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PresidentEric S. SellingerVice PresidentsPamela BloomEdward GoldbergRichard MandelPhyllis MankoffMaureen SpivackAbby WinkelriedTreasurerPeter NalittAssistant TreasurerMyles AdelmanSecretaryJodi CoopermanDinner with Dr. Clement PriceMembers of <strong>the</strong> BoardJeffrey CohenHadley FeldmanEric FrancisDavid FreinbergLaura FrommRobert FrischmanDr. Robert GoldbergPamela GoldsteinMerle HirschmannJeremy KleinAllan L. KreitzmanEllen LangeRichard MandelbaumRobyn MargolisLisa MirskyAndrew ShainbergRenee ShermanSylvia SteinerNorman SturnerRobin WeidhornDr. Jeffrey ZissuVoting Past PresidentsStephen A. GreeneCharles OranskyRichard L. ZuckerEric N. PolansWomen’s AssociationCo-PresidentsRobin BuchalterBrett Lev SeamanConfirmation Class in Washington, DCBro<strong>the</strong>rhood PresidentSaul SimonCouples’ ClubRepresentativesNicole & Marc LennerTYG PresidentSarah SiegelPast PresidentsPhilip BrousCharles R. DreifusFred FraenkelHoward W. GoldenAndrew S. HarrisJerry HarwoodLinda K. LeviDonald L. MorchowerHarriet Perlmutter-PilchikRobert D. RosenbergMarshall D. ShermanFredric M. SmithLeslie Y. SpornOur Mitzvah Mountain2 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


TBJ LONG RANGE PLANNING: UPDATE REPORTAs many of you know, in 2008 TBJ embarked on a LongRange Planning process. The purpose of this process wasseveral fold: to redefine <strong>the</strong> vision and mission of <strong>the</strong> congregation;to consider <strong>the</strong> demographic, competitive ando<strong>the</strong>r challenges facing <strong>the</strong> congregation; to reassess <strong>the</strong>structure, function and audiences of <strong>the</strong> congregation; and,finally, to develop measurable objectives to move <strong>the</strong>congregation from its present state to a more completefulfillment of its redefined mission.A Long Range Planning Committee was formed, anexternal consultant was hired, and assignments were made!Over <strong>the</strong> past year, <strong>the</strong> committee has worked on:✡ Redefining our mission, vision, values,✡ Articulating our external and internal challenges andopportunities,✡ Identifying all of our life-cycle learning and programming,✡ Reviewing our building and grounds current and future use,✡ Evaluating our leadership and governance, and✡ Connecting with <strong>the</strong> congregation’s various constituenciesthrough <strong>the</strong> conduct of focus groups.As we begin to draft <strong>the</strong> results of <strong>the</strong> process to date andmove into <strong>the</strong> next phase, we want to share with you whatwe have learned and <strong>the</strong> changes that we will be implementingover time. Please look for our updates, labeled “UpdateReport — TBJ Long Range Planning” in <strong>Temple</strong> Tidings.So what did <strong>the</strong> Focus Groups have to say about TBJ?Over a 5-month period in late 2008, with direction fromour Long Range Planning Consultant Rabbi David Teutchand committee members, we conducted nine differentfocus groups representing <strong>the</strong> following constituenciesof <strong>the</strong> congregation:✡ Parents of pre-school age children✡ Parents of religious school children✡ Empty nesters✡ Singles✡ Older seniors✡ Younger seniors✡ Teens✡ Parents of teens✡ Geographically distanced congregantsEach focus group had a trained facilitator whose purposewas to explain <strong>the</strong> long range planning process to <strong>the</strong> group,ask questions, facilitate discussion, and stay neutral. Eachfocus group also had a designated scribe to capture <strong>the</strong>essence of what was said. All discussions were confidential.The questions dealt with each group’s current impressions of<strong>the</strong> congregation, areas of strengths and areas of improvement.Summary comments among <strong>the</strong> various groupsare noted below:✡ Strong feeling that <strong>the</strong> congregation is headed in apositive direction✡ Appreciation for <strong>the</strong> leadership of Rabbi Gewirtz✡ More warmth and personal connections are being made now✡ Support for <strong>the</strong> clergy to take on difficult issues from<strong>the</strong> pulpit✡ Support for <strong>the</strong> richness and diversity of <strong>the</strong> programming✡ Special mention was made of Shabbat B’Shir led byCantor Stahl and <strong>the</strong> inspiring High Holy Days servicesMore constituency specific comments included:✡ ECC class size✡ Active and vibrant religious school, challenge to keep itinteresting, interactive, topical, and have youth groupview TBJ as a place to be✡ Older groups pleased with TBJ and clergy, but challengeis to stay connected✡ Parking and physical layout of facility is challenging✡ Making sure clergy, programming and activities connectwith each of <strong>the</strong> constituencies✡ Teens just want to come and hang out, what’s HebrewSchool really about?!?!?!✡ Diversity of TBJ population cited as a real positive, makesure communication of happenings done in advance toaccommodate distance.Stay tuned for our next Update Report!Abby WinkelriedRichard MandelChairpeople<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 3


LIFE LONG JEWISH LEARNINGReligious School<strong>February</strong>7 th Club 56 Skating event8 th JeshTY Board Meeting 5:30 pm747 – Symbols through Art14 th -21 st Winter Break22 nd Classes resume for Midweek & Chai School26 th 747 — The O<strong>the</strong>r B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong> Trip 4:00 pm27 th JeshTY Midnight Run for <strong>the</strong> homeless<strong>March</strong>6 th Club 56 event8 th JeshTY Board Meeting 5:30 pm13 th Family Shabbat Service 9:30 am3 rd – 6 th Grade Family Education 10:15 am6 th Grade Retreat begins14 th Sunday - Madrichim Seminar 11:45 am15 th Monday - Madrichim Seminar 5:30 pm747 – Pass <strong>the</strong> Parsley 6:30 pm16 th Tuesday - Madrichim Seminar 5:30 pm20 th JeshTY Funplex Event21 st Kindergarten -2 nd Grade Pesach SederD’var Torah Workshop Orientation 11:30 amClub Katan & Club 56 Chocolate Seder 11:45 am22 nd Monday 3 rd -7 th Grade Pesach Program 4:00 pm23 rd Tuesday 3 rd -7 th Grade Pesach Program 4:00 pm28 th toApril 11 th No Religious School – Pesach & Spring BreakECC Calendar<strong>February</strong>3 rd Ask Rabbi Matt Discussing Death withYour Children Session #1 – 9:30 am6 th Tot Shabbat 9:30 am10 th Ask Rabbi Matt Discussing Death withYour Children Session #2 – 9:30 am15 th -19 th Winter Break<strong>March</strong>2 nd Tuesday Playtime for Friends Ends4 th Thursday Playtime for Friends Ends5 th Shabbat Shalom Club Ends6 th Tot Shabbat 9:30 am8 th ,9 th ,10 th Picture Days9 th How to Have a Great Seder with YoungChildren 9:30 am16 th No School — Teacher In-ServiceDevelopment Day19 th Tot Shabbat 5 pm29 th , 30 th Passover — No SchoolYouth ActivitiesWe are getting ready for some excitingupcoming events, so save <strong>the</strong>se dates!On <strong>February</strong> 27 th , JeshTY will be going into New York City todeliver food and o<strong>the</strong>r necessities to people living in shelters.On <strong>March</strong> 6 th , Club 56 will be going to <strong>the</strong> Funplex in EastHanover. We will play video games and ride go karts! It’sgoing to be a great event!On <strong>March</strong> 13 th , JeshTY is going to <strong>the</strong> Funplex too!Finally, on <strong>March</strong> 23 rd , Club Katan and Club 56 will jointoge<strong>the</strong>r for TBJ’s 2 nd Annual Chocolate Seder (everything aSeder is…but with chocolate!). It was a blast last year andit’s back by popular demand!Our Youth Group events have been great so far: from ClubKatan’s Chanukah candle making to JeshTY’s Build-a-Beardonation event, <strong>the</strong> momentum is strong to finish out <strong>the</strong>year. I hope your child can join us at <strong>the</strong>se great events!If you have any questions, please feel free to contact meat ssilversten@tbj.org.Sarah SilverstenYouth Advisor4 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


LIFE LONG JEWISH LEARNINGJill Eikenberry & Michael TuckerFriday <strong>March</strong> 19 th , 7:00 pmFamily Meals: Coming Toge<strong>the</strong>r to Care for an Aging ParentJill’s mo<strong>the</strong>r was widowed and soon afterfell into a pronounced dementia, resultingin a change in <strong>the</strong> family dynamic. Michael& Jill’s “sandwich generation”story will resonate with all whohear it.Come Learn With Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w GewirtzSundays, <strong>March</strong> 7 th , 14 th , 21 st at 9:45 amThe Theology of Meaning, Purpose and Suffering:An Interfaith Dialogue and PerspectiveWhy are we <strong>here</strong>? Do we have some kind of purposefor living? While we are <strong>here</strong>, why do we sometimesexperience suffering?Meaning, purpose and suffering are concepts as old as<strong>the</strong> world itself. We will address <strong>the</strong>se questions, as well aso<strong>the</strong>rs, through <strong>the</strong> study of some of <strong>the</strong> most prominent anddistinguished <strong>the</strong>ologians including Abraham Joshua Heschel,Martin Buber, Mordechai Kaplan, Arthur Green and <strong>the</strong> GreatHasidic Masters. For a universal view, we have invited aChristian <strong>the</strong>ologian and a Muslim <strong>the</strong>ologian to offer <strong>the</strong>irperspective on <strong>the</strong>se paramount questions as well.Consider Becoming An Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah?(Scheduled for Spring 2011)Tuesdays, <strong>March</strong> 23 rd , April 27 th , May 25 th at 7 pmExplore <strong>the</strong> option with Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w Gewirtz, CantorHoward Stahl, Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w Reimer, Rick Abrams, RabbinicIntern Karen PerolmanAre you ready for one of <strong>the</strong> great thrills of Jewish life?We will examine what it means to be part of <strong>the</strong> eternalcovenant between God and Israel, how prayer can be ameaningful part of our lives, and what it means to be a“religious” Reform Jew.Please contact Rick Abrams at 973-379-3177 orrabrams@tbj.org to express your interest.TBJ Café<strong>March</strong> 2nd at 11:30 amBrown Bag lunch, dessert & beverages will be provided.The Renaissance Group presents art docent Ca<strong>the</strong>rineLawrence.Ca<strong>the</strong>rine Lawrence, founder of InsideArtnyc, is a NewYork Art Historian and Lecturer with double MA degrees inArt History from Hunter College, CUNY and InternationalEducation from Columbia University, Teacher’s College.She has taught Art History and English at area schools,including a humanities class based on <strong>the</strong> visual arts anddesigned as an introduction to American history and culture.Ca<strong>the</strong>rine has lectured extensively at <strong>the</strong> MetropolitanMuseum of Art on its permanent collections and specialexhibitions and has led hundreds of tours at o<strong>the</strong>r largeand small New York museums and galleries. She workedas a Curatorial Research Assistant in <strong>the</strong> American Wing of<strong>the</strong> Metropolitan Museum for <strong>the</strong> 2003 exhibition, “HudsonRiver School Visions, <strong>the</strong> Landscapes of Sanford R. Gifford.”Dr. Seuss & Jewish ValuesAt <strong>the</strong> far end of town w<strong>here</strong> <strong>the</strong> grickle grass grows/and <strong>the</strong>wind smells slow and sour when it blows, and no birds eversing, excepting old crows, is <strong>the</strong> street of <strong>the</strong> lifted Lorax.The celebration of Tu B’Shevat (this year, January 30 th )reminded us of <strong>the</strong> value of our precious resources. Thelessons of scarcity are taught to our children through scienceand literature, such as Dr. Seuss’s The Lorax. In a series ofsilly songs and rhymes, we learn of <strong>the</strong> Onceler, a greedyentrepreneur, who stumbles across <strong>the</strong> forest of <strong>the</strong> trufulatrees, home of <strong>the</strong> Brown Barbaloots, <strong>the</strong> Swommy-Swans,<strong>the</strong> Humming Fish, and <strong>the</strong>ir protector, <strong>the</strong> Lorax. As <strong>the</strong>Onceler expands his business, trufula trees are swiftly hackedand before long, <strong>the</strong> Barbaloots leave <strong>the</strong> forest, <strong>the</strong> Swommy-Swan is gone, and <strong>the</strong> Humming Fish are forced to walk ondry land in search of clear water in which to swim. (Does thissound familiar?)“I am <strong>the</strong> Lorax and I speak for <strong>the</strong> trees. I speak for <strong>the</strong>trees for <strong>the</strong> trees have no tongues, so I’m asking you, Sir, at <strong>the</strong>top of my lungs…” The Lorax pleads with <strong>the</strong> Onceler to stophis destructive ways and save <strong>the</strong> forest of <strong>the</strong> trufula trees,but to no avail.A young boy wanders <strong>the</strong> forest searching to learn of <strong>the</strong>Lorax and his fight for <strong>the</strong> trees. With no plant or animal liferemaining and in need of advocacy, <strong>the</strong> Lorax is lifted away,leaving behind a tree stump, a pile of rocks, and a carvingof <strong>the</strong> word, “unless.”“What’s unless?” <strong>the</strong> boy asks. The Onceler replies, “just afar away word, just a far away thought, about something thatsomeday, somebody ought. Unless someone like you cares awhole awful lot, nothing’s going to get better. It’s not.” At <strong>the</strong>end of his story, <strong>the</strong> Onceler places in <strong>the</strong> boys hand <strong>the</strong> lastof <strong>the</strong> seeds of <strong>the</strong> trufula trees. He charges him to plant it, andtreat it with care, giving it clean water and air. Advocating for<strong>the</strong> trees and <strong>the</strong> inhabitants of <strong>the</strong> forest was <strong>the</strong> passion of<strong>the</strong> Lorax. But who or what else has no voice to be heard? Whoelse is relying on our pleas, if need, at <strong>the</strong> top of our lungs?Heeding <strong>the</strong> call to Social Action <strong>the</strong> students of our 10 thGrade Confirmation Class attended <strong>the</strong> L’taken Social JusticeSeminar sponsored by <strong>the</strong> Religious Action Center for ReformJudaism. An intensive four-day study kallah in Washington, DC,<strong>the</strong> program focuses on Jewish values and social justice. Joinedby 250 teens from across <strong>the</strong> United States, this unique opportunityenables our students to hear from experts both insideand outside <strong>the</strong> Jewish community on diverse issues in a varietyof interactive formats. The seminar also included an opportunityfor students to tour <strong>the</strong> U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum andparticipate in a Havdalah service at <strong>the</strong> Jefferson Memorial.The culmination of <strong>the</strong>ir visit to Washington was a visit toCapitol Hill w<strong>here</strong> students used <strong>the</strong> information gained in <strong>the</strong>irworkshops to meet with Legislative Assistants to our New JerseySenators and Representatives. Students from TBJ joined teensfrom <strong>Temple</strong> Emanu-El of West Essex in Livingston and <strong>Temple</strong>Ner Tamid of Bloomfield to advocate support for bills currentlybeing debated in <strong>the</strong> areas of health care, economic justice,comprehensive sex education and reproductive rights,environmental protection and Israel.For more information on social justice or our ReformMovement’s position on current issues, visit www.rac.org.<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 5


CARING COMMUNITYYou Can Make A DifferenceBy Doing A Mitzvah!The Caring Community Committee welcomes you tomake visits to homebound congregants. We have some wonderful<strong>Temple</strong> Members who would love a visit from ano<strong>the</strong>rcongregant to talk, read, reminisce, play cards, or even workon a crossword puzzle toge<strong>the</strong>r. The commitment involvesonly one hour a month, and is based on your availability.This is not only a mitzvah, but a great opportunity for you tobreak up <strong>the</strong> monotony of your daily routine and take <strong>the</strong>time to remember what really matters in our lives.We are actively seeking congregants who would enjoyreceiving a visit each month. If you know of someone whowould benefit from a visit, please do not hesitate to let us know.For more information on how you can make a differenceplease contact ei<strong>the</strong>r Cantor Stahl at hstahl@tbj.org orLaura Shur at imsoshur@verizon.net.TBJ Shiva Minyan CorpsOne of <strong>the</strong> greatest mitzvot incumbent upon us as Jews,indeed as human beings, is to offer tangible and meaningfulexpressions of comfort and consolation to those who havesuffered <strong>the</strong> loss of a loved one. We are obliged to do thisas individuals and as a caring congregational community.TBJ’s Caring Community Committee, with <strong>the</strong> supportof our Women’s Association and Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood, sponsors aShiva Minyan Corps comprised of TBJ members who havebeen trained to conduct minyan services at congregants’homes during <strong>the</strong> shiva period.While it is <strong>the</strong> clergy’s intention to continue to conductsuch services and to be available to any and all TBJ familiesin need, <strong>the</strong>re are occasions when scheduling becomes achallenge. Many congregations have a trained corps of congregantswho stand ready to perform <strong>the</strong> mitzvah of leadinga minyan service in a house of mourning. As you know,<strong>the</strong>se services need not be conducted by a rabbi or cantor.Any knowledgeable lay person may lead a minyan. This serviceis brief and, with <strong>the</strong> exception of <strong>the</strong> Kaddish, is usuallyconducted in English. The members of our Shiva MinyanCorps have received specialized training covering <strong>the</strong>rubrics of <strong>the</strong> service, issues associated with grief and loss,and how to be comfortable and comforting at a shiva house.If you are interested in becoming part of this very specialgroup, or if you have any questions, please feel free to contactCantor Stahl at hstahl@tbj.org. We are proud of <strong>the</strong> goodwork this group is doing. It is truly a very great mitzvahto serve our congregational family in this fashion.Did You Know…. That T<strong>here</strong> Is A JFSSynagogue Social Worker at TBJ?I began working at TBJ in June, 2008 as part of a programthrough JFS MetroWest, which places Social Workersin synagogues part-time, for 12 hours a week. This programis partly funded through a grant from <strong>the</strong> Healthcare Foundationof New Jersey. TBJ is one of seven congregationsthat are participating in this program. The social workersprovide various services and programs depending on <strong>the</strong>needs of <strong>the</strong> congregation in which <strong>the</strong>y work. T<strong>here</strong> is nofee for <strong>the</strong>se services.What I doSince starting at TBJ in June 2008, I have had <strong>the</strong> opportunityto meet with many members of <strong>the</strong> congregation andprovide various services to <strong>the</strong>m, including:✡ Provide short term counseling and support.✡ Provide referrals and resources to services in <strong>the</strong> surroundingcommunities.✡ Run a bereavement group for adults who have lost a parent.✡ Work with <strong>the</strong> Caring Community Committee to assess <strong>the</strong>needs of <strong>the</strong> congregation and plan accordingly.✡ Help coordinate programs for adults as well as <strong>the</strong> ReligiousSchool. The adult programs included: SandwichGeneration Issues and Resources and Advanced DiseaseManagement. For <strong>the</strong> Religious School: The Bullying Preventionpresentation and Larry Westreich’s talk on Teens,Drug and Alcohol Use and <strong>the</strong> Parent Information Sessionfor <strong>the</strong> Sacred Choices Program.✡ Respond via phone, e-mail or in person to inquiriesregarding areas of concern. Whe<strong>the</strong>r a congregant is havingdifficulty in <strong>the</strong>ir life and wants to speak confidentiallyabout this, or is interested in finding an assisted livingfacility appropriate for <strong>the</strong>ir parent, looking to be a partof a support group or looking for a referral for a clinician.Please know that our contact is confidential. My typicaldays are Tuesdays and Thursdays, although I do come in atdifferent times for programs and would be willing to arrangea mutually workable time to meet if those days are notconvenient for you.Addressing painful issues impacting your life can bedifficult, and reaching out takes a great deal of strength.Please know that I am <strong>here</strong> for you and would like to behelpful. You can reach me at 973-379-1555 ext. 6641 orat imazur@tbj.org.Ilana Mazur, LCSWJFS Synagogue Social Work Consultant6 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


MEMBERSHIPBROTHERHOODTBJ is still glowing after our amazing New MemberShabbat Service and Dinner on December 4 th . We had agreat turnout of both new and “veteran” members, andfrom <strong>the</strong> looks of <strong>the</strong> dance floor, everyone was havinga wonderful time. Thank you to all who came out forsuch a special evening.Make sure to check your mailboxes in <strong>the</strong> next fewweeks — <strong>the</strong> 3 rd Edition of our TBJ Membership Directoryshould be arriving shortly! We hope you find this to be avaluable resource to connect you with o<strong>the</strong>r members of<strong>the</strong> TBJ community. If <strong>the</strong>re are any errors in your listing,we ask that you notify <strong>the</strong> TBJ office. We plan to circulatean addendum with all corrections.Put Friday, <strong>March</strong> 12 th on your calendar — The Nightof Shabbat Dinners is back by popular demand. Join usfor a 5:30 pm service followed by Shabbat dinner in ahost member’s home. If you are interested ei<strong>the</strong>r in hostinga family or being a guest in a member’s home, pleasecontact Laurie Goldberg at 973-921-1123, or send ane-mail to nightofshabbatdinners@tbj.org.We have a fantastic Membership Committee, but wecan always use your input and help. Do you have anyideas for recruitment, integration, or retention? Just call orsend an email to membership@tbj.org. We’d love to hearyour ideas.And remember, when you come to services.......Be a Friend and Bring a FriendDebbie Klein 973-218-9220 debkklein@aol.comPhilippa Miller 973-761-4904 psm@xmiller.comKen Ettinger 973-376-9669 kettinger@comcast.netBe a Part of TBJ’s Night of Shabbat DinnersFriday, <strong>March</strong> 12 th , 5:30 pmHelp create a warm and caring community within ourCongregational Family by sharing Shabbat Dinner witho<strong>the</strong>r <strong>Temple</strong> Members. You can offer to be a host,or let us know if you would like to be a guest.Here is how <strong>the</strong> night works:1 st — come to <strong>the</strong> Shabbat Service at 5:30 pm2 nd — join new & old friends at a small Shabbat Dinner ina Host Member’s homeQuestions about hosting or being a guest?Laurie Goldberg lbhaber@aol.com 973-921-1123Julie Winer sjwiner@verizon.net 973-379-4420Amanda Jones amandajoneslaw@hotmail.com973-535-3830Mara Friedman marajaye15@gmail.com 973-994-1128Debbie Klein debkklein@aol.com 973-218-9220RSVP to nightofshabbatdinners@tbj.orgGentlemen,I hope everyone has had a Happy Holiday season. TheBro<strong>the</strong>rhood has capped off a great 2009 and is moving into<strong>2010</strong> with a bang. Thank you to <strong>the</strong> Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood Board andour members for <strong>the</strong>ir enthusiasm and support.We ended 2009 with our annual Chanukah Party w<strong>here</strong> <strong>the</strong>always popular “Starfish” rocked <strong>the</strong> house, entertaining morethan 300 people who enjoyed <strong>the</strong> fun, food and music. Ourown Rick Abrams was <strong>the</strong> opening act and we hear he may goout on tour with <strong>the</strong> Rolling Stones. Thank you to Jared Shapiroand Scott Bryant for <strong>the</strong>ir hard work and party planning, alongwith <strong>the</strong>ir team of Andy Elkins and Arne Salkin.<strong>2010</strong> began with a fantastic new event — A Night at <strong>the</strong>Museum! 40 men and <strong>the</strong>ir children spent <strong>the</strong> night for asleepover at <strong>the</strong> American Museum of Natural History, enjoyingspecial exhibits and an IMAX movie while roaming <strong>the</strong> hallswith flashlights and a better understanding of <strong>the</strong> museum.A great time was had by all and <strong>the</strong> snoring was even kept toa minimum.<strong>2010</strong> also saw <strong>the</strong> return of <strong>the</strong> Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood Sports Tour.On January 31 st , <strong>the</strong> Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood went to see <strong>the</strong> New JerseyNets play <strong>the</strong> Philadelphia 76ers, everyone had a great time.Thanks as always to our own ticket broker, Jared Shapiro. TheSports Tour will continue on April 11 th when <strong>the</strong> New JerseyDevils play <strong>the</strong> Buffalo Sabres.Please look to <strong>the</strong> Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood website for <strong>the</strong> calendarof events including our monthly networking meeting: markyour calendar for our upcoming events:<strong>March</strong>9 th Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood Monthly Meeting(an early St. Patrick’s Day)25 th <strong>March</strong> Madness!!April11 th New Jersey Devils vs. Buffalo SabresThank you to Debbie Stone, Ricky and his staff, <strong>the</strong>Clergy, Rick Abrams and <strong>the</strong> Executive Board, for <strong>the</strong>ircontinued support.Saul Simon, PresidentBro<strong>the</strong>rhood SoftballLooking for some good men tobring <strong>the</strong> TBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood SoftballTeam back to <strong>the</strong> Championship!If you are interested in joining<strong>the</strong> TBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhood softball teamfor <strong>the</strong> <strong>2010</strong> season, especially ifyou can hit a softball 400 feet, please e-mail Team CaptainFrank Langendorff at frankjlang@aol.com.<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 7


THE WOMEN’S ASSOCIATIONCalendar of Events<strong>February</strong>2 nd Tuesday, 7:30 pm Women to WomenNetworking Meeting9 th Tuesday, 9:15 am Executive Board Meeting26 th Friday, 9:15 am Bag Purim Hamentashen<strong>March</strong>10 th Wednesday, 9:15 am Board Meeting11 th Thursday, 11:30 am Author Visit/Book DiscussionLuncheon Scottsboro, A Novel,by Ellen FeldmanPlease mail all checks to: 1025 South Orange Avenue, Short Hills, NJ 07078The Women’s Association sponsored its Fourth AnnualHoliday Boutique on Tuesday, December 1 st . One of <strong>the</strong>largest fundraisers of <strong>the</strong> year, <strong>the</strong> Holiday Boutique welcomedhundreds of shoppers looking to check-off <strong>the</strong>ir holidayshopping lists or find that something special for <strong>the</strong>mselves.With over 35 vendors from New Jersey and <strong>the</strong> tri-statearea, this year’s Boutique offered a select mix of jewelry,home accessories, stationary, clothing and even tikkunolam gift cards for various local charities.The event could not have happened without <strong>the</strong> invaluableassistance and dedication of many people at TBJ. We wouldlike to express our sincere gratitude to <strong>the</strong> many women fromThe Women’s Association and in <strong>the</strong> ECC who volunteered<strong>the</strong>ir time in promoting <strong>the</strong> big event, setting up and working<strong>the</strong> checkout tables. A big thank you to Mike Behar forcreating and printing <strong>the</strong> professional and beautiful invitations,flyers and banners he so generously donated. Of course, wecould not have done it without Ricky Torres and his team whoworked tirelessly getting Ellis Auditorium and <strong>the</strong> <strong>Temple</strong>ready for <strong>the</strong> event as well as returning everything back toits original state. Rick Manis helped us get <strong>the</strong> vendors inand out of <strong>the</strong> Boutique safely and efficiently. BarbaraO’Donnell, Debbie Stone and Alice Lutwak tended to manydetails to ensure <strong>the</strong> Boutique would run smoothly. JoshKanter of Eppes Essen provided our TBJ Cafe with manydelicious lunch choices and kept both <strong>the</strong> vendors andcustomers well-fed. And we extend our thanks to KarenCaplan and Mara Silverman for organizing a successful bakesale that raised over $500, <strong>the</strong> proceeds of which weredonated to <strong>the</strong> Human Needs Food Pantry in Montclair. Ithas been an honor leading such a tremendous effort knowingthat <strong>the</strong> funds raised at <strong>the</strong> Holiday Boutique benefit ourTBJ community and our extended community as well.Heidi Axelrod and Larisa PosnerVP of Women’s Association andCo-Chairs of <strong>the</strong> Holiday BoutiqueWoman to Woman Business Network ForumTuesday, <strong>February</strong> 2 nd 7:30 pmWomen discussing career and business situations with o<strong>the</strong>rwomen. Whe<strong>the</strong>r you are promoting a business, lookingfor a job or just interested in making connections, comebe inspired. New members welcome. For moreinformation and to RSVP, contact Linda Berkowitzat Linda@LindaBerkowitz.com.Spring Book Discussion & Author VisitPlease join <strong>the</strong> Women’s Association for Lunch withAcclaimed Author, Ellen FeldmanThursday <strong>March</strong> 11 th at 11:30 amShortlisted for <strong>the</strong> 2009 Orange Prizefor fiction. Chosen by <strong>the</strong> RichmondTimes Dispatch as one of <strong>the</strong> fivebest novels of <strong>the</strong> year. On a springafternoon in 1931, an Alabamaposse stopped a freight train androunded up nine black youths, rangingin age from thirteen to nineteen.Their crime was fighting with whiteboys — until two white girls,dressed in men’s overalls, turnedup in one of <strong>the</strong> freight cars. Though <strong>the</strong> girlsshowed no signs of abuse, <strong>the</strong> cry of rape went up, anda case and a cause that would drag on for almost halfa century were born. No crime in American history resultedin as many trials, convictions, reversals, retrials, and seminalSupreme Court decisions.RSVP to Wendy Araten at waraten@aol.com orStacey Mischel at samischel@aol.com $10 includes lunch.Please send checks to WA Book Discussion at TBJ. Guestsalways welcome.Cooking with Susie FishbeinThursday April 15 th 7 pmThis time it’s DINNER!At <strong>the</strong> home of Robin WeidhornSpace is limited to 30 people.RSVP to Holly Simons at hsimons71@aol.com$50 per personPlease send checks to WA Cooking Demo at TBJ.Put this on your calendar!WA Spring LuncheonTuesday, May 25 th at 11:30 amCome be inspired by Leslie MorganSteiner’s gripping tale of love andabuse. This is a story we all needto hear.8 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


THE ROSALIND & ALFRED LIPPMAN GALLERYLinda K. LeviLinda K. Levi received her degree in art education andhas worked to help o<strong>the</strong>rs understand that art is subjective;<strong>the</strong>re is no such thing as a good or bad artist, and, thatthrough art, we are given <strong>the</strong> gift of free expression. Shehas found that watercolor has been her personal vehicle toopen up many creative avenues and feels blessed that she isable to visualize her environment and express her reactionsthrough various mediums.Richard D. SkinderRichard D. Skinder is a retired publisher. All his works in thisshow are figurative assemblages and collages. He has usedthis unique style in more than fifty pieces which hang inhomes in Florida, Michigan, Canada and London.BESA: Albanian Muslims Who Saved JewsThe Art Committee of TBJ is proud to present a travelingphotographic exhibit from Hebrew Union College entitledBESA: Albanian Muslims Who Saved Jews During World War II —Photographs by Norman Gershman. Norman Gershman isa New Jersey photographer who has travelled to Albania totake pictures of <strong>the</strong> families of <strong>the</strong> Albanian Muslims who rescuedJews during <strong>the</strong> Holocaust, at great peril to <strong>the</strong>mselves.When asked why <strong>the</strong>y did this, <strong>the</strong> response of <strong>the</strong> rescuerswas that <strong>the</strong> Koran told <strong>the</strong>m to open <strong>the</strong>ir doors to thosein need. We have scheduled this exhibit so it will be in <strong>the</strong><strong>Temple</strong> on Yom HaShoah, <strong>March</strong> 23 rd through May 4 th . Albaniawas <strong>the</strong> only European country to boast a larger numberof Jewish people after <strong>the</strong> Holocaust than it had prior to <strong>the</strong>Holocaust. Besa is an Albanian code of honor, which means“to keep <strong>the</strong> promise.” It is <strong>the</strong> Besa of <strong>the</strong> Albanian peoplethat Gershman captures in his photographs.<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 9


B’NAI MITZVAH AT TBJRachel Meisner<strong>February</strong> 6 thRachel is a 7 th grade student at <strong>the</strong>Milburn Middle School, Short Hills.She is <strong>the</strong> daughter of Lauren &Richard Meisner, <strong>the</strong> sister of Justin,and <strong>the</strong> granddaughter of Lucille &Roger Berg and Margie & JackMeisner.Allison Farber<strong>March</strong> 13 thAllie is a 7 th grade student at <strong>the</strong> MillburnMiddle School, Short Hills, She is <strong>the</strong>daughter of Susan & Stephen Farber,<strong>the</strong> sister of Rebecca, and <strong>the</strong> granddaughterof Larry Farber and SuzanneGold, and Ruth Parnes.Carly Maitlin<strong>February</strong> 27 thCarly is a 7 th grade student at <strong>the</strong>Millburn Middle School, Short Hills.She is <strong>the</strong> daughter of Tammie &Larry Maitlin, <strong>the</strong> sister of Jessica &Zachary, and <strong>the</strong> granddaughter ofJennifer & Elliot Scher and Marion& Allan Maitlin.Alexandra Kirshenbaum<strong>March</strong> 20 thAlexandra is a 7 th grade student at<strong>the</strong> Millburn Middle School, ShortHills. She is <strong>the</strong> daughter of Allison& David Kirshenbaum, <strong>the</strong> sister ofClaire & Jack, and <strong>the</strong> granddaughterof Marjorie & Paul Rennert and Harriet& <strong>the</strong> late Nathan Kirshenbaum.Ariella Kuhl<strong>March</strong> 6 thAriella is a 7 th grade student at<strong>the</strong> Millburn Middle School, ShortHills. She is <strong>the</strong> daughter ofAllegra & Robert Kuhl, <strong>the</strong> sister ofEthan, and <strong>the</strong> granddaughter ofHelen Kuhl and Gabriella Cantoni.Jake Shainberg<strong>March</strong> 27 thJake is a 7 th grade student at <strong>the</strong>Millburn Middle School, Short Hills.He is <strong>the</strong> son of Robin & AndrewShainberg, <strong>the</strong> bro<strong>the</strong>r of Scott, and<strong>the</strong> grandson of Renee & MarshallSherman, Raymond Shainbergand <strong>the</strong> late Toby Shainberg.If you have a child who was born in 2000 and you did not receive a Bar/Bat Mitzvah Application Form,please contact Allyne Zorn at azorn@tbj.org or 973-379-1555, X6624.TBJ Scholarships AvailableThe Ruth & Nathaniel Cohen ScholarshipThe Cohen Scholarship is available to children of TBJ members for financial assistance for college. It is awarded based onfinancial need, commitment to Judaism and educational excellence. Applicants should apply in writing, outlining <strong>the</strong>irqualifications and circumstances. All information is confidential.The Fred & Lillian Zissu ScholarshipThis scholarship supports high school students participating in a NFTY in Israel program.Interested in applying for ei<strong>the</strong>r, or need more information? Contact Executive Director Alice Lutwak at 973 379 1555or alutwak@tbj.org.Maxine Fischer College Scholarship — $3,000Deadline: <strong>February</strong> 23 rdAvailable to an exceptional young woman majoring in Jewish Studies and/or Women’s Studies as anundergraduate or in graduate school.Candidate must be a MetroWest resident or attending a fully accredited MetroWest college or university.Online application: www.ujcnj.org/maxinefischer10 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


SHARING OUR LIVESOur Congregation shares in <strong>the</strong> happiness of its membersand is thankful for <strong>the</strong> blessings <strong>the</strong>y enjoy.WeddingsMazel Tov toJoana Pereira & Julian Ro<strong>the</strong>nberg on <strong>the</strong>ir recent marriageEllen & John James on <strong>the</strong> marriage of <strong>the</strong>ir daughter,Stephanie to Marc EsquenaziAndrea & Fred Fraenkel on <strong>the</strong> marriage of <strong>the</strong>ir sonSamuel to Alexandra BachBirthsMazel Tov toJudy Zucker and Richard Zucker on <strong>the</strong> birth of agranddaughter, Elizabeth Bailey Kohen, daughter ofAmy Zucker Kohen & Douglas KohenSharon & Robert Levinson on <strong>the</strong> birth of a granddaughter,Ella Brooke Silverstein, daughter of Jennifer &John SilversteinPhyllis & Ed Sorkin on <strong>the</strong> birth of a granddaughter,Isabelle Beatrice Lawi, daughter of Emily & Neil LawiLewis Stolman on <strong>the</strong> birth of granddaughter, LilaStolman Watzky, daughter of Lara Stolman Watzky &Michael WatzkyLaura & Vladimir Shur on <strong>the</strong> birth of a grandson,Amir Izmaylov, son of Vera & Marat IzmaylovNancy Halpern on <strong>the</strong> birth of a granddaughter, JessicaRose Marks, daughter of Lori & Ken MarksJessica & Brian Weiss on <strong>the</strong> birth of <strong>the</strong>ir son, Evan CooperLeslie & Neil Lilien on <strong>the</strong> birth of a grandson, Jesse GabrielLilien son of Rebecca Caban & Darren LilienAnne & Barry Cohen on <strong>the</strong> birth of a granddaughter, RileyPaige Goldstein, daughter of Shawn & Jared GoldsteinDeathsMay God grant peace and comfort to all who mourn.The Congregation extends its sympathy to <strong>the</strong> families of:Sherry Bialer, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Arthur Bialer, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofHannah, Peter & Michael BialerSteven Chernis, fa<strong>the</strong>r of Nicole Bell, grandfa<strong>the</strong>r of Ross,Jordana & Andie BellRuth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>rof Morris, Benjamin & Millie DweckAnn Harris, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Francine Harris and Jon HarrisGladys Marshall Harris, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Jack HarrisLeonard Hochman, fa<strong>the</strong>r of Judith Rudman,grandfa<strong>the</strong>r of Alexander, Gregory & Madeline RudmanPhilip Kestenbaum, fa<strong>the</strong>r of Sue Marsh Shikiar, grandfa<strong>the</strong>rof Adam MarshDavid M. Satz, Jr., husband of Susan, fa<strong>the</strong>r of ConstanceFaircloth, David J. Satz & Jonathan SatzDr. Normand Solomon, partner of Sheila EdellFannie Wortzman Stillman, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaAbraham J. Stillman, fa<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaHarold Sunners, fa<strong>the</strong>r of Patricia Annunziatagrandfa<strong>the</strong>r of A. J. SomersMiriam Weinberg, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Carol Goldberg, grandmo<strong>the</strong>rof Ira Goldberg, Seth Goldberg & Erica SamuelsMemorial BookThe following have been inscribed in <strong>the</strong> memorialBook of Perpetual Kaddish:Cynthia Gail Wane, by Sy Wane, Lauren & RonnieHochman, Jonathan Lowenberg, and Hea<strong>the</strong>r & MarkFeldman & FamiliesDorothy Chopin, by Richard M. ChopinWilliam Walter Rosenblatt, by Roberta, Charles,Casson & Carrie RosenblattDr. Harold Goldberg, by Robert, Lynn, Adam,Jeffry & Margo GoldbergRabbi Barry H. Greene, by Betty, Lisa & Jackie Greene<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 11


TIKKUN OLAMTBJ Recognized at Interfaith Hospitality NetworkFundraising BreakfastOur congregation was acknowledged at <strong>the</strong> Interfaith Hospitality Network Dreamingof Home breakfast held on Thursday morning, November 12 th . Over 350 guests ga<strong>the</strong>redat Mayfair Farms in West Orange to learn about <strong>the</strong> work of <strong>the</strong> Interfaith HospitalityNetwork of Essex County.Guests listened to speakers, watched a specially-produced video, and heard testimonyfrom a formerly homeless family. At <strong>the</strong> end of <strong>the</strong> one-hour event, guests were asked to make acontribution to help IHN build sustainable funding. Many responded with gifts and pledges totaling over $190,000.Tia Aery, Executive Director of IHN, summarized <strong>the</strong> mission of <strong>the</strong> organization saying: “The challenge for InterfaithHospitality Network today is to move families from shelter into housing as rapidly as possible and <strong>the</strong>n to providesystematic and ongoing services to help families take <strong>the</strong> steps that will lead to a sustainable dream of a home.”If you didn’t attend <strong>the</strong> breakfast, you can take a Dreaming of Home informational tour at <strong>the</strong> new IHN family centerand office in Montclair. In <strong>2010</strong>, tours are scheduled for <strong>the</strong> first Friday of each month at 10:00 am and <strong>the</strong> firstWednesday at 7:00 pm. To reserve your space, contact Ellen at 973 746-1400 or ellen@ihnessexnj.org.It’s Purim at TBJJOBATHON 7(UJC AIDEKMAN CAMPUS901 Route 10 East, Whippany)Sunday, <strong>February</strong> 7 th10 am-4 pm• Volunteer to make calls seeking jobsusing our script• Provide job opportunities andcontact information for ourMetroWest middle-income job seekersMWjobs.orgEmployers — no fee to post jobsJob-seekers — no fee to find jobsTo volunteer or for more information:Contact Eileen Weiss at Jewish Vocational Service,eweiss@jvsnj.org or 973-674-6330 x267MWjobs.org is a partnership between <strong>the</strong>Jewish Vocational Service of MetroWest anda broad coalition of Synagogues andJewish Community OrganizationsSunday, <strong>February</strong> 28 thStart with <strong>the</strong> Purim Service & reading of <strong>the</strong> Megillahat 9:30 amorHave a child in <strong>the</strong> ECC, Kindergarten or first grade?Then <strong>the</strong> Purim Schpiel at 11:00 am is for you &your family!Finish your celebration at <strong>the</strong> Couples’ Club PurimCarnival Starting at noon$30/ per family$35/ per family at <strong>the</strong> doorfun for allvisit Haman’s Café catered by Eppes Essen.RSVP with your check, payable to TBJ(memo Couples’ Club Purim),1025 South Orange Avenue,Short Hills, NJ 07078Couples’ Club Winter EventCollege Night at TBJFriday evening, <strong>February</strong> 5 th at 8:00 pmAn evening of food, dancing & music$100 / coupleFeel free to check your closet & wear your school colors.RSVP with your check, payable to TBJ(memo Couples’ Club 2/5),1025 South Orange Avenue,Short Hills, NJ 0707812 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


RENAISSANCE GROUPThe Renaissance Group is a <strong>Temple</strong> affiliate providingleisure time activities focusing on educational, social, andcultural programs for adults.Become a member of TBJ Renaissance! Our membershipcontinues to grow and we encourage and welcomenew members. Renaissance members receive a discountedprice for all Renaissance Group sponsored events. Annualdues are $10 per person, payable to <strong>the</strong> TBJ RenaissanceGroup and mailed to Membership Chair, Judy Eisner,39 Westview Road, Short Hills, NJ 07078.Contact Renaissance Group Chair, Harriet Hirsch, at973-535-3223 or harriethirsch@aol.com with any questions.Our December 18 th Shabbat Dinner prior to serviceswith our guest speaker Dr. Clement Price was well attended.We look forward to our remaining events and hope thatyou will be a part of <strong>the</strong> Renaissance experience.<strong>March</strong> 2 nd Learning and Lunch at <strong>the</strong> TBJ CaféCa<strong>the</strong>rine Lawrence, Columbia University Art DocentGeorgia O’Keefe – “Her Life and Works”Spring Is Here andSo Are Your Friends at TBJ!Seniors Keep in TouchThursday, <strong>March</strong> 25 th at noonPassover Is More Than Matzah!Join Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w Reimer for aCelebration of PassoverLunch $3 per personNeed Transportation? 973 379 1555Carole Chopin, Madeline Dreifus,Kathy Kleinman, Phyllis SorkinCo-OrdinatorsMay 19 th Shavuot Luncheon & Book TalkElizabeth Brundage, Somebody Else’s Daughter,The Doctor’s Wife<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 13


CARING ACTS OF TZEDAKAHRABBI GEWIRTZ’SDISCRETIONARY FUNDIn memory of Evy Berger, wife of HarryBerger, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Alan & RichardBergerBeth & Bill FurmanIn memory of Marvin Carson,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Sherri FischerEllie & Max CohenIn memory of Norman SidermanSusie, Peter & Carly PolowNancy Polow & Norman KatzIn memory of Arthur Shapiro,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Steven ShapiroThe Damesek FamilyIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman &Fannie Wortzman Stillman, fa<strong>the</strong>r& mo<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaEllie & Max CohenWendi & Marty GutkinMerle & Peter HirschmannLinda & John Levi & FamilyRenee & Marshall ShermanMarci & Norm Abelson & Beverly BentonJane & Louis WildsteinLeslie & Neil LilienIn memory of Miriam Weinberg,mo<strong>the</strong>r of Carol Goldberg, grandmo<strong>the</strong>rof Ira Goldberg, Seth Goldberg& Erica SamuelsEllie & Max CohenRenee & Marshall ShermanLinda & John LeviDebbie, Todd, Jake & Dan AbramsIlene & Bob CowenSara & Eric Polans & SonsIn memory of my fa<strong>the</strong>r,Abraham J. StillmanBarbara NaulaIn memory of Dr. Charles Rose,beloved husband of Lois RoseSandy & George NewmanIn memory of Sherry Bialer, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Arthur Bialer, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofHannah, Peter & Michael BialerIlene & Bob CowenIn memory of Dr. Normand Solomon,partner of Sheila EdellEllie & Max CohenIn memory of Harold Sunners,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Patty AnnunziataLori & Alan Jacobs & FamilyIn memory of Ruth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofMorris, Benjamin & Millie DweckLori & Alan Jacbos & FamilyIn honor of Millie Dweck becominga Bat MitzvahDebbi, Todd, Jake & Dan AbramsIn honor of Alex Barkley becominga Bar MitzvahDebbi, Todd, Jake & Dan AbramsIn honor of Adam Warner publishinghis book on optionsBubbles & Merv BinderIn honor of Karen Fischer’s marriageto Ray BlauSandy AugenblickIn honor of Linda Schlenger’smilestone birthdaySandy AugenblickIn honor of Danny Cohen becominga Bar MitzvahThe Damesek FamilyIn honor of Noah becoming aBar Mitzvah, grandson of Jane &Stuart CooperMerle & Peter HirschmannIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of new grandson,Jesse Gabriel, to Leslie & Neil LilienEllie & Max CohenIn honor of Beth Berns’ new businessventure and her nomination to <strong>the</strong>Board of Family ConnectionsJill & Stan AltmarkIn honor of Peter Hirschmann’sspecial birthdayWendi & Marty GutkinLana & Robert SchachtelGail & Stanley SternIn honor of Sam Fraenkel’smarriage to Alexandra BachLinda & John Levi & FamilyIn honor of Jane & Stuart Cooper’smilestone anniversaryMerle & Peter HirschmannIn honor of speedy recovery ofLori WaldmanSandy & George NewmanIn honor of Elizabeth Rovitbecoming a Bat MitzvahBarbara FeldsteinIn honor of new home ofSandy AugenblickBarbara FeldsteinIn honor of Steven Miller becominga Bar MitzvahSandy & George NewmanIn honor of Linda & Jeff ZissuMimi & Larry Wolf & FamilyIn honor of Suzanne Sherman’sengagement to Kevin KaplanMerle & Peter HirschmannJane & Stuart CooperIn honor of Joana Pereira’s marriageto Julian Ro<strong>the</strong>nbergLinda & John LeviIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of new granddaughter,Isabelle Beatrice,to Phyllis & Ed SorkinLinda & John LeviIn honor of Maddie Schaeffer’sgrandson becoming a Bar MitzvahBarbara FeldsteinIn honor of Rabbi Gewirtz performingour weddingAllison Keller & Steven SimonIn appreciation of Rabbi GewirtzDebbi, Todd, Jake & Dan AbramsPatty & Rob Frischman & FamilyElizabeth & Donald KesslerJudy & Mort BerkowitzThe Kleinberg FamilyThe Gould FamilyKathryn Karp CohenCANTOR STAHL’SDISCRETIONARY FUNDIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaSylvia & David SteinerIn memory Arthur Wolfson,husband of Marilyn WolfsonBubbles & Merv BinderIn honor of Cantor Stahl’s TenthAnnniversary at TBJEllen & Jonathan BlattDiane Satsky DondershineLois & Frank DyerHarriet HirschBarbara & Matt NaulaSandy & George NewmanNorma & Al SchafferBubbles & Merv BinderAnn & Alan BernsteinMerle & Peter HirschmannEileen & Fred BeckerJudy Baker & Frank LeviBunny & Bobby BlumJane & Stuart CooperJudy & Roger FlaxVirginia SandlerJune & Max SilbermanMelanie, Howard & Samantha KookSally SandersPaulette & Myron Katz14 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


CARING ACTS OF TZEDAKAHIn appreciation of Cantor StahlDebbi, Todd, Jake & Dan AbramsNancy & David StoneThe Kleinberg FamilyThe Gould FamilyPatty & Bob AnnunziataRABBI REIMER’SDISCRETIONARY FUNDIn memory of Shirley Greene,mo<strong>the</strong>r of Alan GreeneSara & Eric Polans & SonsIn appreciation of Rabbi ReimerDebbi, Todd, Jake & Dan AbramsThe Gould FamilyBarbara & Matt NaulaAmanda & Robert JonesTEMPLE B’NAI JESHURUNTRIBUTE FUNDIn memory of Jean MeyerPhoebe GreenfieldPatricia van GelderIn memory of Arthur Shapiro, fa<strong>the</strong>rof Steven Shapiro, grandfa<strong>the</strong>r ofJamie & Daniel ShapiroAbra, Laura & <strong>the</strong> Religious School FacultyThe Klein FamilyIn memory of Joseph Gurwin,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Eric GurwinLisa & Eric MirskyIn memory of Sophie BaurerNorma & Al SchafferIn memory of Stanley Keller &Geraldine SpiesShelley & Phil SpiesIn memory of Joel FeldsteinMaria & Armindo QueijoIn memory of Marvin Carson,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Sherri FischerThe Klein FamilyIn memory of Martin Brody, husbandof Florence Brody, bro<strong>the</strong>r of ArthurBrody & Marian SoledHenry WarnerHarriet HirschIn memory of Richard Puder,husband of Mimi PuderBeth & Bill FurmanShelley & Phil SpiesRita & Mel WallersteinIn memory of beloved sister ofStacy & Howard FeintuchJulie & Gregg KleinIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman &Fannie Wortzman Stillman,fa<strong>the</strong>r & mo<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaBarbara & Allan KreitzmanBarbara & Bob RosenbergLiz & Myles AdelmanLaura BaudistelMadeline & Charles DreifusThe Klein FamilyIlene & Marty KronbergCathy & Jonathan LevisonLisa & Eric MirskyMaureen & Saul SpivackFred & Deborah Gilbert SmithJane & Louis WildersteinMr. & Mrs. David BubesMeg & Howard JacobsJackye & Walter PopickLeslie & Jay MayeshEllie & Max CohenDenise & Michael StieberIlene & Martin KronbergIn memory of my beloved fa<strong>the</strong>r,Nathan BorkanLionel BorkanIn memory of grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofPhilippa & Jason MillerThe Klein FamilyIn memory of Ruth LeiterRobert LeiterIn memory of Miriam Weinberg, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Carol Goldberg, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofIra Goldberg, Seth Goldberg &Erica SamuelsLiz & Myles AdelmanAbra, Laura & Religious School FacultyBarbara & Allan KreitzmanEileen & Fred BeckerMadeline & Charles DreifusBarbara & Matt NaulaSandra & Norman SamuelsDeborah Gilbert Smith & Fred SmithMaureen & Saul SpivackLinda & Jeff ZissuIn memory of Harold Sunners,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Patty AnnunziataTerri & Bob OrringerBarbara & Allan KreitzmanDeborah Gilbert Smith & Fred SmithIn memory of Samuel FishmanShirley Aidekman KayeIn memory of Muriel GoldsmithJoan & David GoldsmithIn memory of Beatrice Gerber,mo<strong>the</strong>r of Jay & Alan GerberJudy Baker & Frank LeviIn memory of Dr. Harold GoldbergLynn, Robert, Adam, Jeffry &Margo GoldbergIn memory of Alfred Steiner,bro<strong>the</strong>r of David SteinerMarilyn & Steve GreeneIn memory of Sherry Bialer, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Arthur Bialer, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofHannah, Peter & Michael BialerAbra, Laura & <strong>the</strong> Religious School FacultyIn memory of Steven Chernis, fa<strong>the</strong>rof Nicole Bell, grandfa<strong>the</strong>r of Ross,Jordana & Andie BellAbra, Laura & <strong>the</strong> Religious School FacultyIn memory of my grandmo<strong>the</strong>r,Yettie TeidorMadeline DreifusIn memory of Howard PeytonJudy BakerIn memory of Nancy, beloved sister& sister-in-law of Mr. & Mrs. RichardLarnerHarriet HirschIn memory of Ruth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofMorris, Benjamin & Millie DweckAbra, Laura & The Religious School FacultyDeborah Gilbert Smith & Fred SmithRobin & Ken EttingerIn memory of Dr. Normand Solomon,partner of Sheila EdellEileen & Fred BeckerIn memory of Leonard Hochmanfa<strong>the</strong>r of Judith Rudman, grandfa<strong>the</strong>rof Alexander, Gregory & MadelineRudmanLiz & Myles AdelmanIn memory of Abraham BroderMarilyn ShavelsonIn memory of mo<strong>the</strong>r of Richard SchofelIlene & Martin KronbergIn memory of Naomi Flax, grandmo<strong>the</strong>rof Andrew SchlossbergIlene & Martin KronbergIn memory of mo<strong>the</strong>r of Jodie IsraelIlene & Martin KronbergIn honor of Nancy & Alan Weill’s granddaughterbecoming a Bat MitzvahJudy Baker & Frank LeviIn honor of complete & speedyrecovery of Jerry HarwoodSybil Zashin & Elliott RubinIn honor of birth of new granddaughter,Lilly, to Linda & RichardBloomsteinSharon & Bob Levinson<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 15


CARING ACTS OF TZEDAKAHIn honor of High Holy DaysRuth LiebermanIn honor of Cantor Stahl’s TenthAnniversary at TBJThe Mirsky FamilyIn honor of David Steiner’smilestone birthdayBarbara & Matt NaulaIn honor of Donald Goldman’sretirementBarbara & Bob RosenbergIn honor of Nancy Gabel’s milestonebirthdayJudy Baker & Frank LeviIn honor of Karen Fischer’s marriageto Ray BlauJanet & Mark LandauIn honor of Joana Pereira &Raquel Rodrigues’ conversionRenee & Marshall ShermanIn honor of Sam Fraenkel’smarriage to Alexandra BachMadeline & Charles DreifusFred & Deborah Gilbert SmithHilary & Leigh LachmanEllen & Jonathan BlattIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of Ella Brooke,granddaughter of Sharon & BobLevinsonMadeline & Charles DreifusIn honor of Jason Spies marriage toJessica EckertRosalie LavinthalIn honor of my son, Daniel,becoming a Bar MitzvahMichelle CohenJeffrey CohenIn honor of Billie & Arthur Fisch’sson’s engagementMaddie SchaefferIn honor of Elizabeth Rovit becominga Bat MitzvahCari & Rich FeldmanIn honor of Daniel Cohen becoming aBar MitzvahPaulette & Myron KatzIn honor of Stephanie James’ marriageto Marc EsquenaziTerri & Bob OrringerIn honor of speedy recovery ofBonny RockJudy BakerIn honor of speedy recovery ofLeslie BlumbergJudy BakerIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of new granddaughter,Isabelle Beatrice, toPhyllis & Ed SorkinMadeline & Charles DreifusSeniors Keep in TouchBarbara FeldsteinShelah FriedHelene & Jerry DreskinJean & Shep GoldmanIn honor of Joana Pereira’s marriageto Julian Ro<strong>the</strong>nbergMadeline & Charles DreifusIn honor of Suzanne Sherman’sengagement to Kevin KaplanBarbara & Phil BrousMadeline & Charles DreifusMaddie SchaefferBarbara & Allan KreitzmanIn honor of Steven Miller becominga Bar MitzvahMadeline & Charles DreifusBarbara & Matt NaulaPhyllis & Herb GoldblattIn honor of birth of new grandson,Samuel Philip DeLaurier, to DeeHellring & Charles OranskyMarilyn & Steve GreeneIn honor of birth of new granddaughterAdelaide Riley, to Robyn &Lou MargolisMarilyn & Steve GreeneIn honor of Peter Hirschmann’smilestone birthdayJane & Bernard WallersteinIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of Emily, granddaughterof Arlene & Mark GarberHelene & Jerry DreskinIn honor of birth of granddaughterof Judy ZuckerHelen & Jerry DreskinIn honor of birth of granddaughterof Richard ZuckerHelene & Jerry DreskinIn honor of Wendi & Martin Gutkin’sgranddaughter becoming a Bat MitzvahMaddie SchaefferIn honor of Max & Joe, grandsonsof Nancy & Walter Sichel becomingB’nai MitzvahMaddie SchaefferIn honor of Rachel Meisner becominga Bat MitzvahTBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhoodIn honor of Carly Maitlin becominga Bat MitzvahTBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhoodIn honor of Ariella Kuhl becominga Bat MitzvahTBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhoodIn honor of Allison Farber becominga Bat MitzvahTBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhoodIn honor of Alexandra Kirshenbaumbecoming a Bat MitzvahTBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhoodIn honor of Jake Shainberg becominga Bar MitzvahTBJ Bro<strong>the</strong>rhoodIn appreciation of IHNMadeline & Charles DreifusIn appreciation of <strong>the</strong> Parashat study& worshipSusan Fein & Ruth SteckelmanTHE RABBI BARRY H. GREENE,MEMORIAL FUND FOREDUCATIONAL PROJECTSIn memory of Jerry SchumerLisa & David HorowitzIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaBarbara & Jack HochbergIn memory of Rabbi Barry H. GreeneArna & Michael GoldsteinTHE CYNTHIA WANEMEMORIAL FUNDIn memory of Joel FriedmanMargie & Don KarpIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaMargie & Don KarpIn memory of Cecilla CohenThe Levison FamilyIn memory of Judi GracemanMargie & Don KarpIn honor of Julie Gould becominga Bat MitzvahJill & Stan AltmarkIn memory of Miriam Weinberg,mo<strong>the</strong>r of Carol Goldberg,grandmo<strong>the</strong>r of Ira Goldberg,Seth Goldberg & Erica SamuelsEllen & Stanley Simon16 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


CARING ACTS OF TZEDAKAHIn memory of Steven Chernis, fa<strong>the</strong>rof Nicole Bell, grandfa<strong>the</strong>r of Ross,Jordana & Andie BellThe Levison FamilyIn memory or Ruth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofMorris, Benjamin & Millie DweckThe Levison FamilyIn honor of Karen Fischer’s marriageto Ray BlauMargie & Don KarpMILTON PERLMUTTEROUTDOOR CHAPEL FUNDIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman &Fannie Wortzman Stillman, fa<strong>the</strong>r& mo<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaGenesia & Steven KamenIn memory of Sherry Bialer, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Arthur, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r of Hannah,Peter & Michael BialerGenesia & Steven KamenIn memory or Ruth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofMorris, Benjamin & Millie DweckGenesia & Steven KamenSENIORS PROGRAM FUNDIn memory of Dr. Charles RoseBobbi & Monroe BiermanIn memory of fa<strong>the</strong>r of Sharon FalkinBobbi & Monroe BiermanIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman &Fannie Wortzman Stillman, fa<strong>the</strong>r& mo<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaCarol & Ed GoldbergDenise & Michael StieberIn memory of Miriam Weinberg,mo<strong>the</strong>r of Carol Goldberg, grandmo<strong>the</strong>rof Ira Goldberg, Seth Goldberg &Erica SamuelsAlice & Ray AbramsIn memory of Doris Finkelstein,mo<strong>the</strong>r of David Finkelstein andmy dear friendMarjorie KramerIn memory or Ruth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofMorris, Benjamin & Millie DweckCaryn & Alex SalmIn honor of Diane Satsky Dondershine’sgrandson becoming a Bar MitzvahCarole & Richard ChopinIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of IsabelleBeatrice Lawi, granddaughter ofPhyllis & Ed SorkinLois & Frank DyerDoris & Sid GoldmanLibby WolffIn honor of Arlene Scheininger’sspecial birthdayCarole & Richard ChopinIn honor of Isobel & Joel Kampf’sanniversaryCarole & Richard ChopinIn appreciation of Barbara Hochberg& <strong>the</strong> ECC students for a fabulousChanukah programSeniors Keep in TouchECC & CAMP TBJ FUNDIn memory of Marvin Carson, fa<strong>the</strong>rof Sherri Fischer, grandfa<strong>the</strong>r ofBrayden & Mat<strong>the</strong>w FischerBarbara, Michele & <strong>the</strong> ECC StaffIn memory of Carrie, daughter ofFlorence & Richard AgisimCorrine Schwartz & FamilyIn memory of Miriam Weinberg,mo<strong>the</strong>r of Carol Goldberg, grandmo<strong>the</strong>rof Ira Goldberg, Seth Goldberg& Erica SamuelsBarbara & Jack HochbergBarbara, Michele & The ECC StaffAndrea & David WeltIn memory of Harold Sunners,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Patty Annunziatagrandfa<strong>the</strong>r of A.J. SomersIlene SchnitzerAndrea & David WeltIn memory of grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofBeth RubinThe Gorsky FamilyIn memory of Bailey Udoff, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Jane FischerBarbara, Michele & <strong>the</strong> ECC StaffBarbara & Jack HochbergIn memory of Steven Chernis, fa<strong>the</strong>rof Nicole Bell grandfa<strong>the</strong>r of Ross,Jordana & Andie BellBarbara, Michele & <strong>the</strong> ECC StaffIn memory of Fannie WortzmanStillman, mo<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaBarbara & Jack HochbergIn memory or Ruth Essenfeld, mo<strong>the</strong>rof Debbie Dweck, grandmo<strong>the</strong>r ofMorris, Benjamin & Millie DweckBarbara & Jack HochbergIn honor of Daniel Abrams becominga Bar MitzvahMichele, Stephen, Amanda &Jordyn FeingoldIn honor of Daniel Cohen becoming aBar MitzvahMichele, Stephen, Amanda &Jordyn FeingoldIn honor of Amanda Gabay becominga Bat MitzvahMichele, Stephen, Amanda &Jordyn FeingoldIn honor of Cantor Stahl’s TenthAnniversary at TBJMichele, Stephen, Amanda &Jordyn FeingoldIn honor of Karen Fischer’s marriageto Ray BlauBunny & Bobby BlumEllen JacobsIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of Sydney Blake,daughter of Michele & Jason KaplanJudy Rodes & The 3’s ClassIn honor of Billie & Arthur Fisch’sson’s engagementCorrine SchwartzEllen JacobsIn honor of Dara Horn Shulmanbeing named by The Forward asone of American Jewry’s 50 leadingpersonalities of <strong>the</strong> year 2009Barbara, Michele & The ECC StaffIn honor Peter Hirschmann’s specialbirthdayBarbara & Phil BrousIn honor of Joana Pereira’s marriageto Julian Ro<strong>the</strong>nbergAndrea & David WeltIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of new granddaughter,Isabelle Beatrice, toPhyllis & Ed SorkinBarbara & Barry BeargIn honor of Michele FeingoldAlex MarguliesIn honor of Suzanne Sherman’sengagement to Kevin KaplanJoana & Julian Ro<strong>the</strong>nberg<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 17


CARING ACTS OF TZEDAKAHWOMEN’S ASSOCIATION FUNDIn memory of Joseph Gurwin,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Eric GurwinHilary & Leigh LachmanIn memory of Marvin Carson, fa<strong>the</strong>rof Sherri Fischer, grandfa<strong>the</strong>r ofBrayden & Mat<strong>the</strong>w FischerLori & Robert KahnIn memory of Abraham J. Stillman,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Barbara NaulaCeline & Jeff SinawPhyllis & Alan MankoffIn memory of Marvin Carson,fa<strong>the</strong>r of Sherri FischerThe Buchalter FamilyBrett & Eric SeamanIn honor of Sam Fraenkel’smarriage to Alexandra BachMimi SimpkinsCeline & Jeff SinawIn honor of Susan Shapiro’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Linda Berkowitz’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Ashley Kransdorf’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Elizabeth Bryant’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Lauren Hollender’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Stacey Ennis’ leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Laurie Goldberg’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Dori Ellsworth’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Robin Weidhorn’s leadershipin The Women’s AssociationThe Women’s AssociationIn honor of Allison Tortora becominga Bat MitzvahBrett & Eric SeamanIn honor of <strong>the</strong> birth of Ella Brooke,granddaughter of Sharon & BobLevinsonPhyllis & Alan MankoffIn honor of Louis Cohen’s 80 th birthdayMargery & Donald KarpIn honor of Steven Miller becoming aBar MitzvahThe Damesek FamilyIn appreciation of Dr. Nancy SimpkinsThe Women’s AssociationIn appreciation of Debra SpicehandlerPhyllis & Alan MankoffWOMEN’S ASSOCIATIONPRAYER BOOK FUNDIn memory of my wonderful sister,Lynn LeviSue RubinfeldIn honor of Merle & PeterHirschmann’s milestone birthdaysThe Osserman FamilyJudy, Stan, Jackie, Stacey & David AugustMarilyn & Murray SeltzerIn honor of Cantor Stahl’s TenthAnniversary at TBJGoldie & Donald MorchowerBarbara & Phil BrousPhyllis & Alan MankoffBobbie & Monroe BiermanIn honor of Samantha Schillerbecoming a Bat MitzvahNancy & David Stone & FamilyHelping Hands Chanukah Party18 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


The B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong> The SECOND B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong> NIGHT ofSederPassoverTuesday, <strong>the</strong> SECOND <strong>March</strong> NIGHT 30 th of at Passover 5 pmTuesday, <strong>March</strong> 30 th at 5 pmName _______________________________________________ Phone _______________________________Address ____________________________________________________________________________________Home e-mail address _____________________________________Please list those 3-12 years of age as children.T<strong>here</strong> is no charge for children 3 years of age or younger.<strong>Temple</strong> Members ________ Adults ($45) = $ _____ _____ Children ($30) = $________Non <strong>Temple</strong> Members ________ Adults ($50) = $ _____ _____ Children ($35) = $________Enclosed is our check payable to Congregation <strong>B'nai</strong> <strong>Jeshurun</strong> Total $___________Please print <strong>the</strong> names of everyone attending in <strong>the</strong> space below.List all children (including babies who will need a space) and <strong>the</strong>ir ages.ADULTS’ NAMESCHILDREN’S NAMES & AGESWe will make every effort to honor seating requests. Please let us know yours.Please return this form with your check to: Congregation <strong>B'nai</strong> <strong>Jeshurun</strong> Passover SederReservations by <strong>March</strong> 24 th 1025 South 1025 South Orange Orange Avenue AvenueShort Hills, Short NJ Hills, 07078 NJ 07078P PPlease join us for our child-friendly Seder!<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 19


New Member Shabbat20 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


YAHRZEITS“In our hearts our loved ones never die. Their love and memory live as a lasting inspiration.”Friday, <strong>February</strong> 5 thSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 6 thCarrie AltscheelerLawrence N. BarrishElla BeckerHenrietta Wolf BernhardBertha Meyer BiermanHarry BirnbaumMargare<strong>the</strong> J. BornsteinLena Fox CohenJulius H. CohnRobert Zenas DimondRose Seidenman DimondJanet DrechslerRuth DreifusHerschel I. EisenmanBennie ElskyRose Pollack FeinbergMamie FeldmannAbraham FormanEleanor FroehlichCarol R. FuhrmanHarry GluckmanBeatrice GlucksmanMarian Leser GoldbergMervin H. GoldsmithJoseph H. GormanJack Gerson GouldSara N. GraysonJordan Scott GreenbergHarold GupPauline Bernheim HandlerCantor Manfred HechtFrances HeissJennie HerzfeldSaul IsraelAlice Simon KahnDora KaplanGloria KestenbaumLena J. KleinJean KraemerMelvin KramerDr. Adrian Ralph KristellerMichael LeveenMilton LilienBelle Schiffman LoebAlma Squires MalkinRalph ManasseConstance W. MarcuseFranklin MarxKate Adler MindesHenry MuschelHannah P. NeuhausErwin NovyJennie NudelmanClara S. OberskySamuel PaleySam PetroseJohn J PopperAbram J. PreckerFrida RebenfeldAbraham RicholsonLeon J. RosenstrauchFlorence RoskeinClara RothmanHenrietta Echil RubinEugene H. SadlerBetty SchlossClara K. SchonwalterEdwin George SchonwalterBernice SchwartzHenrietta Metzger SchwartzPaula SegalFrances SteinbergFriday, <strong>February</strong> 12 thSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 13 thDorothy Kramer BergsteinBernard BlumLeopold L. BlumRobert CohenArthur DavidDorothy DeutschLouis DeutschEly EllisHelen FademMinette FlowersEmma FreundBenjamin FriedmanE<strong>the</strong>l FriedmanRose FrohmannRuth Benjamin GoodmanSam GordonRose Echil GreensteinRay G. HalpernDavid HarrisJoseph KarpDr. Sidney KeatsLawrence Katz KingJosephine Gibian KleinFlorence Bierman KornEdith Rose KramerAnna Ogens LeiterAnne LernerEva ManheimT<strong>here</strong>sa Moch MarksHelen May MercyDr. Benjamin Gerald MorrisonAlbert MosheimLillian MyersJudith Ann OrnsteinSadie PoteskySimon L. Ro<strong>the</strong>nbergAbraham SchlosserJoseph SeidelGerard ShifrinDr. Edward ShnayersonJacob SimonIda St. LiferSolomon SteinerLizbeth Spero StrausEvelyn TillisCarrie Marx TurkusMorris O. WaitzmanMatilda Levi WeinbergSidney G. WolfeFriday, <strong>February</strong> 19 thSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 20 thSolomon Hirsch AltscheelerSeymour AschEs<strong>the</strong>r BerkeleyIrving H. BlochAlexander CaplanSylvia T. DreskinHenrietta EisnerHannah N. EngelGertrude N. FensterMary FishmanMorris FriemanDr. Harold GoldbergAnna R. GoldsteinJewel Thomas GoldsteinRobert Israel GoodmanSam GordonJacob GoussFlorence Federman GreenfieldRose GreensteinIda Weierman GriesLouis HarrisDavid H. KatzFannie Newman KaufmanAlexander Louis KramerLouise Spitz LehmanJoseph LermerMilton LevinLawrence LewisEmanuel LindemanDavid LowyCelia MannElsa Maybaum MayerLeonard MellingerBernard MitnickEric Mark MuldbergCelia Dunn MulmanAnne NerenbergHarris PerkoffNettie PerkoffElla RebenfeldGerald RosenEs<strong>the</strong>r SchafferLouis SchwartzRegina Beitman SchwartzLouis SchwarzHerbert Daniel SlaterDeborah Sue Maheshi SmithSamuel SpingarnMinnie Schriebman SternSamuel TalkowDr. Reuben W. WarnerFriday, <strong>February</strong> 26 thSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 27 thGustave S. AltmanFlorence AuslanderHarold Harvey BeizerSelig BermanRobert BurnsAnna B. CheslawHerman L. CohenRobert D. CohenWalter R. CohnSamuel DreskinSadie EinhornEttie EinsonDoris EngelStanley B. FreyerEvelyn A. GertzNorman C. GlaubingerElliot A. GoldmanAnne Borinsky GordonHerman GreenebaumJack GriffingerFrances GrossMarcus GrossBernard I. HermeleWalter HertzGerald Harvey HoffmanEtta Rose HolderDr. Henry E. JamesonHannah JedelLena Jacob KaufmannJessie Winnick KesslerEs<strong>the</strong>r Singer KleinmanSamuel KriegerSarah LevineBernard LevyAbraham NewmanElinor RosenbergMinna Berman RothThomas Calman RubinDeborah SachsMortimer SalzmanHenry J. SatskyMaurice SchapiraIke SchlesingerRena SchlesingerRubin SchwartzJulia Bieber SteinMyer M. SteinbergLeanore Jordan StrausAnna Shifman TaubSamuel Turkus, Jr.Hattie UhryLouis Zimmerman<strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org 21


YAHRZEITS“In our hearts our loved ones never die. Their love and memory live as a lasting inspiration.”Friday, <strong>March</strong> 5 thSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 6 thWilliam W. BergmanAlice BernheimMollie BlechHenry M. BlochJacques BlochDavid M. CaroDoris DavimosJacob DreyfusDr. Lester L. EisnerAbraham FensterHattie Klein FinklesteinDena FreinbergLeonard B. FreinbergBella GerardPhilip C. GlassFreda O. GoldsmithFanny B. GoodmanDr. S. Jerome GreenfieldFred J. HamburgerJosephine Q. HammerschlagSylvia HurwitchGeorge Victor JacobyFanny K. KleinConstance KlingerAbe KrichmanLouis KriegerWilliam LapidusRabbi Joseph LeuchtCharles ManshelJennifer Rosen MeadeWilliam Bernard MeyersCharles MichaelDavid MulmanFannie NassDr. Louis NollIleana NovoaDavid OstrofskyRobert S. PrusinRebecca RachlinSadie RosenstrauchNettie RothGertrude B. RothschildDeborah E. SamuelDr. Vera SchectmanMinnie Krieger SchlossMoses SchlossDr. Bernard SchoenAlice SeidMarc David SiegelmanDr. Jacob Maurice SilversteinRose SteinerFerdinand SteinhartRosa WeilFriday, <strong>March</strong> 12 thSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 13 thHenry BachmanMax BeckerLeah BenatarEdward I. BermanGeorge N. BickAda Fay CaineDavid CohenJoseph CohenIsaac EisnerDora Ruth FechtnerSamuel FleischmanAbraham FoxEmily Newman FoxS. Wordsworth FoxPeter A. FriedHerman D. FurmanFrances R. GarfunkleHannah GellesLee GoussElmer A. GreenhallAlexander HarrisSarah L. HellerMurray HersheyDr. Meyer JedelLouis JedelSadie S. JellinekBrunette KahnAmelia KatcherSamuel KingDorothy KleinMilton KnoblerJerome L. KridelSophia LevisDavid LevisonFrances V. LewisFlorence LewitterNorman N. LockspeiserHarold ManshelAaron J. MichaelsDr. Charles E. NewmanDr. Walter NudelmanE<strong>the</strong>l Burstein OdermanHerman PellerJennie E. PreckerDr. Robin S. PuderJane E. ReimerKenneth L. RickelRuth RickelIsabel SatskyMorris SchachtelPauline K. Sc<strong>here</strong>rBertye SchindelBertha K. SchwartzNorman SerbinHenry SmithWilliam M. SommerMorton P. SpiesCarolyn K. SternSamuel StraitmanAlvin L. StrausMinnie Lehman StrausClara StraverSamuel Turkus IIIDora B. TurteltaubPatricia L. UngarSarah WallachFannie WalterSamuel Rothschild WalterFriday, <strong>March</strong> 19 thSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 20 thAnna BarlowFlorence BerkEdward B. BlauEva Tepper BraelowAdele Kittredge BroderDr. Herman ChenitzSamuel R. CohnRalph I. ConnLeonore DavimosFannie DresdenerAdeline W. FischbeinLeopold FreudbergSol H. FriedmanDr. Jerome GelbGisella GenserMax GibianArthur A. GoldmanEstelle GormanFannie GreendorferGrace F. GrosmanJules GrossmanViola GrubmanDr. Saul HalprinJoseph HammerClarence C. HannochMaybelle HechtFannie Lowy HellerBarbara A. HenstonAnna Waldman KatzSamuel KullmanDavid Herman LapidusIra LechtmanFannye Klein LehmanSamuel LiestHelaine Myers LowensteinElsie LuksAnna MadrisJoseph MannMina MayerMelanie MetzgerEmilie May MeyerBoris MeyersPhilip R. MuldbergMilton PerlmutterSamuel RachlinClaire Wachs RosenhanRuth Ann RubinMinnie B. RutkinIra M. ShapiroAdelaide Du Mahaut SisholzEllen Marx SternBrendano UngerBella WalterSaul J. ZuckerFriday, <strong>March</strong> 26 thSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 27 thSidney M. AlexanderRose Popper AltmanEmma BiermanRita B. CohenH. Cecilia Abramson EskayAnne B. FeuersteinAmanda FriedIsaac FriedHoward Henry FrostTillie GarfinkelDavid GordonHarry B. GouldSamuel GreenbergRuth U. GreenhallJennie Lapides GupNathan V. HammerschlagAllan HanauerJerome M. HarrisJulius HellerHenry N. HemmendingerFannie IssermanMollie KaltmanSamuel E. KlineStephen Rice KollerJerome E. LewisWilliam LewisRichard LoebElizabeth Sally LondonIrma Pushin LowenthalSusan Jane Feuer MassEliza Leopold MillerRose K. MillerJoseph MulmanMax NeubergerIda NewmanSelwyn NimaroffDr. Sidney B. RawitzMildred RebenfeldFanny RosenbergWilliam S. RosenstrauchDr. Maurice A. ScherBenjamin SchlosserEmma Straus SchlosserPfc. Daniel Howard SenkLeonard J. SkolnickIrving SmithAaron Irving SpiegelDr. Emil SteinSol SteinbergHerbert S. VogelbaumSophie VogelbaumTheophile WeilTuesday, <strong>March</strong> 30 th1 st Day of PassoverAudrey BassinSamuel CohenGeorge KatzEdith MindellMary Kreuzman Schweizer22 <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2010</strong> • Shevat/Adar/Nisan Congregation B’nai <strong>Jeshurun</strong>: www.tbj.org


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1025 South Orange AvenueShort Hills, New Jersey 07078Tel:973-379-1555 Fax:973-379-4345Email: info@tbj.org www.tbj.orgNon-Profit OrganizationU.S. POSTAGEPAIDUnion, NJPermit No. 415CONGREGATIONB’NAI JESHURUNEstablished in1848CONGREGATIONB’NAI JESHURUNOur ClergyRabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w D. Gewirtz .............6629Senior RabbiDr. Howard M. Stahl .......................6623CantorRabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w A. Reimer ..............6625Assistant RabbiDr. Norman Summers ....................6620Cantor EmeritusKaren Perolman...........................6636Rabbinic InternOur StaffAlice Lutwak....................................6632Executive DirectorIlana Mazur .................................6641Social Work ConsultantDebbie Stone ..............................6622EditorSchools 973-379-3177Richard S. Abrams.......................6674Director of Lifelong Jewish LearningAbra P. Lee..................................6676Director of Religious SchoolBarbara Hochberg .......................6677Director of Early Childhood CenterMichele Feingold .........................6679Assistant Director of EarlyChildhood CenterElaine K. Brown...........................6675Religious School Director EmeritaWORSHIP CALENDARFriday, <strong>February</strong> 5 th5:30 pm – Erev Shabbat Service<strong>February</strong> Anniversary & Birthday BlessingsSermon: Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w D. GewirtzSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 6 th8:45 am – Torah Study/Service9:30 am – Tot Shabbat10:30 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceBat Mitzvah: Rachel MeisnerTorah Portion: YitroFriday, <strong>February</strong> 12 th5:30 pm – Erev Shabbat ServiceSermon: Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w A. ReimerSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 13 th8:45 am – Torah Study9:45 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceTorah Portion: MishpatimFriday, <strong>February</strong> 19 th7:00 pm – Erev Shabbat ServiceSermon: Rabbi Karen PerolmanSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 20 th8:45 am – Torah Study/ServiceTorah Portion: TerumahFriday, <strong>February</strong> 26 th5:30 pm – Erev Shabbat ServiceSermon: Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w D. GewirtzSaturday, <strong>February</strong> 27 th8:45 am – Torah Study/Service10:30 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceBat Mitzvah: Carly MaitlinTorah Portion: TetzavehPurimSunday, <strong>February</strong> 28 th9:30 am – Purim Service Megillah Reading11:00 am – Purim Schpiel for childrenin ECC, K-1 and <strong>the</strong>ir familiesFollowed by Purim CarnivalFriday, <strong>March</strong> 5 th5:30 pm – Erev Shabbat Service<strong>March</strong> Anniversary & Birthday BlessingsSermon: Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w A. ReimerSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 6 th8:45 am – Torah Study/Service9:30 am – Tot Shabbat10:30 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceBat Mitzvah: Ariella KuhlTorah Portion: Ki TisaFriday, <strong>March</strong> 12 th5:30 pm – Erev Shabbat ServiceSermon: Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w D. GewirtzSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 13 th8:45 am – Torah Study/Service9:30 am – Family Shabbat Service10:30 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceBat Mitzvah: Allison FarberTorah Portion: Vayakhel/PekudeFriday, <strong>March</strong> 19 th5:00 pm – Tot Shabbat7:00 pm – Erev Shabbat ServiceGuest Speakers: Jill Eikenberry & Michael TuckerFamily Meals: Coming Toge<strong>the</strong>rto Care for an Aging ParentSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 20 th8:45 am – Torah Study/Service10:30 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceBat Mitzvah: Alexandra KirshenbaumTorah Portion: VayikraFriday, <strong>March</strong> 26 th5:30 pm – Erev Shabbat ServiceSermon: Rabbi Mat<strong>the</strong>w A. ReimerSaturday, <strong>March</strong> 27 th8:45 am – Torah Study/Service10:30 am – Shabbat Morning ServiceBar Mitzvah: Jake ShainbergTorah Portion: TzavPassover BeginsMonday, <strong>March</strong> 29 thTuesday, <strong>March</strong> 30 th10:30 am – Passover Morning Service5:00 pm – Congregational Seder

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