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Same-sex parents<br />

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contextual and developmental challenges” (p.<br />

30). This research clearly demonstrates the<br />

role of societal support systems in fostering<br />

resiliency, which is of great importance to<br />

this current study when considering the<br />

impact of heterosexism on families with<br />

same-sex parents, which in many ways are<br />

not supported by society.<br />

Family Resilience<br />

<strong>The</strong> literature examined thus far has<br />

solely discussed resilience in individuals.<br />

However families by their very nature are made<br />

of several individuals, making the resiliency of<br />

the family more complex. Family resilience<br />

should be viewed as a cohesive unit rather than<br />

the sum of the resilience of all the individuals<br />

who make up the family (Simon, Murphy, &<br />

Smith, 2005). Family resilience researchers<br />

concur that family resilience is a<br />

multidimensional construct composing of three<br />

parts (Simon et al., 2005). <strong>The</strong> first dimension<br />

is the length of the stressful situation<br />

experienced by the family. A ‘challenge’ is the<br />

label given to a short-term situation, whereas<br />

‘crisis’ is used to describe a long-term adverse<br />

situation (Simon et al., 2005). How a family is<br />

able to negotiate the situation will depend on its<br />

duration. <strong>The</strong> second dimension of family<br />

resilience is the life stage of the family when it<br />

encounters the challenge or crisis, for example<br />

families with preschool age children face<br />

different issues to families with teenagers. <strong>The</strong><br />

characteristics and solutions of the family<br />

members must therefore appropriately match<br />

the life stage of the family, to foster resilience.<br />

<strong>The</strong> third dimension of resilience is the external<br />

and internal sources of support that a family<br />

accesses during an adverse situation or crisis.<br />

Research suggests that families that utilise<br />

support from outside the immediate family such<br />

as extended family members, friends and<br />

support from the wider community display<br />

higher levels of resilience and this may be of<br />

particular importance to individuals from<br />

cultures that value collectivism (McCubbin,<br />

McCubbin, Thompson, & Thompson, 1995).<br />

<strong>The</strong>se three dimensions can be used as a<br />

theoretical framework to help assist in the<br />

formulation of research questions and topics<br />

when conducting qualitative research into<br />

resiliency within families of same-sex parents.<br />

Walsh (1998) presented the systems<br />

theory of family resilience, which enables<br />

researchers to identify and target pivotal<br />

family processes that reduce stress in highrisk<br />

situations, foster coping and<br />

empowerment. Walsh (1998) put forward<br />

three key processes of family resilience. <strong>The</strong><br />

first is the family belief system, which<br />

encompasses the attitudes and values of the<br />

family, and thus shapes how they respond to<br />

adverse situations. If a family holds a positive<br />

belief system which values<br />

interconnectedness and problem resolution to<br />

overcome the challenges and crises that arise,<br />

the family may be able to perceive this<br />

adverse situation as a ‘normal’ life challenge.<br />

By normalising the situation the family is<br />

therefore able to determine what resources<br />

are available to them and how they should<br />

respond accordingly (Simon et al., 2005). <strong>The</strong><br />

second process is organisational patterns,<br />

which foster family resiliency through<br />

flexibility and connectivity. <strong>The</strong> third key<br />

process is communication (Walsh, 1998).<br />

Open communication within the family can<br />

foster mutual understanding and respect of<br />

individual family members and the<br />

opportunity to express emotions freely<br />

(Simon et al., 2005). Again this framework<br />

can be of particular use when investigating<br />

the experiences of families with same-sex<br />

parents, as some of the key processes may not<br />

be present, such as open communication<br />

because some parents may wish to keep their<br />

relationship a secret from their children, for<br />

fear of rejection and or losing custody<br />

(Fredriksen-Goldsen & Erera, 2004).<br />

Similarly, homophobic attitudes may have<br />

become a very ‘normal’ everyday life<br />

challenge for such families.<br />

Lesbian and Gay Families as Candidates for<br />

Resilience Studies<br />

Despite the knowledge that lesbian<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Australian</strong> <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Psychologist</strong> Volume 23 No 2 August 2011<br />

© <strong>The</strong> <strong>Australian</strong> Psychological Society Ltd

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