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Page 1 <strong>THE</strong> <strong>FRIENDSHIP</strong> <strong>FLYER</strong> Winter 2012<br />
<strong>THE</strong> <strong>FRIENDSHIP</strong> <strong>FLYER</strong><br />
439 Washington Avenue • Neenah, WI 54956 • (920) 729-4560 W inter 2012<br />
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SMM - Tuesday, March 20 - 6:30 PM<br />
Weekly (Saturdays) at 4:00 PM<br />
<strong>St</strong>. John/<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Mary</strong> (at <strong>St</strong>. John’s) - Sunday, March 25 - 1:00 PM<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Patrick’s - Monday, March 26 - 6:00 PM<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Gabriel - Thursday, March 29 - 6:30 PM<br />
Holy Thursday, April 5<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Gabriel the Archangel <strong>Parish</strong> @ 8:15 am & 7:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 7:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Seder Meal @ 5:15 pm<br />
Mass @ 7:15 pm<br />
Good Friday, April 6<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Gabriel the Archangel <strong>Parish</strong> @ 1:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. John the Baptist <strong>Parish</strong> @ 12:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 1:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 6:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong> Patrick's <strong>Parish</strong> @ 12:15 pm<br />
Tenebrae Service @ 7:00 pm<br />
Easter Vigil, April 7<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Gabriel the Archangel <strong>Parish</strong> @ 8:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 8:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 7:00 pm<br />
<strong>St</strong> Patrick's <strong>Parish</strong> @ 7:30 pm<br />
Easter Sunday, April 8<br />
<strong>St</strong>. Gabriel the Archangel <strong>Parish</strong> @ 6:00 am (Doty<br />
Park), 8:00 am & 10:00 am<br />
<strong>St</strong>. John the Baptist <strong>Parish</strong> @ 8:00 am & 10:00 am<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 7:30 am & 9:30 am<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> @ 7:00 am, 8:30 am & 10:30 am<br />
<strong>St</strong> Patrick's <strong>Parish</strong> @ 8:30 am & 10:30 am<br />
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<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> STATIONS + SOUP + SPEAKER<br />
You are invited to participate in a special Lenten evening reflection on<br />
MARCH 13th & MARCH 27th<br />
6:30 <strong>St</strong>ations of the Cross in the church followed by simple<br />
soup dinner in Friendship Hall<br />
7:15 Speaker Bishop Morneau & Pat Kasten<br />
MARCH 13th Speaker will be: The Most Reverend Robert F. Morneau<br />
His topic will be: “The Gift of the Holy Spirit”. Bishop Robert Morneau is auxiliary bishop<br />
for the Green Bay Diocese and pastor at Resurrection <strong>Parish</strong>.<br />
MARCH 27th Speaker will be: Pat Kasten<br />
Her topic will be: “<strong>St</strong>ill on the Road: The <strong>St</strong>ations of the Cross through History”.<br />
Pat Kasten is Associate Editor for The Compass, the Official Newspaper for the Catholic<br />
Diocese of Green Bay.<br />
Registration is required for this Lenten event. To register,<br />
contact Marcie Howard at 729-4562 or email her at<br />
howard@tcces.k12.wi.us with number attending. Registration<br />
deadline for March 13th event is March 9th. Deadline for March<br />
27th event is March 23rd. Call once and register for both.<br />
This event is co-sponsored by <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Life and Adult Faith Enrichment<br />
Wednesday Morning<br />
Bible <strong>St</strong>udy<br />
Are you looking for a small group activity for Lent You are welcome<br />
to be part of group that gathers for an hour in the <strong>Parish</strong><br />
Center every Wednesday morning at 9:00 a.m. to study the Sunday<br />
scripture readings for the coming weekend. We are open to<br />
new members. Michele Sliwicki leads the group. Call Joan Bartman<br />
in the <strong>Parish</strong> Center for further information or just come any<br />
Wednesday!.<br />
Video Series<br />
You are welcome to join us for our next presentations in our<br />
video series. Come to the <strong>Parish</strong> Center on Wednesday,<br />
March 7 and/or May 2 from 9:00 – 10:30 a.m. The video<br />
for March is ―Paul: Contending for the Faith‖. The video for<br />
May is ―The Tabernacle: Solomon’s Temple‖. No fee, no<br />
registration.<br />
Other Videos Available<br />
You may borrow DVDs and VHS tapes from our parish collection<br />
for your viewing at home. Some are located in our<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Library in the church. Many others are located in<br />
the <strong>Parish</strong> Center meeting room. We have many informative<br />
and inspirational titles. Come, take a look!
From the Number Cruncher<br />
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By Mark Muthig, Business Administrator<br />
All contributing parishioners should have received their family’s ―Final Contribution <strong>St</strong>atement for Calendar-Year 2011‖ at<br />
the end of January. Please carefully check it over, and if there is a discrepancy, please leave a message for me as soon as<br />
possible at 729-4560, ext. 107.<br />
Here is the Preliminary Operating Income Summary, covering July 1, 2011 through January 31, 2012, for your perusal:<br />
Actual Budget Ann. Projection Annual Budget<br />
Sacrificial Giving 602,647 635,966 982,187 1,025,700<br />
All Other Revenue 118,767 141,513 159,126 189,175<br />
School Net Expenditures (376,875) (357,488) (635,396) (616,323)<br />
Planned Capital Expends (43,920) (44,541) (89,300) (89,300)<br />
All Other Expenditures (369,288) (367,102) (637,646) (634,614)<br />
Net Surplus/Deficit (68,670) 8,348 (221,029) (125,362)<br />
Projected SPL Funds Needed - - 221,029 125,362<br />
Here are a couple points about these numbers:<br />
1. The bottom line is quite a bit behind what we budgeted to date. It seems as though our terrific Sustaining <strong>Parish</strong><br />
Life drive may be taking a hit on Sacrificial Giving. All Other Revenue is another area of major concern.<br />
That includes fundraising and estate gifts. Please help us turn the corner by bringing your fundraising ideas to<br />
the Finance Council members and by remembering your church in your estate planning.<br />
2. The remainder of the deficit is due to our capital improvement plan and our school net expenditures<br />
(maintenance costs beyond the ―rent‖ received from TCCES). As noted at the annual meeting, the operating<br />
budget that was passed for this fiscal year is about $36,000 short, with another $89,000 set aside for capital improvement<br />
projects. As noted both above and below, the total shortfall will be covered through our Sustaining<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Life fund.<br />
3. EVERYBODY, please do what you can to help your parish get through this economically tough time.<br />
And now a few facts about the Renovation loan, covering July 1, 2011 through January 31, 2012:<br />
1. The loan balance as of January 31 is $203,708, all of which is from post-Renovation capital projects. As Fr.<br />
Mike reported, the original renovation loan is entirely paid off!<br />
2. The principal paid off the renovation portion of the loan between July 1 and January 31 is almost $140,000!<br />
This is from money contributed directly to our Sustaining <strong>Parish</strong> Life fund drive.<br />
3. Due to refinancing the loan in May 2010 and our extremely successful SPL drive, the monthly interest paid on<br />
the loan is around $1,300, down about 70% from two years ago!<br />
If you have not yet done so, please fulfill your outstanding Advancing the Mission pledge to the diocese. If fulfilled, our parish<br />
will receive an additional $40,000 to pay down our loan!<br />
I have begun working with the staff, Finance Council, and Trustees (and indirectly with the <strong>Parish</strong> Council) in putting together<br />
an accurate budget for next fiscal year. Preliminary numbers show that we are back to the very tough years again (a<br />
$150,000 operating/capital deficit) if giving patterns and programming remains the same. Program and capital expenditures<br />
still remain very tight. Therefore, we are continually looking at some significant ways in order to eliminate that deficit.<br />
Just a reminder – if you have not yet taken the opportunity to contribute via automatic withdrawal and would like to do so,<br />
please check the parish website or contact Sally at the <strong>Parish</strong> Center for a form.<br />
You may have noticed that we are not having a Calendar-Year 2012 Estimate of Giving Card drive. That is because we are<br />
had our full-fledged debt elimination / visioning drive, that is, Sustaining <strong>Parish</strong> Life. However, if you would like to fill out<br />
a card for this calendar year, please pick one up in the Gathering Space or <strong>Parish</strong> Office and mail your family’s completed<br />
card to (or drop it off at) the <strong>Parish</strong> Center, or place in the collection basket during weekend Masses.<br />
Especially during Lent, please continue to support our Sustaining <strong>Parish</strong> Life fund drive. As previously noted, the main<br />
purposes are to: 1) pay off the remaining debt from our 2003 Renovation and subsequent necessary capital improvements; 2)<br />
provide funding for planned new necessary capital improvements; and 3) provide funding for expanded programming that<br />
has come out of the recent parish visioning process. Please give generously!<br />
One final though – Please do not think of Sacrificial Giving as ―Pew Rent‖, ―Church Dues‖, or the like. Sacrificial Giving<br />
is a privilege! It is a terrific way of saying ―thank you‖ to God for everything He has given us. After all, what<br />
does anybody have that was not given to him or her from God If you can think of something, please let me know! I<br />
can’t think of anything! Thank you for allowing me to serve you, and may God bless.<br />
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<strong>St</strong>ations of the Cross<br />
Mar. 6 followed by ―Picturing India‖ presentation<br />
Mar. 13 & 27<br />
Apr. 3<br />
After the March 13 th and 27 th there will be Soup and Sermon<br />
These will all start at 6:30pm<br />
Churchcare Leader Wanted<br />
Lenten Take-Home Packets<br />
The Religious Formation Board has<br />
opened a search for a Churchcare<br />
Leader for Sunday mornings during<br />
the 9:30 Mass, for the first three Sundays<br />
of each month. The leader, who<br />
must be at least 18 years of age, would be responsible for<br />
childcare of children age 12 months to 4 years. The leader<br />
would be assisted by a youth volunteer from <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong><br />
<strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong>. Virtus training is required, and can be arranged<br />
through the parish at no fee. Person would also<br />
share a reading from the Toddler Bible during each session,<br />
and would be expected to straighten the Churchcare room<br />
before leaving. Pay is $10 per session. It is possible to jobshare<br />
the position, with two people taking turns to provide<br />
the supervision. Please call 729-4562 to apply or to obtain<br />
further information.<br />
If you would like a packet of information that you could use at home<br />
to celebrate the season of Lent as a family, please call the Religious<br />
Formation Office at 729-4562 to reserve a copy of the packet for<br />
yourself. You could also email dbaumann@tcces.k12.wi.us to request<br />
the material. The packet will contain reflection booklets for<br />
various ages, along with Lenten activities and items. There is no<br />
charge for the packet. Lent begins on Ash Wednesday, February 22,<br />
2012.<br />
We Welcome New<br />
<strong>Parish</strong>ioners<br />
Blessing for<br />
Expectant Parents<br />
On Sunday, April 29 th the Elizabeth Ministry will be<br />
hosting a Blessing for Expectant Parents during the<br />
9:30 mass. This special blessing is for all families<br />
expecting a child through pregnancy or adoption.<br />
During the mass, parents and siblings of the new<br />
baby will be invited to the front of church to receive<br />
a blessing and small gift from the parish. This is a<br />
beautiful opportunity for our parish community to<br />
bless you and pray for you in this special time in<br />
your life, and all growing families are encouraged to<br />
participate. Please contact Joan Bartman<br />
at jbartman@tcces.k12.wi.us or the parish office by<br />
April 24 th to register.<br />
Daniel & Judith Miller<br />
Tom & Jennfier VanHandel<br />
Tucker Burr<br />
Katie Hess<br />
Teresa Gloudemans<br />
William & Joan Waldhart<br />
Karen Siegrist<br />
Audre Miller<br />
Shelby Dallman<br />
Mark & Alice Beran<br />
William & Wendy Schultz<br />
Timothy & Ann Marie Fredrickson<br />
Jason Ostrenga<br />
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<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong><br />
School News<br />
Eleanor Healy, Principal<br />
The Mission of <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> School is to provide a Christ-Centered Community of Life-long Learners.<br />
We have just completed a week-long celebration of Catholic Schools Week. This is an annual<br />
reminder of the gift of Catholic Education sponsored by the National Catholic Education<br />
Association. Our theme for the year is Catholic Schools: Faith. Academics. Service.<br />
Our TCCES schools strive to be Communities of Believers, integrating our faith into all areas of<br />
the curriculum and all aspects of our lives. Our mission statement affirms our commitment to<br />
provide a solid academic as well as spiritual foundation in order to prepare our students to live in<br />
harmony with God and others throughout their lives. Catholic beliefs and doctrine are at the<br />
core of our education programs that balance traditional methods of teaching with current<br />
techniques, strategies, and technology. At <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> School, we offer a fully equipped<br />
computer lab, a mobile notebook lab, SMART Board Technology in all classrooms, an art room,<br />
vocal and instrumental music programs, and Spanish Language classes. We provide a<br />
supportive, nurturing environment within our school while we reinforce the values being taught<br />
in your homes.<br />
Our staff is grateful for the opportunity to work in a supportive, Christian atmosphere. We are<br />
happy to be able to pray with and share our faith with our students every day. We thank <strong>St</strong>.<br />
<strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> parishioners for making this possible.<br />
Our school houses a Kindergarten through fifth grade program and also an Early Childhood<br />
Program for three, four and five year olds. We are anxious to share your school with you.<br />
Thank you for your support of Catholic Education.<br />
Christmas Giving Tree Project<br />
Thank you to all who supported and assisted in any way with the Giving Tree Project. We were able to<br />
help 37 parish families with grocery $CRIP; 24 of those families also received the 277 Christmas Gifts that<br />
were donated. We also gave 28 gifts for group home residents, 48 presents for 30 nursing home residents,<br />
and 308 gifts to Brigade and 63 Winnebago Mental Health Institute. Your generosity has allowed<br />
others to experience the joy of God’s love at Christmas. May God bless you and your family.
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Human Concerns Committee<br />
Quarterly Report<br />
As we continue to live our vision of being “the heart and hands of Jesus” we have disbursed funds from the <strong>Parish</strong> Outreach<br />
Fund in the following manner this past quarter:<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Outreach Fund Quarterly Report (February 1, 2012)<br />
Balance on July 1, 2011 $ 5,034.64<br />
Donations –<strong>Parish</strong> Outreach Fund Drive + $20, 164.98<br />
Additional Donations Given to Purchase SCRIP for Christmas + 4 ,005.00<br />
Expenditures: Thanksgiving in SCRIP, parish families $ 3,700.00<br />
Christmas Giving in SCRIP, parish families $ 5,300.00<br />
Christmas Gifts, parish families $ 661.21<br />
February Giving in SCRIP, parish families $ 5,000.00<br />
Total Expenditures - $ 14,661.21<br />
Balance on February 1, 2012 $ 14,543.41<br />
Your generosity enables us to reach out to those less fortunate in our parish, supporting their everyday, basic needs.<br />
Thank you for making this possible. Please check out the Human Concerns Bulletin Board in the hallway leading from the<br />
gathering space to the Perpetual Adoration Chapel. Many heartfelt thank you’s from recipients of this outreach as well<br />
as recent Christmas giving are displayed there.<br />
Upcoming Events:<br />
Community Clothes Closet Collection<br />
Look through your closets as we will be having a clothing collection to benefit the Community Clothes<br />
Closet starting on February 25 th and running thru March 10-11 th . This is co-sponsored by the Human Concerns<br />
committee and the <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Youth Group. Especially needed is children’s clothing sizes 6X<br />
to 18, plus size clothing, and blankets, but any clothing donation will be greatly appreciated<br />
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Friends of Haiti (FOH)<br />
Medical/Dental Spring Mission Trip<br />
April 16—27, 2012<br />
This year the Friends of Haiti Mission Group is requesting toothbrushes, (adult and children size). The goal is to collect<br />
1000 of each! There will be doctors, nurses and dentists on this trip. These wonderful people pay their own travel expenses<br />
to staff the 6 clinics in the mountains. The Haitians who live in these mountainous areas have few roads, no electricity and<br />
very little portable water. They are so grateful to have medical and dental care provided by FOH twice a year. Patients are<br />
lined up at the door long before daylight every day. The dentists work with a couple of portable dentist chairs and headlamps.<br />
They do mostly extractions of abscessed teeth, sometimes as many as 30 extractions a day. The children’s teeth are<br />
coated with fluoride. The dentists carry in their own instruments, antibiotics and pain medicines. Volunteer doctors and<br />
nurses treat intestinal parasites, dysentery, injuries, nutritional diseases etc. Each staff member travels with 2 extra suitcases<br />
packed with medical supplies and takes a backpack for their personal needs. The volunteers travel over the mountains<br />
on foot. All of the supplies are carried by hand into the remote areas or on a donkey led by the Haitians. It is a real labor of<br />
love.<br />
Easter Baskets/Easter Cookies<br />
We will be organizing our annual outreach with Easter Baskets and cookie delivery—watch for details in<br />
the bulletin as we get closer to the season.<br />
EASTER IS COMING<br />
It is almost time for our annual Easter Basket Project.<br />
Would you like to help spread Easter joy to others in our community<br />
This year we will gather baskets for our parishioners in Nursing Homes, Christine Ann Center and area Group Homes.<br />
To be involved you can:<br />
Take a tag from the easels at the entrances to church<br />
Purchase suggested items for a woman or a man<br />
Fill an ice cream pail or a basket that same size<br />
Place the basket in a clear plastic or cellophane wrap<br />
Attach the tag securely to the top of the wrap<br />
Bring it to the kitchen area in the Gathering Space at church<br />
on March 24-25 or March 31-April 1<br />
Suggested Items for Baskets<br />
Personal Care Items<br />
Fun Items<br />
―deodorant<br />
―crackers<br />
―soap<br />
―candies<br />
―shampoo<br />
―playing cards<br />
―conditioner<br />
―microwave popcorn<br />
―lotion<br />
―nuts<br />
―toothpaste<br />
―small stuffed animals<br />
―toothbrushes, etc<br />
―other ideas<br />
Do not include any medications, cough drops or pain relievers.<br />
If you have any questions, please call<br />
Kathy Koziczkowski (Ph. 725-5575)<br />
Darlene Rogers (Ph. 725-6636)<br />
“He who is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward him for what he has done”. Proverbs 19:17<br />
We are most grateful for the many ways you support the Human Concerns committee’s projects. Thank You All.
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Respect Life Committee News<br />
Thank you to all who donated baby care and maternity items to Mother and Unborn Baby Care in January. Your generosity<br />
will be greatly appreciated by the individuals using Mother and Unborn Baby Care services. They will be delivered the<br />
week of February 6. The baby bottle collection will continue until February 18. The funds raised from the baby bottle will<br />
help support 50% to Mother of Unborn Baby, 25% will support <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Respect Life efforts and 25% will support<br />
Wisconsin Right to Life for education. A special Thank You to Prospera Credit Union for counting the change.<br />
Our parish was able to help support one of our youth who traveled to Washington DC for the March for Life on January 23<br />
with <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Mary</strong> High School students.<br />
May 12 & 13 is the Mother’s Day Rose Sale. Please plan ahead if you wish to give that special mother roses for Mother's<br />
Day.<br />
Prayer is a powerful tool. Spiritually adopt an unborn child that is in danger of abortion and please pray daily for that child<br />
this simple prayer: "Jesus, <strong>Mary</strong> & Joseph I love you very much. I beg you to spare the life of the unborn baby that<br />
I have spiritually adopted who is in danger of abortion."<br />
Bishop David Ricken has outlined a three-facet respect life initiative for the Diocese:<br />
Pray and fast.<br />
Learn to love people by freeing them from their ignorance.<br />
Defend life with no fear, hesitation or compromise<br />
The first Monday of the month the Neenah/Menasha Respect Life meetings occur at <strong>St</strong>. Patrick's <strong>Parish</strong>. Please consider<br />
becoming a part of the team.<br />
· 6 pm pray the Rosary for life in the church<br />
· 6:30 pm Meeting in the parish center<br />
$CRIP<br />
For all those of you who have not enjoyed the convenience of the $CRIP Program and are wondering about it…<br />
All you have to do is:<br />
<strong>St</strong>op in the Gathering Space after any weekend Mass<br />
Complete an order form, checking off your desired<br />
certificates and appropriate increments<br />
Make out ONE check, or pay by cash and receive<br />
your $CRIP Certificates on the spot<br />
That's IT. You're on your way to convenience.<br />
$CRIP Certificates are purchased at a percentage (2% to 20%) discount from retailers and restaurants in this area.<br />
Your purchase of a $CRIP Certificate at face value allows the parish to benefit from the profit, AT NO EXTRA COST TO<br />
YOU.<br />
$CRIP can be used to pay charge accounts from many department stores, given as gifts throughout the year, and used<br />
to purchase anything from necessary items like: food, prescriptions, clothes, dining out, hardware items, and many others.<br />
In fact, the convenience of $CRIP is great. No checks (& identification) to produce at the check-out lane, no interest to<br />
pay (as with a charge card), and NO HASSLES. Incidentally, the $CRIP Program is in the annual budget for an amount in<br />
excess of $8,000, so you can see that we need EVERYONE'S participation.<br />
Why not treat yourself to the convenience of $CRIP<br />
Its like a present…to be spent when you decide,<br />
to be given as a gift - even to yourself,<br />
to be profitable for the parish too…<br />
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JOY (Jesus for Our Youth) Prayer Ministry<br />
Recently, our community came together to prayerfully make a significant financial<br />
commitment to sustaining parish life. Will you now consider making a<br />
spiritual commitment to further sustaining parish life by praying for the future<br />
leaders of our church and community Through the new JOY (Jesus for Our<br />
Youth) prayer ministry, it is our hope to have parish members praying by name<br />
for all SMM public, private and home-schooled students in grades 6-12.<br />
As a community, we believe strongly in the holy power of prayer to support, enrich, inspire and uplift all of God’s<br />
children. In praying specifically for those who are facing the challenges and pressures of middle school and high<br />
school, we can ask that God bless and guide them. By making a community commitment to praying for these students<br />
we can entrust youth to God’s care, reassure them that they are not alone, and show them that responding to<br />
the call to pray is an important and worthwhile endeavor.<br />
JOY (Jesus for Our Youth) Prayer Ministry Frequently Asked Questions:<br />
Why is this for youth in grades 6-12 only<br />
Grades 6-12 are the ages targeted for diocesan youth ministry efforts. Of course, we encourage parishioners to<br />
pray for children of all ages, but this is the age group specifically designated for this ministry. Messages from our<br />
culture are many and loud, and we would like our youth to receive a message of encouragement to live Christcentered<br />
lives.<br />
How do I know who or what to pray for<br />
You will receive a set of about eight small flip cards, each containing the first<br />
name of a SMM parish student and a bit of information about him or her (school,<br />
interests, prayer requests, etc.).<br />
What is expected of me as a participant<br />
Simply, prayer! Everyone converses with God in his or her own way. You may<br />
choose to include your prayer partners in your regular daily prayers, while you<br />
are driving or saying your rosary, at Sunday Mass and/or during a special time<br />
each week using the contents of the prayer bag provided. All we ask is that you<br />
pray specifically for the students at least once a week.<br />
What is NOT expected of me<br />
You are welcomed, but not in any way required, to attend the youth-oriented IMAJN<br />
Mass during the school year; you are welcomed, but not required, to wear the SMM JOY t-shirt; you are welcomed,<br />
but not required, to use the candle, rosary, and intercessory guide, etc. that are provided to each prayer partner.<br />
How do I get involved<br />
Please email Kathy Bergholz at kbergholz@tcces.k12.wi.us Karen Kain at kmkain@yahoo.com, or phone Cindy<br />
Kyles-Werth at the parish office (725-4562). A team member will make arrangements for you to get your list of<br />
SMM parish students and prayer bag so you can get started!
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IMPORTANT ―CHANGE OF DATE‖ ANNOUNCEMENT:<br />
Dear <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Twelfth Graders, Parents and Families,<br />
<strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong>’s Youth Ministries and Freshman Class are organizing a special graduation celebration Mass and dinner, in the 2012<br />
graduates’ honor! It was brought to our attention that the date we originally had chosen is the same night as NHS Prom. Thus we<br />
changed the date from Saturday, May 12, 2012 to Saturday, June 02, 2012, instead!<br />
This gathering will begin with the 5:00pm Saturday Mass on June 02, 2012 and continue downstairs in Friendship Hall to follow with<br />
an incredible dinner, DVD presentation/party. We ask that families please make a note of the change of date and consider this celebration<br />
a priority by reserving it on your calendars! Our annual tradition has proven to be quite rewarding for all attendees. Relatives and<br />
significant others are encouraged to join the graduates for this special celebration. We recognize that your participation makes this event<br />
so meaningful for the graduates.<br />
We are putting together an important DVD presentation out of the following requested pictures. This has proven to be such a wonderful<br />
gift to the graduates. It is our desire to give one copy per graduate. Hence, we would truly appreciate everyone’s cooperation! We need<br />
your help by submitting the following pictures:<br />
Please email the following portraits to <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Youth Ministry Office- Attention: Marcie Howard<br />
mhoward@tcces.k12.wi.us (and copy Art Schmeichel at aschmeichel@new.rr.com) by Friday, March 30, 2012:<br />
(1) Baby portrait, (2) Sacramental photo (Baptism, First Communion, or Confirmation), (3) High school graduation portrait, (4)<br />
“Favorite” picture of the graduate with their friends and/or family members, and (5) Group photos from various activities (i.e.- sporting<br />
events, extracurricular activities, groups, etc.)! * IF you are not able to locate the above-mentioned pictures, at least send us any portraits<br />
you can come across for our “SMM <strong>Parish</strong> Class of 2012 DVD”.<br />
We especially recommend sending your high school graduate portrait for our parish bulletin cover’s <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong> Class of<br />
2012 for the weekend of Saturday, June 2 and Sunday, June 3. Thank you!<br />
If you are unable to email the photos above, simply drop them off to the <strong>Parish</strong> Center located on 439 Washington Avenue. Indicate if<br />
you would like us to return your photos either in your gift bags given to you during the graduation celebration, or via mail.<br />
May God Continue to Bless You and Your Families, Mrs. Cindy Kyles-Werth<br />
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Enclosed is my Senior Picture:<br />
(First and Last Name)<br />
___<br />
I would like my pictures returned via mail, and I have enclosed a self-addressed, stamped envelope.<br />
Thank you!<br />
___<br />
I would like my picture returned to me in my gift bag. Thank you!<br />
Please indicate whether or not your family is able to attend this special Celebration:<br />
___<br />
Total # of attendants (guests welcome).<br />
___<br />
Unfortunately, our family is unable to attend.<br />
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2011<br />
Christmas Flower Remembrance<br />
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May the hearts of loved ones and loving friends and relatives<br />
be blessed with the newness of Christmas throughout the year.<br />
DONOR<br />
MRS DONNA BLOCK<br />
MR BENJAMIN DEDECKER<br />
MR-MRS MICHAEL THOMAS<br />
MRS RUTH POPE<br />
MRS AUDREY KEYES<br />
MR-MRS DONALD QUINN<br />
MR-MRS RONALD COOK<br />
SMM FUNERAL COMMITTEE<br />
MRS EILEEN VEDRA<br />
MRS MARION SCHUMACHER<br />
MRS MARY EGAN<br />
MRS ROSEMARY TOMCZYK<br />
MRS MARY BRANDT<br />
MRS DOLORES KLUCK<br />
MR JOHN ELSINGER<br />
MR-MRS JOHN KEESLER<br />
MRS BETTY GOODMAN<br />
MRS DOROTHY KONS<br />
MR ROBERT NACKERS<br />
MR-MRS HARRY MICHELKAMP<br />
MRS CORA SOCHA<br />
MR-MRS WAYNE REINHARDT<br />
MR-MRS VICTOR TUROSKI<br />
MRS JANICE SCHMITZER<br />
MR-MRS MARVIN L GORSKI<br />
MR MICHAEL SIMONIS<br />
JANET GEHRKE<br />
MR-MRS DAVID FINCH<br />
MR-MRS DAVID PURCELL<br />
MRS JENNIFER WHITING<br />
MR-MRS RAYMOND GERMONPREZ<br />
EILEEN MARSHALL & MIKE MARSHALL<br />
FRED BLOCK & LOIS BLOCK<br />
JILL DEDECKER<br />
MARY KATHRYN THOMAS<br />
JON POPE & ROBERT YOUNG<br />
DECEASED KEYES FAMILY<br />
DECEASED MYHRE FAMILY<br />
KRETLOW & QUINN FAMILY<br />
DECEASED MEMBERS OF<br />
SMM FUNERAL DINNER COMMITTEE<br />
FRANCIS VEDRA<br />
RAYMOND SCHUMACHER<br />
JAMES & TODD TOMCZYK<br />
MR & MRS ROBERT HENRY<br />
MR & MRS VERN SPENCE<br />
CARL BRANDT & ADELINE BRANDT<br />
MRS JEAN WELCH<br />
THOMAS KLUCK<br />
DARLENE ELSINGER—MOM<br />
IRENE REHBERG<br />
JOYCE HEIN— SISTER<br />
RAY ELSINGER—UNCLE<br />
JAMES BLANK<br />
ELMER & CHRIS GOODMAN<br />
BERNARD KONS<br />
BETTY NACKERS<br />
BOTH SETS OF PARENTS<br />
LAURA BATTERMAN—DAUGHHTER<br />
NIKOLAS REEK—GRANDSON<br />
LINDA SOCHA-OVEL<br />
LAWRENCE SOCHA<br />
JOHN FITZGERALD<br />
JAMES F SCHMITZER & FAMILY<br />
GORSKI & MULLEN FAMILIES<br />
BELVA G SIMONIS<br />
PETER J GEHRKE<br />
AL SLOMSKI & FINCH FAMILY<br />
EDNA ROGERS<br />
IN MEMORY / HONOR OF
DONOR<br />
IN MEMORY / HONOR OF<br />
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MRS JAN CHORONZY<br />
MRS SYLVIA FARIN<br />
MR-MRS ALFRED JUGO<br />
MR-MRS ALLEN BAUDHUIN<br />
MRS MARY KASZUBA<br />
MR CLARENCE LOEHNING<br />
MRS VIRGINIA BOLWERK<br />
MR-MRS LLOYD DELVEAUX<br />
MRS EVELYN REDDIN<br />
MR-MRS BERNARD DVORACHEK<br />
MR GARY BRENNAN<br />
MR DON ZOLKOWSKI<br />
MR-MRS ROBERT MUCHA<br />
MR-MRS PAUL KERSCHER<br />
MRS JACKIE BURR<br />
MR-MRS JAMES CUMMINGS<br />
ALICE DERFUS<br />
MRS BARBARA HEROMAN<br />
MR-MRS KYLE BARRIGER<br />
MS DEBORA KECK<br />
MRS DOROTHY WILLIAMS<br />
MRS LORRAINE NAULT<br />
CAROL & MIKE BOGAN<br />
MR-MRS THOMAS GREIS<br />
MR-MRS CURT KUBIAK<br />
MR-MRS JOHN BRADLEY<br />
MRS DIANE SCHANKE<br />
MRS LORRAINE KONITZER<br />
MRS AUDREY FUCHS<br />
MR-MRS JOHN SCUDDER<br />
MRS JOAN BELOW<br />
MARILYN SHUTTE<br />
MR-MRS MICHAEL BUSS<br />
MRS NANCY GAGNON<br />
MR-MRS DANIEL BLAYLOCK<br />
MARY BRADLEY<br />
MRS DARLENE ROGERS<br />
MR-MRS DONALD BOUSHELE<br />
NICK CHORONZY<br />
DECEASED MEMBERS OF<br />
FARIN & COTCAMP FAMILIES<br />
JUGO & KLASSEN FAMILIES<br />
LIVING & DECEASED MEMBERS OF <strong>THE</strong><br />
BAUDHUIN & BOURNOVILLE FAMILIES<br />
<strong>THE</strong> KASZUBA FAMILY<br />
MR-MRS CLARENCE E LOEHNING<br />
WILLARD BOLWERK<br />
CHARTRAND & DELVEAUX FAMILIES<br />
KAY ZOLKOWSKI<br />
OUR PARENTS<br />
ANNA & ALEX KAMINSKI<br />
FERD & FLORENCE KERSCHER<br />
NANCY CHAPMAN<br />
DICK R BURR & KRIS SCHMIEDEL<br />
DECEASED MEMBERS OF <strong>THE</strong><br />
CUMMINGS & BAHNEN FAMILIES<br />
WERNER DERFUS<br />
LEE HEROMAN<br />
MISCARRIED & STILLBORN BABIES<br />
MARY & VIRGINIA KECK<br />
KEN & FLORENCE KLABUNDE<br />
JACK R WILLIAMS<br />
ERVIN NAULT<br />
ARTHUR & LAURA NAULT<br />
KATHY BOGAN<br />
DENNIS LONG, SR<br />
GRANDPA KEN<br />
BOB & DOLORES GROTTOLA<br />
DECEASED MEMBERS OF <strong>THE</strong><br />
OSTDIEK & BRADLEY FAMILIES<br />
KEITH FORSY<strong>THE</strong><br />
LEE SR & SCOTT KONITZER<br />
JOE FUCHS<br />
MR & MRS J W SCUDDER<br />
VAN ROOY FAMILY<br />
JOSEPHINE & WILLIAM SHUTTE<br />
MARLIN BUSS & LEE FREUND<br />
JAMES GAGNON<br />
JACK ROGERS<br />
More 2011 Christmas Flower donations on next page….<br />
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The Society of SVdP Conference at <strong>St</strong>. Margret <strong>Mary</strong> <strong>Parish</strong><br />
MRS ROBERT HAMILTON<br />
MR-MRS STEPHEN WILSON<br />
MRS OKSANNA HUXLEY<br />
MR-MRS WAYNE NITZ<br />
MRS EILEEN LONG<br />
MS AUDRE MILLER<br />
MRS GLEN AHLES<br />
MR-MRS GEORGE FINCH<br />
MRS ANTHONY RAAB<br />
MR FRANK STUTE<br />
MR-MRS ERIC HASZ<br />
MR-MRS WILLIAM T NEER<br />
MR-MRS JOHN KONETZKE<br />
TONYA ERICKSON<br />
MRS RUSSELL KNAACK<br />
MRS LARRY EASTON<br />
Our Conference members have been very busy in the past 6-12 months serving our SVdP<br />
friends in need with many different types of assistance.<br />
We have received an exceptionally large amount of calls for rental and utilities assistance<br />
because of the high jobless situation. We also have served them with SVdP store vouchers<br />
for furniture clothing and household items. In addition we have given gas and food vouchers<br />
along with bus passes in large amounts. These are basic needs that every person should<br />
be able to have in their lives.<br />
We also do a large amount of personal transportation for our SVdP friends for doctor’s appointments,<br />
hospital appointments, County and WIC appointments. In addition we will<br />
drive them to dental and eye appointments when other transportation is not available for<br />
them.<br />
In the past year our Conference has taken care of folks in nursing homes with visits and needs and homeless folks upon<br />
their being able to get housing. We have also helped with prison ministry and caring for folks referred to our conference by local<br />
County case workers when clients are in need.<br />
The <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Conference has had the privilege of helping an individual solve unusual problems regarding the<br />
funeral of a family member. We have also been involved in our second ―gas leak‖ of two rental duplexes in the past two wint ers.<br />
The landlords often do not listen to the tenants but they do listen to SVdP members. Gas leaks are a life and death situati on!<br />
The voice for the voiceless!<br />
The Society helps the poor and the disadvantaged speak for themselves. When they can not, the Society must speak on<br />
behalf of those who are ignored! Amen!<br />
No work of charity is foreign to the Society.<br />
Making home visits and helping these families is a spiritual rewarding vocation. If you would like to share these rewarding<br />
experiences, contact <strong>Mary</strong> Ann Reinhardt, <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Conference President at 920-725-1485<br />
Please be generous with your donations of food or monies to help us serve the poor<br />
2011 Christmas Flower Remembrance, Con’t…..<br />
DONOR<br />
IN MEMORY / HONOR OF<br />
ROBERT HAMILTON<br />
IAN A HUXLEY, OLGA, GREGOR LYTWYN<br />
EUGENE LYTWYN, MARIA SZYSTER<br />
GLYNES, NANCY, ARTHUR HUXLEY<br />
DENNIS LONG, SR & KATHLEEN BOGAN<br />
PEROUTKA & DETERT FAMILIES<br />
ANTHONY RAAB<br />
LOIS & STEPHEN STUTE<br />
NEER & DAVIS FAMILIES<br />
MERLIN & BARBARA STEFFENSEN<br />
ANNA & ANTON KONETZKE<br />
ROSALIE BURNS<br />
JUDY GOSZ & EUNICE SCHILLING<br />
RUSS & GERRY KNAACK<br />
LYNN EASTON-RIETVELD & ROBERT EASTON
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The Divine Mercy Chaplet<br />
By Dr. Robert <strong>St</strong>ackpole, STD (Jul 21, 2006)<br />
The Chaplet …. was a form of prayer invoking God's mercy upon the whole world, and extending<br />
the Eucharistic offering of Jesus Christ with an intercessory intention (entry 476):<br />
Eternal Father, I offer You the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity, of Your dearly beloved<br />
Son, Our Lord Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world; for the<br />
sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.<br />
In fact, Jesus had attached the most extraordinary promises to the sincere and devout recitation<br />
of this Chaplet. As He said to Sr. Faustina (entries 1541, 687, 1731):<br />
Encourage souls to say the Chaplet I have given you. ... Whoever will recite it will<br />
receive great mercy at the hour of death. ... Even if there were a sinner most hardened,<br />
if he were to recite this Chaplet only once, he would receive grace from My<br />
infinite mercy. ... Through the Chaplet you will obtain everything, if what you ask<br />
for is compatible with My will.<br />
In the mid-1980's, for example, the people of the Philippines turned as a nation to The Divine Mercy through a daily nationwide<br />
broadcast of the Three O' Clock Hour of Mercy prayers and the Chaplet. They pleaded with the Lord for a peaceful and<br />
just settlement of their national conflict. Almost miraculously, a non-violent revolution did take place, and a democracy was<br />
restored to that poor, yet faithful country.<br />
Meanwhile, convincing evidence of a miracle of healing attributed to Sr. Faustina's intercession removed the last obstacle to<br />
the recognition of her sanctity by the universal Church. As a result, on April 18, 1993, on the Sunday after Easter (Mercy<br />
Sunday), she was given the title "Blessed" at a Mass at <strong>St</strong>. Peter's Basilica in Rome. In his homily at that beatification, the<br />
Holy Father exclaimed:<br />
Her mission continues and is yielding astonishing fruit. It is truly marvelous how her devotion to the Merciful Jesus is<br />
spreading in our contemporary world, and gaining so many human hearts! This is doubtless a sign of the times, a sign of our<br />
20th century. The balance of this century that is now ending ... presents a deep restlessness and fear of the future. Where, if<br />
not in the Divine Mercy, can the world find refuge and the light of hope Believers understand that perfectly.<br />
To follow our Lord’s directive to <strong>St</strong>. Faustina, the Chaplet of Divine Mercy is being said at <strong>St</strong>.<br />
<strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Church the last Thursday of each month@2:30 p.m. so we can continue this mission<br />
and see the astonishing fruit that will be yielded.<br />
PERPETUAL EUCHARISTIC<br />
ADORATION<br />
620 Division <strong>St</strong>reet<br />
Neenah, WI 54956<br />
Adoration to our Lord brings comfort and peace.<br />
All 5 parishes in Neenah & Menasha are in close proximity of the<br />
Twin City Perpetual Eucharistic Adoration Chapel<br />
located on the back side of <strong>St</strong>. <strong>Margaret</strong> <strong>Mary</strong> Church.<br />
Open 24 hours - 7 days a week.<br />
There are several hundred adorers who have committed 1 hour a week, more are always welcome.<br />
Contact Bruce & Ginny Howe for more information at 725-1775.<br />
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