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Healthy Dating & Relationship Tips - Peterjasie

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good rapport. But do be sincere! False compliments aren’t easilydisguised.FUNDAMENTALS OF FINESSEBasically using finesse in handling relationships means usesubtle skill, tact or diplomacy when handling a situation. This doesn’tmean you need to use fancy, flowery phrases or lengthy 10-letterwords or anything. It means focusing on the positive in a friendly way,and not embarrassing the other person.For instance, finesse means not telling a host that he or she hasbody odor or that his or her house is looks and smells like a trashdump. Instead, it means politely excusing yourself upon entering, andinforming the host of an unplanned meeting that came up or familymember who dropped by unexpectedly, and that you wanted to dropby for a quick “Hello” to thank the host for the invitation beforerushing off to your appointment. Keep things simple here, smile andthink, “James Bond” with that English gentleman concept.CONFLICT RESOLUTIONHow do you handle conflicts? If you can put your ego asidepretty much and try to keep friction to a minimum, your relationshipsshould move along fairly smoothly. Where you feel disagreement, ifyou can “agree” to disagree on certain things with the other partyinvolved, that will help, too. In short, conflict resolution means to

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