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Working with Families <strong>of</strong> Different Cultures I<br />

Lessons Learned<br />

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Jeanette Panchula BSW, RN, PHN, IBCLC, RLC 1<br />

The Code <strong>of</strong> Pr<strong>of</strong>essional Conduct for IBCLCs states that an IBCLC must “Provide care to<br />

meet clients’ individual needs that is culturally appropriate and informed by <strong>the</strong> best available<br />

evidence.” IBCLCs must not only have knowledge that will help a mo<strong>the</strong>r breastfeed. They must<br />

also have <strong>the</strong> skill to help her to discern <strong>the</strong> best solution for her situation. The ability to communicate<br />

with clients does not necessarily mean learning “everything <strong>the</strong>re is to know” about<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir culture. Ra<strong>the</strong>r, it means learning <strong>the</strong> basis for <strong>the</strong> mo<strong>the</strong>rs’ beliefs and actions.<br />

Keywords: Breastfeeding support, ethnic-group differences, cultural competence<br />

<strong>Clinical</strong> <strong>Lactation</strong>, 2012, Vol. 3-1, 13-15<br />

Looking back on 26 years as an IBCLC, and 36 years as<br />

a La Leche League Leader, I cannot imagine a more exciting,<br />

awe-inspiring, frustrating, and worthwhile career. I<br />

was raised in a multigenerational, bicultural, and bilingual<br />

household and city, San Juan, Puerto Rico. In San<br />

Juan, people <strong>of</strong> many different socioeconomic groups<br />

mixed in <strong>the</strong> market, <strong>the</strong> stores, and schools. As a result,<br />

I have always been comfortable with a variety <strong>of</strong> accents,<br />

beliefs, and ways <strong>of</strong> life.<br />

The concept that <strong>the</strong>re is only one way—<strong>the</strong> way “I” was<br />

raised—was truly never expressed or taught to me.<br />

In fact, as a small child, I asked a nice man who was walking<br />

right by my porch: “¿Por qué tu eres tan negro”<br />

[Why are you so black]. Without missing a beat, he<br />

answered: “Porque estoy mucho al sol.” [Because I am in <strong>the</strong><br />

sun a lot.]<br />

That was <strong>the</strong> only education I received about race or<br />

skin color, as my parents did not believe it was an<br />

issue that I needed to be concerned with. It was only<br />

when a TV arrived in my home, and I saw horrible<br />

actions <strong>of</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs in <strong>the</strong> sou<strong>the</strong>rn areas <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> U.S. that I<br />

learned why my fa<strong>the</strong>r would not move back to <strong>the</strong><br />

U.S. with his dark-skinned Puerto Rican wife, and<br />

very light‐skinned (unless I spent a lot <strong>of</strong> time in <strong>the</strong> sun)<br />

daughter.<br />

When I lived in St. Louis in <strong>the</strong> 80s with my own children,<br />

husband, and mo<strong>the</strong>r (she lived with us for 25<br />

years)—I did experience how sales clerks and o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

“assumed” my mo<strong>the</strong>r was my maid. This preface is an<br />

explanation <strong>of</strong> why and how I arrived at <strong>the</strong> philosophy<br />

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that I continue to practice today: All humans are different.<br />

All humans have <strong>the</strong>ir own story to tell. You cannot<br />

look at <strong>the</strong>m and assume you know anything about <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

You have to ask.<br />

Assumption: Fa<strong>the</strong>r is not involved/<br />

interested.<br />

You go into a hospital room, and you see a mo<strong>the</strong>r in<br />

<strong>the</strong> bed trying to breastfeed. She has a scarf over her<br />

head, keeping <strong>the</strong> hair out <strong>of</strong> her eyes as she works, and<br />

works at trying to get <strong>the</strong> baby on “right.” She is frustrated<br />

and worried. Her husband is on <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r side <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> curtain, at times reading a book, at times speaking to<br />

her, urging her to “try this” or “try that.” Then he goes<br />

back to reading.<br />

Fact: Mom and dad are practicing orthodox Jews. Her<br />

head is covered as she should during <strong>the</strong> period that she<br />

is bleeding. She is untouchable at this time, and her husband<br />

is following strictly <strong>the</strong> instructions that he must<br />

not look at his wife’s body during this time.<br />

Actions: I stand in a location that allows both mo<strong>the</strong>r<br />

and fa<strong>the</strong>r to see me. I use a doll to demonstrate positioning<br />

to both (this is prior to Biological Nurturing®).<br />

We <strong>the</strong>n discuss how <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r can help his wife by<br />

identifying where she can sit and be comfortable, what<br />

pillows she may need, what foods are comforting to her,<br />

and how to burp and change <strong>the</strong> baby. He was so relieved<br />

to know that he could do something instead <strong>of</strong> being<br />

vilified as an uninterested or demanding jerk.<br />

How did we get <strong>the</strong>re By my asking: Can you tell me<br />

what you need What are your concerns What help will<br />

© 2012 <strong>United</strong> <strong>States</strong> <strong>Lactation</strong> Consultant Association 13

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