of the way you’ve worked today.
17. When your child dives into homework assignments on her own initiative,
praise her and let her know how valuable it is to do things without being
reminded.
18. Use a variety of positive statements that stimulate initiative: You are
really motivated! I like the way you’ve tackled that job without being
asked! You’ve been a self-starter, setting the alarm early and doing your
piano practice before school.
19. Let your children help solve practical problems around your home: figure
out how far apart to space shrubs in a row, plan a family trip. When kids
work with real problems, they become confident in the problem-solving
ability.
20. Encourage your child to write for writing pushes children to organise
their thoughts more than any other activity.
21. When your child has a novel to read for school, “share” the reading by
getting the book yourself and reading it independently. This can open up
great dialogue and discussions about values.
22. Help your child look for something positive in the people they meet by
pointing out strengths or admirable character qualities. Show there is
much to be learned about people from different backgrounds.
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Kids Spot
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Parent Education
Courses
The courses below are FREE (up to a
maximum of 15 participants) for Parents
Centre members and a small charge for
non-members. Come along and meet other
parents in a relaxed and informative group.
Please note some of our courses are now
being held at the South Learning Centre,
at the Christchurch South Library, 66
Colombo St
1. Baby and You - 0-3 Months
This is a five-week course, run on a
Thursday morning for parents of new
babies. Parents-to-be are also welcome
to attend this course even if your baby
hasn't arrived yet as you will still find the
information interesting and useful.
It covers feeding, sleeping and crying, time
management, immunisation, Well Child
Checks, Postnatal Depression, development
and milestones, baby massage, books and
toys, and music and play.
The course is $15 for Christchurch central
members & $30.00 for non-members.
Remaining 2007 course dates are as follows:
• Thu 6 September – 4 October 2007
• Thu 8 November – 6 December 2007
Please note these are 5-week courses.
Bookings are essential. Please phone
Marilyn on 331-6270.
Thanks to Christchurch City Council for
generously providing funding for this
course in 2007.
2. Moving and Munching 4-8 Months
This course is for parents of babies 4-8
months of age. Two fun and informative
evenings that will answer your questions on
child development and feeding issues in the
months that lie ahead.
Moving: A specialist discusses baby safety
now that your child is mobile, the
development of fine motor skills and how
you can assist, how babies learn through
play and age appropriate toys, the
development of language and intellect and
how you can stimulate this.
Munching: A qualified Dietician will discuss
introducing solids, good nutrition for all
ages, drinks, snacks and treats, teething
and dental care, the child who won't eat,
iron rich foods and food allergies.
The course is $25.00 for non-members.
2007 course dates are as follows:
• Weds 31 October & 7 November
2007
Bookings are essential. Please phone Angela
on 322-9383. Each participant can choose
to purchase a copy of Baby Food and
Beyond by Alison Holst for only $8.40
(normal retail $14.95).
Thanks to Christchurch City Council for
generously providing funding for this
course in 2007.
3. Tinies to Tots 10-18 Months
This course consists of three evening
sessions (safety, nutrition and teeth, and
play and stimulation) each led by a
specialist in the field.
We aim for the course to be relaxed and
informative with time for questions, a
great opportunity for you to meet other
parents experiencing the same joys and
challenges.
The course is $25 for non-members.
2007 Course dates are as follows:
• Monday 10 – 24 September 2007
• Monday 19 November – 3 Dec 2007
Bookings are essential. Please phone
Lucretia on 339-6637.
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From our members
Hi there, My name is Lisa Brignull. My husband and I attended the antenatal classes
held at the St Nicolas church last year. My group of 11 had their babies ranging from 15
January through to 10 March this year. I have just read the July/August addition of your
newsletter and noticed that you were looking for a story or two about antenatal related
things that go on! Well..... All 11 ladies and 11 babies have stuck together well so far - and
long may the growing friendships continue! I have taken it upon myself to become the
'antenatal secretary', and my job consists of arranging walks for the group every Monday at
a different location in and around Christchurch. Being a marathon runner myself, my secret
aim is to get them into the exercising thing - and then maybe have a couple of them running a
marathon with me at some point!!! Our walk this week (South Brighton to South Shore and
back) consisted of a bit of 4 wheel buggy driving which was a laugh and a challenge all at the
same time!! I think most of us enjoyed it - and the well deserved coffee at the end!! Our
other 'not so strenuous planned outing will be a movie at the Sumner Hollywood cinema I
have arranged for 'Mums and Bubs' at the end of the month! In-between our walks and
coffee groups at each others house every second Wednesday, some of us meet at the
Colombo Street Library for babytime music, we do Baby and Mum Yoga at Pioneer Leisure
Centre, and soon we are going to start Bumble Bees Swimming Lessons - its such fun being a
Mum!!!
Our Hagley Park Walk
Our South Brighton to South Shore Walk
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Christchurch South
P O Box 33-033
Barrington
CHRISTCHURCH
KIMBERLY BLANKETS
Luxurious all wool thermacell baby blankets available now
through Parents Centre
Baby will love being wrapped and tucked up in these warm blankets which are perfect for all seasons and
will probably become an attachment offering comfort and support, Kimberly Air Cell/Thermacell Wool
Blankets feature a cell-like weave that allows maximum air circulation to efficiently regulate body
temperature. While light and airy, cellular blankets have all the strength and robustness offered by wool. Air
Cell baby blankets have been used for generations.
♦ Natural pure new wool for dry comfortable warmth
♦ Thermacell weave retains body heat on coldest nights while enabling excess heat and body moisture to
dissipate
♦ Woven to form a lightweight air cell to give your baby freedom of movement
♦ Soft luxurious feel of brushed wool that will not itch or shed fibres
♦ Bound on all sides with 100% baby-safe non toxic, satin binding
♦ Manufactured in New Zealand
♦ Machine washable
♦ “Ultra-Fresh” treated
Kimberly Blankets Limited has recently formed a national arrangement with Parents Centre to offer their
products at a discount to all our members. Buying at a reduced price from Christchurch South Parents Centre
will also support our centre and help us to continue to offer the best service possible to all our members.
♦ Size - 100 x 150 cm - $50 for Christchurch South Parents Centre Members & $60 for non-members
(Baby Factory’s price is $60)
♦ Size – 180 x 225 cm - $90 for Christchurch South Parents Centre Members & $100 for non-members
(Baby Factory’s price is $110)
♦ Colour – ivory (samples are available during Antenatal Classes – ask your leader)
Please contact us on 332-5143 to buy one
Guidelines for using your thermacell baby blanket
*From Binary Systems NZ website - www.binary.co.nz
♦ Always use your blankets with a sheet and do not use in a way where multiple blanket layers can overlay
the baby’s face
♦ Do not use many layers as overheating has a higher risk factor than coolness
♦ Initially monitor baby’s temperature (by feel) until comfortable amounts of cover are established
♦ Duvet covers are not recommended until 12 months
♦ Allow the baby to have some limb movement and always ensure that the head area remains clear of
cover
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Recipes
Gluten Free Chocolate Chip
Cookies
There seems to be many more people who
are needing a gluten free diet – so here is
something for all you.
170 g butter, softened
275 g packed brown sugar
50 g white sugar
5 ml gluten-free vanilla extract
60 ml egg substitute
315 g gluten-free baking mix
5 g baking soda
5 g baking powder
6 g salt
340 g semisweet chocolate chips
Makes approx 36 cookies
What you do:
1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees F ( 190 degrees
C). Prepare a greased baking sheet.
2. In a medium bowl, cream butter and sugar.
Gradually add replacer eggs and vanilla while
mixing. Sift together gluten- free flour mix,
baking soda, baking powder, and salt. Stir
into the butter mixture until blended. Finally,
stir in the chocolate chips.
3. Using a teaspoon, drop cookies 2 inches apart
on prepared baking sheet. Bake in preheated
oven for 6 to 8 minutes or until light brown.
Let cookies cool on baking sheet for 2
minutes before removing to wire racks.
Banana Bread
Yummy!
250 g all-purpose flour
5 g baking soda
2 g salt
115 g butter
110 g brown sugar
2 eggs, beaten
525 g mashed overripe bananas
Makes 12 servings
What you do:
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees
C). Lightly grease a 9x5 inch loaf pan.
2. In a large bowl, combine flour, baking soda
and salt. In a separate bowl, cream together
butter and brown sugar. Stir in eggs and
mashed bananas until well blended. Stir
banana mixture into flour mixture; stir just
to moisten. Pour batter into prepared loaf
pan.
3. Bake in preheated oven for 60 to 65 minutes,
until a toothpick inserted into center of the
loaf comes out clean. Let bread cool in pan
for 10 minutes, then turn out onto a wire
rack.
Anagram Answers:
1. Egg Maternity
2. GymbaRoo
3. Plunket
4. Baby Factory
5. Creative Memories
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Book Review
The book reviewed
below is available to loan from our
library. See pg33/34 for the full listing
of books & DVD’s available.
The Reading Bug by
Paul Jennings
The one person who
will do more than
anyone else to help
your child learn to
read ... is you.
Parents are the best
reading teachers in
the world.
An easy-to-read, practical guide packed
with simple strategies to help your child
learn to love books. Paul Jennings cuts
through the jargon and controversy to
show how every parent can infect their
child with the reading bug.
• Brilliant booklists for parents and
children
• The whole reading experience
explained
• Great cartoons and anecdotes
• Practical advice from bestselling
writer and teacher Paul Jennings
Paul Jennings is Australia's bestselling
children's author. He worked as a specialeducation
teacher and lecturer before
becoming a full-time writer.
IS THERE A BOOK YOU WOULD LIKE
TO SEE IN OUR LIBRARY? LET US
KNOW!
Focus Night:
Toilet Training
your Toddler⁄
Pat Penrose has been involved with writing
articles and taking workshops on various
aspects of parenting for a number of
years. As well as her knowledge as a parent
she also draws on her experiences as a
grandparent.
Learn about:
• Indicators of when your child is ready
to be toilet trained
• The process of toilet training
This is a very interactive session so
whether you haven't started the toileting
process or have come unstuck and need
ideas, come along with all your questions.
Bring pen & paper if you want to write
down some of the great ideas.
DATE: Wednesday 10 th October
TIME: 7.15pm for 7.30pm start. Finish
9.00/9.30pm
COST: FREE for members & non-members
VENUE: St Nicholas Anglican Church, Cnr
Barrington & Frankleigh Sts.
Bookings Essential: Contact Cathy 338
7558.
** NOTE – This course is full, but please call
Cathy if you are interested in attending as we
are running a waiting list for this course & are
planning on holding another course early next
year,
If you find a mistake
in this newsletter, it
is there for a reason!
Some people are
always looking for
mistakes and we try
to include something
for everyone!
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Dial - A –
Mum
Isn't parenting a
challenge at times?!
Sometimes it would be good to get
advice, not from the 'experts' but
from someone who has 'been
there'. Below is a list of parents
who have some experience in the
subject listed and can offer
support and advice. We are not
experts - just parents!!
Sleeping problems Angela 3220383
Premature baby
Establishing a routine/ good sleep
habits
Could you help?
Susan 3328004
Antenatal kidney problems Cathy 3387558
Fertility treatment Andrea M 3388833
Constipation in infants Cathy 3387558
Reflux
Could you help?
Clicky hips/harnesses Andrea W 3323533
Choosing childcare Kate 3810442
We are always looking to add to our list. If you might be interested please phone Susan on
3328004
Cathy Robins
Consultant
(03) 3387558
http://www.mycmsite.co.nz/cathyrobins
Get your coffee group together for a class. Cost $5 per person.
And you could earn one of the new baby album kits for FREE
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Notices
New Products
♦ See our full page pad
for Kimberly
Blankets Thermacell all wool blanket
27/32-micron wool blend. Great for
gifts.
♦ Lovely and soft towelling burp/change
cloths 50x30cm bound $5 members
$5.50 non-members
♦ Flannel/wipes 23x23 edged pack of 5
$5 members $5.50 non-members
Contact Claire on 322-5143 if you wish
to purchase any of the above items
Do you have any items you want to buy or
sell? If members have any items they want
to buy or sell let us know and we will put a
couple of lines *FREE* in the next
newsletter. (Not applicable to businesses).
Phone Kay on 337-6255 or e-mail to
ChchSthEditor@xtra.co.nz
To Advertise - Space is available in this
newsletter for advertising. We have
competitive rates and a membership of
around 100 households. Free advertising is
available in the members shopping discount
page to business who offer a discount to
our members. Advertisements are free to
Parents Centre Members (not applicable to
businesses).
Size/type One issue Three issues
Full page
$60 $50 per issue
(A5 size booklet)
Half page
$40 $35 per issue
(A5 size booklet)
Business card size $20 $15 per issue
Pamphlet insert (per insert) 40 cents 40 cents
Please phone Kay on 337-6255 or e-mail to
ChchSthEditor@xtra.co.nz
Moving House???? Please remember to let
us know what your new address is so that
you don’t miss out on your ‘Kiwi Parent’
magazine! Mail us a change of address card
to PO Box 33033 Barrington Christchurch,
or phone the Membership Coordinator,
Lucretia on 339-6637
Natural Fertility NZ Inc
This is the re-branded name for Natural
Family Planning. NFNZ provides advice on
how to identify the fertile time in the
reproductive cycle. This can be used to
avoid pregnancy or to try and conceive.
For further information contact your local
educator on 0800 178 637.
For Breastfeeding help
NZLCA has an 0800 number. This line is
specifically available for consumers who
wish to obtain contact details for a NZLCA
Lactation Consultant living in their area.
This service is not intended to duplicate
the Plunket 0800 counselling line therefore
no lactation or breastfeeding counselling
will be given via the NZLCA 0800 line.
An IBCLC (often called Lactation
Consultant for short) is a breastfeeding
specialist qualified to prevent, recognize,
and resolve breastfeeding problems. All
members of NZLCA hold the professional
qualification of International Board
Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC).
Any mother, family member, or health
professional interested in obtaining the
contact details of an IBCLC can phone
0800 4 Lactation (0800 452 282) during
daytime hours.
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Members Retailers Discounts
SHOW YOUR PARENTS CENTRE MEMBERSHIP CARD AND GET A DISCOUNT
BABY & TODDLER
EQUIPMENT, TOYS & CLOTHING
In Step
Bishopdale Shopping Centre, Ph359 8506
** 10% off shoes not already discounted.
Wonderful range of footwear for infants
through to adults. Trained staff will expertly
fit.
Every Educaid
34-38 Sandyford St, Ph 365 6675
** 15% discount
More than just a toy store. The shop
sources children’s books, games, toys &
resources from all over the world to ensure
parents can give their children an educational
edge through play. Plenty of off street
parking & great family facilities. Let the
children play while you shop.
Toys 4 Tots
258 Hills Rd Shirley, Ph 980 8697.
www.toys4tots.co.nz
** 15% off Toy and Bouncy Castle hire
Welcome to Christchurch’s Friendliest Toy
Library! Bouncy Castles, Party Packages,
Educational toys. Everything you need to
keep your children occupied! Great for
BBQ’s, Birthdays, Weddings,
No need to stress!
Little Miss & Mister
368A Colombo St, Ph. 377 7119
** 10% discount for purchases of $50 or
more (sale items not included).
Fabulous baby & children’s clothing designed
and made in NZ. Exclusive label
Edex Toys Papanui
11 Main North Road, 03 3544 103
** 15% discount (Not to be used in
conjunction with any other promotional
offers or on sale goods)
Catering for ages 0 – 12 years. With expert
advice, a huge product range – music, wooden
toys, nursery, books, construction, learning
aids, furniture and linen, science and nature
and lots more – we’re not your normal toy
store. Parking at rear, play area and changing
facilities.
3 Wise Monkeys
www.3wisemonkeys.co.nz
** 10% discount (please quote PC10CHC when
ordering).
3 Wise Monkeys is an internet based company
offering funky stuff for cool kids (& parents
too!) - 3 Wise Monkeys t-shirts, Oi Oi Nappy
Bags, Kecci Nappy Bags, Dou Dou Soft Toys,
Underarm 81 Kids Cricket Shirts & lots more.
Check the website for great gift ideas!
BEAUTY/MAKE UP
Joanna Giles
Cosmetic Imaging Services, Ph 385 5615
** 10% discount
Learn secrets of professional makeup
applications, individual or group of 5 for 2
hours @$50 each. Special occasion makeup
application and gift vouchers available.
Class Hair Design
123 Farrington Ave, Bishopdale Mall,
Ph 359 8606
** 15% discount to any PC members & family
on all in-salon services. Please mention PC
when booking.
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Members Retailers Discounts
SHOW YOUR PARENTS CENTRE MEMBERSHIP CARD AND GET A DISCOUNT
HOLIDAYS
COFFEE MORNING FUN
Smiths Farm Holiday Park
Linkwater RD 1 Picton
Ph/Fax 03 574 2806
cbfaulls@xtra.co.nz www.smithsfarm.co.nz
* 10% disc. off season only.
Farm based, 22km from Picton. Range of
tent/caravan sites & cabins. Modern, friendly
& clean.
Homesit Christchurch Ltd
Ph 352 6778 or 027 254 8111
** 15% off Homesits & housecalls
** 30% off homesits exceeding 60 days
Easy affordable Homesits or Housecalls
While you’re away!
BIRTHDAY PARTIES
Cheeky Monkeys
1020 FERRY ROAD, FERRYMEAD
WWW.CHEEKYMONKEYS.CO.NZ
PHONE 384-4430
** BOOK A PARTY AT CHEEKY MONKEYS
AND MENTION THE PARENTS CENTRE.
WE WILL GIVE YOU A PERSONALISED
PHOTO DVD MOVIE OF YOUR CHILDS
PARTY FREE! VALUED AT $25
Christchurch's newest and most exciting
party venue for children. Pirate ship, bouncy
castle, fairies, healthy food and fantastic
entertainers are just a few of our
specialities. Party packages include
everything from party invitations to party
bags. After school art & creativity classes
also available.
Funky Feet
Zoe
Ph 326 7857
Capture the memory of your child’s cute feet
or hands in plaster forever, mould made at
session, plaster relief received at later date.
Min 6
people per group, ·$3 off each imprint—
usually $18 now $15.
Coffee Culture
The Palms, Cnr Marshland & New Brighton
Rds,
Ph 385 5588
10% off our great range of food & drinks.
An extensive range of drinks both steaming
hot and refreshingly cold & a lite snack menu
of slices, muffins, bagels & paninis.
Very child friendly, including a play room for
the kids.
GIFTS
Stevens
Riccarton Mall, Ph 348 6907
www.stevens.co.nz
The Palms, phone 386 3378
Northlands, phone 354 4169
10% discount on everything in store, including
current promotional discounts.
New Zealand owned & operated company
offering quality homeware products at
affordable prices.
DO YOU KNOW OF ANY BUSINESS THAT WOULD OFFER A DISCOUNT TO MEMBERS? LET US KNOW!
ALL ADVERTISEMENTS IN THIS SECTION ARE FREE!
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CYCLES ETC
Members Retailers Discounts
SHOW YOUR PARENTS CENTRE MEMBERSHIP CARD AND GET A DISCOUNT
PHOTOGRAPHY
MacScoots
Ewen & Tanya
Ph/Fax 981 9498
skelf@paradise.net.nz
10% disc. off hire rates.
Bicycle trailers and Kids trailers available for
hire. Great for a family weekend away or
something more for the hard-core cycle
tourist.
Bivouac Outdoors
Cnr Colombo & Lichfield St, Ph 366 3197
20% off all full price stock.
Stockists of Mountain Buggy, Macpac
frontpacks and child backpacks, Icebreaker
& many other great outdoor equipment &
clothing brands.
While You Wait Studios
131 Manchester Street, Ph 366 6267
** 10% off all prints
Specialist in portraiture. Colour or B/W.
Family, individual, business or portraits.
Photos on film or digital, no appointment
needed
Brian Isbister Photography
Phone 0800 100 324
10% off all photography, enlargements &
framing (excludes special promotional prices)
HUB - your bicycle centre
Shop 6, Tower Junction, Whiteleigh Ave
ph 982 4982, fax 982 4984
www.hubcycles.co.nz
10% off everything except labour charges.
PHOTOCOPYING
CopyQuality
All Digital Copy Centre
Cnr Manchester St & Cambridge Tce, Ph 963
8899. Email copyquality@xtra.co.nz
Free pick up and delivery on all jobs over
$50.
PLEASE REMEMBER THAT DISCOUNTS ARE A BONUS TO YOUR MEMBERSHIP.
DON’T ABUSE! ADDITIONAL IDENTIFICATION MAY BE REQUIRED WHEN MAKING
PURCHASES. DISCOUNTS ARE ONLY GIVEN TO THE NAMED PERSON ON YOUR PC
MEMBERSHIP CARD
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NEW ARRIVALS
If we have missed your names from this list & you would like us to
print your babies name so that you have a keepsake then please
contact me on hackthorne@clear.net.nz or call me on 337-6255
Lora Deans and Alistair Sheard
Sarah Marr and Simon Bulman
Michelle and Pierre van Noorden
Juliet and John-Paul Bridger
Hayley Alexander and Paddy Cumming
Rebecca Kemp and Alan Bush
Regina and Andrew Dean
Sarah and Paul Davidson
Del Eden and Wal Harrington
Rebecca and Su Baichoo
Roswitha Breuer and Julian Minehan
Lizzy and Kerry Williams
Lucy and Nick Rayner
Ruth and Scott McLaren
Claudine and Andrew Lemon
Tarsh Hagan and Blair Strahan
Leigh and Colin Beach
Jacky and Mike Louch
Kylie and Nick Anticich
Nina and Chris Sandys
Elaine Mitchell and Richard Blake
Joanna and Jason Pannett
Jackie and James Broadbent
Ally and Tony Pieromaldi
Helen Williams and Mark Haynes
Sarah Mottus and Martin Emanuelsson
Ann-Marie and Shane Monaghan
Annette and Craig Radford
Tamin Wilson and Derek Golding
(Jennifer) Clare and Tony Palmer
Rebecca Butler and Jared Menary
Tara and Thomas Belcher
Kelly and Nick Cassie
Mckenzie
Mackinnon
Antonie & William
Grace Sophia
Lola Rene
Libby
Avery
Charlotte
Fynn
Sid
Lucas
Joseph
Joshua
Benjamin
Bryce
Laila
Cameron
Emma
Milla
Aidan
Nathan
Chelsea
Daniel
Louis
Lewis and Libby
Ella
Jacynta
Jamie
Poppy
Amelia
Ella
Lily
Jack
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Naming your baby - WhatÊs in a name?
By Kay Male
Naming your baby is such a huge
responsibility and many people dread this
task. We are currently struggling to agree
on the perfect name for our unborn child!
The name you choose for your child will be
the corner-stone of your baby’s identity
and will last them a lifetime – through
school, work and beyond.
There was a story recently regarding a NZ
couple which appeared in the news all over
the globe. The couple have come under
public scrutiny for wanting to name their
child 4Real. When questioned about the
name, the couple have said that the name
has meaning for them and they decided on
the name after seeing an ultrasound scan
and realising the baby was "for real". They
said they chose the spelling "4Real"
because it was the clearest and simplest
way of writing it down.
In the newspapers here in NZ, it has
provoked a lot of people to write in with
their opinions. Many of these people have
questioned the wisdom of naming a child
something so unusual, saying that the boy
would certainly be teased.
‘Famous’ people who are in the public eye
have been naming their children ‘unusual’ or
some might say ‘wacky’ names for years…
here are some examples:
•Ahmet Emuukha Rodan - (Frank Zappa)
•Apple - (Gwyneth Paltrow)
•Heavenly Hiraani Tiger Lily - (Paula Yates)
•Zowie Bowie - (David Bowie)
•Pilot Inspektor - (Jason Lee)
•Phinnaeus Walter - (Julia Roberts)
What New Zealand law says about
naming your baby:
Under the Births, Deaths, and Marriages
Registration Act 1995, children born in
New Zealand must be registered within
two months of the birth. The law forbids
names that resemble an official title or
rank, names that are unreasonably long and
names that may cause offence to a
reasonable person. It is also advised that
parents avoid names which would cause
their child to be teased or made fun of. In
considering an applicant's request, the
Registrar-General weighs the applicant's
personal reasons for having the name
included, against factors such as whether
the name is likely to cause confusion in
New Zealand or overseas.
The Top 10 baby names in New Zealand
for 2006 were as follows:
No. Boys Girls
1 Jack Charlotte
2 Joshua Ella
3 Daniel Sophie
4 William Emma
5 Samuel Olivia
6 Jacob Emily
7 Thomas Grace
8 Benjamin Jessica
9 Ryan Hannah
10 Liam Lily
*Top 10 provided by Statistics New Zealand.
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Christchurch South Parents Centre Library
Members can borrow books or videos from the library free of
charge. If you would like to obtain a book from the library, you
can either take the book out yourself if you are in the ChCh
South Parents Centre building, for example when you are
attending a Parents Centre course). Please fill in your details on
the library card (inside the book) and place in the box on the
shelf. Otherwise, contact Janette on 349 3023 and she will be
happy to help. Library books can be on loan for 3 months, after which time Janette will
contact you. To return a book to the library, contact Janette. Or, if you happen to be
attending a course at the Centre you can always return the book to the shelf yourself but
please remember to replace the library card in the book.
We are looking to update our library, so if you have any suggestions for books that you would
like to have available in the library then please let us know.
LIBRARY BOOKS
TITLE AUTHOR SUBJECT
A Handbook for Happy Families Irvine, John Parenting
A Paediatrician In Your Pocket Polon, Melvyn Health
An Introduction to Active Movement (x5) SPARC Parenting
Baby Basics Australian Womens Weekly Babies
Babies Sleep Australian Womens Weekly Babies
Babies Green, Christopher Babies
Babies Need Books Butler, Dorothy Learning To Read
Babytalk Johnsons Babies
Becoming A Parent (x6) Parents Centre Babies
Before your Kids Drive you Crazy, Read this! Latta, Nigel Parenting
Beyond The Baby Blues Goss, Arlene Postnatal Depression
Born Midwives & Women Celebrate 100 Yrs
Ogonowska-Coates, H
Bottlefeeding Without Feeling Guilty Fox, Judith Bottlefeeding
Breastfeeding – Giving Your Baby The Best You’ve Got Department of Health Breastfeeding
Childbirth As It Really Is (x3) Grayson, Sandra Pregnancy
Childbirth Choices Bennett/Etherington/Hewson Pregnancy
Childhood Medicines Buchanan, Neil Health
Choose to Hug, Not to Smack (x3) Commissioner of Children Parenting
Coping with Morning Sickness Birks, Ee-Kheng Pregnancy
DIY for Kids (x4) Kenny, Les & Roseanne Children
Doing Our Best McKenzie, L & Thomas G Motherhood in NZ
Down Came the Rain Shields, Brooke Postnatal Depression
Entertaining & Educating Babies & Toddlers Gee, Robyn & Meredith, Susan Babies & Toddlers
Fathering From the Fast Lane Robinson, Bruce Parenting
Five To Eight Butler, Dorothy Learning To Read
Food For Under Fives Stanton, Rosemary Feeding
Going it Alone
Mirosch, Natascha & Johns,
Geraldine
Pregnancy & Birth
Good Food For Kids Hillis, Anne & Stone, Penelope Feeding 5-12 Yrs
Good Food Healthy Children Duff, Gail Feeding
Healthy Food for Babies & Toddlers Westcott, Patsy Feeding
Healthy Kids, Happy Kids Finn, Lynda Children
High Chairs and Children Waddell, Sandie Pregnancy/Disabled
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Just A Mother Woods, Gael Motherhood
Lessons From My Child Dowling/Nicoll/Thomas Disabled Children
Let Parents Choose Coddington, Deborah Education
Making Birth Easier Robertson, Andrea Pregnancy
Mothers Matter Too Phillips, Jenny Postnatal Depression
Moving to Learn (x2) Crowe, Robyn & Connell, Gill Education and movement
New Toddler Taming Green, Christopher Parenting Toddlers
New Zealand Baby & Toddler
Babies & Toddlers
New Zealand Baby & Toddler Recipe Book Schroder, Margaret/Karicare Feeding
New Zealand Pregnancy Book Pullon, Sue Pregnancy
New Zealand Tots and Toddlers Gribben, Trish Babies & Toddlers
Of Course I Love You…Now Go To Your Room Levy, Diane Parenting
Ourselves As Mothers Kitzinger, Sheila Birth & Parenting
Postnatal Exercises Whiteford, B & Polden, M Exercise
Preparing For Birth (x2) Robertson, Andrea Pregnancy
Preparing For Birth: Mothers Robertson, Andrea Pregnancy
Preparing For Birth: Fathers Robertson, Andrea Pregnancy
Raising A Son Elium, Don & Elium, Jeanne Parenting
Raising Boys Biddulph, Steve Parenting
Rocket Your Child into Reading French, Jackie Parenting
Something New Every Day (x2) Reid, Sarah Toddler Activities
Stepfamily Life Newman, Margaret Families
The Complete Book of Breastfeeding Eiger, Marivn & Olds, Sally Breastfeeding
The F Word O’Bien, Bill & Taylor, Rachael Child Health
The New Bestfeeding Renfrew/Fisher/Arms Breastfeeding
The New Pregnancy and Childbirth Kitzinger, Sheila Pregnancy
The Parentalk Guide to Being a
Grandparent
Harding, Jim
Grandparents
The Reading Bug Jennings, Paul Reading
The Sleep Book Macdonald, K & Centre, L Sleeping
The Smart Parents Guide Briddock, Barbara Parenting
The Tenth Month Haslett, Lynne & Eder, Lyn Babies
The Trouble with Women Dobbie, Mary Parents Centre Origins
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding La Leche League International Breastfeeding
They Look So Lovely When They’re Asleep Levy, Diane Parenting
Toddler Taming Green, Christopher Toddlers
Treasures Baby Book (various) Magazine Babies
Understanding Your Baby Hayes, Eileen Babies
What To Eat When You're Expecting Eisenberg/Murkoff/Hathaway Diet
What To Expect The First Year Eisenberg/Murkoff/Hathaway Babies
When The Breast Fairy Comes Roberts, Stacey Girls in Adolescence
A Handbook for Happy Families Irvine, John Parenting
VIDEOS
Aiming for Natural Birth
Babycare
Baby Tired Signs
Begin with Love
Buckle Up Your Unborn Baby
Cord Bank (x2)
DVDs
Birth of Ava Lucia Cardno: C-section
Zero To Five
Helping New Zealand Families – through Parents Centre
It’s Time to Sleep (x2)
Keep Kids Safe in Cars – Plunket
La Leche League (x2)
9 Months at Large – Karicare (x2)
Sleep Time (Plunket) (x3)
TO BORROW BOOKS OR VIDEOS FROM OUR LIBRARY PLEASE CONTACT JANETTE
ON 349-3023
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SUPPORT NETWORK - Christchurch Area
BARNARDOS NEW ZEALAND
353 6440 (Regional Office)
Home based childcare at a reasonable cost.
Family support, parent education, social work
BEREAVED PARENTS
Lynn 329 9962 or Jan 981 4997
Bereaved parents offering mutual support.
Meets once monthly in the evening.
BREASTFEEDING CONNECTION
366 0856 or 027 471 3325
Lactation consultant service.
BUDGET ADVISORY SERVICE
366 8128
Salvation Army – advice and assistance with household
finance - clearing of debts.
CITIZENS ADVICE BUREAU
366 6490
Help and information related to services available in
Christchurch.
EARLY CHILDHOOD DEVELOPMENT UNIT
378 7300 (Ministry of Education)
Parenting information and support. Advice on finding ECDU
facilities in your area.
FATHER & CHILD TRUST
982 2440
Email: fatherandchild@paradise.net.nz
A group run by fathers for fathers to support and provide
information for fathers of all ages and situations, one-on-one
support, special programmes for PND in males and teenage
fathers, and Father & Child magazine.
GASTRIC REFLUX SUPPORT NETWORK NZ
0800 380 517 or Roz 347 8504
Provide support and information to parents/guardians of
infants and children with Gastric Reflux Disease throughout
New Zealand.
LA LECHE LEAGUE
338 8447 Answerphone
Breastfeeding support and information.
Monthly meetings in local areas.
MIDWIFERY RESOURCE CENTRE
365 2789
Information relating to midwives and childbirth services.
MULTIPLE BIRTH CLUB
348 6211
Monthly meetings, equipment hire, fortnightly coffee groups.
PARENT TO PARENT - CANTERBURY
338 0959 or 0508 727 228
Support for parents of children with special needs.
PARENTLINE
381 1040 (24 hrs 7 days a week)
Family and personal support for the troubled and anxious
parent.
PARENTS CENTRE - CHRISTCHURCH
385 4640
Support, information and advice. Courses available for all
parents.
PARENTS CENTRE – CHRISTCHURCH SOUTH
332 5651 - answerphone
Support, information and advice. Courses available for all
parents.
PLUNKET FAMILY CENTRE
348 9447
Provides practical assistance for parents with children from
0 - 5 years and will offer support and information on
parenting issues, including infant nutrition, child behaviour
and play in addition to those already listed. Daytime visits
to centre 9am to 4pm (appointments preferred).
POSTNATAL DEPRESSION
348 9447 or 365 1646
(Plunket Family Centre)
Support and counselling for postnatal depression –
Postnatal Adjustment Programme.
PREGNANCY HELP
366 3355
Crisis contact point for people distressed by pregnancy and
early motherhood. Information, home help, childcare,
transport, clothing and equipment. Arrange to have test
done for free.
RELATIONSHIP SERVICES
366 8804
Counselling for the impact of children on couple
relationships. Violence counselling.
SIDS CANTERBURY (Sudden Infant Death
Syndrome)
364 8747
24 hour telephone counselling and information for anyone
concerned or affected by a cot death.
STILLBIRTH & NEONATAL DEATH SUPPORT
GROUP (S.A.N.D.S)
021 103 4911
Email: sands.canterbury@xtra.co.nz
Counselling and support groups. Includes support for
anyone affected by a miscarriage.
TRAUMA & BIRTH STRESS
www.tabs.org.nz
Email: website-reference@tabs.org.nz
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) suffered as a result
of a traumatic birth experience.
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