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Fostering Hope<br />
FALL 2013 VOLUME 23, NUMBER 3<br />
The Hess <strong>Family</strong> Is. . .<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Working</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>on</strong> a <strong>Project</strong><br />
Ask Greg Hess, 19, about recent<br />
highlights in his life and he quickly<br />
lists projects and hands <strong>on</strong> tasks.<br />
Building a deluxe hutch with his dad<br />
for his New Zealand white rabbit,<br />
Bugsy. Helping to milk cows <strong>on</strong> a<br />
relative’s farm.<br />
“Greg is a really good worker,”<br />
says <strong>COBYS</strong> Foster Care Caseworker<br />
Land<strong>on</strong> Miller. “He wants to work<br />
and he works hard.”<br />
Since November 2011 Greg and<br />
his adoptive parents Scott and Julie<br />
Hess have been working hard <strong>on</strong><br />
another project—they have been<br />
building trust, building a family, and<br />
building a better future for a young<br />
man who had a difficult past.<br />
Abused and neglected by his<br />
parents, Greg spent his teen years in<br />
a variety of foster care and residential<br />
settings. Two previous attempts<br />
at finding a permanent home didn’t<br />
Scott & Julie Hess<br />
are providing s<strong>on</strong>,<br />
Greg, 19, with a<br />
foundati<strong>on</strong> that he<br />
can build <strong>on</strong> as he<br />
c<strong>on</strong>tinues to grow and<br />
make positive<br />
changes. (Below) The<br />
Hesses head off from<br />
Lancaster County<br />
Courthouse for a day<br />
at Hersheypark after<br />
Greg’s adopti<strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong><br />
July 11.<br />
work out. Approaching 18, it<br />
appeared increasingly unlikely that<br />
Greg would find a permanent family.<br />
Scott & Julie married in 2007,<br />
when both were in their 40s. If they<br />
were to have kids in the house, they<br />
decided, it would be through foster<br />
care or adopti<strong>on</strong>.<br />
After completing their <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
resource parent training in 2010 and<br />
providing short-term respite care for<br />
a few foster children, Scott & Julie<br />
met Greg in fall 2011. They traveled<br />
to the residential facility in Western<br />
Pennsylvania, where Greg lived, for<br />
an initial <strong>on</strong>e-day meeting, then<br />
spent a weekend in Erie area, before<br />
hosting Greg for a visit during a<br />
memorable October snowstorm that<br />
knocked power out in their<br />
Centerville home and across much of<br />
the northeast. “That was the funnest<br />
day ever!” Greg enthuses.<br />
On November 21 Greg moved in<br />
and never left.<br />
A lot has happened since then,<br />
and Greg has grown in more ways<br />
than <strong>on</strong>e. The obvious growth is in<br />
stature. “When he first came,” says<br />
Julie, who works as a sec<strong>on</strong>d shift<br />
Nursing Supervisor at the Menn<strong>on</strong>ite<br />
Home in Lancaster, “he was almost<br />
‘failure to thrive.’ He was <strong>on</strong> the<br />
supplemental drinks” to gain weight.<br />
After a couple weeks with the<br />
Hesses he began to eat. . . and eat. . .<br />
and eat. (Hot dogs and pizza are<br />
foods of choice, but he does well<br />
even with brussels sprouts.) And as a<br />
result he began to grow, shooting up<br />
six inches in 18 m<strong>on</strong>ths and packing<br />
more than a few pounds <strong>on</strong>to his<br />
lean frame. “We add Miracle-Gro® to<br />
his food,” Julie says facetiously.<br />
Perhaps even more important<br />
than his physical growth, has been<br />
some emoti<strong>on</strong>al growth. Asked how<br />
things have changed in his life in the<br />
(c<strong>on</strong>tinued <strong>on</strong> page three)
Missi<strong>on</strong> Statement<br />
Motivated by Christian faith,<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong> educates,<br />
supports, and empowers children<br />
and adults to reach their full<br />
potential.<br />
Board of Directors<br />
Rose Walmer, President<br />
Tom Weber, Vice-President<br />
Debra Krantz, Secretary<br />
John Wise, Treasurer<br />
Pamela Ament Nancy Fittery<br />
Steve Echternach Arthur Kreider<br />
Wendy Egolf Brenda Spence<br />
Administrative Staff<br />
Mark Cunningham, Executive Director<br />
Mary Sourber, Director of Placement<br />
<strong>Services</strong><br />
D<strong>on</strong>ald Fitzkee, Director of<br />
Development<br />
Cynthia Umberger, C<strong>on</strong>troller<br />
Bethany Kauffman-Raub, Office Manager<br />
Michele Romeo Martin, Supervisor of<br />
Counseling <strong>Services</strong><br />
Abby Keiser, <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong><br />
Supervisor<br />
Shar<strong>on</strong> Kingsley, Foster Care Supervisor<br />
Nicole Lauzus, Permanency Unit<br />
Supervisor<br />
Fostering Hope is the quarterly<br />
newsletter of <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong>, a<br />
Christian family service agency, affiliated<br />
with the Atlantic Northeast District of the<br />
Church of the Brethren.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong><br />
1417 Oreg<strong>on</strong> Road<br />
Leola, PA 17540<br />
Ph<strong>on</strong>e: 717-656-6580<br />
800-452-6517<br />
Fax: 717-656-3056<br />
www.cobys.org<br />
What a Difference a Year Makes!<br />
As I was reviewing events that have occurred in the life of <strong>COBYS</strong> over<br />
the past year or so, July 25, 2012, stood out to me. That was the day<br />
that I first set foot in a vacant building at 171 East King Street,<br />
Lancaster—a building that later would become our <strong>Family</strong> Life Center.<br />
We purchased the building <strong>on</strong> October 1, 2012, did numerous<br />
upgrades, moved <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong> staff in <strong>on</strong> December 8, and<br />
began hosting programs there <strong>on</strong> January 8 of this year.<br />
Since then, <strong>COBYS</strong> has held 18 classes (about 130 total class<br />
sessi<strong>on</strong>s) and served more than 300 adults and children at our <strong>Family</strong><br />
Life Center. (And that doesn’t count the 17 classes and workshops that<br />
our educators led in churches, schools, Lancaster County Pris<strong>on</strong>, and<br />
other locati<strong>on</strong>s in our communities during that time.) Currently<br />
programs are running four nights a week and some Saturday mornings<br />
at 171 East King. A lot of ministry is happening at our new facility!<br />
I am so thankful for all the ways the programs<br />
there are helping to strengthen families. When I<br />
reflect <strong>on</strong> all that has happened over the past<br />
year, I can’t help but to be thankful and<br />
recognize that God has been with us throughout<br />
this entire process! We are blessed!<br />
Because of the support we receive from so<br />
many faithful d<strong>on</strong>ors, we were in a positi<strong>on</strong> to<br />
make a down payment <strong>on</strong> the property and pay<br />
for minor renovati<strong>on</strong>s and furnishings. But<br />
there’s still work to be d<strong>on</strong>e.<br />
As you can read <strong>on</strong> page seven in this<br />
newsletter, we now have launched the “Work for the Well-Being of the<br />
City” campaign. We will be inviting individuals, businesses, and<br />
churches to go above and bey<strong>on</strong>d their regular support over the next<br />
couple years to help us eliminate the debt we have <strong>on</strong> the new<br />
property, recoup some of the start-up costs, and provide even more<br />
classes for parents and children in the new facility and bey<strong>on</strong>d its doors.<br />
It will take $300,000 to accomplish these goals.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> doesn’t have financial campaigns often. This is just the third<br />
in 33 years. We are thankful for the str<strong>on</strong>g support we receive for our<br />
ministries all of the time, and we schedule campaigns <strong>on</strong>ly when we<br />
have a special need. As campaigns go, $300,000 is a pretty modest<br />
figure, but it still will take some substantial gifts to accomplish the<br />
campaign’s goals and solidify our <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong> ministries.<br />
We’re doing a lot of good things at our <strong>Family</strong> Life Center! When we<br />
ask you to give in coming m<strong>on</strong>ths, we hope you will say “yes” to<br />
partnering with us as we “Work for the Well-Being of the City”!<br />
Mark Cunningham, Executive Director<br />
Fostering Hope 2
(c<strong>on</strong>tinued from page <strong>on</strong>e)<br />
past 18 m<strong>on</strong>ths, Greg understates,<br />
“We trust each other a little more.”<br />
Learning to trust is no small feat.<br />
“The Hesses have had to tear<br />
out the foundati<strong>on</strong> and build a<br />
whole new foundati<strong>on</strong>,” explains<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> Adopti<strong>on</strong> Caseworker<br />
Melanie Swansfeger, since Greg<br />
doesn’t have a positive understanding<br />
of what a mother and father are.<br />
“Deep down he can’t fully trust,”<br />
says Land<strong>on</strong>. “He has reas<strong>on</strong>s not to<br />
trust any<strong>on</strong>e in that role, but he’s<br />
come a l<strong>on</strong>g way in trusting a<br />
family.”<br />
His parents see other positive<br />
developments.<br />
“One of the biggest changes I<br />
see in Greg,” says his dad, “is he has<br />
become more c<strong>on</strong>fident in himself.<br />
He’s a little more outgoing than he<br />
was.”<br />
“He does well with people,” Julie<br />
agrees.<br />
“Especially little <strong>on</strong>es,” Greg<br />
adds. “They like me.”<br />
Greg has had some other<br />
accomplishments this summer, as<br />
well. In June, he walked with the<br />
graduating class at Hempfield High<br />
School and has been accepted into a<br />
highly competitive Lancaster-<br />
Leban<strong>on</strong> Intermediate Unit 13<br />
Willow Valley Work Immersi<strong>on</strong><br />
Program.<br />
“There’s a lot that apply and<br />
<strong>on</strong>ly so many get in,” says Land<strong>on</strong>.<br />
“He can be learning some trades<br />
there and likely get a job there after<br />
his training. So that’s really<br />
exciting.”<br />
The <strong>on</strong>e-year program, based at<br />
the Willow Valley retirement<br />
community, teaches work and life<br />
skills to high-school seniors.<br />
Program participants complete<br />
several <strong>on</strong>e- to two-m<strong>on</strong>th internships<br />
at the retirement community<br />
Greg not<br />
<strong>on</strong>ly is f<strong>on</strong>d<br />
of his rabbit,<br />
Bugsy, but<br />
also is quick to<br />
put up the<br />
bunny ears<br />
when a camera<br />
comes out. He<br />
gave caseworker<br />
Land<strong>on</strong> Miller<br />
some ears at<br />
graduati<strong>on</strong> in June (above) and<br />
Land<strong>on</strong> returned the favor at Greg’s<br />
July adopti<strong>on</strong>.<br />
or local businesses.<br />
If things go well, Greg will<br />
officially graduate from high school<br />
next June and will be in a good<br />
positi<strong>on</strong> to obtain employment.<br />
Greg already has been building<br />
his resume. He worked for PA Scales<br />
as part of an IU 13 internship, and<br />
c<strong>on</strong>tinues to work part-time as a<br />
host at Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre.<br />
Greg also enjoys working around<br />
home; assisting his dad with<br />
projects at Manor Church near<br />
Mountville, where Scott is<br />
employed as Facilities Manager and<br />
where the whole family worships;<br />
and generally helping out where<br />
needed. At <strong>COBYS</strong> resource parent<br />
training events hosted by area<br />
churches, Greg will be the guy<br />
tearing town tables and putting<br />
away chairs after the meal.<br />
When I arrived to meet the<br />
Hesses at their home <strong>on</strong> an August<br />
day, Greg was assisting a c<strong>on</strong>tractor<br />
to finish up a window replacement<br />
project. (I got the idea that he<br />
would rather have stuck with that<br />
project than talk with me!) The<br />
previous couple days he had helped<br />
tear out the old windows. “He<br />
enjoys demoliti<strong>on</strong> way too much,”<br />
his dad says with a grin.<br />
But the Hesses’ biggest project<br />
still is working <strong>on</strong> building<br />
that family. They took a<br />
major step <strong>on</strong> July 11,<br />
when Scott and Julie<br />
adopted Greg, followed<br />
by a celebratory trip to<br />
Hersheypark.<br />
Despite challenges<br />
al<strong>on</strong>g the way, the<br />
Hesses have no<br />
regrets. “I’m glad that<br />
we’re doing what we’re<br />
doing,” says Julie.<br />
“He stretched me in some ways<br />
I wasn’t expecting,” Scott adds,<br />
“but it’s all good. Some of the<br />
stretching is trying to understand<br />
where Greg is coming from.”<br />
Both Scott and Julie have felt<br />
supported by Land<strong>on</strong> and Melanie<br />
al<strong>on</strong>g the way, and Melanie c<strong>on</strong>tinues<br />
to provide post permanency<br />
services to help the family adjust<br />
and c<strong>on</strong>tinue to grow.<br />
While Greg has become more<br />
independent and looks forward to<br />
the day when he can do even more<br />
things <strong>on</strong> his own, he recognizes<br />
that he still has some work to do to<br />
overcome the effects of his<br />
childhood.<br />
Fortunately, he has some good<br />
people in his corner who are willing<br />
to lend him a hand.<br />
“I’m a fix-it type pers<strong>on</strong>,” says<br />
Scott, “but this I can’t fix. I can help<br />
him work through it, but I can’t fix<br />
it.”<br />
But Greg’s a hard worker, and<br />
with some help, he just might get it<br />
d<strong>on</strong>e. He now has the foundati<strong>on</strong><br />
of a supportive family to build <strong>on</strong>.<br />
Fostering Hope 3
Ministry by the Numbers<br />
2012/13 Statistical Report<br />
Motivated by Christian faith, <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong> educates, supports,<br />
and empowers children and adults to<br />
reach their full potential. During the<br />
past year (July 1, 2012– June 30, 2013),<br />
59 staff (28 full-time) helped to carry<br />
out this missi<strong>on</strong> in these ways:<br />
Adopti<strong>on</strong>. Adopti<strong>on</strong> staff<br />
finalized 28 adopti<strong>on</strong>s of foster<br />
children and provided additi<strong>on</strong>al<br />
services to 163 foster children and 28<br />
foster/adoptive resource families.<br />
Thirty-<strong>on</strong>e families received support<br />
services after their adopti<strong>on</strong>.<br />
An affiliate of the Statewide<br />
Adopti<strong>on</strong> & Permanency Network<br />
(SWAN), the <strong>COBYS</strong> adopti<strong>on</strong> program<br />
offers six services: family profiles, child<br />
profiles, child preparati<strong>on</strong> services,<br />
child specific recruitment (for harder<br />
to place children), legal finalizati<strong>on</strong>,<br />
and post permanency services for<br />
adoptive families.<br />
In additi<strong>on</strong> to these SWAN-related<br />
services, <strong>COBYS</strong> provided free birth<br />
parent counseling to seven families<br />
facing unplanned pregnancies and<br />
worked with eight families who were<br />
seeking to adopt an infant. One infant<br />
adopti<strong>on</strong> was finalized. <strong>COBYS</strong> birth<br />
parent counselors are available as a<br />
resource to pastors, churches, and<br />
others as they assist families facing<br />
unplanned pregnancies.<br />
Counseling. <strong>COBYS</strong> therapists<br />
provided some 2,500 hours of therapy<br />
during the year, an increase of about<br />
200 hours from the previous year.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> offers individual, family, and<br />
marital counseling <strong>on</strong> a sliding scale<br />
basis for uninsured clients and also<br />
accepts payment from some major<br />
health insurers.<br />
Therapists address relati<strong>on</strong>al<br />
issues with couples and families;<br />
depressi<strong>on</strong>, anxiety, and other mood<br />
disorders; ADHD; and more.<br />
Counseling centers are located at the<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> main office, north of Lancaster;<br />
Mechanic Grove Church of the<br />
Brethren, Quarryville; and First United<br />
Methodist Church in Palmyra.<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong>. The<br />
move of the <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong><br />
program to a new facility in Lancaster<br />
in December was a 2012/13 highlight<br />
(see pages 2 & 7). During the year<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> educators led 47 courses and 16<br />
workshops, providing 634 classroom<br />
hours and serving 1,085 adults, youth,<br />
and children. Programs were offered<br />
at 31 different sites, including the new<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Life Center, community<br />
locati<strong>on</strong>s, schools, churches, and<br />
Lancaster County Pris<strong>on</strong>.<br />
Foster Care. Foster care staff<br />
facilitated 19,953 days of care for 101<br />
foster children, many of whom were<br />
placed with their brothers and sisters.<br />
Fostering Hope 4
Eleven new sibling groups came into<br />
care and <strong>COBYS</strong> families cared for a<br />
total of 28 sibling groups, including 18<br />
groups of two children, seven groups<br />
of three, and three groups of four! We<br />
also provided care to seven children<br />
with special medical needs, such as<br />
brain trauma, prenatal drug addicti<strong>on</strong>,<br />
and c<strong>on</strong>genital defects.<br />
During the year, 20 foster children<br />
were reunited with their birth parents<br />
or relatives and 21 were adopted by<br />
their <strong>COBYS</strong> foster family. Am<strong>on</strong>g<br />
those adopted were six sibling groups.<br />
We approved 11 new foster/adoptive<br />
resource families, bringing our total<br />
number of families at year-end to 64.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> offers m<strong>on</strong>thly informati<strong>on</strong>al<br />
sessi<strong>on</strong>s at the <strong>COBYS</strong> main office and<br />
at the Wyomissing Church of the<br />
Brethren for families interested in<br />
exploring foster care or adopti<strong>on</strong>.<br />
Permanency. The Permanency<br />
Unit provided services for 70 children<br />
from 45 families. Five of those children<br />
took steps toward adopti<strong>on</strong>, while 17<br />
were able to return home to their<br />
parents. Two others were placed with<br />
Private Giving Comparis<strong>on</strong><br />
a Permanent Legal Custodian, and two<br />
more reached age 18 and signed out of<br />
foster care to live independently.<br />
The goal of this specialized<br />
program—which is based in Lancaster<br />
and operated in partnership with the<br />
Lancaster County Children & Youth<br />
Social Service Agency—is to find a<br />
permanent home for foster children as<br />
quickly and safely as possible. Staff<br />
m<strong>on</strong>itor the well-being of foster<br />
children, support foster parents, and<br />
assist birth parents to overcome the<br />
issues that led to their children’s<br />
placement in care.<br />
Year ANE Churches Other General Total General Bequests<br />
2012/13 $81,685.04 $460,688.24 $542,373.28 $33,196.96<br />
2011/12 $91,120.41 $442,446.37 $533,566.78 $9,375.00<br />
2010/11 $94,608.62 $412,110.84 $506,719.46<br />
2009/10 $93,651.16 $399,492.80 $493,143.96 $8,179.37<br />
2008/09 $107,590.67 $489,569.90 $597,160.57<br />
Community C<strong>on</strong>necti<strong>on</strong>s. In<br />
this program’s sec<strong>on</strong>d year, <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
partnered with four churches to help<br />
them meet the emoti<strong>on</strong>al and material<br />
needs of people in their c<strong>on</strong>gregati<strong>on</strong>s<br />
and communities. <strong>COBYS</strong> provides case<br />
management services to assist local<br />
churches as they serve dependent<br />
families. Caseworkers help clients set<br />
goals and utilize community services,<br />
so churches can stay focused <strong>on</strong><br />
spiritual needs and friendship. As their<br />
support network widens, families’<br />
financial dependence <strong>on</strong> the church<br />
lessens. Community C<strong>on</strong>necti<strong>on</strong>s<br />
provided services to eight families.<br />
Financial Support<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong>’ annual<br />
budget of $2.9 milli<strong>on</strong> is supported by<br />
public funding, grants, fees for services,<br />
and private d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>s. This report<br />
focuses <strong>on</strong> private giving, which<br />
accounts for <strong>on</strong>e fifth of <strong>COBYS</strong>’<br />
income. For the third c<strong>on</strong>secutive year<br />
private giving grew, but still has not<br />
reached pre-recessi<strong>on</strong> levels. A str<strong>on</strong>g<br />
year in bequests further strengthened<br />
our financial positi<strong>on</strong>.<br />
A l<strong>on</strong>g-term downward trend in<br />
giving from Brethren c<strong>on</strong>gregati<strong>on</strong>s<br />
through the Atlantic Northeast District<br />
(ANE) was even more pr<strong>on</strong>ounced this<br />
year, although some of that can be<br />
attributed to c<strong>on</strong>gregati<strong>on</strong>s sending<br />
support in a variety of other ways.<br />
Taking into account all giving from ANE<br />
c<strong>on</strong>gregati<strong>on</strong>s (such as special<br />
outreach, Bible school offerings, in<br />
kind d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>s, etc.) total giving from<br />
churches actually increased slightly.<br />
We are grateful for the str<strong>on</strong>g<br />
financial support that enables us to<br />
c<strong>on</strong>tinue to serve children and families<br />
in Christ’s name!<br />
A versi<strong>on</strong> of this report that<br />
includes a list of d<strong>on</strong>ors is available <strong>on</strong><br />
the News & Events page at<br />
www.cobys.org. Audited financial<br />
statements are available up<strong>on</strong> request.<br />
Fostering Hope 5
Record Grant to Fund Innovative Educati<strong>on</strong> Programs<br />
When a class is filled within 24 hours<br />
of announcing its availability, that’s a<br />
pretty good indicati<strong>on</strong> that a need<br />
exists. That’s what happened with the<br />
first <strong>COBYS</strong> Incredible Years Dina<br />
Dinosaur Child Training Program that<br />
got underway <strong>on</strong> August 19.<br />
And thanks to a grant of $193,986<br />
from the Pennsylvania Commissi<strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong><br />
Crime & Delinquency (PCCD)—thought<br />
to be the largest grant <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong><br />
<strong>Services</strong> has received in its 33 years of<br />
history—<strong>COBYS</strong> will be meeting needs<br />
of children and their parents through<br />
this program for the next two years.<br />
“I think it’s exciting to see more<br />
and more families have their needs<br />
met,” says <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong><br />
Supervisor Abby Keiser. “It’s exciting to<br />
be able to feed, nurture, and watch<br />
them grow, and to help stabilize their<br />
families.”<br />
Executive Director Mark<br />
Cunningham credits Abby with being<br />
very proactive in seeking grant funding<br />
and for her persistence in ensuring<br />
delivery of the m<strong>on</strong>ey when the state<br />
budget process placed the funding in<br />
peril after the award was announced.<br />
The grant applicati<strong>on</strong>, which was a<br />
collaborative effort between <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
<strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong> and Counseling<br />
programs, sought funding to bring two<br />
new programs to Lancaster County.<br />
The Incredible Years Dina Dinosaur<br />
Child Training Program serves children,<br />
ages 4-8, who are difficult to manage,<br />
aggressive, or may have disruptive<br />
behaviors. At-risk children with mental<br />
health problems are ideal participants.<br />
An Incredible Years parenting<br />
program is offered c<strong>on</strong>currently with<br />
the kids program. Both programs meet<br />
weekly for two hours for 18 weeks.<br />
The current program, which is serving<br />
eight children and nine parents (and<br />
providing childcare for eight siblings),<br />
will c<strong>on</strong>tinue <strong>on</strong> M<strong>on</strong>day evenings<br />
until Christmas. The January children’s<br />
Land<strong>on</strong> Miller and Karen Herr, with<br />
the help of puppets Wally and Dina<br />
Dinosaur, are leading the inaugural<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> Dina Child Training Program,<br />
which is funded by a nearly $200,000<br />
grant from the Pennsylvania<br />
Commissi<strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong> Crime & Delinquency. As<br />
children help puppets Wally and Molly<br />
(not pictured) solve their problems, they<br />
also gain insight into themselves.<br />
program already is filled, as well. The<br />
evening begins with a family meal at<br />
5:30, with educati<strong>on</strong> from 6:00 to 8:00<br />
p.m. Lisa Stoltzfus is Program Coordinator.<br />
In Good Company<br />
The PCCD grant will fund four<br />
children’s programs and four parent<br />
programs at the <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> Life<br />
Center in Lancaster, and an additi<strong>on</strong>al<br />
eight children’s programs at Lancaster<br />
County Head Start locati<strong>on</strong>s. <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
Supervisor of Counseling <strong>Services</strong> Dr.<br />
Michele Romeo Martin serves as<br />
Mental Health C<strong>on</strong>sultant for Head<br />
Start and was instrumental in<br />
establishing the link between <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
and Head Start, says Abby.<br />
The evidence-based Incredible<br />
Years Dina Program has been proven<br />
effective in reducing aggressive and<br />
disruptive behaviors, improving social<br />
skills, and helping children to solve<br />
problems and understand and c<strong>on</strong>trol<br />
emoti<strong>on</strong>s. It includes therapeutic and<br />
educati<strong>on</strong>al elements, and utilizes<br />
puppet and video modeling, coaching<br />
and reinforcement with structured<br />
activities, visual imagery, fantasy play,<br />
and live role plays.<br />
And what does all this have to do<br />
with dinosaurs, you may ask? The<br />
children’s porti<strong>on</strong> of the program is<br />
named after a puppet—Dina<br />
Dinosaur—who serves as “principal” of<br />
the “school” that participating children<br />
are enrolled in.<br />
If you work in the corporate world and decide to support <strong>COBYS</strong> through United<br />
Way or by enlisting a matching gift from your employer, you are in good company.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> has many d<strong>on</strong>ors who support our ministries through the workplace.<br />
While <strong>COBYS</strong> does not receive funding through United Way’s regular fund<br />
drive, individuals can designate their United Way c<strong>on</strong>tributi<strong>on</strong>s to benefit <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
through the D<strong>on</strong>or Choice program. To participate, simply fill out the form that is<br />
available from your employer and specify <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong> as the agency you<br />
would like to support. That way you can participate in a United Way campaign,<br />
while also knowing your gifts are helping a ministry that you care about.<br />
Whether or not you participate in United Way, you may want to check if your<br />
employer matches employee d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>s. Many do. You may be able to double<br />
your d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong> to <strong>COBYS</strong>—and double the ministry we are able to accomplish.<br />
Fostering Hope 6
‘Work for the Well-Being’<br />
Financial Campaign Underway<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Services</strong> has launched a<br />
two-year, $300,000 financial campaign<br />
to pay for a new facility in Lancaster<br />
and undergird <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong><br />
programming. Based <strong>on</strong> Jeremiah 29:7,<br />
the campaign theme is “Work for the<br />
Well-Being of the City.”<br />
Last October <strong>COBYS</strong> purchased a<br />
5,400-square-foot facility at 171 East<br />
King Street, Lancaster, to house <strong>Family</strong><br />
Life Educati<strong>on</strong> staff and programs.<br />
Staff relocated in December and the<br />
first programs began in January. The<br />
move was prompted by a need for<br />
c<strong>on</strong>sistent, well-equipped facilities for<br />
educati<strong>on</strong> and childcare and a growing<br />
realizati<strong>on</strong> that many <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>Family</strong><br />
Life Educati<strong>on</strong> clients live in the city.<br />
In c<strong>on</strong>cert with the educati<strong>on</strong><br />
theme, the campaign goals can be<br />
summarized in three R’s: Retire<br />
ExtraOrdinary Give Back for Round Two<br />
The first ever 24-hour <strong>on</strong>line giving<br />
campaign sp<strong>on</strong>sored last fall by the<br />
Lancaster County Community<br />
Foundati<strong>on</strong> was so successful that they<br />
are doing it again. And <strong>COBYS</strong> is all in.<br />
This year’s ExtraOrdinary Give is<br />
slated for Friday, November 22. More<br />
than 200 n<strong>on</strong>-profit organizati<strong>on</strong>s are<br />
expected to participate. The logistics<br />
are the same as last year. With credit<br />
card in hand,<br />
d<strong>on</strong>ors simply<br />
need to visit<br />
extragive.org<br />
between 12:00<br />
a.m. and 11:59<br />
p.m. <strong>on</strong> Friday,<br />
November 22,<br />
choose <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
from the list of organizati<strong>on</strong>s, and give<br />
a d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong> of $25 or more.<br />
The Foundati<strong>on</strong>, with help from<br />
Presenting Sp<strong>on</strong>sor Rodgers & Associates,<br />
is promoting the event, providing<br />
prize m<strong>on</strong>ey, and offering a $250,000<br />
“stretch fund” that will be divided<br />
proporti<strong>on</strong>ately am<strong>on</strong>g participating<br />
organizati<strong>on</strong>s. The more our d<strong>on</strong>ors<br />
give, the greater <strong>COBYS</strong>’ porti<strong>on</strong> of the<br />
$250,000.<br />
On top of the match, an additi<strong>on</strong>al<br />
$50,000 will be awarded in prizes.<br />
During certain time periods, individual<br />
d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>s will be randomly selected. If<br />
a <strong>COBYS</strong> d<strong>on</strong>or is chosen, the foundati<strong>on</strong><br />
will add $1,000 to that d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>.<br />
The more individual d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>s <strong>COBYS</strong><br />
receives, the greater the chance of<br />
winning <strong>on</strong>e or more prizes.<br />
Last year <strong>COBYS</strong> had the fifth<br />
highest d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong> amount out of 192<br />
organizati<strong>on</strong>s and earned a $1,000<br />
Early Bird prize for being the sec<strong>on</strong>d<br />
organizati<strong>on</strong> to reach 50 unique d<strong>on</strong>ors.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong>’ net income for the day<br />
exceeded $32,500.<br />
“Now that people know how this<br />
works,” says <strong>COBYS</strong> Director of<br />
Development D<strong>on</strong> Fitzkee, “we think<br />
the competiti<strong>on</strong> will be tougher. If<br />
we’re going to win the Early Bird prize<br />
this year, it probably will take some<br />
night owls to give at the stroke of<br />
midnight.”<br />
Please mark your calendar, tell your<br />
friends, and remember <strong>COBYS</strong> <strong>on</strong><br />
November 22. If you d<strong>on</strong>’t have access<br />
to a computer or have questi<strong>on</strong>s,<br />
c<strong>on</strong>tact D<strong>on</strong> at 717-656-6580 or<br />
d<strong>on</strong>@cobys.org.<br />
remaining debt <strong>on</strong> the <strong>Family</strong> Life<br />
Center; Recoup a porti<strong>on</strong> of costs for<br />
furnishing the building; and Raise new<br />
funds to support <strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong><br />
programs.<br />
“We recognize that $300,000 is a<br />
modest figure for a campaign,”<br />
acknowledges Director of Development<br />
D<strong>on</strong> Fitzkee. “We c<strong>on</strong>sidered a<br />
larger figure but ultimately decided<br />
that this is what we need.” Any giving<br />
above the goal will support additi<strong>on</strong>al<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong> programming.<br />
All members of the <strong>COBYS</strong> Board<br />
of Directors made commitments to<br />
the campaign this summer.<br />
The Lead Gifts porti<strong>on</strong> of the<br />
campaign is being c<strong>on</strong>ducted during<br />
the fall m<strong>on</strong>ths, followed by a general<br />
invitati<strong>on</strong> later in the fall. Individuals<br />
are being asked to c<strong>on</strong>sider two-year<br />
commitments for 2013/14 or 2014/15.<br />
The church phase of the campaign<br />
will begin with visits in spring 2014.<br />
Churches will be invited to support in<br />
2015 and 2016, with a suggested<br />
giving amount of $10.00 per attender<br />
per year for the two years.<br />
Goals at a Glance<br />
Retire <strong>Family</strong> Life Center Debt $185,000<br />
Recoup Startup Costs $45,000<br />
Raise Funds for Educati<strong>on</strong> $70,000<br />
Total $300,000<br />
The campaign is being c<strong>on</strong>ducted<br />
entirely by <strong>COBYS</strong> board members<br />
and staff. Board President Rose<br />
Walmer is Chair of the campaign.<br />
Serving <strong>on</strong> the Lead Gifts Team are<br />
Steve Echternach, Brenda Spence, and<br />
John Wise. Church Gift Team<br />
members are Wendy Egolf, Nancy<br />
Fittery, and Debra Krantz. Staff are<br />
Executive Director Mark Cunningham,<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Life Educati<strong>on</strong> Supervisor Abby<br />
Keiser, and Fitzkee.<br />
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Major<br />
Carl & Margaret Wenger<br />
Sp<strong>on</strong>sors<br />
Seeking Help for a Historic Day: Last Call for Bike & Hike<br />
Your help is needed to reach a major<br />
milest<strong>on</strong>e at the 17th annual <strong>COBYS</strong> Bike<br />
& Hike, which will take place <strong>on</strong> Sunday,<br />
September 8, beginning at the Lititz<br />
Church of the Brethren. Events begin at<br />
1:30 p.m.<br />
“We’ve been steadily climbing<br />
toward the $100,000 mark,” says event<br />
planner D<strong>on</strong> Fitzkee. “We think this is<br />
the year, and we’re asking people to pull<br />
together to get us over the top.” Last<br />
year, the Bike & Hike set a new income<br />
record of nearly $95,000. More than 500<br />
people participated.<br />
<strong>COBYS</strong>’ signature event, the Bike &<br />
Hike includes a three-mile walk through<br />
Lititz, 10- and 25-mile bicycle rides <strong>on</strong><br />
rural roads around Lititz, and the 65-<br />
mile Dutch Country Motorcycle Ride.<br />
This year’s motorcycle ride includes<br />
scenic roads near Speedwell Forge, Mt.<br />
Gretna, and Colebrook, with a break in<br />
Elizabethtown and more sights in the<br />
western part of Lancaster County.<br />
Participants choose their event and<br />
either pay a minimum registrati<strong>on</strong> fee or<br />
obtain sp<strong>on</strong>sors. Pre-registrati<strong>on</strong> is not<br />
required. Just come!<br />
Those unable to walk or ride that<br />
day can support the event by sp<strong>on</strong>soring<br />
some<strong>on</strong>e else or sending a d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong> in<br />
the envelope included with this newsletter.<br />
(Write “Bike & Hike” in the memo<br />
line of your check.)<br />
Businesses already have kicked in<br />
more than $22,000—a new record. (See<br />
sp<strong>on</strong>sors above.)<br />
Each participant receives a free t-<br />
shirt (while supplies last), ice cream and<br />
refreshments, and an opportunity to win<br />
<strong>on</strong>e of dozens of door prizes. Those who<br />
raise certain levels of support can earn<br />
additi<strong>on</strong>al prizes.<br />
In additi<strong>on</strong>,<br />
grand prizes<br />
d<strong>on</strong>ated by<br />
area businesses<br />
will be awarded<br />
to the top three<br />
fundraisers.<br />
Prizes include<br />
two Cracker Barrel rocking chairs, a<br />
$100 gift certificate for travel with Bob<br />
Neff Tours, a trip for two to New York<br />
City from C<strong>on</strong>estoga Tours, and two<br />
swivel patio chairs from Good’s Store.<br />
Top fundraisers may choose <strong>on</strong>e of<br />
these prizes or substitute any other<br />
prize from the prize table.<br />
More informati<strong>on</strong>, including the<br />
brochure and routes, is available at<br />
www.cobys.news/htm. Or c<strong>on</strong>tact D<strong>on</strong><br />
at 717-656-6580 or d<strong>on</strong>@cobys.org.