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SALCO - Who, If, When to Marry -The Incidence of Forced Marriage in Ontario (Sep 2013)

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CASESTUDYRicky was born and raised <strong>in</strong> Canada.<strong>When</strong> he turned 20, his family decided<strong>to</strong> go home (back <strong>to</strong> their country <strong>of</strong>orig<strong>in</strong>) for a vacation. Excited about hisfirst ever visit, Ricky was eager <strong>to</strong> meethis extended family and looked forward<strong>to</strong> see<strong>in</strong>g the place where his parentsgrew up. Soon after land<strong>in</strong>g, Ricky’sexcitement turned <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> horror whenhe realised that he was the <strong>in</strong>tendedgroom <strong>in</strong> a wedd<strong>in</strong>g preparation thatwas underway. As it turned out, Ricky’sparents had seen him kiss<strong>in</strong>g anotherboy, which confirmed their suspicionregard<strong>in</strong>g his sexual orientation. In order<strong>to</strong> “correct” Ricky’s behaviour and avoidbe<strong>in</strong>g shamed socially, they had quietlyarranged his marriage <strong>to</strong> a local girlselected by them. A panicked Ricky senta text message <strong>to</strong> his friend <strong>in</strong>form<strong>in</strong>ghim <strong>of</strong> the situation and pleaded forassistance. <strong>The</strong> friend contacted theDepartment <strong>of</strong> Foreign Affairs andInternational Trade <strong>in</strong> Canada whoadvised that Ricky should contact thelocal police <strong>in</strong> his area for protection.As Ricky’s activities were constantlymoni<strong>to</strong>red by his family, he was not able<strong>to</strong> leave the house alone and did nothave access <strong>to</strong> his passport or planeticket. Luckily, Ricky’s friend was able<strong>to</strong> contact a local NGO, who assistedRicky <strong>in</strong> fil<strong>in</strong>g a compla<strong>in</strong>t with the localpolice. Fortunately, Ricky had registeredwith the DFAIT on the advice <strong>of</strong> a friendwho had a similar experience. <strong>The</strong>Canadian Consulate was able <strong>to</strong> easilyverify his <strong>in</strong>formation and arrange for anemergency passport and a return ticket<strong>to</strong> Canada. After land<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> Canada,Ricky was able <strong>to</strong> f<strong>in</strong>d hous<strong>in</strong>g and othersupport services he needed with thehelp <strong>of</strong> a local service provider. Ricky isnow try<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> repair his relationship withhis parents. He is hop<strong>in</strong>g that they willcome <strong>to</strong> understand his choices.8

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