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Relationships.Note that the contents here are not presented from a medicalpractitioner, and that any and all health care planning should be madeunder the guidance of your own medical and health practitioners. Thecontent within only presents an overview of Dating and Relationshipsresearch for educational purposes and does not replace medical advicefrom a professional physician.Back to BasicsLet’s take a peak at some of the more common concepts above“love” relationships and see if they are myths or based upon reality.“All we need is love.” Myth or not? Since love does seem to beable to overcome anything and everything, at least on television andat the movies, this seems like a reality. However, truth is, makingrelationships work takes skill and hard work, regardless of the “love”factor. This is a myth here.Just like in fairy tales, once true love is found, people livehappily ever after. Truth or myth? Granted couples can look into eachother’s eyes and have those warm fuzzy feelings. However, truth is, allcouples will have their ups and downs. “Happily ever after” seems toimply a perfect, problem-less relationship when in reality, those don’texist.
It has to be “love at first sight” in order to work long-term. Mythor truth? While this can be true for some, it certainly doesn’t have tobe for all couples in long-term relationships. Many people growtogether over time.Since practically anyone can learn the nuts and bolts ofrelationship building, focusing on some basic techniques that can belearned is a must. The main ones, in no particular order, are:- Read: “Read” people well.- Rapport: Develop rapport with others well.- Finesse: Have some finesse; i.e. handle conversations andactivities in a cordial manner- Conflict Resolution: Resolve negative issues and conflicts withouttoo much friction- Support Co-Op: Gain the support and cooperation in workingtowards a common goalLet’s take a little closer look at each and what learning is involved.READING PEOPLE: BODY LANGUAGE BRIEFINGBody language is the meaning behind the words or the“unspoken” language. Surprisingly, studies show that only up to anestimated 10 percent of our communication is verbal. The majority ofthe rest of communication is unspoken. This unspoken language isn’trocket science. However, there are some generalizations or basicinterpretations that can be applied to help with the understanding ortranslating of these unspoken meanings. Here are some basics below.
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Page 13 and 14: ABC’s of Healthy, Happy Relations
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Page 23 and 24: Help is available.Lemons - Unhealth
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