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AMTA Oregon News ~ 6 Editor’s Log: In late April, I had surgery on an ankle fracture. So, I have had some extra time to reflect on many things. As I read the Massage Therapy Journal article, which is excerpted below, it resonated with me. Many massage therapists are nurturers and givers. Because of my situation, I have recently had the opportunity to be an asker and receiver. Now, I am more aware of setting boundaries to make my life easier and lower my stress level. This includes not being “busy” all the time. It’s important to take the time for yourself to do as you wish, even to do nothing but kick back and relax. I look forward to lounging below the fir trees in my backyard reading a book I’ve been meaning to read for a long time. This is the perfect time of year to begin. DRAWING A LINE—DEFINING BOUNDARIES By Michelle Vallet, Massage Therapy Journal, November 15, 2011 Massage therapists understand the idea of boundaries. You agree to ethical standards in a variety of ways, ranging from the work you do everyday with your clients to abiding by state laws that regulate the practice of massage therapy to your AMTA professional membership. There are clear cut, permanent boundaries that guide your work, and there are also boundaries that are more flexible, such as your preference concerning office hours, for example. In the following, you’ll learn how to define your own boundaries, why being clear about your boundaries is important and how to deal with any boundary issues that may arise. Adding complexity to an issue almost always increases the chances for problems, and it’s no different when you think about the professional and personal boundaries you set for yourself. From setting boundaries about when you’re available to clients to having firm policies surrounding cancellations to knowing when you need to refer a client elsewhere, you are probably going to encounter situations that test both you and your clients. “Many boundary problems can be traced back to four situational response styles,” explains Kirk Nelson, founder of Heartland Institute of Touch in Missouri. “It’s important to be aware that these styles can be projected by either the massage therapist or the client.” Compliants. “Compliants bow to the demands and needs of others whether it’s appropriate or not,” Nelson says. “This reaction most commonly comes from a fear of hurting someone’s feelings, making someone angry or feeling guilty.” In these situations, boundaries become fuzzy and indistinct. “Examples of this behavior might be a client who tells you the pressure is ‘just fine,’ even when it’s causing pain,” Nelson says, “or when a massage therapist cancels their own plans because a client calls at the last minute and wants an appointment.” Avoidants. “People who avoid have trouble recognizing their own needs or letting others help,” explains Nelson. “They withdraw when they are in need and do not ask for assistance.” Therapists that tend toward both compliant and avoidant are at a high risk for burnout, Nelson suggests, because they aren’t able to accept the support they need to replace the energy they expend helping others. Controllers. “Whether aggressive bullies or manipulators, controllers motivate others to carry their load, projecting responsibility for their lives onto others,” says Nelson. “They have a lack of respect for the boundaries of others, and often see someone saying no as a challenge to change their mind.” Nonresponsives. Unlike with controllers who know there are boundaries but simply choose to ignore them, nonresponsives fail to recognize there are boundaries at all. “Sometimes, a person feels incomplete themselves so they have a critical attitude toward the needs of others,” Nelson explains. “Other times, people are just so absorbed in their own desires and needs, they fail to acknowledge those of the people around them.” — Rea d the full article on the Nat’l AMTA website at www.amtamassage.org. lquemie ublishing Barb Tyler (541) 937·2611 Fax: (541) 937-4286 npassist@msn.com nk Tailored services for nonprofit organizations “The next best thing to a volunteer!” PO Box 87, Dexter, Oregon 97431 WWW.ALQUEMIEPUBLISHING.COM Newsletter Publishing • Executive Assistance • Event Planning Website Development & Maintenance!
AMTA Oregon News ~ 7 OREGON CHAPTER TALENT SEARCH Yes, I want to get involved as a volunteer. I have indicated my areas of expertise or interest by putting a CHECK MARK in the boxes below. _COMMUNICATIONS I am interested in helping with the Oregon News, other bulletins and/or website. Contact Becky Leetch, 503/307-7812, bleetchlmt@comcast.net I am willing to give: _2-3 hours a week _2-3 hours a month _2-3 hours once only _As needed _EDUCATION I am interested in helping with the Education Committee, which plans and presents regular continuing education opportunities for its members. Contact Mike Blackmore, 541/993-9355, combeswellnesscenter@yahoo.com. I am willing to give: _2-3 hours a week _2-3 hours a month _2-3 hours once only _As needed _MEMBERSHIP I am interested in giving time and energy to the recruitment, hospitality, member recognition, benefits, social events etc. Contact Leslie Giese, 503/358- 7995, bodybunch@msn.com I am willing to give: _2-3 hours a week _2-3 hours a month _2-3 hours once only _As needed GET INVOLVED in the _ADMINISTRATIVE or GENERAL VOLUNTEER I am interested in volunteering or sharing my time and energy in whatever way is most needed. I am flexible. Contact Leslie Giese, 503/358-7995, bodybunch@msn.com I am willing to get involved: _As needed _On a limited, but regular basis _FINANCE I am interested in helping with the organization and planning of the Finance Committee, which is responsible for the management of Chapter funds. Contact Brandi Walton, 360/892-2309, bwalton777@comcast.net I am willing to give: _2-3 hours a week _2-3 hours a month _2-3 hours once only _As needed _GOVERNMENT RELATIONS I am interested in giving time to this committee, which is involved with law and legislative matters concerning the practice of the massage profession. Contact Leah Bowder, 503/348-1574, massage@leahlmt.com I am willing to give: _2-3 hours a week _2-3 hours a month _2-3 hours once only _As needed Please fill out this form and mail it to: AMTA-OR PO Box 2142 Lake Oswego, OR 97035-0645 (Or contact the person as noted for each committee) Name AMTA Chapter Address City State Zip “...to develop and advance the art, science and practice of massage therapy…” Call or email an AMTA-OR Board Member TODAY! Phone Email
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