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Page 13 MARCH <strong>2011</strong> <strong>Michigan</strong> <strong>South</strong> <strong>Asian</strong><br />

Changing Traditions Through Fashion<br />

By Jennifer Neale<br />

January 23, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Fashion Shows always light the<br />

imagination of people who love<br />

to wrap themselves in beauty,<br />

and often raise<br />

money for<br />

good causes.<br />

Rarely, however,<br />

do they<br />

celebrate<br />

the dramatic<br />

changes in the<br />

lives of young<br />

girls, whose<br />

futures had<br />

been determined<br />

by traditions,<br />

thousands<br />

of years<br />

old, before the<br />

Mijwan Welfare<br />

Society.<br />

The Mijwan<br />

Fashion Show<br />

that took place<br />

in Mumbai, on<br />

January 23, <strong>2011</strong>, was created<br />

by Shabana Azmi, a five time<br />

winner of the National Film<br />

Award for Best Actress. The<br />

event showed the elegant designs<br />

by Manesh Malhotra to<br />

300 guests. They were worn by<br />

23 Bollywood<br />

stars,<br />

and 20 top<br />

models in<br />

a most special<br />

way<br />

to recognize<br />

her<br />

father, who<br />

inspired<br />

her, and<br />

the people<br />

who helped<br />

make a difference<br />

in<br />

Mijwan.<br />

“My father,<br />

Kaif Azmi,<br />

was a rare<br />

poet who<br />

practiced<br />

what he preached in life,” says<br />

Shabana Azmi.” After getting<br />

a paralytic stroke which incapacitated<br />

his left arm and let, he<br />

gave up the comforts of Mumbai<br />

and settled Mijwan, a village<br />

frozen in time.<br />

“Today, Mijwan is becoming a<br />

model village, but it was an arduous<br />

journey. I remember ask-<br />

ing him how he did not become<br />

frustrated when change would<br />

not occur at the pace he wanted,<br />

and he answered with calmly.<br />

‘When working for change, you<br />

should<br />

build<br />

into that<br />

expectation<br />

that<br />

change<br />

might not<br />

happen<br />

in your<br />

lifetime,<br />

but this<br />

should<br />

not stop<br />

your efforts,<br />

even if<br />

they happen<br />

after<br />

you.’”<br />

K a i f<br />

Azmi’s<br />

words<br />

were correct, and became the<br />

mantra of Shabana. The Mijwan<br />

Welfare Society now has<br />

four Training Centers, and is<br />

responsible for<br />

changing a tradition that viewed<br />

their daughters as 2nd class, did<br />

not<br />

provide<br />

them any<br />

education,<br />

and tradition<br />

called<br />

for their<br />

marriages<br />

to be<br />

arranged at<br />

the age of<br />

12 or 13.<br />

Dr. Nilima<br />

Sabharwal,<br />

the Founder<br />

of Home<br />

of Hope,<br />

was one of<br />

the people<br />

who helped<br />

move Mijwan<br />

forward. The two women<br />

met at a party hosted by a mutual<br />

friend in San Francisco, in<br />

2000.<br />

When Dr. Sabharwal learned<br />

that there was a very little<br />

school there that taught a few<br />

young girls to sew, she was anxious<br />

to visit this village on her<br />

next trip to India.<br />

97Pc Of Women Have At Least One<br />

‘’I Hate My Body’’ Moment Daily<br />

London, Feb 23 (ANI): Almost<br />

every woman has felt insecure<br />

about her body at some point in<br />

her life. But a new survey has<br />

revealed that it happens much<br />

more than one would imagine.<br />

A staggering 97 per cent of<br />

women have at least one negative<br />

thought about their bodies<br />

every day, according to the poll<br />

of 300 women commissioned<br />

by Glamour magazine, reports<br />

the Daily Mail.<br />

The survey found some have<br />

over 100 negative or anxious<br />

thoughts about their body<br />

shape, though on average there<br />

were 13 - almost one for every<br />

waking hour.<br />

Psychologist Ann Kearney-<br />

Cooke, who conducted the survey,<br />

said of the results: “That<br />

is a lot, yet I’m not totally surprised.<br />

“It’s become such an accepted<br />

norm to put yourself down that<br />

if someone says she likes her<br />

body, she’s the odd woman out.<br />

“I was in a group discussion<br />

recently, and when one woman<br />

said, ‘I actually feel OK about<br />

the way I look,’ another woman<br />

scrunched up her face and said,<br />

‘I have never in my whole life<br />

heard anyone say that - and I’m<br />

not sure I even believe you.’<br />

“That’s how pervasive this negative<br />

body talk is. It’s actually<br />

more acceptable to insult your<br />

body than to praise it.<br />

“Friends getting together and<br />

tearing themselves down is<br />

such a common thing that it’s<br />

hard to avoid.” (ANI)<br />

Parenting Stress Affects Postpartum<br />

Lifestyle Of New Moms: Study<br />

Parenting stress affects postpartum lifestyle of new moms: Study Home<br />

Washington, Feb 23 (ANI): Georgia Health Sciences University researchers say that post-pregnancy<br />

excess weight is likely caused by the impact of new parenthood stress on physical activity.<br />

In order to emphasize the probable correlation between new parenthood stress and physical activity,<br />

the researchers analysed 60 first-time mothers.<br />

They then linked higher post-pregnancy BMI to a combination of a high BMI before pregnancy, excessive<br />

weight gain during pregnancy, parenting stress and a sedentary lifestyle.<br />

The parental stress was gauged by asking study subjects whether they felt like having less time for<br />

themselves and if they enjoyed being a parent.<br />

They were also made to recall their physical activity over the previous 24 hours, dividing that activity<br />

from light to vigorous.<br />

“Sedentary lifestyle, or a low amount of physical activity, was most influenced by the type of parenting<br />

stress the mothers reported,” said Deborah Young-Hyman, behavioural psychologist with the Georgia<br />

Prevention Institute.<br />

“More parenting stress, especially depression, was associated with less physical activity and a higher<br />

postpartum BMI,” she added.<br />

Interestingly, the researchers found that social interaction, generally considered a measure of well being,<br />

is correlated with a higher BMI.<br />

“We think women are socializing with their friends, not isolating themselves, but they are doing sedentary<br />

things like talking on the phone, watching television or hanging out at home, instead of taking<br />

their babies on a walk together,” said Young-Hyman.<br />

New mothers with a higher BMI apparently endured more depressive symptoms, but overall felt competent<br />

as parents.<br />

Those with lower BMIs reported more physical activity and had less depressive symptoms.<br />

“We know that physical activity improves your mood and helps you lose weight, but no one has ever<br />

asked how physical activity is related to parenting stress in first-time moms,” Young-Hyman said.<br />

“The bottom line is that parenting stress does impact the postpartum lifestyles of new moms,” she said.<br />

The study is published in Women and Health. (ANI)

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