THE ART OF POSSIBILITY - Sweet Adelines International
THE ART OF POSSIBILITY - Sweet Adelines International
THE ART OF POSSIBILITY - Sweet Adelines International
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<strong>Sweet</strong> <strong>Adelines</strong> <strong>International</strong> Page 1<br />
IES 2006<br />
Thursday, 3501 Period 5, 3602 Period 6<br />
Saturday, 5301 Period 3<br />
<strong>THE</strong> <strong>ART</strong> <strong>OF</strong> <strong>POSSIBILITY</strong><br />
A Sampling of Ben and Rosamund Zander Wisdom<br />
KEY CONCEPTS:<br />
1. The art of leadership is about a new way of being<br />
2. Speak possibility: Recognize conversations in the downward spiral and enroll people in<br />
the journey to radiating possibility.<br />
3. Everyone can lead from wherever she stands!<br />
4. Lead by making others more powerful. (The conductor does not make a sound!)<br />
5. Enroll every voice in the vision.<br />
6. Look for shining eyes. What am I doing that keeps them from shining?<br />
7. Quiet the voice in your head that says, “I can’t do it!”<br />
8. Everyone gets an “A” (Give people a possibility to live into, not an expectation to live up to.)<br />
9. Invent a new game: “I am a contributor.” Ask yourself, “How will I contribute today?”<br />
10. Never doubt the capacity of the people you lead to accomplish whatever you dream for them.<br />
11. The leader is the Relentless Architect of the Possibility that Others Can Be.<br />
12. First rule of leadership…Remember Rule # 6!<br />
BOOK:<br />
The Art of Possibility by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander<br />
“Transforming Professional and Personal Life”, Penguin Books, 2000<br />
Objective Of Book:<br />
To provide the reader the means to lift off from that world of struggle and sail into a vast world of<br />
possibility<br />
The authors’ harmoniously interwoven perspectives provide a deep sense of the powerful role<br />
that the notion of possibility can play in every aspect of life. Through uplifting stories, parables, and<br />
personal anecdotes, the Zanders invite us all to become passionate communicators, leaders, and<br />
performers whose lives radiate possibility into the world.<br />
Points to Ponder….<br />
• Draw a different frame around the same set of circumstances & new pathways come into view.<br />
• It is dangerous to have our musicians so obsessed with competition because they will find it<br />
difficult to take the necessary risks with themselves to be great performers.<br />
The Art of Possibility, Benjamin and Rosamund Zander<br />
Kathy Carmody<br />
kkcarmody@earthlink.net<br />
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• Regarding possibility thinking: Virtually everybody wakes up in the morning with the<br />
unseen assumption that life is about the struggle to survive and get ahead in a world of<br />
limited resources.<br />
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• The lesson I learned is that the player (musician) who looks the least engaged may be the most<br />
committed member of the group. A cynic, after all, is a passionate person who does not<br />
want to be disappointed again.<br />
• The answer to the mystery of stage nerves turned out to be the same as the secret of life:<br />
It’s all a matter of invention.<br />
• In the game of contribution you can wake up each day and bask in the notion that you are a<br />
gift to others. You instantly shift the contest from one of survival to one of opportunity<br />
for growth.<br />
• Naming oneself and others as a contribution produces a shift away from self-concern and<br />
engages us in a relationship with others that is an arena for making a difference.<br />
• Throw yourself into life as someone who makes a difference, accepting that you may not<br />
understand how or why.<br />
• There is no such thing as “bad weather”….only inappropriate clothing!<br />
• A director can be easily seduced by the public’s extraordinary attention to her unique offering<br />
and come to believe that he/she is personally superior. A leader who feels she is superior<br />
is likely to suppress the voices of the very people on whom she must rely to deliver her<br />
vision alive and kicking.<br />
• How dispiriting it is for singers when a director, as often happens, gets angry and blames the<br />
chorus when she herself made the mistake, in the vain hope that nobody will have noticed.<br />
• A monumental question for leaders in any organization to consider is: How much greatness<br />
are we willing to grant people?<br />
• BE the board on which the game is played.<br />
• Ben Zander quoting Nelson Mandela quoting Marianne Williamson in A Return to Love:<br />
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,<br />
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.<br />
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.<br />
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous—<br />
actually, who are you not to be?<br />
You are a child of God.<br />
Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.<br />
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people<br />
won’t feel insecure around you.<br />
We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.<br />
It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone.<br />
And as we let our own light shine; we unconsciously<br />
give other people permission to do the same.”<br />
The Art of Possibility, Benjamin and Rosamund Zander<br />
Kathy Carmody<br />
kkcarmody@earthlink.net<br />
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