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Loving Someone with BPD: A Model of Emotion Regulation Part I

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Click Self-Invalidation: to Edit Master “I should Title Style be able to change”<br />

• Often appears when emotional vulnerability gets unbearable<br />

• Person <strong>with</strong> <strong>BPD</strong> invalidates the experience that led to the<br />

vulnerability<br />

• The emotions that were so strong are irrelevant, non-existent<br />

or easily changed<br />

• Self-judgmental<br />

• “I should just get over it”<br />

• Invalidation <strong>of</strong> emotional experiences even when they are<br />

justified<br />

• Don’t trust their responses<br />

• Overly perfectionistic problem solving<br />

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