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Ozean Journal <strong>of</strong> Applied Sciences 6(2), 2013<br />

Ozean Journal <strong>of</strong> Applied Sciences 6(2), 2013<br />

ISSN 1943-2429<br />

© 2013 Ozean Publication<br />

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL CONSEQUENCES OF COHABITATION AMONG<br />

STUDENTS OF TAI SOLARIN UNIVERSITY OF EDUCATION, IJAGUN, OGUN<br />

STATE, NIGERIA<br />

BELLO, M. O. &OGUNSANWO, B. A.<br />

Tai Solarin University <strong>of</strong> Education,<br />

College <strong>of</strong> Science & Information Technology,<br />

Department <strong>of</strong> Human Kinetics and Health Education, Ogun State, Nigeria<br />

__________________________________________________________________________________________<br />

Abstract: This study focused on <strong>the</strong> <strong>psychological</strong> <strong>consequences</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> Tai Solarin<br />

University <strong>of</strong> Education, Ijagun, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria. The descriptive survey research design was<br />

used for <strong>the</strong> study. A sample <strong>of</strong> seventy-five (75) respondents was randomly selected from each <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> four (4)<br />

colleges in <strong>the</strong> university <strong>the</strong>reby having a total sample <strong>of</strong> three hundred respondents (300). Frequency counts<br />

and percentages as well as inferential statistics <strong>of</strong> Chi-square were used to analyze <strong>the</strong> obtained data. The<br />

criterion for accepting or rejecting <strong>the</strong> three (3) hypo<strong>the</strong>ses <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> study was set at 0.05 level <strong>of</strong> significance.<br />

The findings revealed that all <strong>the</strong> hypo<strong>the</strong>ses were rejected, meaning that depression, hatred for <strong>the</strong> opposite sex<br />

and lack <strong>of</strong> concentration were significant <strong>psychological</strong> <strong>consequences</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>students</strong>.<br />

Based on <strong>the</strong>se findings, recommendations were made on how to reduce, if not eradicate, <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong><br />

<strong>students</strong> in tertiary institutions, <strong>among</strong> o<strong>the</strong>rs, in Nigeria.<br />

Keywords: Psychological Consequences, Cohabitation, <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> tertiary institution.<br />

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INTRODUCTION<br />

Nigerian government‟s policy on <strong>students</strong>‟ hostel accommodation which is encouraging private hostel<br />

developers may have its good side, but f5rom observation, <strong>the</strong> inability <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> tertiary institutions in expanding<br />

and building new hostels had forced several <strong>students</strong> to look outside <strong>the</strong> campus for accommodation. This had<br />

led to <strong>the</strong> emergence <strong>of</strong> an unacceptable trend in most <strong>of</strong> our tertiary institutions in which male and female<br />

<strong>students</strong> cohabit in <strong>the</strong> same room. Some call it campus marriage but it could ra<strong>the</strong>r be called “<strong>cohabitation</strong>”<br />

<strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong>, since it is an indecent act perpetuated <strong>of</strong>f campus (Abubakar, 2008). Cohabitation is when<br />

people live toge<strong>the</strong>r in an emotional and/or physically intimate relationship. The term is most frequently applied<br />

to couples who are not married (West Encyclopedia <strong>of</strong> American , Law, 2009) while Abubakar, (2008) defines<br />

<strong>cohabitation</strong> as simply <strong>the</strong> act <strong>of</strong> a man and woman living toge<strong>the</strong>r and having a sexual relationship without<br />

being married.Popenoe and Whitehead (2002) asserted that what makes <strong>cohabitation</strong> so significant is not only its<br />

prevalence but also its widespread and popular acceptance. They went fur<strong>the</strong>r to say that in recent <strong>students</strong>‟<br />

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representational survey, nearly 66% <strong>of</strong> high school senior boys and 61% <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> girls indicated that <strong>the</strong>y agreed or<br />

mostly agreed with <strong>the</strong> statement claiming that it is usually a good idea for a couple to live toge<strong>the</strong>r before<br />

getting married in order to find out whe<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong>y can really get along. Nearly three quarters <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>students</strong><br />

slightly more girls than boys stated that “a man and woman who lived toge<strong>the</strong>r without being married are ei<strong>the</strong>r<br />

experimenting with a worth while alternative lifestyle or “doing <strong>the</strong>ir own thing and not affecting anyone else”.<br />

Meanwhile statistics has shown that this <strong>cohabitation</strong> phenomenon <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> has a far reaching effect on<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir later lives. However, <strong>the</strong> effects are both positive and negative but more on <strong>the</strong> negative side. Although<br />

most <strong>the</strong>ories <strong>of</strong> marital choice predict that <strong>cohabitation</strong> would increase stability <strong>of</strong> later marriages for those<br />

couples who do marry, evidence to date suggests <strong>the</strong> contrary. Couples that cohabit prior to marriage seem to<br />

end <strong>the</strong>ir marriages at significantly higher rates than couples who never lived toge<strong>the</strong>r before wedding Bennet,<br />

Blanc & Bloom, 1998; DeMaris& Rio, (1992). According to Haruna (2008), <strong>the</strong>re was a study on couples living<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r in one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> campuses in <strong>the</strong> Federal Polytechnic, Bida, which revealed several heartbreaks one after<br />

<strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r. It is very shocking that casual sex and <strong>cohabitation</strong> are now becoming one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> favourable subjects<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Nigerian youths as you hear jokes about it from our campus boys and girls. Even secondary school<br />

<strong>students</strong> practice <strong>the</strong> act as <strong>the</strong>y see it glorified in movies and televisions. They have become convinced that<br />

<strong>cohabitation</strong> and sex are <strong>the</strong> means to improve <strong>the</strong>ir love towards each o<strong>the</strong>r. On <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r hand, young people<br />

who abstain from sex are seen as weird and branded by <strong>the</strong>ir peers as religious fanatics.<br />

Statement <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Problem<br />

The majority <strong>of</strong> young Nigerian men and women today want to marry and have children. Therefore, many <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong>m see <strong>cohabitation</strong> as a way <strong>of</strong> life and to test <strong>the</strong>ir compatibility and probably <strong>the</strong> chances <strong>of</strong> long-lasting<br />

marriage. The reason being that after living toge<strong>the</strong>r for several years and having „cordial relationship‟ a person<br />

will eventually have a marriageable mate. Traditionally, <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> university <strong>students</strong> or nonuniversity<br />

youths is forbidden in most Nigerian cultures. It is seen as an act that must not be conducted or<br />

practiced ei<strong>the</strong>r secretly or openly. Despite this condemnation, some youths still practice it with impurity. It has<br />

become a problematic issue that it threatens to destroy <strong>the</strong> marital institution or life which is now almost<br />

becoming beyond control. A lot <strong>of</strong> marriages collapse/brake up few years after wedding which depicts <strong>students</strong>‟<br />

perception <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> as a cont5ract that can terminate any time. It is presumed that campus <strong>cohabitation</strong><br />

does not last and where it doe4s, it breads various problems in later marital life. Therefore, this study was<br />

embarked upon to investigate <strong>the</strong> <strong>psychological</strong> <strong>consequences</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> Tai Solarin<br />

University <strong>of</strong> Education, Ijagun, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria.<br />

Hypo<strong>the</strong>ses<br />

The following hypo<strong>the</strong>ses which guided <strong>the</strong> study were tested at 0.05 level <strong>of</strong> significance.<br />

Ho 1 - Hatred for opposite sex will not significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong><br />

<strong>of</strong> tertiary educational institutions.<br />

Ho 2 - Depression will not significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> tertiary<br />

educational institutions.<br />

Ho 3 - Lack <strong>of</strong> concentration leading to poor academic performance will not significantly be a<br />

consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> tertiary educational institutions.<br />

METHODOLOGY<br />

The design <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> study was <strong>the</strong> descriptive survey research. The utilization <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> design was hinged on <strong>the</strong> fact<br />

that it is suitable for ga<strong>the</strong>ring data from a relatively large number <strong>of</strong> cases at a particular time. The population<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> study comprised all <strong>the</strong> male and female <strong>students</strong> <strong>of</strong> Tai Solarin University <strong>of</strong> Education, Ijagun, Ijebu-<br />

Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria. The sample was made up <strong>of</strong> a total <strong>of</strong> three hundred (300) <strong>students</strong> selected through<br />

stratified random sampling technique. It involved selection <strong>of</strong> seventy five (75) <strong>students</strong> from each <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> four<br />

(4) colleges in <strong>the</strong> university. The research instrument was <strong>the</strong> researcher designed Likert type questionnaire<br />

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with four points rating scale <strong>of</strong> strongly agreed, agreed, disagreed and strongly disagreed. The instrument was<br />

validated by three experts and found suitable for <strong>the</strong> collection <strong>of</strong> data for <strong>the</strong> study. A test-retest method was<br />

used to test <strong>the</strong> reliability <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> instrument and Pearson Moment Correlation Co-efficient was used to determine<br />

its reliability <strong>of</strong> 0.78. <strong>the</strong> questionnaire forms were self administered in <strong>the</strong> various colleges <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> university.<br />

The analyses <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> data utilized descriptive statistics <strong>of</strong> frequency counts and percentages as well as <strong>the</strong> Chisquare<br />

inferential statistics set at 0.05 level <strong>of</strong> significance.<br />

RESULTS<br />

The results are presented in tables 1 – 3 in line with <strong>the</strong> hypo<strong>the</strong>ses tested.<br />

Hypo<strong>the</strong>sis 1 – Hatred for opposite sex will not significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> <strong>among</strong> <strong>students</strong><br />

<strong>of</strong> tertiary educational institutions.<br />

Table 1:Chi-square analysis on Hatred for opposite sex<br />

Response Frequency % df Calculated value Table value Decision<br />

Positive<br />

Responses<br />

Negative<br />

Responses<br />

X 2<br />

210 70<br />

90 30<br />

TOTAL 300 100.0<br />

= 169.6; df = 3; P


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176.6 with df = 3 at P


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tertiary institution is to acquire knowledge turn around to combine “married life with academic life” usually face<br />

serious or great consequence <strong>of</strong> less level <strong>of</strong> concentration in school. This invariably affects <strong>the</strong>ir academic<br />

performances adversely.<br />

CONCLUSION<br />

In view <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> findings <strong>of</strong> this study, <strong>the</strong> following conclusions were drawn:<br />

1. Hatred for <strong>the</strong> opposite sex would significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> based on <strong>of</strong>ten<br />

disappointed relationships.<br />

2. Depression would significantly be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> following strained relationship.<br />

3. Poor academic performance would be a consequence <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> whenever disappointed partner<br />

looses concentration.<br />

RECOMMENDATION<br />

The findings and conclusions <strong>of</strong> this study has prompted <strong>the</strong> following recommendations:<br />

1. Government at all levels should work in collaboration with <strong>the</strong> private hostel developers in expanding<br />

and building new hostels that have forced several <strong>students</strong> to look outward for accommodation. With<br />

<strong>students</strong> staying in <strong>the</strong> university hostels, <strong>the</strong>y will concentrate more on <strong>the</strong>ir academic activities than<br />

combining married life with academic life when <strong>the</strong>y cohabit with <strong>the</strong>ir loved ones.<br />

2. Tertiary institutions‟ management should work in partnership with non-governmental organizations<br />

(NGO‟s) to educate <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>students</strong> on sex and family life issues. This could be done in <strong>the</strong> form <strong>of</strong><br />

counseling <strong>the</strong> <strong>students</strong> on <strong>the</strong> <strong>consequences</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>cohabitation</strong> viz-a-viz <strong>the</strong>ir level <strong>of</strong> concentration in<br />

school which goes a long way to adversely affect <strong>the</strong>ir academic performances.<br />

3. Tertiary institutions, particularly Tai Solarin University <strong>of</strong> Education, Ijagun, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State,<br />

should provide a plat-form on which parents <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>students</strong> will be advised on <strong>the</strong> need for <strong>the</strong>m to<br />

always find time to visit <strong>the</strong>ir wards/children on regular basis. This will enable parents to have <strong>the</strong><br />

opportunity to assess <strong>the</strong>ir social life on campus.<br />

4. Lastly, universities should streng<strong>the</strong>n <strong>the</strong>ir counseling unit to be saddled with <strong>the</strong> responsibility <strong>of</strong><br />

counseling <strong>students</strong> that are at risk or in need <strong>of</strong> help.<br />

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