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(such as medical<br />

hardship) provided that<br />

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the chairperson of the<br />

Order and the local or<br />

most appropriate<br />

Dharma teachers are<br />

first consulted and, if<br />

time permits, the local<br />

or most appropriate core<br />

community members.<br />

4) <strong>The</strong> charter's<br />

exist<strong>in</strong>g description of<br />

the extended community<br />

should be reta<strong>in</strong>ed,<br />

but it should emphasize that long-stand<strong>in</strong>g members of the<br />

extended community (i.e., those who have participated<br />

regularly for a year or more) should be consulted about<br />

potential ord<strong>in</strong>ations, whether or not that member has taken<br />

the Five M<strong>in</strong>dfulness Tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gs.<br />

5) While the charter may cont<strong>in</strong>ue to state that partners<br />

of an Order member should be members of either the core or<br />

extended community, it is proposed that language be added<br />

stat<strong>in</strong>g that, <strong>in</strong> the alternative, an aspirant would live<br />

harmoniously with his or her partner so that the aspirant's<br />

partner supports his or her practice.<br />

Youth and Family Practice<br />

<strong>The</strong> Youth and Family Practice group was a wonderful<br />

meadow of beautiful smil<strong>in</strong>g flowers. We listened to each<br />

other deeply as we promised to have fun and to work from<br />

our own experiences rather than theory. We discussed the<br />

challenges to practice with youth. We recognized that<br />

sometimes children suffer rather than enjoy children's<br />

programs on retreats. We encouraged each other to listen<br />

deeply to children and to look deeply at ourselves so that we<br />

might make creative growth experiences out of opportunities<br />

that arise. Our purpose statement embodies that vision:<br />

We recognize the joy of m<strong>in</strong>dfulness practice with<br />

children, families, and communities. We want to embrace<br />

the spark of children's enthusiasm. Through the practice of<br />

look<strong>in</strong>g through children's eyes and <strong>in</strong>to their hearts, we<br />

wish to provide lov<strong>in</strong>g opportunities for them to creatively<br />

explore the Dharma. We recognize the challenge of <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g<br />

children <strong>in</strong> our practice. We wish to share with each<br />

other our diverse experiences of practice. We honor the<br />

value of diversity and acknowledge the need for skillful<br />

means to make the Dharma available to children of different<br />

backgrounds. <strong>The</strong>refore, to encourage an experientiallybased<br />

approach and to nourish the seeds of m<strong>in</strong>dfulness, we<br />

envision these tools for practic<strong>in</strong>g with children:<br />

o A family section <strong>in</strong> <strong>The</strong> M<strong>in</strong>dfulness <strong>Bell</strong>, composed of<br />

an "adults" page, with anecdotal experiences, suggestions<br />

~ OT practice, seasonal practices, and family retreat <strong>in</strong>formation,<br />

and a children's page with children's writ<strong>in</strong>gs and<br />

draw<strong>in</strong>gs.<br />

o A resource notebook which would serve as a family<br />

practice handbook. <strong>The</strong> notebook could be composed, <strong>in</strong><br />

part, from Thay's Dhanna talks and from the family section<br />

of <strong>The</strong> M<strong>in</strong>dfulness <strong>Bell</strong>.<br />

o Cassettes and videotapes (fun and <strong>in</strong>structional), some<br />

prepared by young people on retreat and some prepared for<br />

youth and children <strong>in</strong> practice.<br />

o Mak<strong>in</strong>g Thay's Dhanna talks for children more widely<br />

available <strong>in</strong> tapes or transcripts.<br />

o Support for local family retreats through notice of<br />

retreats, shar<strong>in</strong>g experience of what does and does not work<br />

<strong>in</strong> local Sanghas, and help<strong>in</strong>g to organize family retreats.<br />

o A catalog of resources on practice with children,<br />

compiled by members of the Youth and Family Council<br />

with contributions from the larger Sangha.<br />

Sangha Build<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>The</strong> role and responsibility of Order of Interbe<strong>in</strong>g members<br />

is to practice, to offer practice, and to support other people<br />

<strong>in</strong> the practice. <strong>The</strong> follow<strong>in</strong>g recommendations were made:<br />

I) Help Jack Lawlor revise the draft of the manual on<br />

start<strong>in</strong>g a Sangha.<br />

2) Support Dharma teachers to lead retreats with<strong>in</strong> and<br />

outside their geographic areas. Assist newer groups and<br />

<strong>in</strong>dividuals to organize these retreats.<br />

3) Commit ourselves to practic<strong>in</strong>g consensus, Beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g<br />

Anew, and the Peace Treaty <strong>in</strong> our Sanghas, and deepen<strong>in</strong>g<br />

our Sangha relationships. Create a suggestion box as a way<br />

for newer people to offer their fresh perspective to the<br />

Sangha.<br />

4) Commit ourselves to develop shared leadership by<br />

teach<strong>in</strong>g our skills and develop<strong>in</strong>g ourselves <strong>in</strong> less skilled<br />

areas, honor<strong>in</strong>g different styles of approach<strong>in</strong>g the work.<br />

5) Ga<strong>in</strong> wisdom from elders. Help newer folks. Support<br />

and receive support from monks and nuns.<br />

6) Commit ourselves to look deeply at how our collective<br />

consciousness and <strong>in</strong>dividual experiences shape how we<br />

see differences between us, <strong>in</strong> order to understand and honor<br />

differences (e.g. cultural, ethnic, gender, sexual orientation,<br />

economic).<br />

7) Commit ourselves to help<strong>in</strong>g Sanghas solve problems.<br />

Enlist support of Dharma teachers and <strong>in</strong>ternational resources<br />

to help.<br />

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