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U N I O N B E N E F I T S<br />

YOUR REDUNDANCY PAYMENTS:<br />

HELPING YOU AND OTHERS<br />

Steve Parsons is a concreter for<br />

Crown Construction, working at the<br />

Mandurah Peninsula Hotel site in<br />

2007-08. He was getting to work<br />

alright, but his workmates noticed<br />

he wasn’t his normal self, but<br />

seemed depressed.<br />

For almost 2 years Steve had not<br />

gone out much, was sleeping<br />

poorly, had no appetite and was<br />

feeling unmotivated, empty, lonely<br />

and worthless. He felt a strong<br />

responsibility to his daughter and<br />

knew he had to do something<br />

before it got worse.<br />

Steve spoke about his worries to the<br />

union steward on site, Cam<br />

McCullough, who suggested it might<br />

do some good to have a word with<br />

the Converge Counsellor Sergio Del<br />

Borrello. He called and we made an<br />

appointment to meet on-site.<br />

Steve’s boss, Vince from Crown,<br />

gave the ok. He understood the<br />

value in Steve getting help during<br />

work time.<br />

In a nutshell, Steve had gone<br />

through 3 big losses in a row. Firstly,<br />

the death of his ex wife, who had left<br />

him with the sole care of his<br />

daughter Hayley (12).<br />

Secondly his very close companion<br />

and life long neighbour Sid died.<br />

The final straw was when he had to<br />

make the difficult decision to put<br />

down his best friend and dog, Prue,<br />

following an illness.<br />

Steve and I discussed many things<br />

in counselling, including what he<br />

“Keeping<br />

it a secret<br />

is wrong”<br />

Steve Parsons left with<br />

Counsellor Sergio Del<br />

Borrello<br />

had lost in his life as well as the<br />

positive memories. After this we<br />

worked out what Steve needed to<br />

do to get back on track.<br />

Steve’s goals were to<br />

1. Socialise and go out more<br />

2. Be happy with himself<br />

3. Finish his house and garden<br />

4. Find a relationship partner<br />

After 3 weeks Steve began to look<br />

forward to work again and his<br />

workmates started to tell him that<br />

they had noticed a change in him.<br />

He was beginning to laugh and<br />

whistle again and was “starting to<br />

see the light at the end of the<br />

tunnel”.<br />

Now he has a new woman in his life,<br />

a new dog, Barney, and his<br />

depression has gone.<br />

Steve’s advice: “Keeping it a secret<br />

is wrong. As soon as I opened my<br />

mouth I knew I was doing the right<br />

thing. My life has turned around and<br />

life is perfect. If telling my story can<br />

help someone else then I am doing<br />

the right thing”.<br />

Worried about yourself?<br />

A workmate?<br />

Your family?<br />

Call the counsellors Sergio<br />

(CBD) and Godfrey (Outer<br />

suburbs) at Converge<br />

International on 1800 337 068.<br />

All discussions are confidential<br />

and free to WACIRF and<br />

CFMEU members and their<br />

families.<br />

Construction Worker – <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2009</strong> Page 47<br />

CFMEU

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