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Reframing can change our attitude but also our behavior. The Greek adviser who sees the student in his or her office as<br />

just another appointment will handle that conversation differently than the adviser who frames it as possibly the greatest<br />

opportunity he/she may ever have to push a young person to new heights. The second adviser probably won’t be glancing<br />

at the clock or his or her e-mail inbox throughout the conversation.<br />

And for those graduating soon, how are you framing this time in your life Will your next step be to just get a job or<br />

something more Maybe it’s the first chapter in your manifesto on how to build a better world, for example.<br />

So ask yourself, what kind of frame are you building for your fraternity experience For your life Is it something ordinary,<br />

basic, and forgettable Or something truly majestic<br />

I see a castle. Do you<br />

From <strong>John</strong> Shertzer (Theta Chi), Fraternal Thoughts blog.<br />

What does reframing fraternity mean for the following<br />

Expand on these concepts in light of your own chapter and experience.<br />

How can you reframe your attitude and behavior as well as that of your chapter for the following:<br />

• Fraternity initiation as the starting line and not the finish line<br />

• A little brother program as mentorship-building and not just friendship-building<br />

• Becoming an alumnus as the time to accelerate fraternity and not to leave it behind<br />

• Community service as a chance for members to clarify personal convictions and not just a PR opportunity<br />

• Chapter meetings as a weekly chance to celebrate fraternity and not just a time to conduct business<br />

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