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Ahmadiyya Gazette Canada

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You must be willing to follow<br />

God’s principles.<br />

Be the person you want your<br />

children to become.<br />

Find contentment so your<br />

children can be filled with<br />

gratefulness.<br />

Abandon old notions of building<br />

self-esteem, and enroll your<br />

family in the School Of Respect.<br />

Help your children find their<br />

purpose and use perseverance to<br />

fulfill that purpose.<br />

Use encouragement to motivate<br />

your children.<br />

Set boundaries without building<br />

walls between you and your<br />

children.<br />

Do all you can to protect and<br />

shield your children from the<br />

garbage of our culture.<br />

Engage your children in<br />

meaningful activities, not useless<br />

entertainment.<br />

Listen with your heart to your<br />

children’s needs.<br />

Rigby then describes what the<br />

current situation is, asking “where<br />

have all the parents gone?” She<br />

suggests that parents today have<br />

abdicated their responsibility to<br />

“parent” in favour of pursuing other<br />

interests. Our community is not<br />

immune from this phenomenon. I<br />

am sure you are all aware of<br />

families who fall into this category,<br />

and perhaps you can relate to those<br />

parents who are so busy working,<br />

chasing money to pay a mortgage<br />

that they end up neglecting their<br />

family, and our future! This reminds<br />

me of another quote which<br />

emphasizes the point, “The<br />

Raising Respectful Children 45

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