Walking the Talk - VSO

marriage, harassment or other societal pressure,women are often at great risk of contracting HIV.Indeed, there is widespread recognition that HIV andAIDS cannot be addressed effectively withoutspecifically addressing violence against women,particularly sexual violence. 16 The two issues areinextricably linked. HIV and AIDS are recognised as botha cause of violence (eg following a positive test) and aconsequence of it (eg through rape or domesticviolence). Domestic violence, rape and harmfultraditional practices such as female genital mutilation(FGM) all increase women’s risk of infection. Youngwomen and girls are at particular risk of infection sincethey are more biologically vulnerable and may have lesscontrol over their sexuality.Gender-based violence strips women of their physicalautonomy and is explicitly or implicitly used by men as ameans of control, enforcing many of the genderinequalities that we shall explore in this chapter. Recentresearch by the World Health Organization shows thatsexual violence, particularly by an intimate partner, is aleading factor in the increasing ‘feminisation’ of theglobal AIDS pandemic. 17 However, recent research bythe Women won’t wait campaign has confirmed thatthis recognition is not yet reflected consistently (or,sometimes, at all) in the policies, programming andfunding priorities of governments and donors at thenational, regional and international level. 18The right to enter into marriage freely and to equality inmarriage also affects women’s – and in particular younggirls’ – likelihood of contracting HIV, as well as theirability to seek treatment, care and support. Worldwidetrends show that married women may in fact be atgreater risk than unmarried women for contracting thedisease. In Bangladesh, for example, one focus groupwith women belonging to the self-help group MUKHTOAKASH, stressed that the majority of women living withHIV and AIDS are married women infected by theirhusbands, who are often migrant workers, or inmonogamous relationships. 19 Indeed, the executivedirector of the Confidential Approach to AIDSPrevention (CAAP), argued that in Bangladesh it iswidely considered a “man’s innate right to indulge inunsafe sex with their wives. These women are infectedby their husbands and then are blamed by society forinfecting their husbands.” 20 In Rwanda, members of afocus group reported how their husbands had beatenthem because they once refused to have sex if nocondom was used. 21 Sexual rights are often abridged inthe case of an ‘early’ or child marriage, especially wherea dowry has been paid. Dowries are often considered‘an outright purchase of a wife’. 22 As a result, wiveswho do not ‘measure up’ may be denied information orcontrol over their lives and in some cases are victimsof violence. 23Reproductive health and rights are also critical forstemming the spread of HIV and AIDS. A majority of HIVinfections worldwide are sexually transmitted or areassociated with pregnancy, childbirth or breastfeeding.Women who become pregnant after sex with aninfected partner face particular challenges. Thesewomen are more likely to be aware of their HIV status,because of the prevalence of pre-natal testing.However, women living with HIV and AIDS may beadvised against continuing their pregnancy. In cultureswhere women’s value is strongly linked to their maternalabilities and where childbearing brings social status andeconomic support, stigmas arise around a woman’s realor perceived infertility. (See Chapter 3 for morediscussion on sexual and reproductive health and rightsin relation to HIV prevention).Choices around childbearing may be most acute foryoung, married women living with HIV and AIDS. On theone hand, women who choose not to have children orto stop childbearing before having the socially expectednumber of children, may be stigmatised for breakingsocial and gender norms. On the other hand,communities frown upon women living with HIV andAIDS having children, and tend to blame them forinfecting their children. “In India, motherhood isperceived as the ultimate validation of womanhood.With the increasing risk of married, monogamouswomen contracting HIV… women [are commonly]stigmatised and blamed for passing the infection to herunborn child. Blame is accentuated if a male babybecomes infected, due to the high value alreadyawarded male children.” 24HIV-positive mothers also may need to take precautionsto prevent mother-to-child transmission, such as usingbreast milk substitutes. However, in cultures wherebreastfeeding is commonplace, women who don’tbreastfeed may be condemned by relatives or othermembers of the community. Failure to breastfeed is oftenseen as tantamount to an admission of HIV-positivestatus. Even women aware of the risks of breastfeedingmay continue the practice because of the fear of beingstigmatised or because of economic dependence onhusbands who can’t or won’t give them money forformula. Stuck between contradictory culturalexpectations, these young women can be said to face‘multiple, simultaneous stigma’ 25 (see Chapter 3 for moreon prevention of mother-to-child transmission plus).Walking the talk putting women's rights at the heart of the HIV and AIDS response 15