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<strong>Focus</strong> presents: Nirvana Pet Resort<br />

ADVERTISEMENT<br />

Leave your pets in capable, caring hands<br />

THIS IS A PROFOUNDLY GENEROUS BOOK, one in which<br />

the author does nothing less than make a gift of her family,<br />

of herself. From that perspective, it is a humbling read.<br />

family violence, but from a very deep sense of gratitude. This is a<br />

profoundly generous book, one in which the author does nothing less<br />

than make a gift of her family, of herself. From that perspective, it is<br />

a humbling read.<br />

In some ways, to tell too much about her life here would be cheating<br />

you from the pleasure of reading about Serota for yourself in these 29<br />

short chapters. So I will say<br />

that it is raw, funny and disarmingly<br />

open as she shares both<br />

beautiful and brutal moments,<br />

all pointing to that theme<br />

of transformation: growing<br />

up in and away from a childhood<br />

of both violence and<br />

love; becoming a wife and<br />

mother; the move to sexual<br />

openness and drugs in a hippie<br />

BC coastal community;<br />

divorce and discovering the<br />

gay scene in Victoria in the<br />

1970s; the issue of definitions—rejoining<br />

the Jewish<br />

community she had<br />

temporarily left or feeling<br />

comfortable calling herself<br />

an artist or a lesbian (“There’s another work of art, at the computer,” she<br />

tells me, beaming and pointing to Annie, her partner now of 38 years).<br />

“I have no time for BS anymore,” the resilient Serota tells me. “There’s<br />

not enough openness in the world; there’s so much pretense all the<br />

time. There’s nothing better than when we can just be ourselves.” The<br />

book also conveys a deep sense of the freedom that comes from so truly<br />

and publicly being yourself for all to see.<br />

“I always feel exposed when I have a show, and I thought I would<br />

feel worse than I do about exposing myself like this in the book,” she<br />

admits. “I thought it would be terrible. But at the launch”—at the Art<br />

Gallery of Greater Victoria—“I felt just so much love coming from<br />

so many people,” she exults, somewhat humbled herself. As the old<br />

saying goes, you get what you give.<br />

As the new year symbolically offers the opportunity for personal transformation,<br />

Serota’s is a beautiful example to follow in terms of deciding<br />

to live reflectively, give generously of oneself and share without shame.<br />

It makes you wonder what a work of art all our lives could be.<br />

www.focusonline.ca • January <strong>2012</strong><br />

Writer, editor and musician Amy Reiswig is reminded<br />

of what unexpected gifts may come into your life and<br />

the lives of those around you when you flatten your<br />

fears by saying “yes.”<br />

Nirvana Pet Resort is a happy place for humans and non-humans.Those<br />

who peek in the large windows of the 4400-square-foot facility on<br />

Government Street, or drop off their dogs for day care, leave with a smile<br />

on their faces.<br />

Whether it’s grooming, obedience training, boarding, or day care, Nirvana Pet<br />

Resort has the caring, experienced staff to guarantee top-notch care for your pet.<br />

Owner Chris Anctil, a certified obedience instructor who has worked in the<br />

veterinary field for over 12 years, opened<br />

Nirvana because of her passion for animals<br />

(her own include a Miniature Poodle, a<br />

Miniature Australian Shepherd and a<br />

Lagotto Romagnolo, a rare and ancient<br />

breed of dog).<br />

Chief groomer Jessica Elrod is another<br />

passionate animal lover—she owns two<br />

Poms, a Sheltie, and a Border Collie,<br />

along with several pet birds.She is comfortable<br />

with any animal, from cats and dogs<br />

to birds, rodents and exotics.<br />

Says Chris, “Our philosophy on<br />

grooming is that it’s not a production<br />

line.We take our time, especially with<br />

babies or nervous animals, so that it’s a<br />

positive experience from the start.”<br />

Among Jessica’s talents are hand stripping<br />

for terrier breeds.This helps maintain<br />

a proper coat. “She’s a perfectionist,”<br />

says Chris, proudly.<br />

Customer Mrs. Maureen Ross has<br />

been taking her 12-year-old Cairn Terrier<br />

Bobby to Nirvana for the past year, and<br />

is “so impressed. I’ve never seen as good<br />

a job,” she says.“They can’t do enough Chris Anctil with Mickey<br />

for you; it’s just delightful.”<br />

Both Chris and Jessica breed and show dogs so they know show cuts if that is<br />

what the client wants, but they do mostly comfortable pet cuts. “We recognize<br />

that people are putting their pet in the hands of someone they don’t really know.<br />

We understand how that feels.We take pride in treating every dog as if it’s our<br />

own,” says Chris.<br />

This applies to the daycare as well, which is roomy enough for the dogs to get<br />

lots of indoor exercise chasing balls or using the slide (an entertaining sight!).<br />

The wooden floor is easier on their joints than concrete. Staff keep the dogs<br />

physically and mentally stimulated and know how to curb territorial or possessive<br />

behaviour before disagreements occur. Small dogs have a fun space of their<br />

own, though each dog is evaluated as to where it will most happily fit, and no<br />

breeds are discriminated against.<br />

“Daycare is one of the best ways to teach puppies how to socialize—and to<br />

build confidence in any dog,” says Chris, pointing out that dogs are pack animals<br />

so isolation doesn’t suit them.<br />

Chris also offers obedience training. She knows what she’s doing and after<br />

eight 45-minute classes, your dog will be a model of good manners.<br />

Nirvana Pet Resort<br />

2000 Government Street (at Discovery)<br />

250-380-7795 • www.NirvanaPetResort.weebly.com<br />

Visit us on facebook: search for Nirvana Pet Resort<br />

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