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Ozean Journal <strong>of</strong> Applied Sciences 6(2), 2013<br />

representational survey, nearly 66% <strong>of</strong> high school senior boys and 61% <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> girls indicated that <strong>the</strong>y agreed or<br />

mostly agreed with <strong>the</strong> statement claiming that it is usually a good idea for a couple to live toge<strong>the</strong>r before<br />

getting married in order to find out whe<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong>y can really get along. Nearly three quarters <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>students</strong><br />

slightly more girls than boys stated that “a man and woman who lived toge<strong>the</strong>r without being married are ei<strong>the</strong>r<br />

experimenting with a worth while alternative lifestyle or “doing <strong>the</strong>ir own thing and not affecting anyone else”.<br />

Meanwhile statistics has shown that this <strong>cohabitation</strong> phenomenon <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> has a far reaching effect on<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir later lives. However, <strong>the</strong> effects are both positive and negative but more on <strong>the</strong> negative side. Although<br />

most <strong>the</strong>ories <strong>of</strong> marital choice predict that <strong>cohabitation</strong> would increase stability <strong>of</strong> later marriages for those<br />

couples who do marry, evidence to date suggests <strong>the</strong> contrary. Couples that cohabit prior to marriage seem to<br />

end <strong>the</strong>ir marriages at significantly higher rates than couples who never lived toge<strong>the</strong>r before wedding Bennet,<br />

Blanc & Bloom, 1998; DeMaris& Rio, (1992). According to Haruna (2008), <strong>the</strong>re was a study on couples living<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r in one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> campuses in <strong>the</strong> Federal Polytechnic, Bida, which revealed several heartbreaks one after<br />

<strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r. It is very shocking that casual sex and <strong>cohabitation</strong> are now becoming one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> favourable subjects<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Nigerian youths as you hear jokes about it from our campus boys and girls. Even secondary school<br />

<strong>students</strong> practice <strong>the</strong> act as <strong>the</strong>y see it glorified in movies and televisions. They have become convinced that<br />

<strong>cohabitation</strong> and sex are <strong>the</strong> means to improve <strong>the</strong>ir love towards each o<strong>the</strong>r. On <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r hand, young people<br />

who abstain from sex are seen as weird and branded by <strong>the</strong>ir peers as religious fanatics.<br />

Statement <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Problem<br />

The majority <strong>of</strong> young Nigerian men and women today want to marry and have children. Therefore, many <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong>m see <strong>cohabitation</strong> as a way <strong>of</strong> life and to test <strong>the</strong>ir compatibility and probably <strong>the</strong> chances <strong>of</strong> long-lasting<br />

marriage. The reason being that after living toge<strong>the</strong>r for several years and having „cordial relationship‟ a person<br />

will eventually have a marriageable mate. Traditionally, <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> university <strong>students</strong> or nonuniversity<br />

youths is forbidden in most Nigerian cultures. It is seen as an act that must not be conducted or<br />

practiced ei<strong>the</strong>r secretly or openly. Despite this condemnation, some youths still practice it with impurity. It has<br />

become a problematic issue that it threatens to destroy <strong>the</strong> marital institution or life which is now almost<br />

becoming beyond control. A lot <strong>of</strong> marriages collapse/brake up few years after wedding which depicts <strong>students</strong>‟<br />

perception <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> as a cont5ract that can terminate any time. It is presumed that campus <strong>cohabitation</strong><br />

does not last and where it doe4s, it breads various problems in later marital life. Therefore, this study was<br />

embarked upon to investigate <strong>the</strong> <strong>psychological</strong> <strong>consequences</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> Tai Solarin<br />

University <strong>of</strong> Education, Ijagun, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria.<br />

Hypo<strong>the</strong>ses<br />

The following hypo<strong>the</strong>ses which guided <strong>the</strong> study were tested at 0.05 level <strong>of</strong> significance.<br />

Ho 1 - Hatred for opposite sex will not significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong><br />

<strong>of</strong> tertiary educational institutions.<br />

Ho 2 - Depression will not significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> tertiary<br />

educational institutions.<br />

Ho 3 - Lack <strong>of</strong> concentration leading to poor academic performance will not significantly be a<br />

consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> tertiary educational institutions.<br />

METHODOLOGY<br />

The design <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> study was <strong>the</strong> descriptive survey research. The utilization <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> design was hinged on <strong>the</strong> fact<br />

that it is suitable for ga<strong>the</strong>ring data from a relatively large number <strong>of</strong> cases at a particular time. The population<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> study comprised all <strong>the</strong> male and female <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> Tai Solarin University <strong>of</strong> Education, Ijagun, Ijebu-<br />

Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria. The sample was made up <strong>of</strong> a total <strong>of</strong> three hundred (300) <strong>students</strong> selected through<br />

stratified random sampling technique. It involved selection <strong>of</strong> seventy five (75) <strong>students</strong> from each <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> four<br />

(4) colleges in <strong>the</strong> university. The research instrument was <strong>the</strong> researcher designed Likert type questionnaire<br />

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