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sms to my fiancé, my kids, family and some friends, saying,<br />

‘On Cowie’s, 18km to go, 2:50 to 12:00 cut <strong>of</strong>f. Going to <strong>be</strong><br />

close.’ I had to run at a pace <strong>of</strong> 9.5min/km to finish in under<br />

12 hours, which was more than my average running pace <strong>of</strong><br />

7.53min/km. That sounds good on paper, but on tar in <strong>the</strong> Durban<br />

heat after slogging it out for 71km, I was still unsure I would finish.<br />

I reached 45th Cutting (12km to go) after ten hours <strong>of</strong> running.<br />

My fiancé was standing next to <strong>the</strong> road cheering me on. With all<br />

<strong>the</strong> courage I could muster, I told her I would finish in time. It was<br />

15:30. It was muggy. I was hot and tired and my nose was still<br />

bleeding. I was now in extreme ‘vasbyt’ territory. All <strong>the</strong> runners<br />

on <strong>the</strong> road were quiet. Everyone was focused on simply putting<br />

one foot in front <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r, moving forward at all costs.<br />

I reached <strong>the</strong> 5km-to-go board on <strong>the</strong> stroke <strong>of</strong> 11:00. Only severe<br />

cramping or some o<strong>the</strong>r unforeseen disaster could prevent me<br />

from finishing in time. My nose miraculously stopped bleeding<br />

and when I saw <strong>the</strong> 1km-to-go board with 27 minutes to cut <strong>of</strong>f,<br />

I k<strong>new</strong> Comrades 2009 was in <strong>the</strong> bag!<br />

I can’t explain <strong>the</strong> relief and elation when I entered <strong>the</strong> stadium<br />

with a big smile, punching <strong>the</strong> air in sheer delight. It felt as<br />

though <strong>the</strong> thousands <strong>of</strong> frenzied supporters were all shouting<br />

for me. I finished in 11:41. It was a hard day at <strong>the</strong> <strong>of</strong>fice, to say<br />

<strong>the</strong> least. The Ultimate Human Race? Pretty inhuman, if you ask me.<br />

// I encountered blind runners along <strong>the</strong><br />

way. We ran past disabled kids. We have so many<br />

blessings to <strong>be</strong> grateful for, like our health. How<br />

<strong>of</strong>ten do we take <strong>the</strong>m for granted? //<br />

Lessons Learnt<br />

My Comrades experience, in a way, resembles a micro version <strong>of</strong> life itself,<br />

with many lessons.<br />

Everything starts with a dream. Dream big. You only have one life, so<br />

make it count. We <strong>of</strong>ten under achieve, <strong>be</strong>cause we think<br />

small.<br />

Stick to your game plan. Both my training and <strong>the</strong> race<br />

itself had clear guiding principles and realistic goals that<br />

I stuck to religiously. In life and business, it also helps to<br />

have a clear vision (dream) and strategy (plan) and to stick<br />

to that plan.<br />

Adapt to unforeseen obstacles. Although we plan<br />

for setbacks, we are <strong>of</strong>ten confronted by curve balls we<br />

could not foresee. I didn’t expect my hip flexor to<br />

spasm or nose bleeding problems. I had to deal with it.<br />

The temptation to panic was strong, but I had to stay<br />

calm and find innovative solutions to overcome <strong>the</strong><br />

setbacks. Sometimes we face obstacles in life that look<br />

worse than what <strong>the</strong>y really are. We should ignore <strong>the</strong>m<br />

and continue regardless.<br />

Never ever give up. My race turned out much harder than I expected.<br />

I could easily have given up. Life, and business, <strong>of</strong>ten threaten to pull<br />

us down. Sometimes we feel like giving up. Don’t. Hang in <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

Bad patches don’t last.<br />

Make <strong>the</strong> most <strong>of</strong> every opportunity. Instead <strong>of</strong> this just <strong>be</strong>ing a race<br />

for personal reasons, it turned into an awesome opportunity to raise funds<br />

for a very worthy case. How <strong>of</strong>ten do we miss <strong>the</strong> opportunities that life<br />

or business present us with?<br />

If you have a story to share, we would like to hear from you.<br />

Go to www.modernathlete.co.za and <strong>be</strong>come a contributor.<br />

Celebrate your victories, big or small. Once<br />

<strong>the</strong> job is done satisfactorily, it is time to pop <strong>the</strong><br />

champagne. It takes a lot <strong>of</strong> hard and smart work<br />

to complete any worth while task successfully. Enjoy it.<br />

You deserve it.<br />

Be grateful. I encountered blind runners along <strong>the</strong> way. We ran past<br />

disabled kids. We have so many blessings to <strong>be</strong> grateful for, like our<br />

health. How <strong>of</strong>ten do we take <strong>the</strong>m for granted? The unselfish support<br />

from my fiancé during and after <strong>the</strong> race allowed me to focus on <strong>the</strong> job<br />

at hand. Would <strong>the</strong> entire ‘expedition’ have <strong>be</strong>en possible without it?<br />

Life has taught me <strong>the</strong> value <strong>of</strong> gratitude.<br />

Show kindness. It costs so little, yet it means so much. The kind words<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> lady in front <strong>of</strong> me <strong>be</strong>fore <strong>the</strong> start <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> race left me with a warm<br />

feeling about our wonderful rainbow nation. The world is full <strong>of</strong> harshness<br />

and over competitiveness. We can make it a <strong>be</strong>tter place by showing<br />

kindness, <strong>be</strong>cause kindness <strong>be</strong>gets kindness.<br />

Be generous. <strong>This</strong> is a lesson I learnt fairly late in life; to give is a blessing.<br />

The generosity <strong>of</strong> all <strong>the</strong> donors made me realize more people have<br />

discovered this. Don’t cling to your earthly possessions. The joy derived<br />

from giving is highly rewarding, and in a strange way people who give<br />

easily always seem to have more to give.<br />

Never stop learning. Despite my ten previous races, I still learnt so many<br />

things on <strong>the</strong> day – about people, <strong>the</strong>ir fears, <strong>the</strong>ir joys, <strong>the</strong>ir challenges.<br />

I learnt a lot about <strong>the</strong> Starfish Foundation. Finally, I learnt that <strong>the</strong> true<br />

heroes <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Comrades are <strong>the</strong> sluggers who sneak in just <strong>be</strong>fore <strong>the</strong><br />

12 hour cut-<strong>of</strong>f time!<br />

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