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Healthy Dating & Relationship Tips - Peterjasie

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Burnout – Although many can carry out romance throughout theirentire relationships, the actual honeymoon period does have to end, inreality. And those who can keep the “love” fires burning, not 24 / 7 butoff and on regularly during their relationship, have better chances ofhealthier relationships than those who suffer burnout and don’t knowwhere to turn or who turn to unhealthy solutions. In short, everyrelationship has its highs and lows. During the low times, like maybewhen one person begins to feel disillusioned with marriage, or maybetrapped, tired, helpless, depressed or let down, if this person reachesout to unhealthy alternatives, like getting a fake substitution – maybeseeking another mate in secret, getting “high,” or some other negativebehavior, once-healthy relationships can suffer. Instead, the coupleneeds to face issues together; add some new goals to the relationship,do some fun things together more, talk more, etc.Compatibility Issues – Opposites attract; or do they? Sure it’s greatto have some “spice” in your life. But relationships are about gettingyour needs met – at least on some level. And constant negativity cancertainly hinder intimacy. So those who have a difficult time focusingon what attracted them to their mates in the first place can sufferunhealthy, sad relationships, constantly in conflict over issues withwhich they can’t agree.Devotional Void – A lack of commitment or ardent love can make for

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