Winter Issue 2009 - cfmeu
Winter Issue 2009 - cfmeu
Winter Issue 2009 - cfmeu
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U N I O N B E N E F I T S<br />
YOUR REDUNDANCY PAYMENTS:<br />
HELPING YOU AND OTHERS<br />
Steve Parsons is a concreter for<br />
Crown Construction, working at the<br />
Mandurah Peninsula Hotel site in<br />
2007-08. He was getting to work<br />
alright, but his workmates noticed<br />
he wasn’t his normal self, but<br />
seemed depressed.<br />
For almost 2 years Steve had not<br />
gone out much, was sleeping<br />
poorly, had no appetite and was<br />
feeling unmotivated, empty, lonely<br />
and worthless. He felt a strong<br />
responsibility to his daughter and<br />
knew he had to do something<br />
before it got worse.<br />
Steve spoke about his worries to the<br />
union steward on site, Cam<br />
McCullough, who suggested it might<br />
do some good to have a word with<br />
the Converge Counsellor Sergio Del<br />
Borrello. He called and we made an<br />
appointment to meet on-site.<br />
Steve’s boss, Vince from Crown,<br />
gave the ok. He understood the<br />
value in Steve getting help during<br />
work time.<br />
In a nutshell, Steve had gone<br />
through 3 big losses in a row. Firstly,<br />
the death of his ex wife, who had left<br />
him with the sole care of his<br />
daughter Hayley (12).<br />
Secondly his very close companion<br />
and life long neighbour Sid died.<br />
The final straw was when he had to<br />
make the difficult decision to put<br />
down his best friend and dog, Prue,<br />
following an illness.<br />
Steve and I discussed many things<br />
in counselling, including what he<br />
“Keeping<br />
it a secret<br />
is wrong”<br />
Steve Parsons left with<br />
Counsellor Sergio Del<br />
Borrello<br />
had lost in his life as well as the<br />
positive memories. After this we<br />
worked out what Steve needed to<br />
do to get back on track.<br />
Steve’s goals were to<br />
1. Socialise and go out more<br />
2. Be happy with himself<br />
3. Finish his house and garden<br />
4. Find a relationship partner<br />
After 3 weeks Steve began to look<br />
forward to work again and his<br />
workmates started to tell him that<br />
they had noticed a change in him.<br />
He was beginning to laugh and<br />
whistle again and was “starting to<br />
see the light at the end of the<br />
tunnel”.<br />
Now he has a new woman in his life,<br />
a new dog, Barney, and his<br />
depression has gone.<br />
Steve’s advice: “Keeping it a secret<br />
is wrong. As soon as I opened my<br />
mouth I knew I was doing the right<br />
thing. My life has turned around and<br />
life is perfect. If telling my story can<br />
help someone else then I am doing<br />
the right thing”.<br />
Worried about yourself?<br />
A workmate?<br />
Your family?<br />
Call the counsellors Sergio<br />
(CBD) and Godfrey (Outer<br />
suburbs) at Converge<br />
International on 1800 337 068.<br />
All discussions are confidential<br />
and free to WACIRF and<br />
CFMEU members and their<br />
families.<br />
Construction Worker – <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2009</strong> Page 47<br />
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