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<strong>Focus</strong> presents: Nirvana Pet Resort<br />
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Leave your pets in capable, caring hands<br />
THIS IS A PROFOUNDLY GENEROUS BOOK, one in which<br />
the author does nothing less than make a gift of her family,<br />
of herself. From that perspective, it is a humbling read.<br />
family violence, but from a very deep sense of gratitude. This is a<br />
profoundly generous book, one in which the author does nothing less<br />
than make a gift of her family, of herself. From that perspective, it is<br />
a humbling read.<br />
In some ways, to tell too much about her life here would be cheating<br />
you from the pleasure of reading about Serota for yourself in these 29<br />
short chapters. So I will say<br />
that it is raw, funny and disarmingly<br />
open as she shares both<br />
beautiful and brutal moments,<br />
all pointing to that theme<br />
of transformation: growing<br />
up in and away from a childhood<br />
of both violence and<br />
love; becoming a wife and<br />
mother; the move to sexual<br />
openness and drugs in a hippie<br />
BC coastal community;<br />
divorce and discovering the<br />
gay scene in Victoria in the<br />
1970s; the issue of definitions—rejoining<br />
the Jewish<br />
community she had<br />
temporarily left or feeling<br />
comfortable calling herself<br />
an artist or a lesbian (“There’s another work of art, at the computer,” she<br />
tells me, beaming and pointing to Annie, her partner now of 38 years).<br />
“I have no time for BS anymore,” the resilient Serota tells me. “There’s<br />
not enough openness in the world; there’s so much pretense all the<br />
time. There’s nothing better than when we can just be ourselves.” The<br />
book also conveys a deep sense of the freedom that comes from so truly<br />
and publicly being yourself for all to see.<br />
“I always feel exposed when I have a show, and I thought I would<br />
feel worse than I do about exposing myself like this in the book,” she<br />
admits. “I thought it would be terrible. But at the launch”—at the Art<br />
Gallery of Greater Victoria—“I felt just so much love coming from<br />
so many people,” she exults, somewhat humbled herself. As the old<br />
saying goes, you get what you give.<br />
As the new year symbolically offers the opportunity for personal transformation,<br />
Serota’s is a beautiful example to follow in terms of deciding<br />
to live reflectively, give generously of oneself and share without shame.<br />
It makes you wonder what a work of art all our lives could be.<br />
www.focusonline.ca • January <strong>2012</strong><br />
Writer, editor and musician Amy Reiswig is reminded<br />
of what unexpected gifts may come into your life and<br />
the lives of those around you when you flatten your<br />
fears by saying “yes.”<br />
Nirvana Pet Resort is a happy place for humans and non-humans.Those<br />
who peek in the large windows of the 4400-square-foot facility on<br />
Government Street, or drop off their dogs for day care, leave with a smile<br />
on their faces.<br />
Whether it’s grooming, obedience training, boarding, or day care, Nirvana Pet<br />
Resort has the caring, experienced staff to guarantee top-notch care for your pet.<br />
Owner Chris Anctil, a certified obedience instructor who has worked in the<br />
veterinary field for over 12 years, opened<br />
Nirvana because of her passion for animals<br />
(her own include a Miniature Poodle, a<br />
Miniature Australian Shepherd and a<br />
Lagotto Romagnolo, a rare and ancient<br />
breed of dog).<br />
Chief groomer Jessica Elrod is another<br />
passionate animal lover—she owns two<br />
Poms, a Sheltie, and a Border Collie,<br />
along with several pet birds.She is comfortable<br />
with any animal, from cats and dogs<br />
to birds, rodents and exotics.<br />
Says Chris, “Our philosophy on<br />
grooming is that it’s not a production<br />
line.We take our time, especially with<br />
babies or nervous animals, so that it’s a<br />
positive experience from the start.”<br />
Among Jessica’s talents are hand stripping<br />
for terrier breeds.This helps maintain<br />
a proper coat. “She’s a perfectionist,”<br />
says Chris, proudly.<br />
Customer Mrs. Maureen Ross has<br />
been taking her 12-year-old Cairn Terrier<br />
Bobby to Nirvana for the past year, and<br />
is “so impressed. I’ve never seen as good<br />
a job,” she says.“They can’t do enough Chris Anctil with Mickey<br />
for you; it’s just delightful.”<br />
Both Chris and Jessica breed and show dogs so they know show cuts if that is<br />
what the client wants, but they do mostly comfortable pet cuts. “We recognize<br />
that people are putting their pet in the hands of someone they don’t really know.<br />
We understand how that feels.We take pride in treating every dog as if it’s our<br />
own,” says Chris.<br />
This applies to the daycare as well, which is roomy enough for the dogs to get<br />
lots of indoor exercise chasing balls or using the slide (an entertaining sight!).<br />
The wooden floor is easier on their joints than concrete. Staff keep the dogs<br />
physically and mentally stimulated and know how to curb territorial or possessive<br />
behaviour before disagreements occur. Small dogs have a fun space of their<br />
own, though each dog is evaluated as to where it will most happily fit, and no<br />
breeds are discriminated against.<br />
“Daycare is one of the best ways to teach puppies how to socialize—and to<br />
build confidence in any dog,” says Chris, pointing out that dogs are pack animals<br />
so isolation doesn’t suit them.<br />
Chris also offers obedience training. She knows what she’s doing and after<br />
eight 45-minute classes, your dog will be a model of good manners.<br />
Nirvana Pet Resort<br />
2000 Government Street (at Discovery)<br />
250-380-7795 • www.NirvanaPetResort.weebly.com<br />
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