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S U N S T O N E<br />

IN RECENT YEARS, LDS leaders have reemphasized<br />

the dangers of pornography.<br />

In a review of some five hundred articles<br />

and speeches, social psycholog<strong>is</strong>t Marv<strong>in</strong><br />

Rytt<strong>in</strong>g shows that LDS statements aga<strong>in</strong>st<br />

pornography rose markedly between 1954<br />

and 1979. 1 Contemporary statements suggest<br />

that the trend has cont<strong>in</strong>ued. President<br />

Gordon B. H<strong>in</strong>ckley has called pornography<br />

“entic<strong>in</strong>g and habit <strong>for</strong>m<strong>in</strong>g” 2 and President<br />

James E. Faust suggests it <strong>is</strong> “as addictive as<br />

coca<strong>in</strong>e or any illegal drug.” 3 A recent Church<br />

News <strong>is</strong>sue publ<strong>is</strong>hed a three-page alert about<br />

the “enslavement of pornography.” 4 A 2004<br />

LDS book about marriage conta<strong>in</strong>s a chapter<br />

on “the plague of pornography,” written by a<br />

social worker who specializes <strong>in</strong> pornography<br />

and cybersex. 5<br />

At a time when Internet users are bombarded<br />

with unwanted sexual messages, th<strong>is</strong><br />

emphas<strong>is</strong> on the evils of pornography <strong>is</strong><br />

doubtless seen by many Latter-day Sa<strong>in</strong>ts as a<br />

timely prophetic warn<strong>in</strong>g. But <strong>is</strong> it more than<br />

mere hyperbole to call pornography “a vicious<br />

brew of slime and sleaze, the partak<strong>in</strong>g<br />

of which only leads to m<strong>is</strong>ery, degradation,<br />

and regret”? 6 Does scientific research support<br />

characteriz<strong>in</strong>g pornography as enslavement<br />

and addition? Or <strong>is</strong> th<strong>is</strong> another example of<br />

what some authors have dubbed “Mormon<br />

erotophobia”? 7<br />

PORNOGRAPHY AS ADDICTION<br />

LDS LEADERS HAVE decried “exhibitions of<br />

nakedness, of obscenity, of vulgarity” at least<br />

s<strong>in</strong>ce 1911, 8 but it was <strong>in</strong> 1959 that Ezra Taft<br />

Benson of the Quorum of the Twelve first<br />

connected pornography and drug abuse.<br />

“There <strong>is</strong> a peculiar resemblance to narcotics<br />

addiction <strong>in</strong> exposure of juveniles to pornography,”<br />

he said <strong>in</strong> the October 1959 General<br />

Conference, quot<strong>in</strong>g from a Senate subcommittee<br />

report. “There <strong>is</strong> the same pattern of<br />

progression. Once <strong>in</strong>itiated <strong>in</strong>to a knowledge<br />

of the unnatural, the impressionable young<br />

m<strong>in</strong>d with the <strong>in</strong>satiable curiosity character<strong>is</strong>tic<br />

of those reach<strong>in</strong>g <strong>for</strong> maturity <strong>in</strong>evitably<br />

HUGO OLAIZ <strong>is</strong> SUNSTONE’s news editor.<br />

BETWEEN THE LINES<br />

TIMELY WARNINGS OR EROTOPHOBIA?<br />

LDS RHETORIC ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY<br />

By Hugo Olaiz<br />

hunts <strong>for</strong> someth<strong>in</strong>g stronger, someth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

with more ‘jolt,’ someth<strong>in</strong>g impart<strong>in</strong>g a<br />

greater thrill.” 9<br />

Dormant <strong>for</strong> decades, the pornography<br />

and drugs connection resurfaced <strong>in</strong> Mormon<br />

d<strong>is</strong>course with the 1990 publication of<br />

Break<strong>in</strong>g the Cycle of Compulsive Behavior. The<br />

authors state, “The physical nature of a compulsive<br />

cycle <strong>is</strong> perhaps most obvious <strong>in</strong> substance<br />

abuse, where a recognizable chemical<br />

addiction ex<strong>is</strong>ts, but we found close parallels<br />

to th<strong>is</strong> type of addiction <strong>in</strong> behaviors as diverse<br />

as shoplift<strong>in</strong>g and look<strong>in</strong>g at pornography.”<br />

10 Two years later, dur<strong>in</strong>g a General<br />

Conference priesthood session, President<br />

Gordon B. H<strong>in</strong>ckley read a letter from a convert<br />

who described h<strong>is</strong> use of pornography as<br />

an addiction. “For most of my adult life I<br />

have been addicted to pornography,” the<br />

letter read. “I am ashamed to admit th<strong>is</strong>. My<br />

addiction <strong>is</strong> as real as that of an alcoholic or a<br />

drug addict.” 11<br />

LDS leaders also depict pornography as a<br />

gateway to horrible violent acts—even to sex<br />

crimes and murder. In 1990, LDS authors<br />

Bla<strong>in</strong>e and Brenton Yorgason publ<strong>is</strong>hed a<br />

book <strong>in</strong> which they <strong>in</strong>cluded Ted Bundy’s<br />

claims that h<strong>is</strong> career as a serial killer started<br />

as a twelve- or thirteen-year-old boy, on the<br />

day he happened across soft-core pornography.<br />

12 A 1995 Church News story asserts not<br />

only that pornography <strong>is</strong> as addictive as narcotics,<br />

but also that “it leads to other victims<br />

through the sick actions of the addict as he or<br />

she tries to act out h<strong>is</strong> or her addiction<br />

through sexual abuse, rape or even murder.” 13<br />

SCIENTISTS WEIGH IN<br />

“FOR SOME PEOPLE, pornography can be<br />

an addiction,” asserts Romel W.<br />

Mackelprang, professor of social sciences at<br />

Eastern Wash<strong>in</strong>gton University. “But I would<br />

caution aga<strong>in</strong>st overdramatiz<strong>in</strong>g it. I have<br />

seen pornography as an addiction, and I have<br />

seen it destroy people’s lives; but I become<br />

afraid if we send the message that anyone<br />

who uses it will become addicted.” 14<br />

To def<strong>in</strong>e addiction, Mackelprang uses a<br />

model based on substance abuse, “We can<br />

only say <strong>there</strong> <strong>is</strong> addiction when (1) it causes<br />

some k<strong>in</strong>d of problem to a person or to <strong>in</strong>terpersonal<br />

relationships, and (2) when the<br />

person does not have one hundred percent<br />

control over the situation (e.g., they can’t really<br />

control when to stop).” Addiction does<br />

tend to become progressive, i.e., the person<br />

tends to use it more and more.<br />

For Mackelprang, more dangerous than<br />

the possibility of addiction are the d<strong>is</strong>torted<br />

messages that pornography sends: “It connects<br />

violence with sex. It objectifies people,<br />

and it creates a ‘myth of perpetual read<strong>in</strong>ess,’<br />

accord<strong>in</strong>g to which women are always ready<br />

to have sex.”<br />

“The majority of people who look at<br />

pornography probably don’t have any k<strong>in</strong>d<br />

of psychiatric illness,” affirms Lou<strong>is</strong> Moench,<br />

professor of cl<strong>in</strong>ical psychiatry at the<br />

University of Utah. “The large, large majority<br />

of those who watch pornography never become<br />

crim<strong>in</strong>als, but some of them do.” 15<br />

When talk<strong>in</strong>g about those who abuse<br />

pornography, Moench rejects the term addiction<br />

on the grounds that pornography has<br />

not been shown to produce effects that can<br />

be seen <strong>in</strong> CT or MRI scans. He prefers <strong>in</strong>stead<br />

to talk about compulsion, i.e., a type of behavior<br />

that the person engages <strong>in</strong> repeatedly<br />

as an anxiety-reducer mechan<strong>is</strong>m. Accord<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to Moench, “Many sex crim<strong>in</strong>als are compulsive<br />

pornography watchers, but not all of<br />

them are. And you cannot say that they<br />

would not have become crim<strong>in</strong>als had they<br />

not started watch<strong>in</strong>g pornography. That<br />

probably wouldn’t be a testable hypothes<strong>is</strong>.”<br />

PORNOGRAPHY OR EROTICA?<br />

MANY HEALTH PROFESSIONALS believe<br />

look<strong>in</strong>g at erotic magaz<strong>in</strong>es or watch<strong>in</strong>g<br />

adult movies <strong>is</strong> normal and <strong>in</strong>nocuous. Some<br />

suggest contexts <strong>in</strong> which pornography<br />

could be beneficial. Even b<strong>is</strong>hops and stakes<br />

presidents have sometimes adv<strong>is</strong>ed LDS marrieds<br />

to try us<strong>in</strong>g adult films and magaz<strong>in</strong>es<br />

as an aid <strong>in</strong> solv<strong>in</strong>g sexual dysfunctions.<br />

Mark and L<strong>is</strong>a (not their real names) are<br />

an active LDS couple who married <strong>in</strong> the<br />

temple more than twenty years ago. They say<br />

the adult movies they occasionally watch do<br />

not qualify as pornography, because “they do<br />

not depict violence toward women.” They<br />

prefer the term erotica, and they see th<strong>is</strong> as a<br />

small part “<strong>in</strong> a wide range of th<strong>in</strong>gs we have<br />

<strong>in</strong> our [sexual] menu.” 16<br />

“We use adult videos with<strong>in</strong> the conf<strong>in</strong>es<br />

of our monogamous marriage, and neither of<br />

us feels a conflict with Church teach<strong>in</strong>gs,”<br />

PAGE 52 JULY 2004

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