DEVOTIONAL GUIDE - Park Cities Baptist Church
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PCBC.ORG/CHRISTMAS<br />
2011<br />
<strong>DEVOTIONAL</strong> <strong>GUIDE</strong>
Sunday, November 27<br />
Merry Christmas!<br />
You hold in your hand a Christmas gift from our church staff<br />
to you. We thought it would be fun this year to offer to you<br />
and your family a gift that you could enjoy throughout the<br />
holiday season. Throughout the Advent season we’ll be looking<br />
at “A Christmas Masterpiece.” We’re taking an artful journey to<br />
the manger as we consider the coming of our Savior. You will<br />
enjoy stories told and lessons learned from members of our<br />
great staff. We also hope you’ll take time to meditate on the<br />
Scripture and answer the thought-provoking questions. This<br />
devotional guide serves as a wonderful way for families to join<br />
together as well – to read, to discuss, and pray together each<br />
day as we approach Christmas Day.<br />
On behalf of our entire church staff, let me say that it is our great<br />
joy to serve our Savior, Jesus, with you throughout the year.<br />
We wish you and yours a joy-filled, Christ-centered Christmas.<br />
As a child, one of the favorite things I<br />
remember about Christmas was a<br />
tradition carried on by my grandmother.<br />
Instead of labeling the presents with<br />
who they’re to and from, she would<br />
label them with numbers. She would<br />
assign each person several numbers,<br />
which only she knew, so even if you<br />
were able to figure out one gift, it<br />
didn’t give away all the rest. As kids,<br />
trying to find the list and guess who<br />
each gift belonged to before Christmas<br />
morning provided for countless hours<br />
of fun and guessing for my sister and me.<br />
Not having grown up in a family that<br />
followed Christ, Christmas’s were not<br />
about celebrating the birth of our<br />
Savior. However, having trusted<br />
Christ as an adult, it’s overwhelming<br />
at times what Christmas and the gift<br />
of grace means to me now. Today, one<br />
of my favorite Christmas songs, by the<br />
Christian band, Third Day, says,<br />
“Halleluiah, the King is here, given<br />
for all men. For today the Holy Son of<br />
God, is born in Bethlehem.”<br />
The ultimate gift is here and the gift<br />
is for everyone - no guessing involved.<br />
Halleluiah!<br />
Ann Roberts is the Assistant to Miller<br />
Cunningham. She and her husband,<br />
James, have two daughters, Caroline<br />
and Mary Margaret, and live in Dallas.<br />
Dr. Jeff Warren<br />
Senior Pastor
Monday, November 28<br />
Tuesday, November 29<br />
It was a year of burgeoning<br />
independence and adventure that<br />
called for the fastest transportation<br />
and my best friend and I knew we had<br />
only to ask. So we went straight to<br />
our fathers. We were well loved, so<br />
that would be no problem. The<br />
minute my father and I stepped<br />
through the doors of the shop to<br />
check out the possibilities, my heart<br />
locked in on the beauty of the design,<br />
but more so, on the enamel candied<br />
apple red of my entire life’s dream ~<br />
that 10-speed Schwinn was all I<br />
wanted for Christmas.<br />
I made several attempts to seal the<br />
deal, but my father fell silent. As our<br />
Advent calendar doors increasingly<br />
opened and the chocolates<br />
disappeared, I started to get a little<br />
nervous. There was no sign from my<br />
father. Then again there was always<br />
hope. After all, he was a good father.<br />
Christmas morning came and at the<br />
get go, my sister and I threw open the<br />
doors to see…no bike. My heart<br />
raced. Stockings, breakfast, and gift<br />
exchange came and went. Outwardly,<br />
I kept a stiff upper lip, but<br />
disappointment and doubt started<br />
tugging. As if he knew just what I<br />
was thinking, at just the right<br />
moment, my father tapped me on the<br />
shoulder and pointed me in the right<br />
direction, toward the living room.<br />
There, placed not as expected, was the<br />
sweetest gift I’d ever received….and<br />
my bicycle, too. The desires of my<br />
heart have changed over the years and<br />
the discipline of waiting, instilled in<br />
me by my earthly father, has become<br />
more anticipated as I counsel with my<br />
heavenly Father and see his glorious<br />
gifts revealed.<br />
“Since ancient times no one has heard,<br />
no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any<br />
God besides you, who acts on behalf of<br />
those who wait for him.” Isaiah 64:4<br />
“…but wait for the gift my father<br />
promised” Acts 1:4<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• Have you told God the desires<br />
of your heart, even the ones you<br />
think inconsequential?<br />
• Has God met these desires?<br />
If so, how, and were they as you<br />
had envisioned?<br />
• How do you wait on God?<br />
May your Christmas overflow with<br />
long awaited and unexpected joys!<br />
Stacey Rauscher is the Assistant<br />
to 20s/30s/40s, College & Prayer<br />
Ministry. She is the mother of Cole<br />
and KayAnne.<br />
I remember the first Christmas with<br />
my family after I had moved to Dallas.<br />
I grew up in Atlanta, and I have a<br />
very close relationship with my parents.<br />
My plane landed in Atlanta a few days<br />
before Christmas, my brother picked<br />
me up, and we drove to my parents’<br />
home. I can still remember walking<br />
into the place I used to call home.<br />
Nothing had changed, and everything<br />
had changed. My mother stood at the<br />
door with tears in her eyes. My dad<br />
stayed a few steps behind her, and he<br />
grinned like I hadn’t seen him grin<br />
before. He let my mother hug me for<br />
as long as she wanted, and then he<br />
stepped in and gave me a hug of his<br />
own, patting me on the back and<br />
saying: “How are ya, boy?” It felt like<br />
a hero’s welcome.<br />
Although the circumstances are<br />
different, I think that is what the<br />
Prodigal Son’s father looked like from<br />
Luke 15:11-32. There was great<br />
rejoicing. Wrongs and errors were<br />
forgiven, and I felt that same feeling<br />
when I walked through the door. Any<br />
difficulty and stress I had caused my<br />
family by packing up and moving to<br />
Dallas was washed away in the<br />
rejoicing of having their missing<br />
member back home to celebrate the<br />
birth of Christ with them.<br />
I have never had a better Christmas<br />
than that one. I don’t remember what<br />
gifts I received, or even what we did,<br />
but I can still picture the look of joy<br />
on my parents’ faces. I can’t help but<br />
think that is what our Father looks<br />
like when we return to Him. “It is<br />
appropriate to celebrate and be glad,<br />
for your brother was dead, and is<br />
alive; he was lost and is found” (Luke<br />
15:32). I hope that this Christmas<br />
year, you are mindful of your Father<br />
in Heaven, and your relationship with<br />
Him. Some of us may need to turn to<br />
Him for the first time, others may<br />
need to return after being a straying<br />
sheep. In either case, our Father<br />
rejoices, beams with excitement, and<br />
waits to embrace you.<br />
Travis Cook serves as the Interim<br />
Minister to the Bridge (Young Single<br />
Adults). Travis likes baseball, soccer,<br />
history, reading, and writing...and he<br />
lives in Dallas.
Wednesday, November 30<br />
Thursday, December 1<br />
As a young mom I kept a journal where<br />
I wrote about the concerns and the<br />
funnies experienced by the mother of<br />
two preschoolers. I can look back now<br />
(30 years later) and laugh about some of<br />
those fears as well as remember some of<br />
the comical happenings. The empty<br />
nest perspective is an interesting one.<br />
Those exhausting early days of sleep<br />
deprivation, the “taxi” years, even the<br />
turbulent teen years – they’re all hazy<br />
memories. Early in their twenties my<br />
children suddenly morphed into quite<br />
pleasant young adults. Ron and I have<br />
realized we’ve crossed the parenting<br />
“finish line” – at least the time intensive<br />
part – and now it’s time for the BEST<br />
part of all, grand-parenting!<br />
Our daughter and son-in-law will<br />
present us with our first grandchild in<br />
November – according to the doctors,<br />
a boy. Parents have tremendous dreams<br />
for their children. We did and we now<br />
see it with our own children. Even<br />
during those challenging moments<br />
you still love them unconditionally<br />
and see their great potential.<br />
Although Scripture doesn’t indicate<br />
any of Mary and Joseph’s specific<br />
parenting thoughts, I have the image<br />
of them gazing down in wonder at<br />
Baby Jesus and suspect they had the<br />
same thoughts about Him. Probably<br />
more so knowing He was the Son of<br />
God, the long awaited Messiah.<br />
I have come to the conclusion that<br />
God’s love for me must be the same.<br />
No matter how challenging I am to<br />
Him, still He offers me His grace and<br />
forgiveness and continues to pursue<br />
an intimate relationship with me. As<br />
a parent I have a glimpse of how<br />
much God loved Jesus, and yet, He<br />
still loved me enough to send His Son<br />
to the cross because of my sin.<br />
No matter what your stage of life,<br />
find a few minutes this Christmas to<br />
thank God for your family and praise<br />
Him that He loves us so<br />
unconditionally.<br />
Merry Christmas!<br />
“This is love: not that we loved God,<br />
but that He loved us and sent His Son<br />
as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”<br />
1 John 4:10<br />
Nora LaPrade serves as the Executive<br />
Assistant to Dr. Jeff Warren, the<br />
Senior Pastor. Nora and her husband,<br />
Ron, have two married children and<br />
their first grandchild due in November.<br />
My father-in-law suffers from<br />
Alzheimer’s disease and one of my<br />
favorite Christmas memories is from<br />
him recognizing my house last year at<br />
Christmas. I had driven to Marshall,<br />
Texas, to pick up he and my motherin-law<br />
to spend a few days in our home<br />
for Christmas. The whole trip from<br />
Marshall to Dallas he asked his usual<br />
questions over and over: Where are<br />
we going? Why are we going there?<br />
How long are we staying? How will<br />
we get home? After 2 ½ hours of<br />
answering his questions multiple<br />
times, we pulled into the alley-way<br />
next to my house. As soon as he saw<br />
the house, he said “I know the people<br />
who live here” and “I am so happy to<br />
be here”! His recognition of the house<br />
and family did not last long, but it<br />
was enough to give me a glimpse of<br />
God’s love for me and was the best<br />
gift I received.<br />
Psalm 139:1-3 says “You have<br />
searched me, LORD, and you know<br />
me. You know when I sit and when I<br />
rise; you perceive my thoughts from<br />
afar. You discern my going out and<br />
my lying down; you are familiar with<br />
all my ways.”<br />
We can take joy that God knows us,<br />
just as I received joy when my fatherin-law<br />
knew me and my home.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• What is the best non-material gift<br />
you have received for Christmas?<br />
• What made it special?<br />
• If Jesus drove by your house,<br />
would he know you?<br />
Brenda Palmer is the Childhood<br />
Ministry Assistant. She and her<br />
husband, Joel, have three children,<br />
David, Jonathan and Katherine.
FRIDAY, DECEMBER 2<br />
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 3<br />
“Now faith is being sure of what we<br />
hope for and certain of what we do<br />
not see.” – Hebrews 11:1<br />
Christmas – just the word brings floods<br />
of memories – some good, some sad,<br />
some funny, some magical. I know we<br />
all feel that way. From my first memory<br />
of sitting in my great-grandfather’s<br />
lap on Christmas Eve to the pain of<br />
my first Christmas without someone I<br />
dearly love, I thought it would be a<br />
hard task to pick just one memory,<br />
but I was wrong.<br />
As I reflected on years past, one<br />
poignant moment stood out to me.<br />
That moment is as clear today as<br />
when it occurred 14 years ago. It was<br />
my daughter’s first Christmas Eve.<br />
We spent the evening, as I had for<br />
many years, with our dear friend Jane.<br />
Jane had been blind since her early<br />
twenties, but in all the many times I<br />
spent with her I never once heard her<br />
complain. She “saw” by feeling. As we<br />
entered her home that evening, she<br />
was sitting in her living room<br />
surrounded by friends and family.<br />
When she heard my voice she asked<br />
me to bring the baby over to sit in her<br />
lap. I immediately complied. The<br />
baby was wearing a soft, green velvet<br />
dress with a lace collar and lace trim.<br />
Jane felt her little cheeks and her soft<br />
dress and proclaimed, “Oh, she is<br />
beautiful!” And then, very softly she<br />
said just to me, “I wish I could see<br />
her.” In all my life, that is the only<br />
time I heard her say that.<br />
Many times since that evening I have<br />
thought of that moment and Hebrews<br />
11:1. Just as Jane was certain my<br />
daughter was beautiful (and she is!), I<br />
am certain in the love Christ has for<br />
us. I can’t see it, but I can feel it every<br />
moment of every day. That night was<br />
my most tangible example of faith.<br />
FOR DISCUSSION:<br />
Christ’s love this week.<br />
• In what ways can you be an<br />
example of faith for someone today?<br />
Kathie Smith is the Assistant to<br />
Rodney Schell, Executive Pastor.<br />
Kathie, her husband, Larry, and<br />
daughter, Alyssa, enjoy their life on<br />
the farm south of Dallas.<br />
One of my favorite Christmas<br />
memories came when I was in high<br />
school. As a family, my parents, three<br />
sisters and one brother-in-law, we<br />
went on a ski trip to Utah. We flew<br />
out early Christmas morning, and I<br />
can still remember us all getting up<br />
early and heading to the airport<br />
together. We spent a week on that<br />
trip, and I remember it as a great<br />
time of being together. Of course<br />
Christmas has always been one of my<br />
favorite times of the year, but my<br />
favorite thing about Christmas is<br />
being together--together with family.<br />
When you get right down to it,<br />
togetherness is what Christmas has<br />
always been about. God loved me so<br />
much that He sent his Son to earth to<br />
live a perfect life and die in my place<br />
so that He and I could be together.<br />
This Christmas season, as we no<br />
doubt, will all be together, let’s not<br />
forget the One who gave so much to<br />
be together with us.<br />
“For God so loved the world, that he<br />
gave his only Son, that whoever<br />
believes in him should not perish but<br />
have eternal life.” John 3:16 ESV<br />
FOR DISCUSSION:<br />
• What are some of your favorite<br />
ways your family celebrates and<br />
experiences togetherness during the<br />
Christmas season?<br />
• How can you celebrate and<br />
experience togetherness with God<br />
in a new and special way this year<br />
at Christmas?<br />
Damon Berry, Minister of Sports<br />
Outreach, and his wife, Anna, have<br />
two daughters, Brailyn and Camdyn.
Sunday, December 4<br />
Monday, December 5<br />
Each December the snow-capped hills<br />
of the dense Maine forest would<br />
beckon us as we prepared to embark<br />
on our annual family journey to find<br />
that picturesque Christmas tree. As a<br />
young boy the days of November<br />
seemed to pass by with the swiftness<br />
of a snail as we waited with intense<br />
anticipation for that beloved day in<br />
early December.<br />
Awakening with the sun, my brother<br />
Patrick and I would inhale a bit of<br />
breakfast and then knock on our<br />
parents’ door to boldly announce with<br />
joy that the awaited day was upon us.<br />
My mother would then layer us in<br />
wool and Gore-Tex until waves of<br />
heat were wafting from our bodies<br />
like wood stoves.<br />
With overwhelming layers to protect<br />
us from the frigid New England air,<br />
we would waddle through the sunglistened<br />
snow with the mobility of<br />
toy soldiers until we found the prized<br />
ornament of the year. My dad, amidst<br />
sips from a thermos of hot chocolate,<br />
would proclaim with glee, “This is<br />
the one!” We would scurry over to<br />
watch him prepare the tree. Soon the<br />
sweet aroma of dad’s hot chocolate<br />
mixing with the fresh cut tree was<br />
flooding the air.<br />
Today, I reflect on these Christmas<br />
memories with fondness. I can<br />
remember with great detail each tree<br />
and each story created, like the time I<br />
forgot to put on socks and snow<br />
began to fill my boots (not so smart).<br />
But what has profoundly impacted<br />
me and my family is the love, joy and<br />
unity that has stemmed from these<br />
incredible family interactions. There<br />
is something about those moments<br />
together as a family that brings<br />
unification.<br />
In Philippians 2:1-2, the Apostle Paul<br />
writes of a unity that only comes<br />
through Christ. Paul implores the<br />
believers of Philippi to bring him joy<br />
by being of the same mind and<br />
having the same love. May we pursue<br />
unity in our families not just for this<br />
season, but also for the days and years<br />
ahead. The sustainability of a unified<br />
family rests in the person of Jesus<br />
Christ alone. So may we fix our gaze<br />
upon Him.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• How does Jesus bring unity?<br />
• What is your favorite Christmas<br />
tree adventure?<br />
Tim Bresnahan is a minister to the<br />
Young Married department. Tim and<br />
his wife Christen have been married<br />
for four years.<br />
“Now there were in the same country<br />
shepherds living out in the fields,<br />
keeping watch over their flock by<br />
night. And behold, an angel of the<br />
Lord stood before them, and the glory<br />
of the Lord shone around them, and<br />
they were greatly afraid. Then the<br />
angel said to them, “Do not be afraid,<br />
for behold, I bring you good tidings<br />
of great joy which will be to all<br />
people. For there is born to you this<br />
day in the city of David a Savior, who<br />
is Christ the Lord. And this will be<br />
the sign to you: You will find a Babe<br />
wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in<br />
a manger.” Luke 2:8-12<br />
One of my most vivid memories of a<br />
trip to Israel many years ago was<br />
standing on the hills where it was<br />
thought the shepherds heard the<br />
angels announce the birth of the<br />
Savior. I could just imagine the<br />
shepherds quietly watching as their<br />
sheep grazed.<br />
Then all of a sudden, an angel stood<br />
before them announcing the birth of<br />
the Savior and was joined by a<br />
“multitude of the heavenly host”<br />
gloriously praising God together!<br />
As I was growing up, we always read<br />
the story from Luke 2 every Christmas<br />
morning. Then years later, actually<br />
being able to stand on the hills where<br />
the shepherds were was a very moving<br />
experience for me.<br />
I love all the sights and sounds of<br />
Christmas! But one of my favorite<br />
times is late on Christmas Eve. As I<br />
drive home from a Christmas Eve<br />
service, there are very few cars on the<br />
road, and there’s just a quiet<br />
peacefulness in the air. I am reminded<br />
of that night on a quiet hillside where<br />
an angel announced the birth of our<br />
Savior and was joined by a choir of<br />
angels singing, “GLORY TO GOD<br />
IN THE HIGHEST, AND ON<br />
EARTH PEACE, GOODWILL<br />
TOWARD MEN!”<br />
This year, may we all take time for a<br />
quiet, peaceful moment to reflect on<br />
the singing of the angels as we celebrate<br />
the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ.<br />
Judy Johnston serves as Administrative<br />
Assistant for Properties & Services and<br />
Special Events. Judy lives in Dallas and<br />
in her spare time likes stitchery,<br />
reading and working in her yard.
Tuesday, December 6<br />
Wednesday, December 7<br />
Nothing compares to a white Christmas<br />
in West Texas. Years ago, when our<br />
boys were quite young, we woke up<br />
one wonderful Christmas morning to<br />
find 17 inches of snow!! Across the<br />
street from our house was a wide open<br />
field. The glistening snow was almost<br />
blinding. We bundled up our oldest<br />
son, Jonathan, and we ran out to play<br />
in the snow. It was glorious and<br />
wonderful. We scooped up the soft<br />
snow with our hands, but at 17 inches<br />
deep, it was as though we could not<br />
find the ground beneath. I will never<br />
forget that day. All I could say was,<br />
“Awesome!”<br />
I always think of the words of Isaiah<br />
1:18: “Come now, let us settle the<br />
matter,” says the Lord. “Though your<br />
sins are like scarlet, they shall be as<br />
white as snow; though they are red as<br />
crimson, they shall be like wool.”<br />
Coming to Christ in humble<br />
repentance brings the joy of coming<br />
out into a wide open space where<br />
there is only the pure white loveliness<br />
of forgiveness. Christ forgives sin.<br />
Awesome!<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• The Lord invites us to “settle the<br />
matter” of our sins. Have you done<br />
that today?<br />
• Once you have confessed your sin to<br />
God, and you believe you are<br />
forgiven, do you experience freedom<br />
from guilt and shame?<br />
Take time to thank God for his mercy<br />
and love in making you “white as snow.”<br />
Sam Silva is the Minister to Amigos<br />
de Dios at PCBC. He and his wife,<br />
Dee, have two sons, Jordan and<br />
Jonathan.<br />
I have always liked manger scenes. I<br />
have a number of them, from the<br />
little plastic Christmas ornament my<br />
3rd grader teacher gave to me to the<br />
carved olive wood set from<br />
Bethlehem. My favorite, however, is<br />
the one my mother purchased when I<br />
was a child. It was not very expensive,<br />
nor impressive compared to most<br />
nativity scenes. It is a simple replica<br />
of a stable made out of cardboard,<br />
with finely shredded paper glued to<br />
the top (implying a thatched roof).<br />
Attached to its base are the brightly<br />
colored plastic characters of the birth.<br />
On the roof is a glitter-covered<br />
cardboard star. An orange bulb in the<br />
back gives the whole scene an evening<br />
glow. It was placed under the<br />
Christmas tree as a reminder of our<br />
greatest gift. I remember lying in<br />
front of that manger scene, wondering<br />
about that first Christmas.<br />
Every Christmas after that, the<br />
manger scene was set in place. It was<br />
just part of the decorations. A<br />
tradition. But it was more than that.<br />
That cardboard stable always took me<br />
back to Bethlehem. And as I grew up,<br />
I would lie in front of it every year<br />
and be reminded of that wonderful<br />
night all over again. Now, over 50<br />
years later, the tattered cardboard is<br />
taped together and there’s less “grass”<br />
on the roof. The star has to be secured<br />
when it is displayed. But I still<br />
treasure it. And its images are fixed in<br />
my heart.<br />
How like Jesus, this manger scene,<br />
not flashy or expensive, limited to the<br />
sophisticated or rich, but simple and<br />
common, speaking to the simple. Not<br />
elevated for only a few to see, but<br />
placed where all could see, even a<br />
little boy lying on the floor.<br />
I think that this is what Christmas is<br />
all about: God wanting to make<br />
himself known to all, even to the least<br />
of these. Thank you, God, for making<br />
your love simple and putting it where<br />
I could see it. And, Mother, thank<br />
you for that manger scene. It has<br />
meant a lot to me.<br />
Jack Martin is Minister of Pastoral<br />
Care and is married to Melody. They<br />
live in Dallas.
Thursday, December 8<br />
Friday, December 9<br />
I always desire to have the latest<br />
technology for that “cool factor” to<br />
gain more credibility with students in<br />
hopes of making disciples for Christ.<br />
During the Christmas of 2005 trying<br />
to get an XBOX 360 was next to<br />
impossible. Raven (my wife) kept<br />
asking me what I wanted for Christmas.<br />
I told her “Don’t get me anything for<br />
Christmas, get me an XBOX 360!”<br />
When Christmas arrived, I woke up<br />
that morning excited, believing the<br />
Lord had done the impossible! Raven<br />
told me that she loved me, but she<br />
couldn’t find the XBOX 360 between<br />
Dallas to Oklahoma. I jumped in my<br />
truck and started praying for Jesus to<br />
guide me. I pulled into a Best Buy<br />
with an empty parking lot, got out of<br />
my car, and stood in a small line<br />
forming outside of the store.<br />
A Best Buy manager told the crowd,<br />
“We have a limited supply of XBOX<br />
360s. One per costumer only. Thank<br />
you.” I learned the store normally carried<br />
less than 30. I was handed number<br />
17 and I proceeded to the checkout.<br />
Sharing a bit of my story with the<br />
cashier, she responded, “This is a<br />
really cool idea, I am going to talk to<br />
my manager and see if he will allow<br />
you to purchase a second one for<br />
yourself.” I came home an hour later<br />
and told my wife. “Honey, you are not<br />
going to believe this.” She said, “You<br />
got an XBOX 360, didn’t you?” I<br />
responded, “No, honey… I got 2!”<br />
That Christmas a student had openheart<br />
surgery. During the time of<br />
crisis and recovery, the Lord used the<br />
XBOX 360 online gaming capability<br />
to share Christ with this student and<br />
his family. It was then I realized why<br />
the Lord had me seek, knock and<br />
receive what I asked for and opened<br />
the door to an XBOX 360.<br />
“And so I (Jesus) tell you, keep on<br />
asking, and you will receive what you<br />
ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will<br />
find. Keep on knocking, and the door<br />
will be opened to you. For everyone<br />
who asks, receives. Everyone who<br />
seeks, finds. And to everyone who<br />
knocks, the door will be opened.”<br />
Luke 11:9-10<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• How should we seek? Why?<br />
• Who should we ask? Why?<br />
• Is it worth knocking until our<br />
knuckles hurt?<br />
• What’s your next move, if the Lord<br />
door opens the door?<br />
Dr. Roddy Willis is Associate Minister<br />
of Sports Outreach & Associate<br />
Minister of Preteens. He is married<br />
to Raven Willis and they have one son<br />
Roderick C. Willis III who is three.<br />
For me Christmas is filled with images<br />
of being reared in North Carolina.<br />
Almost 30 years has passed since this<br />
particular image was etched so vividly<br />
in my mind. As a fifteen year old<br />
sophomore in high school, I was loving<br />
life and enjoying my teen years, but<br />
my grandmother—Granny was<br />
battling cancer. She was a warrior who<br />
fought this terrible, ravishing disease<br />
with every fiber of her being.<br />
My earliest images of church are<br />
sitting beside her and my mom. She<br />
loved Christ and her family. Even<br />
when she was sick from the chemo<br />
and radiation treatments, she was up<br />
entertaining and preparing meals for<br />
her family. She was always serving and<br />
loving on her family as she hosted<br />
gatherings throughout the year.<br />
Granny’s faith was the most important<br />
thing she possessed. Her faith sustained<br />
her throughout the battle with cancer.<br />
Her desire to pass her faith to the<br />
family was evident in all she did. She<br />
even planned graduation gifts and<br />
wedding gifts for me and my siblings<br />
because she knew that she would not<br />
be there on those special days. She<br />
was an amazing woman who lived life<br />
to the fullest.<br />
The image that is etched in my mind<br />
is the last Christmas. The entire<br />
family had gathered. No one knew<br />
the surprise that she had for us. The<br />
cancer treatments had taken her<br />
beautiful hair. In 1981, on Christmas<br />
day, Granny revealed to the family a<br />
small gift that had been given back to<br />
her. Her hair had grown back. Her<br />
hair was more beautiful than before<br />
– it was an indescribable gift.<br />
The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians<br />
9:15 “Thanks be to God for his<br />
indescribable gift!” As we celebrate<br />
the birth of the indescribable gift,<br />
Jesus Christ, take the time to share<br />
with those close to you images of<br />
indescribable gifts. Share with those<br />
close to you what it means to know<br />
the indescribable gift of Jesus, to<br />
grow to understand the indescribable<br />
gift and to show others the<br />
indescribable gift of Jesus Christ.<br />
Kelly Hamilton is the Minister to<br />
30’s and 40’s. Kelly and his wife,<br />
Candace, have two children, Ann<br />
and Alex.
Saturday, December 10<br />
Sunday, December 11<br />
When I was five years old, I asked<br />
Santa Claus for a baby sister. I got my<br />
wish five months later when Leslie was<br />
born. Santa Clause was my Dad’s boss<br />
and he knew my mother was pregnant<br />
so he said, “Oh, that’s a great wish,<br />
I’ll work on that.” Of course, he went<br />
and told my parents. From the moment<br />
I was told about my present I knew I<br />
would love her no matter what happens.<br />
She was supposed to be born on my<br />
6th birthday, but my mother got very<br />
ill and my sister was born two days<br />
early. I got to name her, and I chose<br />
the name Leslie after a friend from my<br />
first grade class. I just liked the name.<br />
I’ve always viewed her as this gift, this<br />
present, and I’ve always treated her like<br />
she’s super special. It’s through the gift<br />
of a sister that I asked for that I’m really<br />
able to see God’s love - for me and my<br />
mistakes and compassion for Leslie<br />
and her shortcomings and successes.<br />
My love and protection of my sister<br />
could be compared to God’s love and<br />
protection for humanity. And that’s<br />
why he gave us the greatest gift at<br />
Christmas – Jesus!<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• Think of the gifts and presents in<br />
our lives and the love with which<br />
they are given.<br />
• As a family, list some of your<br />
favorite gifts you have received and<br />
thank God for the people who gave<br />
them to you.<br />
“Dear friends, let us love one another,<br />
for love comes from God. Everyone<br />
who loves has been born of God and<br />
knows God.” 1 John 4:6-8<br />
Robbie McCormac is the Production<br />
Director at PCBC and lives in Dallas.<br />
His hobbies include listening and<br />
creating music, reading and enjoying<br />
time with friends and family.<br />
I stepped outside. It was still there.<br />
Did I awake in New England? No, in<br />
Dallas, Texas, with snow was covering<br />
the ground in 2009. My family had<br />
been here for one year. Even in North<br />
Carolina we had not seen a white<br />
Christmas. I suppose a White Christmas<br />
was due after 51 years of living! My<br />
family played and enjoyed the beauty<br />
of Christmas. In other areas of the<br />
country, this may be nothing new at<br />
Christmas. We welcomed Christmas<br />
in that year as a memory we will<br />
never take for granted.<br />
It is amazing that snow can cover dirt,<br />
rocks, trash, leaves and everything<br />
around leaving them all white. I was<br />
reminded of Isaiah 1:18: “Come now,<br />
let’s settle this,” says the Lord. “Though<br />
your sins are like scarlet, I will make<br />
them as white as snow. Though they<br />
are red like crimson, I will make them<br />
as white as wool.” No matter what<br />
lurks in our hearts or minds, the love<br />
of Christ can cover it and make it<br />
white. Snowfall gives me a sense of<br />
peace and contentment. The joy of<br />
Jesus gives me the same peace and<br />
contentment.<br />
fulfillment of a Savior cover our paths.<br />
Walk boldly knowing that God knows<br />
each step you take — at Christmas<br />
and for all time.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• Sing one verse together of “Silent<br />
Night, Holy Night.”<br />
• Ask each family member to picture<br />
images from the song.<br />
• Ask children to draw a picture of<br />
one image from the song.<br />
• Parents, share a special time you<br />
might have sung the song when you<br />
were younger.<br />
Read Isaiah 9:6-7.<br />
• Ask family members to name one<br />
quality they can remember from<br />
this prophecy about Jesus (for<br />
instance, “Prince of Peace”).<br />
• Ask family members to remember a<br />
time in the life of Jesus when this<br />
quality was demonstrated. Share<br />
these thoughts together.<br />
As we all celebrate the birth of Jesus<br />
take time to remember the snows of<br />
2009. The snow was nice but we do<br />
not need snow for joy and contentment.<br />
Let the promise, deliverance and<br />
Marty Lewis is the Minister to<br />
Childhood Education. He and his<br />
wife, Nanette, have two children,<br />
Ethan and Hannah.
Monday, December 12<br />
Tuesday, December 13<br />
“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday<br />
and today and forever.” Hebrews 13:8<br />
My eyes are closed, my head is bowed<br />
and I feel the family gathered around<br />
the table. I hear the sound of my<br />
father-in-law’s voice offering a prayer<br />
of thanksgiving for another year of<br />
trials and blessings we received as a<br />
family. For 27 years, this consistent<br />
scene every Christmas has been a<br />
comfort to us especially as we are so<br />
far away from our families every day.<br />
But even this consistent scene is not<br />
without changes.<br />
The only thing that remains the same<br />
on this earth is change. So while the<br />
feeling this yearly gathering invokes<br />
is the same, many things around that<br />
table have changed - notably, my own<br />
children. The tiny hands of my girls I<br />
once held have grown into the hands<br />
of capable young women on their<br />
own. The same is true for several<br />
around the table – young boys I once<br />
tossed a ball with are now tossing the<br />
ball to their own children. The faces<br />
around the table have changed, some<br />
have gone from this life and others<br />
were only with us for a season. A<br />
strong legacy of faithfulness and<br />
service is passed through generations<br />
of our family each year, but even that<br />
has changed over the years as we all<br />
minister in a different way from the<br />
generation before us.<br />
In the midst of change and diversity<br />
one thing remains the same, even more<br />
constant than family – our Savior. He<br />
is the unchanging One - the same<br />
yesterday, today and tomorrow. He is<br />
always on His throne and always by<br />
our side.<br />
Rodney Schell is the Executive Pastor.<br />
He and wife, Maria, have two<br />
daughters, Emma and Molly.<br />
The Christmas I remember best was<br />
covered in snow when I was eight<br />
years old. I remember playing with<br />
my cousins in the front yard of my<br />
grandparents’ house. I was dodging<br />
snowballs when I looked up and saw<br />
my grandfather through the living<br />
room window.<br />
My grandfather was one of my best<br />
friends when I was little. I went to<br />
stay with him every summer and we<br />
would play every sport that existed<br />
and some that didn’t exist until I<br />
made them up. I remember drinking<br />
diet Dr. Pepper with him as we watched<br />
the “Price Is Right” together. I loved<br />
him as much as any grandson could!<br />
That Christmas Eve, I saw him<br />
through the window on an oxygen<br />
tank and started to cry. He was sick<br />
and he couldn’t play with me<br />
anymore. I missed him so much and I<br />
didn’t know what to do about it. My<br />
mom called us in and told us that we<br />
were going to go look at Christmas<br />
lights. I didn’t want to go, but I got<br />
in the car and went. We drove to the<br />
nicest neighborhoods in Amarillo and<br />
I was stunned by the display of lights.<br />
When I think back on that Christmas,<br />
I think about lights. I remember all<br />
the beautiful lights decorating the<br />
houses and the greatest light that<br />
shined in my grandparents’ house.<br />
The most wonderful light I remember<br />
about that Christmas is the light my<br />
Papa showed me. It was my last<br />
Christmas with Papa, but what shines<br />
in my mind the most is the way he<br />
loved me!<br />
Jesus said it best in John 13:35, “By<br />
this everyone will know that you are<br />
my disciples, if you love one another.”<br />
I think that is what Christmas is<br />
about, letting the light of our love<br />
shine in the lives of those around us!<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• Why do you think Andrew’s<br />
favorite Christmas memory was his<br />
last Christmas with his Papa?<br />
• How do you think we can love each<br />
other best in our family?<br />
• Who do you think we can love in a<br />
special way this Christmas outside<br />
our family?<br />
Andrew Heard is the Minister to<br />
High School Students. Andrew and<br />
his wife, Bailey, have one beautiful<br />
daughter, Ellie.
Wednesday, December 14<br />
Thursday, December 15<br />
One of my favorite Christmas events<br />
was when the Orchestra played for the<br />
sick children and their families at<br />
Children’s Medical Center of Dallas.<br />
We played symphonic arrangements<br />
of traditional Christmas carols in the<br />
beautiful Butterfly Atrium. I wish<br />
you could have seen the radiant faces<br />
of the children as we played. It was<br />
such a privilege to bring a bright spot<br />
to their lives during a difficult<br />
Christmas season.<br />
At the end of the concert, we chose a<br />
child from the audience to conduct<br />
the orchestra on “Sleigh Ride.” He<br />
was terrified to stand in front of the<br />
massive ensemble, but he finally gave<br />
in to the encouraging cheers from the<br />
crowd and orchestra and clenched the<br />
baton. I helped him start the piece<br />
and told him to keep moving his arm<br />
until the music stopped. I slowly<br />
backed away as he gained confidence.<br />
He had no idea what he was doing,<br />
but the orchestra was competent<br />
enough to carry him through the<br />
piece. It was such a meaningful<br />
experience for the little boy that he<br />
was talking about it days later.<br />
The child’s helplessness in leading the<br />
orchestra reminded me of our<br />
helplessness before God, “like sheep<br />
without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36).<br />
We are completely dependent upon<br />
Christ to bear our sin and shame,<br />
clothe us in His righteousness and<br />
carry us through the Christian life.<br />
“His grace is sufficient for us, and His<br />
power is made perfect in weakness.”<br />
(2 Corinthians 12:9).<br />
Christ said, “I have come into the<br />
world as a light, so that no one who<br />
believes in me should stay in darkness”<br />
(John 12:46). As Christians, we are<br />
called to reflect the light of Christ.<br />
How can you be a light for Christ in<br />
our dark world this Christmas season<br />
and throughout the year?<br />
Johnny Fuller serves as the Associate<br />
Minister of Music. He and his wife,<br />
Heather, have three children, Hannah,<br />
Isaac and Andrew, and live in Allen.<br />
“<br />
Dear friends, let us love one another,<br />
for love comes from God. Everyone<br />
who loves has been born of God and<br />
knows God. Whoever does not love<br />
does not know God, because God is<br />
love. This is how God showed his love<br />
among us: He sent his one and only<br />
Son into the world that we might live<br />
through him.” 1 John 4:7-9<br />
It was a few days before Christmas and<br />
my newly-turned one year-old daughter<br />
was crying at the top of her lungs. No<br />
reason: just…wailing. I offered to take<br />
my daughter into her room and spent<br />
the next hour pulling out every trick<br />
in the book to try to make her happy.<br />
Nothing worked.<br />
Finally, I acted oblivious to the fact<br />
she was crying, rocked her, held her<br />
close, and sang. “Away in a Manger”<br />
and got to the line in one version I’d<br />
heard before:<br />
“Raise, raise, your song on high, the<br />
virgin sings a lullaby.<br />
Joy, joy, for Love’s been born.<br />
The babe.<br />
The son of Mary.”<br />
All of a sudden, the beauty of the<br />
reminder that Love had come on<br />
Christmas far outweighed the upset child<br />
I was rocking in my arms. The crying<br />
didn’t change, but my perspective did.<br />
I was reminded in those brief moments,<br />
that if I keep love as prominent – first<br />
and foremost – I will not be far off<br />
from the life that God desires for me.<br />
Holding a child brought me back to<br />
something simple in my life and<br />
simple in my faith: That we are<br />
ultimately about loving God and<br />
others. Jesus was the epitome of love.<br />
I suddenly became keenly aware that<br />
the room was quiet, except for my<br />
rather off-key singing.<br />
My baby was asleep, and I was<br />
exhausted, but uplifted, reminded of<br />
the love of the Savior.<br />
I put her down and kissed her little<br />
head. And I knew, deep down, that I<br />
had just learned a profound truth and<br />
had a Christmas memory that I would<br />
never forget.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• Love is the dominant trait in the life<br />
of Christ – is it in yours?<br />
• What would those outside of the<br />
church walls think of us if we grasped<br />
the concept that Christ is love? If<br />
we made that ultimate in our lives?<br />
• How can you (and your family)<br />
become someone with love as<br />
central in their lives?<br />
Jim Gribnitz is the Junior High Minister<br />
and he and his wife, Nikki, have three<br />
children, Hannah, Seth and Abigail.
Friday, December 16 Saturday, December 17<br />
It’s the most wonderful time of the year!<br />
Christmas! I have such fond memories<br />
of Christmas from my youth. Preparing<br />
for the holidays meant decorating the<br />
house inside and out, baking homemade<br />
cookies, shopping for and wrapping<br />
gifts, enjoying the church events and<br />
more. It also meant that my father<br />
would be on the hunt for the “perfect”<br />
Christmas tree. Every season, we would<br />
pile in the car and that’s where the<br />
adventure began. Dad had an image<br />
in his mind of what the perfect tree<br />
looked like and he didn’t stop until<br />
we found it.<br />
My cousins and our family would<br />
gather to celebrate Christmas at my<br />
grandparents’ home. I still can smell<br />
the aroma of the turkey, hear the<br />
crackling of the fire in the fireplace<br />
and remember the joyful voices of the<br />
family members throughout the house.<br />
When it was time for Christmas<br />
dinner we sat at the proverbial “adult<br />
table” and a “cousin’s table” which<br />
just happened to be right by the<br />
Christmas tree. Throughout dinner<br />
the kids would gaze at the glittering<br />
Christmas tree and discuss with great<br />
anticipation what might be inside of<br />
the beautifully wrapped presents.<br />
These are all wonderful memories<br />
from my childhood which I keep in<br />
my heart.<br />
As I grew older, married and had<br />
children of my own, our family has<br />
developed our own traditions.<br />
Hopefully, my children will look back<br />
on their lives with fond memories<br />
and, when they are grown, continue<br />
to make their own traditions. As a<br />
parent you try to foster the best in<br />
your children’s lives. It’s similar to<br />
what Christ tries to do for us. He’s<br />
there for us when we stumble and fall,<br />
through our joys and sadness. He’s a<br />
God of grace and forgiveness. “So<br />
that, having been justified by his<br />
grace, we might become heirs having<br />
the hope of eternal life.” Titus 3:6-8<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• Start a family tradition of your<br />
own! Gather the family and discuss<br />
what you would like your tradition<br />
to be.<br />
• Do something for someone else this<br />
season – rake your neighbors’ leaves<br />
or volunteer at a shelter. You will<br />
be blessed!<br />
Julie Punjak is the Director of<br />
Communications. She and her<br />
husband, Marc, have two children,<br />
Hunter and Maribeth, and live<br />
in Dallas.<br />
The early ‘90s were full of great<br />
things; from Michael Jordan’s Bulls,<br />
fanny packs, to the Macarena. But for<br />
me, as a young boy, it was about two<br />
great brothers, The Super Mario<br />
Brothers! The second edition of this<br />
game was released when I was about<br />
12 years old, and the craze was high,<br />
especially since Christmas was just<br />
around the corner. I knew it wasn’t<br />
worth even asking for; it was an<br />
impossibility, pigs would fly and the<br />
Saints would win the Super Bowl<br />
before a poor kid like me would get<br />
the prized possession.<br />
So there I was, Christmas Eve night,<br />
digging into all of the presents: socks,<br />
a truck, and even flannel pajamas.<br />
Little did I know my mom* had<br />
saved the best for last. She handed<br />
me one last gift to open, and as I did,<br />
my eyes lit up as I tore the paper.<br />
Much to my surprise, I held in my<br />
hands the greatest game ever made;<br />
“Super Mario Bro 2.” I can still<br />
remember the great joy and smile on<br />
my mom’s face as she watched me<br />
celebrate my new treasure.<br />
Our heavenly Father is like this. He<br />
gets great pleasure in giving us what<br />
we need. He gives us Himself. The<br />
image that comes to mind during<br />
Christmas for me is the heavenly<br />
babe, born in the lowliest of places.<br />
He was born to be a gift for you and<br />
me. Can’t you just see the Father’s<br />
face with pure joy and happiness<br />
when we accept the greatest<br />
Christmas gift ever given?<br />
Ephesians 4:7-8 states, But grace was<br />
given to each one of us according to<br />
the measure of Christ’s gift.<br />
Therefore it says, “When he ascended<br />
on high he led a host of captives, and<br />
he gave gifts to men.”<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• When a good gift is given, who<br />
tends to receive more joy, the gift<br />
giver or the recipient? Why?<br />
• What are some of the greatest gifts<br />
God has given you?<br />
• What can you do this holiday<br />
season to show God’s love to others?<br />
David Huey is the Minister to<br />
Students, he is married to Amy and<br />
they have one son, Eli<br />
*written in memory of my mom who<br />
passed away in 1996.
Sunday, December 18<br />
Monday, December 19<br />
When I think of the images of<br />
Christmas, I recall the night Christ was<br />
born in a stable in Bethlehem, a mere<br />
moment when history was forever<br />
changed. I wonder what was going on<br />
in Joseph’s mind hours before Christ<br />
was born.<br />
One of my favorite memories of<br />
Christmas occurred when I was a little<br />
kid. I was chosen to play Joseph in<br />
the Christmas Pageant at Little Folks<br />
Day School. I remember my best<br />
friend playing the donkey and a girl I<br />
was friends with played Mary. Other<br />
members of our class played angels<br />
and shepherds, and a plastic baby doll<br />
played Jesus.<br />
Reflecting back on my role as Joseph<br />
today, I see a different perspective of<br />
Joseph’s thoughts. My mind wonders<br />
what Joseph was thinking when all<br />
the events were taking place before<br />
him. Did he question over and over<br />
again if he could be used by God?<br />
Did he ask why me? Regardless of the<br />
questions Joseph had, he opened<br />
himself up to be used by the Lord for<br />
His glory.<br />
The lesson of Joseph making himself<br />
available to be used by God is a lesson<br />
I believe is relevant to many today.<br />
The Lord has deployed us across many<br />
spectrums of business, school and life.<br />
All we need to do is follow the actions<br />
of Joseph in that moment of<br />
uncertainty and be available for the<br />
Lord to use us. Unsure of what the<br />
cost would be, or the circumstances in<br />
life, Joseph, said “Here I am Lord, use<br />
me.” The words of Isaiah 6:8 prompt<br />
us to say: send me Lord.<br />
Verse: Then I heard the voice of the<br />
Lord saying, “Whom shall I send?<br />
And who will go for us?” And I said,<br />
“Here am I. Send me!” Isaiah 6:8<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• What areas in your life have you<br />
made unavailable to God for his use<br />
for his glory?<br />
• Do you have a limit to where God<br />
can “send you”?<br />
• How can you become more available<br />
to the use of God?<br />
Brandon Boyd is Associate Minister of<br />
Missions. Brandon and his wife,<br />
Kelsey, live in Dallas.<br />
My favorite Christmas memory is a<br />
family tradition. Every Christmas Eve<br />
my brothers and I would gather around<br />
the living room with our parents to<br />
read Luke 2. After reading the account<br />
of Jesus’ birth we would head upstairs<br />
to go to bed. Our tradition was to sleep<br />
in the same room; this was something<br />
that I took for granted until I moved<br />
away to college.<br />
Looking back, my favorite memories<br />
came from that room. We would sing<br />
Christmas songs along with the radio,<br />
wrestle, and, of course, never sleep.<br />
Now that I’m the old married brother,<br />
I miss these nights. I remember most<br />
clearly the anticipation of Christmas<br />
morning. This anticipation changed<br />
as we grew up. As kids we were<br />
anticipating gifts and presents. When<br />
we were older we anticipated the<br />
magnitude of the incarnation. Jesus,<br />
the Son of God, came for us…that is<br />
something worthy of anticipation.<br />
I am reminded of Zechariah’s<br />
prophecy in Luke 1:76-79, and the<br />
ultimate anticipation. As John would<br />
“go before the Lord to prepare his ways,<br />
to give knowledge of salvation to his<br />
people in the forgiveness of their<br />
sins.” I can’t imagine the anticipation<br />
John must have felt as he prepared the<br />
way for Jesus, ministering in his<br />
waiting. As we celebrate the birth of<br />
Jesus Christ today we are given a new<br />
anticipation, that of His return. Today<br />
the church stands tall in her anticipation<br />
for the second coming of Jesus.<br />
I love how these memories point us<br />
back to our Savior. Christmas is a<br />
celebration of the birth of Jesus and<br />
the extreme anticipation of His return.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• How can we as a family celebrate<br />
Christmas this year in light of this<br />
extreme anticipation?<br />
• What family traditions are leading<br />
us back to Jesus and motivating us<br />
to carry His name well this<br />
Christmas season?<br />
Stephen Partrick is our Minister to<br />
College Students and Interim Young<br />
Adult Minister. He and his wife,<br />
Megan, are about to celebrate their<br />
second Christmas together.
Tuesday, December 20 Wednesday, December 21<br />
What comes to your mind when you<br />
think of Christmas? What is the<br />
home movie that plays in your head?<br />
For me, it is the image of my family<br />
transforming into modern day Magi.<br />
Every year someone from my family<br />
would hide the baby Jesus from our<br />
nativity scene. Then, the rest of us<br />
would follow the clues that person had<br />
left behind to be the first to find Jesus.<br />
I remember loving to get to be the<br />
one who hid Jesus. Not because he<br />
was lost, but because I knew where he<br />
was—and I got to be the one who left<br />
the clues for my family to find Him. I<br />
would spend hours looking up the<br />
perfect verses and song lyrics to leave<br />
as clues. I wanted to make sure my<br />
clues were difficult enough to ensure<br />
those looking really had a desire to<br />
find what they were looking for, but<br />
clear enough that they ensured the<br />
success of the Christ child being found.<br />
All thoughts of presents and Christmas<br />
dinner were forgotten because we had<br />
to find Jesus. He became our sole<br />
focus. The search for Baby Jesus<br />
became a very visual reminder for me<br />
of the Christmas Story.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
Read together the story of the first<br />
search for the Christ child.<br />
(Matthew 2: 1-12)<br />
This is a great time for you as a family<br />
to share about the time you found Jesus.<br />
• Look at verses 10-11. How did the<br />
Magi respond when they found Jesus?<br />
• What can we learn from this?<br />
Read Jeremiah 29: 14.<br />
Here it is from The Message, “When<br />
you come looking for me, you’ll find<br />
me. Yes, when you get serious about<br />
finding me and want it more than<br />
anything else, I’ll make sure you<br />
won’t be disappointed.”<br />
• What is it that you are searching<br />
for?<br />
• What clues have you left for your<br />
family? What are they leading<br />
them to find?<br />
Erin Edwards serves as the Girls<br />
Minister to junior and senior high<br />
students. Erin is very close to her<br />
family. She loves holidays, hot<br />
chocolate, and curling up with a good<br />
book. Erin loves ministering to teenage<br />
girls and spends much of her free time<br />
hanging out at school musicals,<br />
volleyball games and pep rallies.<br />
Celebrating Christmas as a child at my<br />
grandparents’ home gave me many<br />
wonderful memories, and also shaped<br />
my celebration of the glorious holiday. I<br />
can still remember smelling homemade<br />
kolaches and chicken noodle soup in the<br />
kitchen and walking around my<br />
maternal grandparents’ home to see<br />
all the decorations in their places: the<br />
handmade stockings by my grandmother<br />
hanging by the fireplace, the ceramic<br />
snowman with black top hat by the<br />
glass door, and, of course, the beautiful<br />
Christmas tree reaching to the ceiling<br />
with every branch full of ornaments.<br />
But the one Christmas image that<br />
first comes to mind when I think of<br />
those Christmases is the nativity<br />
music box that was always placed on a<br />
table for all to enjoy and (I think)<br />
especially for me to reach, turn on and<br />
get a good view of the wise men as<br />
they rotated around the stable that<br />
held Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus.<br />
As I think about holding that music<br />
box in my hands and hearing “Silent<br />
Night” play, I see God reaching out<br />
to me even then. I find it so amazing<br />
that in the midst of all the Christmas<br />
in my grandparents’ home (and I mean<br />
a lot of Christmas!) this nativity music<br />
box was the most special thing to me.<br />
We know that Jesus “is the reason for<br />
the season” and that He is the Father’s<br />
gift to us. Scripture tells us:<br />
“For God so loved the world that he<br />
gave his one and only Son, that<br />
whoever believes in him shall not<br />
perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16<br />
Praise God that I accepted Jesus as<br />
my Lord and Savior years later. I am<br />
thankful that God kept reaching out<br />
to me and drawing me to Himself. In<br />
what way is God drawing you to Him<br />
this Christmas season? What<br />
memories are you making for your<br />
family? Let God lead you this year<br />
and pass it on to those most dear.<br />
These days, I have the privilege of<br />
celebrating Christmas not only with<br />
loved ones from my childhood, but<br />
also with my husband and his family.<br />
I carry on many of the traditions from<br />
my childhood and even make the<br />
homemade chicken noodle soup! And<br />
a few years ago, I found a tiny small<br />
nativity music box that I gave to my<br />
husband as a gift which we proudly<br />
display in our home. I still get that<br />
special feeling when I look at it and<br />
hear the music.<br />
Merry Christmas to your family from<br />
ours – Melissa and Eric McNeil<br />
Melissa serves as the Prayer and<br />
Women’s Administrator.
Thursday, December 22<br />
Friday, December 23<br />
John 1:1-2 “In the beginning was the<br />
Word, and the Word was with God,<br />
and the Word was God. 2 He was<br />
with God in the beginning.”<br />
John’s Christmas story goes all the<br />
way back to the beginning and gives<br />
us a glimpse at God’s relationship<br />
WITH Jesus (the Word). Verse two<br />
restates something that John already<br />
communicated in verse one. Jesus was<br />
WITH God in the beginning. The<br />
close proximity of their divine<br />
relationship was important enough to<br />
tell us twice.<br />
My image of Christmas is family. All<br />
of my greatest Christmas memories<br />
involve being WITH my family. I<br />
remember playing games WITH,<br />
eating WITH, watching football<br />
WITH, sitting around the tree<br />
WITH and just sharing life WITH<br />
each other. I can’t imagine Christmas<br />
without the ones I love.<br />
Emmanuel = God WITH us<br />
John 1:14 “the Word became flesh<br />
and dwelt among us…”<br />
The Word (Jesus) became flesh and<br />
came to be WITH us! The incarnate,<br />
eternal, all-knowing, all-powerful<br />
God loved us enough to come and<br />
spend time WITH us, live WITH us,<br />
teach us, and die for us. When you<br />
think about getting time WITH the<br />
ones you love, think about what Jesus<br />
did to be WITH you.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• What is something that you would<br />
enjoy doing WITH our family<br />
during Christmas?<br />
• How can we intentionally include<br />
Jesus WITH us as we celebrate?<br />
Sam Holm, Associate Pastor of<br />
Teaching and Minister to Singles, and<br />
his wife, Rebecca, have one daughter,<br />
Anna Grace.<br />
It doesn’t take too many years of life<br />
for the focus of gifts at Christmas to<br />
wear thin. Whether you were the<br />
recipient of bigger and better Christmas<br />
gifts, or you come from a family that<br />
could not afford as much as your<br />
friends, the same thing happens. The<br />
thrill of the gifts does not meet the<br />
expectation. I don’t know the exact<br />
year it happened for me, but I do<br />
remember what began to replace it.<br />
I have a large family and it was rare to<br />
find myself alone in my home,<br />
especially since I shared a room with<br />
two brothers. One year, as the hype of<br />
Christmas was wearing thin, somehow<br />
I found myself where the Christmas<br />
tree stood all lit in its glory while the<br />
rest of the house was dark. I walked<br />
into the room and just sat in front of<br />
the tree able to take in the full force<br />
of its gentle light in the very dark and<br />
unusual quiet of the hour. This became<br />
my favorite ritual of Christmas after the<br />
first year I discovered this solitary jewel.<br />
It reminded me of the meeting I had<br />
with my pastor after I prayed to<br />
accept Jesus as my Savior when I was<br />
seven years old. The pastor said he<br />
wanted to show me something and he<br />
led me to the small prayer chapel<br />
within his office. We walked into the<br />
room and he stood me right in the<br />
middle, then he turned out the lights<br />
and it was so dark you couldn’t see<br />
anything in the room. The pastor told<br />
me that this darkness is how my heart<br />
was before I asked Jesus into it. Then<br />
he turned on the light and told me<br />
that this light is how my heart is now.<br />
As I sit in a dark room illuminated<br />
only by the lights on the Christmas<br />
tree, perhaps I am unconsciously<br />
thinking of that important spiritual<br />
lesson regarding light that I learned<br />
so early in my spiritual journey. It is a<br />
beautiful and peaceful experience<br />
where my soul finds rest. Jesus said<br />
He is the light of the world. I’m so<br />
glad I have that light in my life.<br />
“Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, ‘I am<br />
the light of the world. Whoever follows<br />
me will not walk in darkness, but will<br />
have the light of life.’” John 8:12, ESV<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• How has Jesus rescued you from the<br />
darkness and brought you into light?<br />
• What are some of your favorite<br />
lights of Christmas?<br />
• How did the Christmas star bring the<br />
wise men out of darkness into light?<br />
Dr. Brian Newman, Minister of<br />
Congregational Care, and his wife,<br />
Debi, have two grown children,<br />
Rachel and Ben.
Saturday, December 24<br />
Sunday, December 25<br />
Some years ago I had the brilliant idea<br />
to recreate the Christmas manger<br />
scene in a barn for a music video. We<br />
had some dairy farmers in our church<br />
who graciously offered their barn to<br />
us. We spent days preparing the barn<br />
for filming…moving cows, spreading<br />
hay, running power cables, hanging<br />
lights…everything needed to make<br />
the scene look authentic.<br />
When the day of the video shoot arrived<br />
we got there very early to make sure<br />
everything was in place. We chose the<br />
perfect cows to be “lowing,” some<br />
sheep, a donkey, and a manger. With<br />
the actors in place we began to film<br />
the scene where the Son of God was<br />
born on earth. It was magical. It was<br />
moving to everyone who was there.<br />
We filmed most of the day.<br />
What we didn’t know was that the<br />
video lighting was overloading the<br />
electrical transformer out on the<br />
street. With a sizable explosion, the<br />
transformer went out and all the<br />
power to the farm went with it. The<br />
good news was that there was no fire.<br />
The bad news was that without power<br />
all the milking machines would not<br />
work and it was time for all the cows<br />
to be milked. So….we all learned to<br />
milk by hand. I’ll never forget it. I<br />
got home very late and very tired. I<br />
had spent the day in the barn with all<br />
the animals and I smelled like it.<br />
Our dog, Alex, who was half terrier<br />
and half basset hound (think about it)<br />
went crazy. He was on smell overload.<br />
I smelled like I had spent the day in<br />
the lowliest of places…covered with<br />
the stench of the place where farm<br />
animals live. Then it occurred to<br />
me…I have been where Jesus was<br />
born. I had been in the place where<br />
Jesus came to find me…..the lowliest<br />
of places. Jesus Christ, the Son of the<br />
Living God, had left heaven and all of<br />
its glory to come to earth and bring<br />
me home. He humbled Himself and<br />
became a man….so I could know Him.<br />
The distance of His great “comedown”<br />
was farther than I could possibly<br />
imagine. What love! What a Christmas!<br />
Miller Cunningham is the Pastor of<br />
Ministries. He and his wife, Ginger,<br />
have two sons, Scott and Ben.<br />
“This will be a sign to you: You will<br />
find a baby wrapped in cloths and<br />
lying in a manger.” Luke 2:12<br />
How far we have come from that first<br />
Christmas! Consider the contrast. Our<br />
Christmases are marked by lights,<br />
decorations, malls, Santas, shoppers,<br />
parties, food, toys, trees, reindeers,<br />
elves and much, much more. The birth<br />
of Jesus is cause for a global celebration,<br />
but the first Christmas focused on one<br />
solitary life – one little baby, born in<br />
a little-known town to a Bedouin<br />
teenage couple. He was then placed in<br />
a feed trough. The newborn’s cry split<br />
the air. It sounded just like the cry of<br />
any other baby. But through the tiny<br />
veins of this baby pumped the blood<br />
that would be spilled on Calvary’s<br />
cross. His soft little fist would be<br />
opened and penetrated by the spike of<br />
a Roman executioner. Those tiny feet,<br />
yet to touch the earth, would grow<br />
calloused through the miles and miles<br />
of carrying the never-heard message of<br />
God’s unfailing grace. Who could’ve<br />
known that this little baby had come<br />
to change the world? We know. You<br />
and I know exactly who this baby was<br />
and even still, who He is today. He is<br />
the Lord of all creation. And He<br />
desires to be Lord of your life.<br />
I love the sights, sounds, and colors of<br />
Christmas. But this Christmas I<br />
resolve not to get lost in the busyness<br />
that the season has become. Instead,<br />
through intentional, quiet moments<br />
with my Savior, I will hear His cry<br />
again. But this time, it will resound<br />
clearer than a baby’s cry, because now<br />
this Jesus lives in me. And if I listen,<br />
really listen, it will be my feet, my<br />
hands, and my lips that will spread<br />
the message of His unfailing grace.<br />
This Christmas season, that will be<br />
my gift to the King.<br />
For Discussion:<br />
• What about you? What will be<br />
your gift to Jesus this Christmas?<br />
• How will you change the rhythm of<br />
your life in order to hear from Him<br />
this season?<br />
Dr. Jeff Warren, Senior Pastor, and his<br />
wife, Stacy, have three children,<br />
Whitney, Emily, and Travis.