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PCBC.ORG/CHRISTMAS<br />

2011<br />

<strong>DEVOTIONAL</strong> <strong>GUIDE</strong>


Sunday, November 27<br />

Merry Christmas!<br />

You hold in your hand a Christmas gift from our church staff<br />

to you. We thought it would be fun this year to offer to you<br />

and your family a gift that you could enjoy throughout the<br />

holiday season. Throughout the Advent season we’ll be looking<br />

at “A Christmas Masterpiece.” We’re taking an artful journey to<br />

the manger as we consider the coming of our Savior. You will<br />

enjoy stories told and lessons learned from members of our<br />

great staff. We also hope you’ll take time to meditate on the<br />

Scripture and answer the thought-provoking questions. This<br />

devotional guide serves as a wonderful way for families to join<br />

together as well – to read, to discuss, and pray together each<br />

day as we approach Christmas Day.<br />

On behalf of our entire church staff, let me say that it is our great<br />

joy to serve our Savior, Jesus, with you throughout the year.<br />

We wish you and yours a joy-filled, Christ-centered Christmas.<br />

As a child, one of the favorite things I<br />

remember about Christmas was a<br />

tradition carried on by my grandmother.<br />

Instead of labeling the presents with<br />

who they’re to and from, she would<br />

label them with numbers. She would<br />

assign each person several numbers,<br />

which only she knew, so even if you<br />

were able to figure out one gift, it<br />

didn’t give away all the rest. As kids,<br />

trying to find the list and guess who<br />

each gift belonged to before Christmas<br />

morning provided for countless hours<br />

of fun and guessing for my sister and me.<br />

Not having grown up in a family that<br />

followed Christ, Christmas’s were not<br />

about celebrating the birth of our<br />

Savior. However, having trusted<br />

Christ as an adult, it’s overwhelming<br />

at times what Christmas and the gift<br />

of grace means to me now. Today, one<br />

of my favorite Christmas songs, by the<br />

Christian band, Third Day, says,<br />

“Halleluiah, the King is here, given<br />

for all men. For today the Holy Son of<br />

God, is born in Bethlehem.”<br />

The ultimate gift is here and the gift<br />

is for everyone - no guessing involved.<br />

Halleluiah!<br />

Ann Roberts is the Assistant to Miller<br />

Cunningham. She and her husband,<br />

James, have two daughters, Caroline<br />

and Mary Margaret, and live in Dallas.<br />

Dr. Jeff Warren<br />

Senior Pastor


Monday, November 28<br />

Tuesday, November 29<br />

It was a year of burgeoning<br />

independence and adventure that<br />

called for the fastest transportation<br />

and my best friend and I knew we had<br />

only to ask. So we went straight to<br />

our fathers. We were well loved, so<br />

that would be no problem. The<br />

minute my father and I stepped<br />

through the doors of the shop to<br />

check out the possibilities, my heart<br />

locked in on the beauty of the design,<br />

but more so, on the enamel candied<br />

apple red of my entire life’s dream ~<br />

that 10-speed Schwinn was all I<br />

wanted for Christmas.<br />

I made several attempts to seal the<br />

deal, but my father fell silent. As our<br />

Advent calendar doors increasingly<br />

opened and the chocolates<br />

disappeared, I started to get a little<br />

nervous. There was no sign from my<br />

father. Then again there was always<br />

hope. After all, he was a good father.<br />

Christmas morning came and at the<br />

get go, my sister and I threw open the<br />

doors to see…no bike. My heart<br />

raced. Stockings, breakfast, and gift<br />

exchange came and went. Outwardly,<br />

I kept a stiff upper lip, but<br />

disappointment and doubt started<br />

tugging. As if he knew just what I<br />

was thinking, at just the right<br />

moment, my father tapped me on the<br />

shoulder and pointed me in the right<br />

direction, toward the living room.<br />

There, placed not as expected, was the<br />

sweetest gift I’d ever received….and<br />

my bicycle, too. The desires of my<br />

heart have changed over the years and<br />

the discipline of waiting, instilled in<br />

me by my earthly father, has become<br />

more anticipated as I counsel with my<br />

heavenly Father and see his glorious<br />

gifts revealed.<br />

“Since ancient times no one has heard,<br />

no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any<br />

God besides you, who acts on behalf of<br />

those who wait for him.” Isaiah 64:4<br />

“…but wait for the gift my father<br />

promised” Acts 1:4<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• Have you told God the desires<br />

of your heart, even the ones you<br />

think inconsequential?<br />

• Has God met these desires?<br />

If so, how, and were they as you<br />

had envisioned?<br />

• How do you wait on God?<br />

May your Christmas overflow with<br />

long awaited and unexpected joys!<br />

Stacey Rauscher is the Assistant<br />

to 20s/30s/40s, College & Prayer<br />

Ministry. She is the mother of Cole<br />

and KayAnne.<br />

I remember the first Christmas with<br />

my family after I had moved to Dallas.<br />

I grew up in Atlanta, and I have a<br />

very close relationship with my parents.<br />

My plane landed in Atlanta a few days<br />

before Christmas, my brother picked<br />

me up, and we drove to my parents’<br />

home. I can still remember walking<br />

into the place I used to call home.<br />

Nothing had changed, and everything<br />

had changed. My mother stood at the<br />

door with tears in her eyes. My dad<br />

stayed a few steps behind her, and he<br />

grinned like I hadn’t seen him grin<br />

before. He let my mother hug me for<br />

as long as she wanted, and then he<br />

stepped in and gave me a hug of his<br />

own, patting me on the back and<br />

saying: “How are ya, boy?” It felt like<br />

a hero’s welcome.<br />

Although the circumstances are<br />

different, I think that is what the<br />

Prodigal Son’s father looked like from<br />

Luke 15:11-32. There was great<br />

rejoicing. Wrongs and errors were<br />

forgiven, and I felt that same feeling<br />

when I walked through the door. Any<br />

difficulty and stress I had caused my<br />

family by packing up and moving to<br />

Dallas was washed away in the<br />

rejoicing of having their missing<br />

member back home to celebrate the<br />

birth of Christ with them.<br />

I have never had a better Christmas<br />

than that one. I don’t remember what<br />

gifts I received, or even what we did,<br />

but I can still picture the look of joy<br />

on my parents’ faces. I can’t help but<br />

think that is what our Father looks<br />

like when we return to Him. “It is<br />

appropriate to celebrate and be glad,<br />

for your brother was dead, and is<br />

alive; he was lost and is found” (Luke<br />

15:32). I hope that this Christmas<br />

year, you are mindful of your Father<br />

in Heaven, and your relationship with<br />

Him. Some of us may need to turn to<br />

Him for the first time, others may<br />

need to return after being a straying<br />

sheep. In either case, our Father<br />

rejoices, beams with excitement, and<br />

waits to embrace you.<br />

Travis Cook serves as the Interim<br />

Minister to the Bridge (Young Single<br />

Adults). Travis likes baseball, soccer,<br />

history, reading, and writing...and he<br />

lives in Dallas.


Wednesday, November 30<br />

Thursday, December 1<br />

As a young mom I kept a journal where<br />

I wrote about the concerns and the<br />

funnies experienced by the mother of<br />

two preschoolers. I can look back now<br />

(30 years later) and laugh about some of<br />

those fears as well as remember some of<br />

the comical happenings. The empty<br />

nest perspective is an interesting one.<br />

Those exhausting early days of sleep<br />

deprivation, the “taxi” years, even the<br />

turbulent teen years – they’re all hazy<br />

memories. Early in their twenties my<br />

children suddenly morphed into quite<br />

pleasant young adults. Ron and I have<br />

realized we’ve crossed the parenting<br />

“finish line” – at least the time intensive<br />

part – and now it’s time for the BEST<br />

part of all, grand-parenting!<br />

Our daughter and son-in-law will<br />

present us with our first grandchild in<br />

November – according to the doctors,<br />

a boy. Parents have tremendous dreams<br />

for their children. We did and we now<br />

see it with our own children. Even<br />

during those challenging moments<br />

you still love them unconditionally<br />

and see their great potential.<br />

Although Scripture doesn’t indicate<br />

any of Mary and Joseph’s specific<br />

parenting thoughts, I have the image<br />

of them gazing down in wonder at<br />

Baby Jesus and suspect they had the<br />

same thoughts about Him. Probably<br />

more so knowing He was the Son of<br />

God, the long awaited Messiah.<br />

I have come to the conclusion that<br />

God’s love for me must be the same.<br />

No matter how challenging I am to<br />

Him, still He offers me His grace and<br />

forgiveness and continues to pursue<br />

an intimate relationship with me. As<br />

a parent I have a glimpse of how<br />

much God loved Jesus, and yet, He<br />

still loved me enough to send His Son<br />

to the cross because of my sin.<br />

No matter what your stage of life,<br />

find a few minutes this Christmas to<br />

thank God for your family and praise<br />

Him that He loves us so<br />

unconditionally.<br />

Merry Christmas!<br />

“This is love: not that we loved God,<br />

but that He loved us and sent His Son<br />

as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”<br />

1 John 4:10<br />

Nora LaPrade serves as the Executive<br />

Assistant to Dr. Jeff Warren, the<br />

Senior Pastor. Nora and her husband,<br />

Ron, have two married children and<br />

their first grandchild due in November.<br />

My father-in-law suffers from<br />

Alzheimer’s disease and one of my<br />

favorite Christmas memories is from<br />

him recognizing my house last year at<br />

Christmas. I had driven to Marshall,<br />

Texas, to pick up he and my motherin-law<br />

to spend a few days in our home<br />

for Christmas. The whole trip from<br />

Marshall to Dallas he asked his usual<br />

questions over and over: Where are<br />

we going? Why are we going there?<br />

How long are we staying? How will<br />

we get home? After 2 ½ hours of<br />

answering his questions multiple<br />

times, we pulled into the alley-way<br />

next to my house. As soon as he saw<br />

the house, he said “I know the people<br />

who live here” and “I am so happy to<br />

be here”! His recognition of the house<br />

and family did not last long, but it<br />

was enough to give me a glimpse of<br />

God’s love for me and was the best<br />

gift I received.<br />

Psalm 139:1-3 says “You have<br />

searched me, LORD, and you know<br />

me. You know when I sit and when I<br />

rise; you perceive my thoughts from<br />

afar. You discern my going out and<br />

my lying down; you are familiar with<br />

all my ways.”<br />

We can take joy that God knows us,<br />

just as I received joy when my fatherin-law<br />

knew me and my home.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• What is the best non-material gift<br />

you have received for Christmas?<br />

• What made it special?<br />

• If Jesus drove by your house,<br />

would he know you?<br />

Brenda Palmer is the Childhood<br />

Ministry Assistant. She and her<br />

husband, Joel, have three children,<br />

David, Jonathan and Katherine.


FRIDAY, DECEMBER 2<br />

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 3<br />

“Now faith is being sure of what we<br />

hope for and certain of what we do<br />

not see.” – Hebrews 11:1<br />

Christmas – just the word brings floods<br />

of memories – some good, some sad,<br />

some funny, some magical. I know we<br />

all feel that way. From my first memory<br />

of sitting in my great-grandfather’s<br />

lap on Christmas Eve to the pain of<br />

my first Christmas without someone I<br />

dearly love, I thought it would be a<br />

hard task to pick just one memory,<br />

but I was wrong.<br />

As I reflected on years past, one<br />

poignant moment stood out to me.<br />

That moment is as clear today as<br />

when it occurred 14 years ago. It was<br />

my daughter’s first Christmas Eve.<br />

We spent the evening, as I had for<br />

many years, with our dear friend Jane.<br />

Jane had been blind since her early<br />

twenties, but in all the many times I<br />

spent with her I never once heard her<br />

complain. She “saw” by feeling. As we<br />

entered her home that evening, she<br />

was sitting in her living room<br />

surrounded by friends and family.<br />

When she heard my voice she asked<br />

me to bring the baby over to sit in her<br />

lap. I immediately complied. The<br />

baby was wearing a soft, green velvet<br />

dress with a lace collar and lace trim.<br />

Jane felt her little cheeks and her soft<br />

dress and proclaimed, “Oh, she is<br />

beautiful!” And then, very softly she<br />

said just to me, “I wish I could see<br />

her.” In all my life, that is the only<br />

time I heard her say that.<br />

Many times since that evening I have<br />

thought of that moment and Hebrews<br />

11:1. Just as Jane was certain my<br />

daughter was beautiful (and she is!), I<br />

am certain in the love Christ has for<br />

us. I can’t see it, but I can feel it every<br />

moment of every day. That night was<br />

my most tangible example of faith.<br />

FOR DISCUSSION:<br />

Christ’s love this week.<br />

• In what ways can you be an<br />

example of faith for someone today?<br />

Kathie Smith is the Assistant to<br />

Rodney Schell, Executive Pastor.<br />

Kathie, her husband, Larry, and<br />

daughter, Alyssa, enjoy their life on<br />

the farm south of Dallas.<br />

One of my favorite Christmas<br />

memories came when I was in high<br />

school. As a family, my parents, three<br />

sisters and one brother-in-law, we<br />

went on a ski trip to Utah. We flew<br />

out early Christmas morning, and I<br />

can still remember us all getting up<br />

early and heading to the airport<br />

together. We spent a week on that<br />

trip, and I remember it as a great<br />

time of being together. Of course<br />

Christmas has always been one of my<br />

favorite times of the year, but my<br />

favorite thing about Christmas is<br />

being together--together with family.<br />

When you get right down to it,<br />

togetherness is what Christmas has<br />

always been about. God loved me so<br />

much that He sent his Son to earth to<br />

live a perfect life and die in my place<br />

so that He and I could be together.<br />

This Christmas season, as we no<br />

doubt, will all be together, let’s not<br />

forget the One who gave so much to<br />

be together with us.<br />

“For God so loved the world, that he<br />

gave his only Son, that whoever<br />

believes in him should not perish but<br />

have eternal life.” John 3:16 ESV<br />

FOR DISCUSSION:<br />

• What are some of your favorite<br />

ways your family celebrates and<br />

experiences togetherness during the<br />

Christmas season?<br />

• How can you celebrate and<br />

experience togetherness with God<br />

in a new and special way this year<br />

at Christmas?<br />

Damon Berry, Minister of Sports<br />

Outreach, and his wife, Anna, have<br />

two daughters, Brailyn and Camdyn.


Sunday, December 4<br />

Monday, December 5<br />

Each December the snow-capped hills<br />

of the dense Maine forest would<br />

beckon us as we prepared to embark<br />

on our annual family journey to find<br />

that picturesque Christmas tree. As a<br />

young boy the days of November<br />

seemed to pass by with the swiftness<br />

of a snail as we waited with intense<br />

anticipation for that beloved day in<br />

early December.<br />

Awakening with the sun, my brother<br />

Patrick and I would inhale a bit of<br />

breakfast and then knock on our<br />

parents’ door to boldly announce with<br />

joy that the awaited day was upon us.<br />

My mother would then layer us in<br />

wool and Gore-Tex until waves of<br />

heat were wafting from our bodies<br />

like wood stoves.<br />

With overwhelming layers to protect<br />

us from the frigid New England air,<br />

we would waddle through the sunglistened<br />

snow with the mobility of<br />

toy soldiers until we found the prized<br />

ornament of the year. My dad, amidst<br />

sips from a thermos of hot chocolate,<br />

would proclaim with glee, “This is<br />

the one!” We would scurry over to<br />

watch him prepare the tree. Soon the<br />

sweet aroma of dad’s hot chocolate<br />

mixing with the fresh cut tree was<br />

flooding the air.<br />

Today, I reflect on these Christmas<br />

memories with fondness. I can<br />

remember with great detail each tree<br />

and each story created, like the time I<br />

forgot to put on socks and snow<br />

began to fill my boots (not so smart).<br />

But what has profoundly impacted<br />

me and my family is the love, joy and<br />

unity that has stemmed from these<br />

incredible family interactions. There<br />

is something about those moments<br />

together as a family that brings<br />

unification.<br />

In Philippians 2:1-2, the Apostle Paul<br />

writes of a unity that only comes<br />

through Christ. Paul implores the<br />

believers of Philippi to bring him joy<br />

by being of the same mind and<br />

having the same love. May we pursue<br />

unity in our families not just for this<br />

season, but also for the days and years<br />

ahead. The sustainability of a unified<br />

family rests in the person of Jesus<br />

Christ alone. So may we fix our gaze<br />

upon Him.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• How does Jesus bring unity?<br />

• What is your favorite Christmas<br />

tree adventure?<br />

Tim Bresnahan is a minister to the<br />

Young Married department. Tim and<br />

his wife Christen have been married<br />

for four years.<br />

“Now there were in the same country<br />

shepherds living out in the fields,<br />

keeping watch over their flock by<br />

night. And behold, an angel of the<br />

Lord stood before them, and the glory<br />

of the Lord shone around them, and<br />

they were greatly afraid. Then the<br />

angel said to them, “Do not be afraid,<br />

for behold, I bring you good tidings<br />

of great joy which will be to all<br />

people. For there is born to you this<br />

day in the city of David a Savior, who<br />

is Christ the Lord. And this will be<br />

the sign to you: You will find a Babe<br />

wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in<br />

a manger.” Luke 2:8-12<br />

One of my most vivid memories of a<br />

trip to Israel many years ago was<br />

standing on the hills where it was<br />

thought the shepherds heard the<br />

angels announce the birth of the<br />

Savior. I could just imagine the<br />

shepherds quietly watching as their<br />

sheep grazed.<br />

Then all of a sudden, an angel stood<br />

before them announcing the birth of<br />

the Savior and was joined by a<br />

“multitude of the heavenly host”<br />

gloriously praising God together!<br />

As I was growing up, we always read<br />

the story from Luke 2 every Christmas<br />

morning. Then years later, actually<br />

being able to stand on the hills where<br />

the shepherds were was a very moving<br />

experience for me.<br />

I love all the sights and sounds of<br />

Christmas! But one of my favorite<br />

times is late on Christmas Eve. As I<br />

drive home from a Christmas Eve<br />

service, there are very few cars on the<br />

road, and there’s just a quiet<br />

peacefulness in the air. I am reminded<br />

of that night on a quiet hillside where<br />

an angel announced the birth of our<br />

Savior and was joined by a choir of<br />

angels singing, “GLORY TO GOD<br />

IN THE HIGHEST, AND ON<br />

EARTH PEACE, GOODWILL<br />

TOWARD MEN!”<br />

This year, may we all take time for a<br />

quiet, peaceful moment to reflect on<br />

the singing of the angels as we celebrate<br />

the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ.<br />

Judy Johnston serves as Administrative<br />

Assistant for Properties & Services and<br />

Special Events. Judy lives in Dallas and<br />

in her spare time likes stitchery,<br />

reading and working in her yard.


Tuesday, December 6<br />

Wednesday, December 7<br />

Nothing compares to a white Christmas<br />

in West Texas. Years ago, when our<br />

boys were quite young, we woke up<br />

one wonderful Christmas morning to<br />

find 17 inches of snow!! Across the<br />

street from our house was a wide open<br />

field. The glistening snow was almost<br />

blinding. We bundled up our oldest<br />

son, Jonathan, and we ran out to play<br />

in the snow. It was glorious and<br />

wonderful. We scooped up the soft<br />

snow with our hands, but at 17 inches<br />

deep, it was as though we could not<br />

find the ground beneath. I will never<br />

forget that day. All I could say was,<br />

“Awesome!”<br />

I always think of the words of Isaiah<br />

1:18: “Come now, let us settle the<br />

matter,” says the Lord. “Though your<br />

sins are like scarlet, they shall be as<br />

white as snow; though they are red as<br />

crimson, they shall be like wool.”<br />

Coming to Christ in humble<br />

repentance brings the joy of coming<br />

out into a wide open space where<br />

there is only the pure white loveliness<br />

of forgiveness. Christ forgives sin.<br />

Awesome!<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• The Lord invites us to “settle the<br />

matter” of our sins. Have you done<br />

that today?<br />

• Once you have confessed your sin to<br />

God, and you believe you are<br />

forgiven, do you experience freedom<br />

from guilt and shame?<br />

Take time to thank God for his mercy<br />

and love in making you “white as snow.”<br />

Sam Silva is the Minister to Amigos<br />

de Dios at PCBC. He and his wife,<br />

Dee, have two sons, Jordan and<br />

Jonathan.<br />

I have always liked manger scenes. I<br />

have a number of them, from the<br />

little plastic Christmas ornament my<br />

3rd grader teacher gave to me to the<br />

carved olive wood set from<br />

Bethlehem. My favorite, however, is<br />

the one my mother purchased when I<br />

was a child. It was not very expensive,<br />

nor impressive compared to most<br />

nativity scenes. It is a simple replica<br />

of a stable made out of cardboard,<br />

with finely shredded paper glued to<br />

the top (implying a thatched roof).<br />

Attached to its base are the brightly<br />

colored plastic characters of the birth.<br />

On the roof is a glitter-covered<br />

cardboard star. An orange bulb in the<br />

back gives the whole scene an evening<br />

glow. It was placed under the<br />

Christmas tree as a reminder of our<br />

greatest gift. I remember lying in<br />

front of that manger scene, wondering<br />

about that first Christmas.<br />

Every Christmas after that, the<br />

manger scene was set in place. It was<br />

just part of the decorations. A<br />

tradition. But it was more than that.<br />

That cardboard stable always took me<br />

back to Bethlehem. And as I grew up,<br />

I would lie in front of it every year<br />

and be reminded of that wonderful<br />

night all over again. Now, over 50<br />

years later, the tattered cardboard is<br />

taped together and there’s less “grass”<br />

on the roof. The star has to be secured<br />

when it is displayed. But I still<br />

treasure it. And its images are fixed in<br />

my heart.<br />

How like Jesus, this manger scene,<br />

not flashy or expensive, limited to the<br />

sophisticated or rich, but simple and<br />

common, speaking to the simple. Not<br />

elevated for only a few to see, but<br />

placed where all could see, even a<br />

little boy lying on the floor.<br />

I think that this is what Christmas is<br />

all about: God wanting to make<br />

himself known to all, even to the least<br />

of these. Thank you, God, for making<br />

your love simple and putting it where<br />

I could see it. And, Mother, thank<br />

you for that manger scene. It has<br />

meant a lot to me.<br />

Jack Martin is Minister of Pastoral<br />

Care and is married to Melody. They<br />

live in Dallas.


Thursday, December 8<br />

Friday, December 9<br />

I always desire to have the latest<br />

technology for that “cool factor” to<br />

gain more credibility with students in<br />

hopes of making disciples for Christ.<br />

During the Christmas of 2005 trying<br />

to get an XBOX 360 was next to<br />

impossible. Raven (my wife) kept<br />

asking me what I wanted for Christmas.<br />

I told her “Don’t get me anything for<br />

Christmas, get me an XBOX 360!”<br />

When Christmas arrived, I woke up<br />

that morning excited, believing the<br />

Lord had done the impossible! Raven<br />

told me that she loved me, but she<br />

couldn’t find the XBOX 360 between<br />

Dallas to Oklahoma. I jumped in my<br />

truck and started praying for Jesus to<br />

guide me. I pulled into a Best Buy<br />

with an empty parking lot, got out of<br />

my car, and stood in a small line<br />

forming outside of the store.<br />

A Best Buy manager told the crowd,<br />

“We have a limited supply of XBOX<br />

360s. One per costumer only. Thank<br />

you.” I learned the store normally carried<br />

less than 30. I was handed number<br />

17 and I proceeded to the checkout.<br />

Sharing a bit of my story with the<br />

cashier, she responded, “This is a<br />

really cool idea, I am going to talk to<br />

my manager and see if he will allow<br />

you to purchase a second one for<br />

yourself.” I came home an hour later<br />

and told my wife. “Honey, you are not<br />

going to believe this.” She said, “You<br />

got an XBOX 360, didn’t you?” I<br />

responded, “No, honey… I got 2!”<br />

That Christmas a student had openheart<br />

surgery. During the time of<br />

crisis and recovery, the Lord used the<br />

XBOX 360 online gaming capability<br />

to share Christ with this student and<br />

his family. It was then I realized why<br />

the Lord had me seek, knock and<br />

receive what I asked for and opened<br />

the door to an XBOX 360.<br />

“And so I (Jesus) tell you, keep on<br />

asking, and you will receive what you<br />

ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will<br />

find. Keep on knocking, and the door<br />

will be opened to you. For everyone<br />

who asks, receives. Everyone who<br />

seeks, finds. And to everyone who<br />

knocks, the door will be opened.”<br />

Luke 11:9-10<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• How should we seek? Why?<br />

• Who should we ask? Why?<br />

• Is it worth knocking until our<br />

knuckles hurt?<br />

• What’s your next move, if the Lord<br />

door opens the door?<br />

Dr. Roddy Willis is Associate Minister<br />

of Sports Outreach & Associate<br />

Minister of Preteens. He is married<br />

to Raven Willis and they have one son<br />

Roderick C. Willis III who is three.<br />

For me Christmas is filled with images<br />

of being reared in North Carolina.<br />

Almost 30 years has passed since this<br />

particular image was etched so vividly<br />

in my mind. As a fifteen year old<br />

sophomore in high school, I was loving<br />

life and enjoying my teen years, but<br />

my grandmother—Granny was<br />

battling cancer. She was a warrior who<br />

fought this terrible, ravishing disease<br />

with every fiber of her being.<br />

My earliest images of church are<br />

sitting beside her and my mom. She<br />

loved Christ and her family. Even<br />

when she was sick from the chemo<br />

and radiation treatments, she was up<br />

entertaining and preparing meals for<br />

her family. She was always serving and<br />

loving on her family as she hosted<br />

gatherings throughout the year.<br />

Granny’s faith was the most important<br />

thing she possessed. Her faith sustained<br />

her throughout the battle with cancer.<br />

Her desire to pass her faith to the<br />

family was evident in all she did. She<br />

even planned graduation gifts and<br />

wedding gifts for me and my siblings<br />

because she knew that she would not<br />

be there on those special days. She<br />

was an amazing woman who lived life<br />

to the fullest.<br />

The image that is etched in my mind<br />

is the last Christmas. The entire<br />

family had gathered. No one knew<br />

the surprise that she had for us. The<br />

cancer treatments had taken her<br />

beautiful hair. In 1981, on Christmas<br />

day, Granny revealed to the family a<br />

small gift that had been given back to<br />

her. Her hair had grown back. Her<br />

hair was more beautiful than before<br />

– it was an indescribable gift.<br />

The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians<br />

9:15 “Thanks be to God for his<br />

indescribable gift!” As we celebrate<br />

the birth of the indescribable gift,<br />

Jesus Christ, take the time to share<br />

with those close to you images of<br />

indescribable gifts. Share with those<br />

close to you what it means to know<br />

the indescribable gift of Jesus, to<br />

grow to understand the indescribable<br />

gift and to show others the<br />

indescribable gift of Jesus Christ.<br />

Kelly Hamilton is the Minister to<br />

30’s and 40’s. Kelly and his wife,<br />

Candace, have two children, Ann<br />

and Alex.


Saturday, December 10<br />

Sunday, December 11<br />

When I was five years old, I asked<br />

Santa Claus for a baby sister. I got my<br />

wish five months later when Leslie was<br />

born. Santa Clause was my Dad’s boss<br />

and he knew my mother was pregnant<br />

so he said, “Oh, that’s a great wish,<br />

I’ll work on that.” Of course, he went<br />

and told my parents. From the moment<br />

I was told about my present I knew I<br />

would love her no matter what happens.<br />

She was supposed to be born on my<br />

6th birthday, but my mother got very<br />

ill and my sister was born two days<br />

early. I got to name her, and I chose<br />

the name Leslie after a friend from my<br />

first grade class. I just liked the name.<br />

I’ve always viewed her as this gift, this<br />

present, and I’ve always treated her like<br />

she’s super special. It’s through the gift<br />

of a sister that I asked for that I’m really<br />

able to see God’s love - for me and my<br />

mistakes and compassion for Leslie<br />

and her shortcomings and successes.<br />

My love and protection of my sister<br />

could be compared to God’s love and<br />

protection for humanity. And that’s<br />

why he gave us the greatest gift at<br />

Christmas – Jesus!<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• Think of the gifts and presents in<br />

our lives and the love with which<br />

they are given.<br />

• As a family, list some of your<br />

favorite gifts you have received and<br />

thank God for the people who gave<br />

them to you.<br />

“Dear friends, let us love one another,<br />

for love comes from God. Everyone<br />

who loves has been born of God and<br />

knows God.” 1 John 4:6-8<br />

Robbie McCormac is the Production<br />

Director at PCBC and lives in Dallas.<br />

His hobbies include listening and<br />

creating music, reading and enjoying<br />

time with friends and family.<br />

I stepped outside. It was still there.<br />

Did I awake in New England? No, in<br />

Dallas, Texas, with snow was covering<br />

the ground in 2009. My family had<br />

been here for one year. Even in North<br />

Carolina we had not seen a white<br />

Christmas. I suppose a White Christmas<br />

was due after 51 years of living! My<br />

family played and enjoyed the beauty<br />

of Christmas. In other areas of the<br />

country, this may be nothing new at<br />

Christmas. We welcomed Christmas<br />

in that year as a memory we will<br />

never take for granted.<br />

It is amazing that snow can cover dirt,<br />

rocks, trash, leaves and everything<br />

around leaving them all white. I was<br />

reminded of Isaiah 1:18: “Come now,<br />

let’s settle this,” says the Lord. “Though<br />

your sins are like scarlet, I will make<br />

them as white as snow. Though they<br />

are red like crimson, I will make them<br />

as white as wool.” No matter what<br />

lurks in our hearts or minds, the love<br />

of Christ can cover it and make it<br />

white. Snowfall gives me a sense of<br />

peace and contentment. The joy of<br />

Jesus gives me the same peace and<br />

contentment.<br />

fulfillment of a Savior cover our paths.<br />

Walk boldly knowing that God knows<br />

each step you take — at Christmas<br />

and for all time.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• Sing one verse together of “Silent<br />

Night, Holy Night.”<br />

• Ask each family member to picture<br />

images from the song.<br />

• Ask children to draw a picture of<br />

one image from the song.<br />

• Parents, share a special time you<br />

might have sung the song when you<br />

were younger.<br />

Read Isaiah 9:6-7.<br />

• Ask family members to name one<br />

quality they can remember from<br />

this prophecy about Jesus (for<br />

instance, “Prince of Peace”).<br />

• Ask family members to remember a<br />

time in the life of Jesus when this<br />

quality was demonstrated. Share<br />

these thoughts together.<br />

As we all celebrate the birth of Jesus<br />

take time to remember the snows of<br />

2009. The snow was nice but we do<br />

not need snow for joy and contentment.<br />

Let the promise, deliverance and<br />

Marty Lewis is the Minister to<br />

Childhood Education. He and his<br />

wife, Nanette, have two children,<br />

Ethan and Hannah.


Monday, December 12<br />

Tuesday, December 13<br />

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday<br />

and today and forever.” Hebrews 13:8<br />

My eyes are closed, my head is bowed<br />

and I feel the family gathered around<br />

the table. I hear the sound of my<br />

father-in-law’s voice offering a prayer<br />

of thanksgiving for another year of<br />

trials and blessings we received as a<br />

family. For 27 years, this consistent<br />

scene every Christmas has been a<br />

comfort to us especially as we are so<br />

far away from our families every day.<br />

But even this consistent scene is not<br />

without changes.<br />

The only thing that remains the same<br />

on this earth is change. So while the<br />

feeling this yearly gathering invokes<br />

is the same, many things around that<br />

table have changed - notably, my own<br />

children. The tiny hands of my girls I<br />

once held have grown into the hands<br />

of capable young women on their<br />

own. The same is true for several<br />

around the table – young boys I once<br />

tossed a ball with are now tossing the<br />

ball to their own children. The faces<br />

around the table have changed, some<br />

have gone from this life and others<br />

were only with us for a season. A<br />

strong legacy of faithfulness and<br />

service is passed through generations<br />

of our family each year, but even that<br />

has changed over the years as we all<br />

minister in a different way from the<br />

generation before us.<br />

In the midst of change and diversity<br />

one thing remains the same, even more<br />

constant than family – our Savior. He<br />

is the unchanging One - the same<br />

yesterday, today and tomorrow. He is<br />

always on His throne and always by<br />

our side.<br />

Rodney Schell is the Executive Pastor.<br />

He and wife, Maria, have two<br />

daughters, Emma and Molly.<br />

The Christmas I remember best was<br />

covered in snow when I was eight<br />

years old. I remember playing with<br />

my cousins in the front yard of my<br />

grandparents’ house. I was dodging<br />

snowballs when I looked up and saw<br />

my grandfather through the living<br />

room window.<br />

My grandfather was one of my best<br />

friends when I was little. I went to<br />

stay with him every summer and we<br />

would play every sport that existed<br />

and some that didn’t exist until I<br />

made them up. I remember drinking<br />

diet Dr. Pepper with him as we watched<br />

the “Price Is Right” together. I loved<br />

him as much as any grandson could!<br />

That Christmas Eve, I saw him<br />

through the window on an oxygen<br />

tank and started to cry. He was sick<br />

and he couldn’t play with me<br />

anymore. I missed him so much and I<br />

didn’t know what to do about it. My<br />

mom called us in and told us that we<br />

were going to go look at Christmas<br />

lights. I didn’t want to go, but I got<br />

in the car and went. We drove to the<br />

nicest neighborhoods in Amarillo and<br />

I was stunned by the display of lights.<br />

When I think back on that Christmas,<br />

I think about lights. I remember all<br />

the beautiful lights decorating the<br />

houses and the greatest light that<br />

shined in my grandparents’ house.<br />

The most wonderful light I remember<br />

about that Christmas is the light my<br />

Papa showed me. It was my last<br />

Christmas with Papa, but what shines<br />

in my mind the most is the way he<br />

loved me!<br />

Jesus said it best in John 13:35, “By<br />

this everyone will know that you are<br />

my disciples, if you love one another.”<br />

I think that is what Christmas is<br />

about, letting the light of our love<br />

shine in the lives of those around us!<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• Why do you think Andrew’s<br />

favorite Christmas memory was his<br />

last Christmas with his Papa?<br />

• How do you think we can love each<br />

other best in our family?<br />

• Who do you think we can love in a<br />

special way this Christmas outside<br />

our family?<br />

Andrew Heard is the Minister to<br />

High School Students. Andrew and<br />

his wife, Bailey, have one beautiful<br />

daughter, Ellie.


Wednesday, December 14<br />

Thursday, December 15<br />

One of my favorite Christmas events<br />

was when the Orchestra played for the<br />

sick children and their families at<br />

Children’s Medical Center of Dallas.<br />

We played symphonic arrangements<br />

of traditional Christmas carols in the<br />

beautiful Butterfly Atrium. I wish<br />

you could have seen the radiant faces<br />

of the children as we played. It was<br />

such a privilege to bring a bright spot<br />

to their lives during a difficult<br />

Christmas season.<br />

At the end of the concert, we chose a<br />

child from the audience to conduct<br />

the orchestra on “Sleigh Ride.” He<br />

was terrified to stand in front of the<br />

massive ensemble, but he finally gave<br />

in to the encouraging cheers from the<br />

crowd and orchestra and clenched the<br />

baton. I helped him start the piece<br />

and told him to keep moving his arm<br />

until the music stopped. I slowly<br />

backed away as he gained confidence.<br />

He had no idea what he was doing,<br />

but the orchestra was competent<br />

enough to carry him through the<br />

piece. It was such a meaningful<br />

experience for the little boy that he<br />

was talking about it days later.<br />

The child’s helplessness in leading the<br />

orchestra reminded me of our<br />

helplessness before God, “like sheep<br />

without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36).<br />

We are completely dependent upon<br />

Christ to bear our sin and shame,<br />

clothe us in His righteousness and<br />

carry us through the Christian life.<br />

“His grace is sufficient for us, and His<br />

power is made perfect in weakness.”<br />

(2 Corinthians 12:9).<br />

Christ said, “I have come into the<br />

world as a light, so that no one who<br />

believes in me should stay in darkness”<br />

(John 12:46). As Christians, we are<br />

called to reflect the light of Christ.<br />

How can you be a light for Christ in<br />

our dark world this Christmas season<br />

and throughout the year?<br />

Johnny Fuller serves as the Associate<br />

Minister of Music. He and his wife,<br />

Heather, have three children, Hannah,<br />

Isaac and Andrew, and live in Allen.<br />

“<br />

Dear friends, let us love one another,<br />

for love comes from God. Everyone<br />

who loves has been born of God and<br />

knows God. Whoever does not love<br />

does not know God, because God is<br />

love. This is how God showed his love<br />

among us: He sent his one and only<br />

Son into the world that we might live<br />

through him.” 1 John 4:7-9<br />

It was a few days before Christmas and<br />

my newly-turned one year-old daughter<br />

was crying at the top of her lungs. No<br />

reason: just…wailing. I offered to take<br />

my daughter into her room and spent<br />

the next hour pulling out every trick<br />

in the book to try to make her happy.<br />

Nothing worked.<br />

Finally, I acted oblivious to the fact<br />

she was crying, rocked her, held her<br />

close, and sang. “Away in a Manger”<br />

and got to the line in one version I’d<br />

heard before:<br />

“Raise, raise, your song on high, the<br />

virgin sings a lullaby.<br />

Joy, joy, for Love’s been born.<br />

The babe.<br />

The son of Mary.”<br />

All of a sudden, the beauty of the<br />

reminder that Love had come on<br />

Christmas far outweighed the upset child<br />

I was rocking in my arms. The crying<br />

didn’t change, but my perspective did.<br />

I was reminded in those brief moments,<br />

that if I keep love as prominent – first<br />

and foremost – I will not be far off<br />

from the life that God desires for me.<br />

Holding a child brought me back to<br />

something simple in my life and<br />

simple in my faith: That we are<br />

ultimately about loving God and<br />

others. Jesus was the epitome of love.<br />

I suddenly became keenly aware that<br />

the room was quiet, except for my<br />

rather off-key singing.<br />

My baby was asleep, and I was<br />

exhausted, but uplifted, reminded of<br />

the love of the Savior.<br />

I put her down and kissed her little<br />

head. And I knew, deep down, that I<br />

had just learned a profound truth and<br />

had a Christmas memory that I would<br />

never forget.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• Love is the dominant trait in the life<br />

of Christ – is it in yours?<br />

• What would those outside of the<br />

church walls think of us if we grasped<br />

the concept that Christ is love? If<br />

we made that ultimate in our lives?<br />

• How can you (and your family)<br />

become someone with love as<br />

central in their lives?<br />

Jim Gribnitz is the Junior High Minister<br />

and he and his wife, Nikki, have three<br />

children, Hannah, Seth and Abigail.


Friday, December 16 Saturday, December 17<br />

It’s the most wonderful time of the year!<br />

Christmas! I have such fond memories<br />

of Christmas from my youth. Preparing<br />

for the holidays meant decorating the<br />

house inside and out, baking homemade<br />

cookies, shopping for and wrapping<br />

gifts, enjoying the church events and<br />

more. It also meant that my father<br />

would be on the hunt for the “perfect”<br />

Christmas tree. Every season, we would<br />

pile in the car and that’s where the<br />

adventure began. Dad had an image<br />

in his mind of what the perfect tree<br />

looked like and he didn’t stop until<br />

we found it.<br />

My cousins and our family would<br />

gather to celebrate Christmas at my<br />

grandparents’ home. I still can smell<br />

the aroma of the turkey, hear the<br />

crackling of the fire in the fireplace<br />

and remember the joyful voices of the<br />

family members throughout the house.<br />

When it was time for Christmas<br />

dinner we sat at the proverbial “adult<br />

table” and a “cousin’s table” which<br />

just happened to be right by the<br />

Christmas tree. Throughout dinner<br />

the kids would gaze at the glittering<br />

Christmas tree and discuss with great<br />

anticipation what might be inside of<br />

the beautifully wrapped presents.<br />

These are all wonderful memories<br />

from my childhood which I keep in<br />

my heart.<br />

As I grew older, married and had<br />

children of my own, our family has<br />

developed our own traditions.<br />

Hopefully, my children will look back<br />

on their lives with fond memories<br />

and, when they are grown, continue<br />

to make their own traditions. As a<br />

parent you try to foster the best in<br />

your children’s lives. It’s similar to<br />

what Christ tries to do for us. He’s<br />

there for us when we stumble and fall,<br />

through our joys and sadness. He’s a<br />

God of grace and forgiveness. “So<br />

that, having been justified by his<br />

grace, we might become heirs having<br />

the hope of eternal life.” Titus 3:6-8<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• Start a family tradition of your<br />

own! Gather the family and discuss<br />

what you would like your tradition<br />

to be.<br />

• Do something for someone else this<br />

season – rake your neighbors’ leaves<br />

or volunteer at a shelter. You will<br />

be blessed!<br />

Julie Punjak is the Director of<br />

Communications. She and her<br />

husband, Marc, have two children,<br />

Hunter and Maribeth, and live<br />

in Dallas.<br />

The early ‘90s were full of great<br />

things; from Michael Jordan’s Bulls,<br />

fanny packs, to the Macarena. But for<br />

me, as a young boy, it was about two<br />

great brothers, The Super Mario<br />

Brothers! The second edition of this<br />

game was released when I was about<br />

12 years old, and the craze was high,<br />

especially since Christmas was just<br />

around the corner. I knew it wasn’t<br />

worth even asking for; it was an<br />

impossibility, pigs would fly and the<br />

Saints would win the Super Bowl<br />

before a poor kid like me would get<br />

the prized possession.<br />

So there I was, Christmas Eve night,<br />

digging into all of the presents: socks,<br />

a truck, and even flannel pajamas.<br />

Little did I know my mom* had<br />

saved the best for last. She handed<br />

me one last gift to open, and as I did,<br />

my eyes lit up as I tore the paper.<br />

Much to my surprise, I held in my<br />

hands the greatest game ever made;<br />

“Super Mario Bro 2.” I can still<br />

remember the great joy and smile on<br />

my mom’s face as she watched me<br />

celebrate my new treasure.<br />

Our heavenly Father is like this. He<br />

gets great pleasure in giving us what<br />

we need. He gives us Himself. The<br />

image that comes to mind during<br />

Christmas for me is the heavenly<br />

babe, born in the lowliest of places.<br />

He was born to be a gift for you and<br />

me. Can’t you just see the Father’s<br />

face with pure joy and happiness<br />

when we accept the greatest<br />

Christmas gift ever given?<br />

Ephesians 4:7-8 states, But grace was<br />

given to each one of us according to<br />

the measure of Christ’s gift.<br />

Therefore it says, “When he ascended<br />

on high he led a host of captives, and<br />

he gave gifts to men.”<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• When a good gift is given, who<br />

tends to receive more joy, the gift<br />

giver or the recipient? Why?<br />

• What are some of the greatest gifts<br />

God has given you?<br />

• What can you do this holiday<br />

season to show God’s love to others?<br />

David Huey is the Minister to<br />

Students, he is married to Amy and<br />

they have one son, Eli<br />

*written in memory of my mom who<br />

passed away in 1996.


Sunday, December 18<br />

Monday, December 19<br />

When I think of the images of<br />

Christmas, I recall the night Christ was<br />

born in a stable in Bethlehem, a mere<br />

moment when history was forever<br />

changed. I wonder what was going on<br />

in Joseph’s mind hours before Christ<br />

was born.<br />

One of my favorite memories of<br />

Christmas occurred when I was a little<br />

kid. I was chosen to play Joseph in<br />

the Christmas Pageant at Little Folks<br />

Day School. I remember my best<br />

friend playing the donkey and a girl I<br />

was friends with played Mary. Other<br />

members of our class played angels<br />

and shepherds, and a plastic baby doll<br />

played Jesus.<br />

Reflecting back on my role as Joseph<br />

today, I see a different perspective of<br />

Joseph’s thoughts. My mind wonders<br />

what Joseph was thinking when all<br />

the events were taking place before<br />

him. Did he question over and over<br />

again if he could be used by God?<br />

Did he ask why me? Regardless of the<br />

questions Joseph had, he opened<br />

himself up to be used by the Lord for<br />

His glory.<br />

The lesson of Joseph making himself<br />

available to be used by God is a lesson<br />

I believe is relevant to many today.<br />

The Lord has deployed us across many<br />

spectrums of business, school and life.<br />

All we need to do is follow the actions<br />

of Joseph in that moment of<br />

uncertainty and be available for the<br />

Lord to use us. Unsure of what the<br />

cost would be, or the circumstances in<br />

life, Joseph, said “Here I am Lord, use<br />

me.” The words of Isaiah 6:8 prompt<br />

us to say: send me Lord.<br />

Verse: Then I heard the voice of the<br />

Lord saying, “Whom shall I send?<br />

And who will go for us?” And I said,<br />

“Here am I. Send me!” Isaiah 6:8<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• What areas in your life have you<br />

made unavailable to God for his use<br />

for his glory?<br />

• Do you have a limit to where God<br />

can “send you”?<br />

• How can you become more available<br />

to the use of God?<br />

Brandon Boyd is Associate Minister of<br />

Missions. Brandon and his wife,<br />

Kelsey, live in Dallas.<br />

My favorite Christmas memory is a<br />

family tradition. Every Christmas Eve<br />

my brothers and I would gather around<br />

the living room with our parents to<br />

read Luke 2. After reading the account<br />

of Jesus’ birth we would head upstairs<br />

to go to bed. Our tradition was to sleep<br />

in the same room; this was something<br />

that I took for granted until I moved<br />

away to college.<br />

Looking back, my favorite memories<br />

came from that room. We would sing<br />

Christmas songs along with the radio,<br />

wrestle, and, of course, never sleep.<br />

Now that I’m the old married brother,<br />

I miss these nights. I remember most<br />

clearly the anticipation of Christmas<br />

morning. This anticipation changed<br />

as we grew up. As kids we were<br />

anticipating gifts and presents. When<br />

we were older we anticipated the<br />

magnitude of the incarnation. Jesus,<br />

the Son of God, came for us…that is<br />

something worthy of anticipation.<br />

I am reminded of Zechariah’s<br />

prophecy in Luke 1:76-79, and the<br />

ultimate anticipation. As John would<br />

“go before the Lord to prepare his ways,<br />

to give knowledge of salvation to his<br />

people in the forgiveness of their<br />

sins.” I can’t imagine the anticipation<br />

John must have felt as he prepared the<br />

way for Jesus, ministering in his<br />

waiting. As we celebrate the birth of<br />

Jesus Christ today we are given a new<br />

anticipation, that of His return. Today<br />

the church stands tall in her anticipation<br />

for the second coming of Jesus.<br />

I love how these memories point us<br />

back to our Savior. Christmas is a<br />

celebration of the birth of Jesus and<br />

the extreme anticipation of His return.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• How can we as a family celebrate<br />

Christmas this year in light of this<br />

extreme anticipation?<br />

• What family traditions are leading<br />

us back to Jesus and motivating us<br />

to carry His name well this<br />

Christmas season?<br />

Stephen Partrick is our Minister to<br />

College Students and Interim Young<br />

Adult Minister. He and his wife,<br />

Megan, are about to celebrate their<br />

second Christmas together.


Tuesday, December 20 Wednesday, December 21<br />

What comes to your mind when you<br />

think of Christmas? What is the<br />

home movie that plays in your head?<br />

For me, it is the image of my family<br />

transforming into modern day Magi.<br />

Every year someone from my family<br />

would hide the baby Jesus from our<br />

nativity scene. Then, the rest of us<br />

would follow the clues that person had<br />

left behind to be the first to find Jesus.<br />

I remember loving to get to be the<br />

one who hid Jesus. Not because he<br />

was lost, but because I knew where he<br />

was—and I got to be the one who left<br />

the clues for my family to find Him. I<br />

would spend hours looking up the<br />

perfect verses and song lyrics to leave<br />

as clues. I wanted to make sure my<br />

clues were difficult enough to ensure<br />

those looking really had a desire to<br />

find what they were looking for, but<br />

clear enough that they ensured the<br />

success of the Christ child being found.<br />

All thoughts of presents and Christmas<br />

dinner were forgotten because we had<br />

to find Jesus. He became our sole<br />

focus. The search for Baby Jesus<br />

became a very visual reminder for me<br />

of the Christmas Story.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

Read together the story of the first<br />

search for the Christ child.<br />

(Matthew 2: 1-12)<br />

This is a great time for you as a family<br />

to share about the time you found Jesus.<br />

• Look at verses 10-11. How did the<br />

Magi respond when they found Jesus?<br />

• What can we learn from this?<br />

Read Jeremiah 29: 14.<br />

Here it is from The Message, “When<br />

you come looking for me, you’ll find<br />

me. Yes, when you get serious about<br />

finding me and want it more than<br />

anything else, I’ll make sure you<br />

won’t be disappointed.”<br />

• What is it that you are searching<br />

for?<br />

• What clues have you left for your<br />

family? What are they leading<br />

them to find?<br />

Erin Edwards serves as the Girls<br />

Minister to junior and senior high<br />

students. Erin is very close to her<br />

family. She loves holidays, hot<br />

chocolate, and curling up with a good<br />

book. Erin loves ministering to teenage<br />

girls and spends much of her free time<br />

hanging out at school musicals,<br />

volleyball games and pep rallies.<br />

Celebrating Christmas as a child at my<br />

grandparents’ home gave me many<br />

wonderful memories, and also shaped<br />

my celebration of the glorious holiday. I<br />

can still remember smelling homemade<br />

kolaches and chicken noodle soup in the<br />

kitchen and walking around my<br />

maternal grandparents’ home to see<br />

all the decorations in their places: the<br />

handmade stockings by my grandmother<br />

hanging by the fireplace, the ceramic<br />

snowman with black top hat by the<br />

glass door, and, of course, the beautiful<br />

Christmas tree reaching to the ceiling<br />

with every branch full of ornaments.<br />

But the one Christmas image that<br />

first comes to mind when I think of<br />

those Christmases is the nativity<br />

music box that was always placed on a<br />

table for all to enjoy and (I think)<br />

especially for me to reach, turn on and<br />

get a good view of the wise men as<br />

they rotated around the stable that<br />

held Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus.<br />

As I think about holding that music<br />

box in my hands and hearing “Silent<br />

Night” play, I see God reaching out<br />

to me even then. I find it so amazing<br />

that in the midst of all the Christmas<br />

in my grandparents’ home (and I mean<br />

a lot of Christmas!) this nativity music<br />

box was the most special thing to me.<br />

We know that Jesus “is the reason for<br />

the season” and that He is the Father’s<br />

gift to us. Scripture tells us:<br />

“For God so loved the world that he<br />

gave his one and only Son, that<br />

whoever believes in him shall not<br />

perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16<br />

Praise God that I accepted Jesus as<br />

my Lord and Savior years later. I am<br />

thankful that God kept reaching out<br />

to me and drawing me to Himself. In<br />

what way is God drawing you to Him<br />

this Christmas season? What<br />

memories are you making for your<br />

family? Let God lead you this year<br />

and pass it on to those most dear.<br />

These days, I have the privilege of<br />

celebrating Christmas not only with<br />

loved ones from my childhood, but<br />

also with my husband and his family.<br />

I carry on many of the traditions from<br />

my childhood and even make the<br />

homemade chicken noodle soup! And<br />

a few years ago, I found a tiny small<br />

nativity music box that I gave to my<br />

husband as a gift which we proudly<br />

display in our home. I still get that<br />

special feeling when I look at it and<br />

hear the music.<br />

Merry Christmas to your family from<br />

ours – Melissa and Eric McNeil<br />

Melissa serves as the Prayer and<br />

Women’s Administrator.


Thursday, December 22<br />

Friday, December 23<br />

John 1:1-2 “In the beginning was the<br />

Word, and the Word was with God,<br />

and the Word was God. 2 He was<br />

with God in the beginning.”<br />

John’s Christmas story goes all the<br />

way back to the beginning and gives<br />

us a glimpse at God’s relationship<br />

WITH Jesus (the Word). Verse two<br />

restates something that John already<br />

communicated in verse one. Jesus was<br />

WITH God in the beginning. The<br />

close proximity of their divine<br />

relationship was important enough to<br />

tell us twice.<br />

My image of Christmas is family. All<br />

of my greatest Christmas memories<br />

involve being WITH my family. I<br />

remember playing games WITH,<br />

eating WITH, watching football<br />

WITH, sitting around the tree<br />

WITH and just sharing life WITH<br />

each other. I can’t imagine Christmas<br />

without the ones I love.<br />

Emmanuel = God WITH us<br />

John 1:14 “the Word became flesh<br />

and dwelt among us…”<br />

The Word (Jesus) became flesh and<br />

came to be WITH us! The incarnate,<br />

eternal, all-knowing, all-powerful<br />

God loved us enough to come and<br />

spend time WITH us, live WITH us,<br />

teach us, and die for us. When you<br />

think about getting time WITH the<br />

ones you love, think about what Jesus<br />

did to be WITH you.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• What is something that you would<br />

enjoy doing WITH our family<br />

during Christmas?<br />

• How can we intentionally include<br />

Jesus WITH us as we celebrate?<br />

Sam Holm, Associate Pastor of<br />

Teaching and Minister to Singles, and<br />

his wife, Rebecca, have one daughter,<br />

Anna Grace.<br />

It doesn’t take too many years of life<br />

for the focus of gifts at Christmas to<br />

wear thin. Whether you were the<br />

recipient of bigger and better Christmas<br />

gifts, or you come from a family that<br />

could not afford as much as your<br />

friends, the same thing happens. The<br />

thrill of the gifts does not meet the<br />

expectation. I don’t know the exact<br />

year it happened for me, but I do<br />

remember what began to replace it.<br />

I have a large family and it was rare to<br />

find myself alone in my home,<br />

especially since I shared a room with<br />

two brothers. One year, as the hype of<br />

Christmas was wearing thin, somehow<br />

I found myself where the Christmas<br />

tree stood all lit in its glory while the<br />

rest of the house was dark. I walked<br />

into the room and just sat in front of<br />

the tree able to take in the full force<br />

of its gentle light in the very dark and<br />

unusual quiet of the hour. This became<br />

my favorite ritual of Christmas after the<br />

first year I discovered this solitary jewel.<br />

It reminded me of the meeting I had<br />

with my pastor after I prayed to<br />

accept Jesus as my Savior when I was<br />

seven years old. The pastor said he<br />

wanted to show me something and he<br />

led me to the small prayer chapel<br />

within his office. We walked into the<br />

room and he stood me right in the<br />

middle, then he turned out the lights<br />

and it was so dark you couldn’t see<br />

anything in the room. The pastor told<br />

me that this darkness is how my heart<br />

was before I asked Jesus into it. Then<br />

he turned on the light and told me<br />

that this light is how my heart is now.<br />

As I sit in a dark room illuminated<br />

only by the lights on the Christmas<br />

tree, perhaps I am unconsciously<br />

thinking of that important spiritual<br />

lesson regarding light that I learned<br />

so early in my spiritual journey. It is a<br />

beautiful and peaceful experience<br />

where my soul finds rest. Jesus said<br />

He is the light of the world. I’m so<br />

glad I have that light in my life.<br />

“Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, ‘I am<br />

the light of the world. Whoever follows<br />

me will not walk in darkness, but will<br />

have the light of life.’” John 8:12, ESV<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• How has Jesus rescued you from the<br />

darkness and brought you into light?<br />

• What are some of your favorite<br />

lights of Christmas?<br />

• How did the Christmas star bring the<br />

wise men out of darkness into light?<br />

Dr. Brian Newman, Minister of<br />

Congregational Care, and his wife,<br />

Debi, have two grown children,<br />

Rachel and Ben.


Saturday, December 24<br />

Sunday, December 25<br />

Some years ago I had the brilliant idea<br />

to recreate the Christmas manger<br />

scene in a barn for a music video. We<br />

had some dairy farmers in our church<br />

who graciously offered their barn to<br />

us. We spent days preparing the barn<br />

for filming…moving cows, spreading<br />

hay, running power cables, hanging<br />

lights…everything needed to make<br />

the scene look authentic.<br />

When the day of the video shoot arrived<br />

we got there very early to make sure<br />

everything was in place. We chose the<br />

perfect cows to be “lowing,” some<br />

sheep, a donkey, and a manger. With<br />

the actors in place we began to film<br />

the scene where the Son of God was<br />

born on earth. It was magical. It was<br />

moving to everyone who was there.<br />

We filmed most of the day.<br />

What we didn’t know was that the<br />

video lighting was overloading the<br />

electrical transformer out on the<br />

street. With a sizable explosion, the<br />

transformer went out and all the<br />

power to the farm went with it. The<br />

good news was that there was no fire.<br />

The bad news was that without power<br />

all the milking machines would not<br />

work and it was time for all the cows<br />

to be milked. So….we all learned to<br />

milk by hand. I’ll never forget it. I<br />

got home very late and very tired. I<br />

had spent the day in the barn with all<br />

the animals and I smelled like it.<br />

Our dog, Alex, who was half terrier<br />

and half basset hound (think about it)<br />

went crazy. He was on smell overload.<br />

I smelled like I had spent the day in<br />

the lowliest of places…covered with<br />

the stench of the place where farm<br />

animals live. Then it occurred to<br />

me…I have been where Jesus was<br />

born. I had been in the place where<br />

Jesus came to find me…..the lowliest<br />

of places. Jesus Christ, the Son of the<br />

Living God, had left heaven and all of<br />

its glory to come to earth and bring<br />

me home. He humbled Himself and<br />

became a man….so I could know Him.<br />

The distance of His great “comedown”<br />

was farther than I could possibly<br />

imagine. What love! What a Christmas!<br />

Miller Cunningham is the Pastor of<br />

Ministries. He and his wife, Ginger,<br />

have two sons, Scott and Ben.<br />

“This will be a sign to you: You will<br />

find a baby wrapped in cloths and<br />

lying in a manger.” Luke 2:12<br />

How far we have come from that first<br />

Christmas! Consider the contrast. Our<br />

Christmases are marked by lights,<br />

decorations, malls, Santas, shoppers,<br />

parties, food, toys, trees, reindeers,<br />

elves and much, much more. The birth<br />

of Jesus is cause for a global celebration,<br />

but the first Christmas focused on one<br />

solitary life – one little baby, born in<br />

a little-known town to a Bedouin<br />

teenage couple. He was then placed in<br />

a feed trough. The newborn’s cry split<br />

the air. It sounded just like the cry of<br />

any other baby. But through the tiny<br />

veins of this baby pumped the blood<br />

that would be spilled on Calvary’s<br />

cross. His soft little fist would be<br />

opened and penetrated by the spike of<br />

a Roman executioner. Those tiny feet,<br />

yet to touch the earth, would grow<br />

calloused through the miles and miles<br />

of carrying the never-heard message of<br />

God’s unfailing grace. Who could’ve<br />

known that this little baby had come<br />

to change the world? We know. You<br />

and I know exactly who this baby was<br />

and even still, who He is today. He is<br />

the Lord of all creation. And He<br />

desires to be Lord of your life.<br />

I love the sights, sounds, and colors of<br />

Christmas. But this Christmas I<br />

resolve not to get lost in the busyness<br />

that the season has become. Instead,<br />

through intentional, quiet moments<br />

with my Savior, I will hear His cry<br />

again. But this time, it will resound<br />

clearer than a baby’s cry, because now<br />

this Jesus lives in me. And if I listen,<br />

really listen, it will be my feet, my<br />

hands, and my lips that will spread<br />

the message of His unfailing grace.<br />

This Christmas season, that will be<br />

my gift to the King.<br />

For Discussion:<br />

• What about you? What will be<br />

your gift to Jesus this Christmas?<br />

• How will you change the rhythm of<br />

your life in order to hear from Him<br />

this season?<br />

Dr. Jeff Warren, Senior Pastor, and his<br />

wife, Stacy, have three children,<br />

Whitney, Emily, and Travis.

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