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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Prins</strong> <strong>Family</strong>by J. <strong>Prins</strong><strong>Dutch</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>German</strong><strong>Immigrants</strong>MaasdamIntroductionDue to a journal, writing a course at the University, interest shown byRobert <strong>and</strong> my gr<strong>and</strong>son Terence, <strong>and</strong> with encouragement from Dini, Ihave decided to write down some of my memories. This journal will coversome of the more interesting events in my life <strong>and</strong> I divided them up intime periods that were significant to me. I have included a description ofthe families involved <strong>and</strong> also some stories that Aunts <strong>and</strong> Uncles havetold to me over the years.1929- 1936<strong>The</strong> Sohl <strong>Family</strong>Johannes Sohl was born in <strong>German</strong>y in 1796. His parents wereCatherine Elizabeth Sohl <strong>and</strong> Johan Weber. He came to Holl<strong>and</strong> to thetown of Mydrecht <strong>and</strong> married Cornelia Rynsburg in 1825. Eightchildren were born to them, four daughters <strong>and</strong> four sons. Several ofthese children died at an early age.<strong>The</strong> youngest one, a boy named Hartman, was born the fourth of May1838. He had a butcher shop in Mydrecht <strong>and</strong> was married to JannetjeWestmaas. This marriage was blessed with nine children, six sons <strong>and</strong>three daughters. <strong>The</strong> youngest one, a girl was born after Hartman whopassed away. <strong>The</strong>y told me that he died from an injury he sustained inthe butcher shop that got infected. This left his expecting widow withseven children <strong>and</strong> a butcher shop to run.My gr<strong>and</strong>father Sohl was the sixth child <strong>and</strong> fourth son. I met some ofhis siblings at the farm in Aalsmeer, where Aunt Aal lived. Aunt Kee,married to the dairy farmer Reinier Treur; Uncle Koenraad, who had abutcher shop in Haarlem; <strong>and</strong> Aunt Ka, the youngest one who lived inIjmuiden.With eight children <strong>and</strong> a butcher shop, she took on help to run theshop. She eventually married him, Dirk van Smirren, <strong>and</strong> out of thismarriage five children were born, four daughters <strong>and</strong> one son. <strong>The</strong>oldest one Johanna died at a young age in childbirth of medical


complications. She was Rineke Knorren’s gr<strong>and</strong>mother from her dad’sside. I knew Aunt Anna {drapery store in Ijmuiden}, Aunt Jannie {nursein Friesl<strong>and</strong>}, Aunt Sien <strong>and</strong> Uncle Gerrit, who inherited the butchershop in Mydrecht.<strong>The</strong> Boon <strong>Family</strong><strong>The</strong> Boon family, living in De Hoorn, actually should have been namedKrynen. <strong>The</strong> Boon name likely originated because the patriarch JanAryenz Krynen married a women Jacobs Boon in 1693, a daughter ofJacob Willemz Boon living in Oosterend. <strong>The</strong>ir son, according to oldTexel tradition was named after his gr<strong>and</strong>father of his mother’s sideJacob Boon. However, he died at a young age.A son born out of the second marriage of Jan Aryenz Krynen was namedafter his late half-brother Jacob Janz Boon. After him, the fourthgeneration brought Pieter Jacobz Boon, married Gysje Klaas Kind.In the 1800’s one of these families moved to Den Helder to make a livingas a harbour pilot. Pieter Jacobz Boon, being a grocer, came back toTexel to the town of Den Burg, the isl<strong>and</strong> of his forefathers. This musthave happened in the last half of 1800; Oma was born upon the isl<strong>and</strong> in1878. <strong>The</strong> family moved to the new growing town of Ijmuiden with manyother folks from Vlaardingen, Katwijk, Egmond <strong>and</strong> many other places,probably in the late 1800s or 1900s.Our of the marriage of Pieter Jacobz Boon <strong>and</strong> Gysje Klaas Kind wereborn eleven children, four daughters <strong>and</strong> seven sons. As a young boy Ihave seen my great-gr<strong>and</strong>mother, then beside my gr<strong>and</strong>mother of course.I have also met Uncle Klaas, who was known as Uncle Nick when he livedin the United States.<strong>The</strong>n Uncle Jan Boon, who ran the grocery store in the Oranjestraat <strong>and</strong>after the war a store in the Kennemerlaan, as the other store <strong>and</strong> most ofthe Oranjestraat was torn down during the latter part of the war. After anumber of years he retired <strong>and</strong> the grocery store was closed.Memories of Jennie <strong>and</strong> Annie SohlWhen Pieter Boon moved with his family from the isl<strong>and</strong> of Texel toIjmuiden, it was only a small town. He started a grocery store in one, atthat time, of the main streets, named after the man who named thetown, the Visseringstraat. It was a narrow <strong>and</strong>, for that day <strong>and</strong> age, abig store. Pretty soon, because of the fish storage warehouses there werea lot of rats around. <strong>The</strong>se pests spread out to other storage spaces, theone from Boon included. <strong>The</strong>re was only one solution to this problem


<strong>and</strong> Willem the youngest son provided it. At night he looked fro acomfortable place where he could observe the entrance door. As soon asthe rat shoved its head between the door <strong>and</strong> the doorsill, a well-placedgunshot took care of it. Many shots were heard during the night <strong>and</strong>Pieter made sure everything was cleared <strong>and</strong> cleaned up before the firstcustomer arrived.<strong>The</strong> customers were many <strong>and</strong> they came early, small town Ijmuiden wasa early riser. <strong>The</strong> customer was king the whole family Boon was ready toserve them. When somebody came for two pennies worth of bleach, thensomebody had to go to the storage room in the <strong>Prins</strong> Hendrikstraat. Eventheir son Jan, when he took the place of his retired parents, thought itwas quite normal, that he had to make a trip for two pennies worth ofmerch<strong>and</strong>ise.One of the daughters of Pieter, Geertruida, was always looking forward tothe arrival of the baker’s helper to deliver fresh-baked bread. It didn’ttake too long too develop a liking for each other <strong>and</strong> they got married.Opa Sohl first had a store in the President Krugerstraat named '<strong>The</strong>Future', close to a dairy store, run by De Bie, the fattest man in town.When Sohl bought the store, owned by Mr. Sohl, the business was movedto the corner of the Bloemstraat <strong>and</strong> the Keizer Wilhelmstraat.He attracted customers from all over for his pastries <strong>and</strong> cookies. Hehad special recipes, which he kept a close secret; when he <strong>and</strong> otherbakers started the Central 'Baker' he transferred his recipes to them.He moved his store to the Oranjestraat, where he sold Central Bakeryproducts. After a while he closed the store <strong>and</strong> the family moved to aprivate house in the Kennemelaan. This house was close to the tavern<strong>The</strong> Kennemerhof where the soccer club Stormvogels congregated aftereach soccer match. This house had a garden in the back, in the chickencoop a rooster <strong>and</strong> a flock of chickens. Later they moved again, this timeto the Bloemstraat, where they lived until 1942. <strong>The</strong>y were evacuated<strong>and</strong> never lived in Ijmuiden again. Both are buried in the town ofUtercht.<strong>The</strong> children came, the playroom for them was provided in empty eggboxes. Healthy children, physician Rommeling said, one of Ijmuiden’sfirst physicians; he didn’t care about the remarks the common folksmade about the spats he was wearing. He was seen as a distinguishedperson <strong>and</strong> he liked it to stay that way in the rough <strong>and</strong> tumble town ofIjmuiden. But he was nice for children when he held his consultationhour in the Kanaalstraat beside the bakery of Bais.


Jenny went to school with a teacher named Mr. Klap. He was alwaysdressed in black, <strong>and</strong> when he was outside, wore a slouch hat. Longafter he left his school, it was still named the Klap School. Later, sheattended the evening school at the Willemsplein where she was, taughtby a teacher named Attema (the man with the beard).During this time, the meeting ritual of Ijmuiden’s youth started tointerest her. This consisted of walking a specific route from the HotelAugusta, through the Oranjestraat to Hotel No.1, <strong>and</strong> then to thebookstore of Snooy in the Kanaalstraat, <strong>and</strong> from there back again. <strong>The</strong>boys went one direction while the girls went the opposite direction soeverybody met everybody <strong>and</strong> many a match were made that way. "Youdon’t dare to go", Opa Sohl said to Jennie, but she went anyway, togetherwith her younger sister Truus. Quite often if the partners were of adifferent religion, <strong>and</strong> I am thinking of Anglican <strong>and</strong> Reformed it wasmore or less the custom that the sons followed the fathers religion <strong>and</strong>the daughters their mothers; Roman Catholic usually stuck with theirown.It was always exciting in town, a harbour town with about one tavern forevery ten houses. After an evening of drinking, there was usually a fightsomewhere. <strong>The</strong> Oranjestraat developed into one of the main shoppingstreets <strong>and</strong> here in the vicinity was the clothing store of Bottger whereJennie was working. It was here where she was 'discovered' by my dad(her words).Memories of Aunt Bliek-SohlAunt Annie (sister of my mother) told me that Opa Sohl’s first wife wasGreitje Dekker; <strong>and</strong> they had a son, but mother <strong>and</strong> child died duringchildbirth. This was never discussed within the family.Later, Opa married Truus Boon (my gr<strong>and</strong>mother). <strong>The</strong>y had fivedaughters <strong>and</strong> the story goes that my gr<strong>and</strong>father must have said whenthe fifth child was due to be born at home in the upstairs bedroom - If itis a girl again, they both can stay upstairs”. Of course he wasn’t serious.Opa kepy hoping through that he would get a son.Opa had a bakery <strong>and</strong> a special secret recipe for baking 'speculaas'cookies. No one, however, knows where this recipe ended up, so it willbe a secret forever.<strong>The</strong>re was no Universal Healthcare Insurance during the 1920’s <strong>and</strong>when Oma needed stomach surgery they had to pay for all the coststhemselves. This was a heavy burden <strong>and</strong> one of the reasons why Opa


got together with other bakers in the area <strong>and</strong> they established '<strong>The</strong>Centrale Bakkerij' in Ijmuiden.Aunt Anna, Opa’s stepsister, was not in favour of Opa’s second marriage.She thought Oma was too “uppity”, <strong>and</strong> she didn’t belong to a church.My aunt Annie stayed at her place when she had scarlet fever.My first mother, Jennie Sohl was aunt Annie’s oldest sister. Aunt Annieremembers that once, when Jennie was interested in a boy who Opa Sohldidn’t think was suitable, he sent her away to stay with his brother inthe country for a while.My dad met my mother in Ijmuiden <strong>and</strong> in order to talk to her he went toOpa Sohl’s Bakery to buy some cookies because he knew that she washelping in the store.Years later when my parents went through their divorce proceedings, thisof course caused a big upheaval. To Opa divorce was a 'no-no'. Whenmy mother left to live in <strong>The</strong> Hague, he must have said, 'Her cat she tookalong, her child she left behind'.Some other memories of her I came across which took place in the earlierdays of Ijmuiden. In the summer time going to the beach, you went withJake Across. His real name was Jake Visser, a very popular man as heferried us across the harbour. Mother gave us two pennies, one to go<strong>and</strong> one to come back. I lost many shovels on the crossings, because Ihelped to row the sloop.Another memory was the local cinema owned by Mr. List. It was situatedabove the tavern '<strong>The</strong> Cycloop', accessible by a narrow <strong>and</strong> steepstairway. <strong>The</strong> tickets for the silent movie were twenty-five pennies. <strong>The</strong>movie story was told by Mr. List <strong>and</strong> embellished with the appropriatesounds. For years the theatre company Varia existed in Ijmuiden; theplays were performed in the Thalia, with a dance after the play in the hallbeside the theatre.Before the move to their second location in the Kennemerlaan close tothe Koster tavern, they lived close to the <strong>Prins</strong> family in theKennemerlaan. Aunt Annie, together with her other sisters <strong>and</strong> my dad,was in a car accident. This happened on a foggy evening in Velsen whenthey returned home after an evening on the town. Aunt Truus had aconcussion <strong>and</strong> stayed in the hospital for a while. My mother had to stayfor a few days; as soon as she woke up the first thing she asked for was ah<strong>and</strong> mirror <strong>and</strong> a comb! She was then 25 years old so the accidentmust have happened between February 1933 <strong>and</strong> March 1934.


Aunt Annie went with Aunt Jo to Amsterdam to celebrate QueenWilhelmina’s birthday on August 31. Here she met her future husb<strong>and</strong>,Uncle Jacques. Slowly a relationship developed with weekend visits, oneweekend un Ijmuiden, the other weekend in Amsterdam (knowing Oma,she must have things checked out before she gave her permission forthose visits). When saying goodnight to each other upstairs, you couldn’ttake too long, otherwise Opa would be st<strong>and</strong>ing at the bottom of stairswarning you that that was enough smooching for one night!Memories of Uncle Klass de Wit<strong>The</strong>se are some of the memories of Uncle Klaas, as told to me at a visitwe had with him on Thursday November 2, 2000, printed with hispermission.As I noticed when looking at his family papers, first names were kept <strong>and</strong>given to the next generation. Klaas being the name of his gr<strong>and</strong>fatherfathers side; Grietje being the name of the gr<strong>and</strong>mother mothers side.His parents lived in Sliedrecht, a town in the vicinity of Rotterdam wherehis dad had a wallpapering <strong>and</strong> painting business. He was born there,the third one of four children. However, the first child, his oldest sister,Grietje, died at the young age of ten years, when Uncle Klaas was sevenyears old. <strong>The</strong> second child, a boy named Klaas lived for a few weeksonly. His youngest sister, the fourth child, Griejte Janna, was born whenhe was ten years old.His oldest sister then, suffering from cancer, was treated <strong>and</strong> cared for inthe Anthony van Leeuwenhoek hospital in Amsterdam, known for itstreatment of cancer patients. Without Medicare, this hospitalizationplaced a heavy burden upon his parents; beside the financial costs it wasat that day <strong>and</strong> age very time-consuming for his dad to visit hisdaughter, but often he went there. His dad’s brother lived in Ijmuiden<strong>and</strong> he, as it was easier for him to go to Amsterdam, went to visit as well.In the end his dad was forced to give-up his business in Sliedrecht <strong>and</strong>he <strong>and</strong> his family moved to Ijmuidenm where his brother, being themanager of the gas <strong>and</strong> water department, had a job for him. <strong>The</strong>y livedin the Lagerstraat, Velserduinweg <strong>and</strong> in their later years in theVissershuis in the Rijnstraat.<strong>The</strong> elementary school he attended was school D. This is the oneadjacent to the sports field of the high school he later attended. <strong>The</strong> highschool days came from 1928 til 1933, in the middle of the depressionyears. Money was scarce so Uncle Klaas had to make sure his averagegrades were a seven or better to obtain assistance in the purchase of


school supplies. Even so, some supplies were not covered <strong>and</strong> he is stillgrateful that his parents were able to support him.In later years Klaar <strong>and</strong> Leni <strong>and</strong> still later I myself attended the samehigh school. We also had some of the same teachers! Especially theteachers with a nickname come to mind:- <strong>The</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> language teacher Mr. Duinker (Buikie)- <strong>The</strong> physics teacher Mr. Groosmuller (de pyp)- <strong>The</strong> gymnastic teacher Mr. Duverge (de aap)- <strong>The</strong> principal Dr. Spruyt- <strong>The</strong> arts teacher Mr. Calkoen- <strong>The</strong> biology teacher Mr. Broekens- <strong>The</strong> chemistry teacher Mr. De Lange- <strong>The</strong> physics teacher Mr. Groosmuller. During one of his lectureshe said, “I don’t mind if you go to sleep, next year I will teach exactly thesame’!- <strong>The</strong> gymnastic teacher Mr. Duverge. He used his tambourine toconduct the rhythmic gymnastics for his pupils. If the weather cooperatedfield hockey was played instead of the favoured game of soccer.A special figure was Dr. Haje, who was teaching in high school, whenUncle Klaas <strong>and</strong> Klaar <strong>and</strong> Leni attended. He was a rather small personwith the remainder of his breakfast or lunch in his mustachio or uponhis jacket. When he gave a written test, he used to look through a holein the newspaper he was reading, to spot if anybody was cheating! Whencoming back to school after a sickness, everybody noticed his washed<strong>and</strong> clean appearance; his wife had made sure that he had taken a bath,apparently not a daily occurrence!<strong>The</strong> funeral of a jewish teacher in the Muiderberg cemetery was attendedby a delegation of the high school students, Uncle Klaas being one ofthem. One of the students could use his dad’s car <strong>and</strong> so they went toMuiderberg. None of the students had a head cover with them, requiredat a Jewish funeral. Instead, each of them knotted the four corners oftheir h<strong>and</strong>kerchief <strong>and</strong> used them that way as a head cover!Dr. Haje attended as well, singing loudly with the music <strong>and</strong> when theceremonial amount of earth was deposited upon the coffin, he wasmoving shovels, full as if he wanted to fill the grave himself.Other memories of the high school:During a field hockey practice, one of the players missed a shot, but hedidn’t miss Uncle Klaas’ jaw. Off to the hospital to have it looked at. <strong>The</strong>attending physician introduced himself as Dr. Kuier (de K van koe en de


est wat er onder aan hangt (<strong>Dutch</strong> joke)). He attended to him but forgotto look for a lost tooth, one that had lodged inside his cheek under hiseye. Next day back to have that removed.Once during a h<strong>and</strong>s-on chemistry lesson he lent a retort to a fellowstudent. He got the retort back “clean”. When he went to the storeroomto get a volume of nitric acid an explosion followed! No wonder, the socalled“clean” retort contained a film of alcohol! Of to the hospital againfor a treatment with a weak lime solution.It was toward the end of his high school days in 1932 that he took dancelessons <strong>and</strong> “discovered” Aunt Jo. A he told me attracted to her by herattractive lips <strong>and</strong> her pert nose. <strong>The</strong> acquaintance developed into a tenyearengagement <strong>and</strong> a long lasting marriage. <strong>The</strong>re were long walks tothe harbours <strong>and</strong> the beach; Aunt Jo meeting him half way when UncleKlaas came back from his job at the steelworks. Aunt Jo worked as asales person in a fancy h<strong>and</strong>work shop <strong>and</strong> later on at the V D store inHaarlem, at that time one of the biggest stores in town. Quite often whengoing home either on the bike or by train, depending upon the weather,she had dinner at Uncle Klaas his home, before proceeding home.But most of the time Uncle Klaas would be at the Sohl family, where themood was a bit freer with more people around the house. Oma beingbusy with providing the food, often soup <strong>and</strong> s<strong>and</strong>wiches, while Opa satin his chair, listening to the radio <strong>and</strong> smoking his pipe. As another sonin-lawcharacterized him as a rather quite person in the household. Hereis where Uncle Klaas met my dad the odd time, when he came there topick me up. According to the Sohl family’s impression, my dad was aconservative <strong>and</strong> jealous man (looks like to me for a good reason) <strong>and</strong> notan easy man to live with.Jennie met Hr. Gritters during a personnel evening of the CentralBakery, where he was employed as a bookkeeper. A relationshipdeveloped between them: if the little window to the entrance door to thehouse in the Fazantenstraat was open, he was welcome to come insidebut if the window was closed there was no visiting. To the oldergeneration a divorce was frowned upon, so she didn’t get much supportfrom her sisters Annie <strong>and</strong> Truus either.When Jennie took up residence in the Hague, Oma went to visit her <strong>and</strong>insisted upon a decision of her, one man or the other but not two of themat the same time! Residing in the Hague, she took up dressmaking, gotseveral design jobs with the Masonic Lodge <strong>and</strong> other private contracts.Hr. Gritters was a nice man, but not one to take strong action <strong>and</strong> thatprobably suited her better.


After Uncle Klaas finished his five-year stint at the high school, he wentlooking for a job, as a further study in the technical direction was toocostly. He obtained a job to start as a volunteer at the Steelworks, ashimself paying five guilders a month to cover his social insurance etc. Atthe start of his employment, the air quality at the site proved to be thesource of severe headaches. His supervisor told him to get over it,otherwise there was no job for him. Walks in the fresh air during lunchhour, away from the plant, brought the needed relief.As the physics side of the plant control department was to his liking <strong>and</strong>agreed with his capabilities, there is where he worked. He worked therewith some <strong>German</strong> engineers to start, but when <strong>Dutch</strong> engineers weresufficiently trained, they took over when there was a position open.IN 1938 he changed jobs <strong>and</strong> started working for the B P M inAmsterdam; BPM being a part of the Shell Company. This job lasted tillsometime in 1942, when forced transfers to the oil refineries in Romaniawere a strong possibility. To avoid this situation he changed jobs <strong>and</strong>worked for the gas department in Amsterdam, which job lasted till hisretirement as a supervisor of the southern gas plant.Towards the end of 1942, the western part of Ijmuiden was evacuated<strong>and</strong> Opa <strong>and</strong> Oma Sohl left Ijmuiden, never to live there again. AuntTruus, who was the only one living at home at the time, didn’t move withthem but for her own reason took a room in the town of Purmerend.Opa <strong>and</strong> Oma moved to stay with Opa’s oldest sister Kee, who lived upona farm near Waverveen. After a while they moved to Amsterdam to staywith Aunt Jo <strong>and</strong> Uncle Klaas, who were married by that time. After thewar Opa <strong>and</strong> Oma moved to the city of Utrecht <strong>and</strong> they stayed at theOude Gracht 305.After Uncle Klaas took the job in Amsterdam <strong>and</strong> being married, theyneeded a place to stay. A third floor apartment was found at the DaCosta Kade right above a tavern. <strong>The</strong> former occupants, two Jewishladies had been deported to <strong>German</strong>y <strong>and</strong> the apartment cleaned out.Uncle Klaas <strong>and</strong> Aunt Jo were not comfortable with that fact. But notoccupying it wouldn’t change facts either. Apparently it was not a verybig apartment because when their daughter Maryke was born, she hadher crib upon the l<strong>and</strong>ing.His job was measuring <strong>and</strong> controlling the gas production, organized asshift work. So many statutory holiday, was spent working on the toptanks. When promoted to supervisor they moved to the south side plant,where they lived in the official plant residence till retirement.


During the war Uncle Klaas had two unpleasant “meetings” with the<strong>German</strong> occupying forces.<strong>The</strong> first one came when commuting by train between Ijmuiden<strong>and</strong> Amsterdam.One day coming home, during rush hour, the train was quite crowded,when he was pushed from behind; he reacted, but to his chagrin it was a<strong>German</strong> officer who had done the pushing. <strong>The</strong> officer then proceeded toremove him from the train. As he didn’t want to miss his train, he movedfurther down the platform <strong>and</strong> entered the train again. At his enddestination he stepped off. When he looked at the departing train, hesaw the officer glaring at him. This caused him to wave a friendlygoodbye. Needless to say he followed a different timetable to go home thenext few weeks.<strong>The</strong> second encounter came while living in Amsterdam. When he wasbiking to somewhere, two <strong>German</strong> Policeman stopped him <strong>and</strong> dem<strong>and</strong>edto see his ID card. Now every <strong>Dutch</strong> person over the age of 15 years hadto have an ID card; the Jews had an ID card also, but they had theadditional letter J stamped in it. Beside that they were required to wear,visibly, the yellow star, of David. Now there were two reasons why hewas nervous about an ID control.When they moved in their apartment upon the Da Costa Kade he foundinside a closet a small container with some knick-knacks <strong>and</strong> a yellowstar, of David! He put the star, not thinking very clearly, in hispocketbook.As his ID card was a bit smudged, it looked like if it had had a J in there,but had been removed. Not true of course, but it made for anuncomfortable, a sweaty situation.After the war was over, circumstances improved <strong>and</strong> holidays withJennie <strong>and</strong> her husb<strong>and</strong> were organized to the eastern part of Holl<strong>and</strong><strong>and</strong> later on when he had his own car <strong>and</strong> some longer holidays, tripswere organized to Italy. One week to travel to Italy by car <strong>and</strong> the two ofthem, two weeks together with <strong>The</strong> Hague, <strong>and</strong> one week to travel backhome. And every year a different city was visited. This arrangementlasted for quite a few years, but later Aunt Jo <strong>and</strong> Uncle Klaas went theirown way.My Earliest Memories


My earliest memories go back prior to Grade 1. My father, first mother<strong>and</strong> I lived in the Houtmanstraat across from the water tower. My dad,being a mate in the merchant marine, was away for two months at a time<strong>and</strong> then stayed home for two or three days, <strong>and</strong> gone again. <strong>The</strong> fewdays he was home were always special for me. In his earlier sailing dayshe quite often went to Africa <strong>and</strong> brought back some unique souvenirs.One is a h<strong>and</strong> hammered copper wallboard (destined for Philipeventually). Aunt Annie in Holl<strong>and</strong> has one also. We also have a woodenbench carved in the shape of an elephant, here now in our house.During the depression in the 1930s many ships were taken out of service<strong>and</strong> many men lost their job or were demoted in their ranking. My dadwent from first mate to third mate again.Two things st<strong>and</strong> out in my memories of living in the Houtmanstraat,first a neighbour girl <strong>and</strong> I watching my mother washing her stockings inthe kitchen sink. <strong>The</strong> second one is the family Krab, who were livingright beside us. I sure didn’t like her because she always mentioned tomy mother that there was something wrong with my tonsils <strong>and</strong> she feltthey should come out. (As a matter of fact I still have them!)Our next home was in the Fazantenlaan, the railway tracks across fromour house. Someone there gave me a couple of pigeons; they didn’t staytoo long because my mother objected. I can still see how a sunbeamshone through the half-closed curtains <strong>and</strong> how amazed I was seeing somany dust particles floating in the beam.<strong>The</strong>re was in the living room a closet, where I like to play; I had a light,table <strong>and</strong> little chair in there. I don’t remember what I did there as itwas prior to being in grade one <strong>and</strong> I don’t think I could either read orwrite at that time.Memories of Parents’ DivorceWhen I was five or six years old, my parents were going through divorceproceedings, but I wasn’t aware of it at that time. It probably explains,however, why I spent a lot of time at my gr<strong>and</strong>parents’ Sohl place. As ismentioned already, Opa Sohl was a baker. In one of the books I have ofIjmuiden “Van gat tot stad” by J V Baarsel, are some pictures relating tohis business (page 100 & 129). He always left home early; when finishedhad a shave at the barbershop of Mus <strong>and</strong> than came home to eat hishot lunch. I often sat beside him <strong>and</strong> he always shared some tid-bitswith me, much to Oma’s chagrin. He was a gentle man, didn’t say allthat much (wife <strong>and</strong> five daughters) but when he said something it wasright to the point.


That my Oma wasn’t Opa’s first wife I only learned later on the farm inAalsmeer where his full sister Aal lived. When I was old enough to gothere by myself, I spent many summers on that farm! Oma didn’t belongto any church <strong>and</strong> had some “uppity” notions that didn’t sit too well withOpa’s family. All of his family were, staunch church- goers.She loved to read a certain series of Harlequin romances, describing thelives <strong>and</strong> adventures of the so-called upper class. She used to taketheses stories quite seriously <strong>and</strong> said “<strong>The</strong>se people live in a swamp ofimmortality”. Oma also had some particular sayings. For example, onSundays she arranged a brunch style buffet <strong>and</strong> called this a walkings<strong>and</strong>wich or a s<strong>and</strong>wich out of the h<strong>and</strong>. Oma wasn’t one of myfavourite persons but Opa I really liked. I might as well because I seemto look a bit like him <strong>and</strong> share some of his sense of quick wit.On Sunday s in the late afternoon Opa used to listen to a radio-playcalled “Oom Keessie” (Uncle Casey). One time, Opa thought that the oldguy was pretty smart when he attached a full can of paint with a smallhole in the bottom to a car he wanted to follow.Oma Boon, Oma’s mother, used to live upstairs in the front room of theirhouse. I was scared of her because she was always dressed in black <strong>and</strong>never smiled. I stayed out of her way whenever possible.Of course my parents divorce affected me greatly, consciously <strong>and</strong>unconsciously I imagine. A few things st<strong>and</strong> out in my mind I see mydad <strong>and</strong> my mother talking in the living room. He is sitting on a chair<strong>and</strong> she is cleaning the floor. He is crying <strong>and</strong> asks her if she wants tostay together, but she says she doesn’t want to (she was already involvedwither her future 2nd husb<strong>and</strong>). Another time my dad <strong>and</strong> Opa Jacob<strong>Prins</strong> (after who I am named) were in the living room discussingsomething. I suppose it was the upcoming divorce. This was the firsttime I ever saw Opa <strong>Prins</strong> at our house. A pile of, clean dishes were onthe living room table <strong>and</strong> my dad used the top plate as an ashtray.Before the divorce, my parents <strong>and</strong> I visited the farm in Aalsmeer whereAunt Aal <strong>and</strong> Uncle Willem lived. Aunt Aal was Opa Sohl’s sister <strong>and</strong>consequently my mother’s Aunt, but after the divorce she, Aunt Aal,never talked to my mother again! This first visit to the farm was followedby many more over the years <strong>and</strong> the “polder” has had an importantinfluence upon my life.1936-1941<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Prins</strong>


Memories of my Aunt Nel Traa-<strong>Prins</strong>Aunt Nel remembers visits of her gr<strong>and</strong>parents to the house they lived inthen at the Wilhelmina Kade. When this house was built, a first stonewas cemented in with my dad’s name Philip engraved on it. This househowever was torn down during the last part of the war <strong>and</strong> the stone wasnever found again. She told me that my great-gr<strong>and</strong>father was a rathersmall man (see later Uncle Phil’s remarks) <strong>and</strong> his wife, my greatgr<strong>and</strong>mothera tall slim women who dressed in black <strong>and</strong> always broughta chocolate bar along. My great-gr<strong>and</strong>father on Oma’s side was a smallstocky man who lived in the <strong>Prins</strong> Hendrik institution in Egmond.She mentioned that Oma’s only brother Klaar, who never got married,courted a widow named Ditje for a while. She owned a small store, butthe relationship did not last evidently.<strong>The</strong> day my dad passed away, someone came to the “Rommel house” inBeverwijk. Where Opa, Oma & family had to move to during theevacuation of Ijmuiden, to bring the bad news. Aunt Nel was the onewho had to tell my gr<strong>and</strong>parents what had happened to my dad.<strong>The</strong> <strong>Prins</strong> Hendrik institution was a home where people came to live oncetheir spouse had died <strong>and</strong> they were not able to care for themselves anymore (an old age home). Either that or the financial situation was suchthat they couldn’t afford to be independent <strong>and</strong> stay in their own house.When they were living in the house at the Wilhelmina Kade, she knewOpa’s parents as well as Oma’s parents. Not much recollection anymoreof Oma’s parents as the mother died at a relatively young age, but sheremembers her gr<strong>and</strong>father as a stocky man, black curly hair <strong>and</strong> blueeyes.<strong>The</strong>y moved to Kennemerlaan 7 in 1916, when Uncle Jack was a baby ofsix weeks old. Later on, Aunt Greet <strong>and</strong> Klaar were born. When goingfor a walk, Aunt Greet was in a cane baby carriage <strong>and</strong> Klaar after thatin a blue coloured one.<strong>The</strong> so-called office was originally planned <strong>and</strong> used as such, but it soonbecame a room to play in <strong>and</strong> dry the wash in the wintertime.<strong>The</strong> general custom those days were that the boys were to study, the girlsstayed home <strong>and</strong> got married. (Aunt Greet, as the youngest one, was theexception as she went beyond elementary school).


Aunt Nel stayed home to do all the sewing for the family. Her workspacewas the l<strong>and</strong>ing, with a skylight providing the light. Reading books orplaying the piano was done for relaxation but no games were played.Once she made a costume for one of her sisters. While that work wasnot done for a wage, the sister gave her a gift of a small cup <strong>and</strong> saucerwith the explanation that too much coffee wasn’t good for her healthanyway; that’s why the small cup. <strong>The</strong> cup <strong>and</strong> saucer disappeared onthe wastebasket. When she did sewing for her sisters or herself, Omathought that the clothing she made for herself was always fancier <strong>and</strong>had nicer finishing touches. When my dad, after his divorce, came homefrom a two- month voyage, she looked after all the clothing what had tobe mended.To get away from it all, she <strong>and</strong> her girlfriend had arranged as a pair togo to Engl<strong>and</strong> to see some more of the world. However, Oma refused togive her consent <strong>and</strong> Aunt Nel had to stay home. According to Aunt Nel,Oma was fairly strict <strong>and</strong> didn’t leave very much to decide for the girlswho were living at home. But Opa did his best <strong>and</strong> took her out toGerzon to buy clothes <strong>and</strong> finished with a meal at Krasnapolsky, therestaurant in Amsterdam.<strong>The</strong> arrangements of bedrooms was ususual <strong>and</strong> actually impractical asthe bedroom of Aunt Nel & Aunt Lena could be reached only through thebalcony bedroom, where my dad <strong>and</strong> I slept, or if my dad was at sea,Uncle Jack. One time when my dad was grumbling to Oma about thetraffic through the room, she said “ Well, you better get married again”,to which he answered, “I don’t want to sell myself for a small room”!When I came to stay, she thought I was a nice boy <strong>and</strong> not much trouble(still till this day)!After the yearly spring, house cleaning, the stove in the living room wasremoved till fall came. It didn’t matter how miserable the weatherbecame after the cleaning session. <strong>The</strong> house cleaning didn’t do muchfor the dog Limmie, as he crawled under the kitchen stove anyway! <strong>The</strong>mystery of his name was explained as follows: my dad, on one hisvoyages upon the freighter “Limburgia”, brought him home as a gift <strong>and</strong>he got the shortened name of the Limburgia.She met Uncle <strong>The</strong>o, serving in the army, at the house of her girlfriendJo <strong>Prins</strong>, where he visited once in a while. <strong>The</strong> first time I saw him wasright after the five war days in May 1940, when he came at the front doorto talk to Aunt Nel. He had small red eyes as he didn’t sleep for threedays <strong>and</strong> he didn’t come any father than the front hall. Most visitorsdidn’t either!


He came to stay with the <strong>Prins</strong> household during the War Aunt Nelthought that was rather bold of him. She was in no hurry to marry him,but he was a good <strong>and</strong> nice guy. That is why she decided to marry himin 1945, after the war.<strong>The</strong> sheep story is mentioned in Klaar’s memoirs. <strong>The</strong> share for thefamily was a bowl of headcheese, devoured by one or other cat.After Oma passed away in February 1949, someone was needed to runthe household. Aunt Ali <strong>and</strong> Uncle Cor decided that Aunt Lena shouldgive up her nursing career <strong>and</strong> come back home. That is whathappened.My own observations of my gr<strong>and</strong>parents are as follows:Looking back at my gr<strong>and</strong>parents after the interviews with AuntNel <strong>and</strong> Klaar, IThink they were a bit different then I saw them. Oma comesacross as the domineering one <strong>and</strong> Opa the one softer at heart.Opa <strong>Prins</strong> never told me what to do when you needed advice for aproblem. He always admonished you to weigh the pros <strong>and</strong> cons <strong>and</strong>you yourself made the decision on what to do. Not that he didn’t have anopinion about it, but I have in my case, never had a decision imposedupon me.Memories of Uncle Jack <strong>Prins</strong>Uncle Jack was sick quite often when he was young <strong>and</strong> they thought hewouldn’t live very long. Those days there was still a lot of traffic by horse<strong>and</strong> buggy (milkman, grocer, baker etc.) <strong>and</strong> it was the custom that thetown would spread s<strong>and</strong> on the road in the vicinity of the house where aseverely ill person was cared for. (In those days a hospital stay wasusually reserved for medical operations or terminal cases). This s<strong>and</strong>spreading would dampen the noise the wagon wheels made rolling overthe brick road. According to Uncle Jack this also happened once whenhe was very ill <strong>and</strong> he still remembered that they asked him what heliked best to eat to which he answered “whipping cream” <strong>and</strong> then fellasleep. When he woke up, there was only an empty dish; the whippingcream was gone! Uncle Jack always figured that his brother Antoon wasthe culprit. Uncle Jack did live, started a very successful businessbuilding cranes etc., married, had three daughters <strong>and</strong> died at the age of73.Memories of Klaar <strong>Prins</strong>


In the early days, fishing was done with flat-bottomed boats they wereable to beach. Short trips were made of about a week in duration.Caught fish were kept alive in so called “buns” or salted <strong>and</strong> preserved inthat way. When they arrived at the beach, the fish were sold to thebuyers who took them from there to the outlying towns for distribution<strong>and</strong> re-sale. Later on when IJmuiden came into being, botters were used<strong>and</strong> after that trawlers.Sometimes competition came from the catches of English fisherman whobrought their harvest in by freighter. This of course was not much to theliking of the local fishermen, as it tended to lower the prices. <strong>The</strong>Egmonder people took matters into their own h<strong>and</strong>s by throwing the'English' fish back into the sea. This act brought in the federal policeforce, the Marechaussee, trying to prevent this unlawful deed. Fightserupted <strong>and</strong> one of my great-gr<strong>and</strong>fathers, Teunis Zwart, bashed one ofhis wooden shoes on the head of one of the policemen. He was convicted<strong>and</strong> spent three months in jail in the town of Breda.<strong>The</strong> first fish auction market was a private one, located close to theoriginal locks. Later on after the fishing harbour was dug, thegovernment run auction market was established there, <strong>and</strong> all thefishing boats moved into that harbour.Opa <strong>Prins</strong>, when he was an active fisherman, was master upon one of thetrawlers, owned by the gr<strong>and</strong>father of Uncle Dirk de Groot.Fishing with the dragnets was usually done from one side of the trawler.<strong>The</strong> other side was kept as a spare, in case there were repairs to be madeto the used net. After a fishing period of approximately four hours, thehaul was dumped into compartments on the ship’s deck, processed <strong>and</strong>sorted. <strong>The</strong> mate h<strong>and</strong>led the steam winch to pull in the net. It was hisjob as well to insure a proper storing <strong>and</strong> icing of the catch.<strong>The</strong> warehouse at the Haringstraat was purchased when the Praxis hadplans to exp<strong>and</strong> into the fishery with herring nets, but those plans werenever realized.Klaar still remembers the day my dad <strong>and</strong> mother came to theKennemerlaan to ask for permission to get married, as was the customthose days. This took place in the stateroom, my mother crying. Omawasn’t impressed but she did the answering. Apparently the answer wasyes <strong>and</strong> they got married.From his early childhood, Klaar spent time at Aunt Antje’s place having afull cousin Jack v d Kuil, as a playmate. One time, the v d Kuil familywas sitting around the kitchen table while Klaar hid under the table.


Two sons, Joe <strong>and</strong> Kippie, were arguing in a rather forceful way. WhenAunt Antje got tired of it, she warned them that she would tell theirguardian about it, their guardian being Uncle Jaap, Klaar’s dad. <strong>The</strong>answer to that warning was "he can go <strong>and</strong> fly a kite", to which Klaarappeared like a jack out of a box from under the table to yell at them thatthey couldn’t talk about his dad like that.During the depression years, canned hamburger was supplied for aminimal charge of twenty-five pennies a can. When heated in thescullery without removing the top, it had predictable results. <strong>The</strong> canexploded, all the hamburger pasted to walls <strong>and</strong> ceiling <strong>and</strong> a pitifulamount of metal left of what used to be the can. Later when in highschool, many an evening was spent with friends (Jack vd Kuil, JanWoudenberg <strong>and</strong> others) in front of Aunt Antje’s house, to discussmatters important to them <strong>and</strong> watch the traffic go by.Contact with Leni was kept <strong>and</strong> many a beach meeting (half way?) wasarranged. Later on when the beach became a restricted area, they met ather home, <strong>and</strong> after the big razzia in Velsen-Noord, the visits went viceversa.Uncle Klaar originally had room <strong>and</strong> board with the shore-skipper of thePraxis fleet, but Oma re-arranged that <strong>and</strong> her brother came to stay withthem. One of the benefits of having him live there was that when UncleJack was looking for a job <strong>and</strong> needed to dress up, he could borrowUncle Klaar’s nice shiny shoes. Apparently this happened quite often.Aunt Albertje, one of Oma’s other sisters, was lining in Egmond as awidow <strong>and</strong> ran a clothes store to make a living (no government supportthose days!) Apparently she was quite a business women. One day theempty freighter 'Kerkplein' left Ijmuiden to sail to Rotterdam during aheavy SW storm. <strong>The</strong> ship ended up at the beach near Egmond, with thecrew high <strong>and</strong> dry.A distress signal went out to Ijmuiden where the older tugboat 'Drente'was stationed, to attempt to pull the 'Kerkplein' off the beach. UncleAntoon went on his bike with his brother Klaar on the luggage carrier, towatch the departure of the 'Drente' which was moored near the southerncanal locks. <strong>The</strong> tugboat crew asked Uncle Antoon if he wanted to comealong but he declined because he had his 'little' (ten year old) brotherwith him! Klaar thought it just an excuse <strong>and</strong> the matter was that hedidn’t dare to go. <strong>The</strong> 'Drente' departed but ran into trouble close toEgmond when the pulling cable became snatched in the screw <strong>and</strong> theydrifted onto the beach where the crew was rescued, wet <strong>and</strong> cold.Blankets were supplied by guess who? It was Aunt Albertje, who made atidy profit! <strong>The</strong> next day Uncle Jack <strong>and</strong> Klaar went by bike to Egmond


to have a look at the two beached ships. Apparently they weren’t theonly ones who had that idea! Eventually the 'Kerkplein' was floatedagain, but the tugboat was cut up for scrap at her last resting place.When the war started, one of Opa’s trawlers was at sea <strong>and</strong> was orderedto go to Engl<strong>and</strong>, where she went fishing for the duration of the war.Among the trawlers directed to Engl<strong>and</strong> was the IJM 26 Caroline withSkipper Albert 'Stokkie' de Graaf. He was Aunt Arendje’s dad. Histrawler was one of a number of trawlers that was, after modifications,used as a minesweeper on the west coast of Engl<strong>and</strong>. On the <strong>21</strong>st ofApril 1941 a mine exploded under his hip killing the complete crew. He<strong>and</strong> his men are buried in Milford Haven, Engl<strong>and</strong>.Sometime during the war a sloop was purchased <strong>and</strong> rebuilt as a fishingvessel. A cabin was installed as well as a Chevrolet gasoline motorcomplete with wooden enclosure <strong>and</strong> exhaust. And of course thenecessary fishing gear. Uncle <strong>The</strong>o, being the mechanic, was working onthe motor, cigarette in his mouth, when the gasoline fumes ignited. <strong>The</strong>following explosion blew the engine enclosure in the water. Uncle <strong>The</strong>o’sface was blackened but the cigarette was still in his mouth. <strong>The</strong> onlything he said was "god-monde ju".<strong>The</strong> partners to provide the purchase money were Dirk de Groot, Cor<strong>Prins</strong>, Uncle Klaar <strong>and</strong> Phil <strong>Prins</strong>. After a while however Uncle Klaartook his money out. <strong>The</strong> crew consisted of a hired skipper, K Gouda,Uncle <strong>The</strong>o as machinist <strong>and</strong> Klaar as deckh<strong>and</strong>.<strong>The</strong> first fishing forays were for shrimp. <strong>The</strong>y sailed the vessel throughthe canals in North Holl<strong>and</strong> to Den Helder. Once, with Uncle Dirk at thehelm (an experienced captain!), they were following another vessel (theydidn’t know it was a flat-bottomed one) <strong>and</strong> the boat was grounded upona shoal. Klaar went down to his underwear <strong>and</strong> walked a line <strong>and</strong>anchor out to deep water, after which the boat winched itself across theshoal. <strong>The</strong> locked harbour of Den Oever had to be warned that they werecoming in late, so the chain could be lowered for them to enter.Later on they finished out of Ijmuiden under the coast as far asCallantsoog <strong>and</strong> back; plenty of fish out no chance to escape to Engl<strong>and</strong>as they <strong>and</strong> other boats were closely guarded by <strong>German</strong> patrol boats.When in harbour, the boat was moored in the eastern part of theharbour where all the spilled oil accumulated on the water surface.During one air raid, this oil started to burn <strong>and</strong> the fire destroyed theboat along with others. Even the copper bell that Klaar wanted salvagelater was melted to a clump of metal.


Klaar came along with my dad to assist him in the compass setting of thedifferent ships. Once during such an occasion, there was an air raid <strong>and</strong>some uncomfortable moments on board; one of the <strong>German</strong> sailorswanted to start shooting when the captain said "No. No. Don’t draw anyattention to our boat!" After that occasion, my dad didn’t want Klaaralong any more <strong>and</strong> this was the last time he assisted my dad.Sometime during the was my dad arranged with a higher-up of theschnellboot bunker, Mende, to buy a sheep. Uncle <strong>The</strong>o <strong>and</strong> Klaar werethe ones to catch that animal <strong>and</strong> butcher it. When they arrived at thebunker <strong>and</strong> asked were it was, they were told to look around in thedunes, it was somewhere around. This of course was a risky business asthe coast area was restricted <strong>and</strong> strictly forbidden for civilians. Butthey went, looking everywhere till all of a sudden, looking over the top ofa dune, they came upon an antiaircraft position. <strong>The</strong>y were quicklyapprehended by two armed soldiers who thought they were spies. <strong>The</strong>ywere marched to the comm<strong>and</strong>o post in the former Salvation Armybuilding in the Edisonstraat where they were held for a while. <strong>The</strong> off tothe police station in the Briniostraat, accompanied by two Grune polizei.When asked what they were in for, Klaar said "I am not guilty". "Yes.Yes." Was the answer, "<strong>The</strong>y all say that". In the meantime, my dad gotinformed of what had happened <strong>and</strong> he straightened things out with helpof Mende. Apparently they were two hours away of being transported tothe Euterpestraat in Amsterdam, the Gestapo headquarters.But they went for the sheep again <strong>and</strong> this time was successful. It was aram <strong>and</strong> if you knew the <strong>Dutch</strong> saying "As lean as a ram", this onequalified. Feet bound together, in the pushcart to Opa’s complex at thefishing harbour where it was butchered in a unique way; head upon theanvil. Everyone thought they would get a kitchen full of meat, but beinga lean ram, you can imagine! But they had a fleece, giving need to havea spinning wheel. Some lumber was 'organized' from the neighbouringcarpenter shop, a small lathe was put together from old bicycle parts <strong>and</strong>a spinning wheel was born, thanks to Uncle <strong>The</strong>o’s efforts.Klaar was twice 'involved' with a razzia. <strong>The</strong> first time was in theGeelvinkstraat when police lieutenant Ritman was assassinated by the<strong>Dutch</strong> underground. <strong>The</strong> other time was in Haarlem, when he was inhiding at Leni’s home. <strong>The</strong>re was a big razzia for labourers to be sent to<strong>German</strong>y to work there in the factories. <strong>The</strong> Grune polizei came tosearch the house. Klaar was hiding in the attic, but as there were notmany supporting beams in the ceiling of the room underneath, each timehe moved plaster came falling down upon the bedcovers. His futurefather-in-law, a plumber by trade, had a water closet, complete withfittings, installed in front of the attic entrance. One soldier stayeddownstairs, the other one went upstairs to look, but he was so crowded


y Leni’s mother, that he didn’t have much chance for a serious search.<strong>The</strong>y left empty-h<strong>and</strong>ed.In that house they had in the living room a round table with storagespace underneath the main surface; that is where they hid the leaflets,secretly printed <strong>and</strong> distributed by the underground movement. Klaarwas living there when Aunt Greet came to tell him that my father wasmissing <strong>and</strong> presumably killed.Another of the brothers, Uncle Antoon, went into hiding when there wasa certain possibility of being sent to <strong>German</strong>y. He went into hiding in thetown of Koedyk, somewhere north of the town of Alkmaar. He lived therewith a Roman-Catholic family, until one day the pastor came for a visit<strong>and</strong> wanted to know of which faith he was. As it was not Roman-Catholic, the pastor felt it was better if he moved on. Later on, withanother family, he was captured <strong>and</strong> put on transport to Amsterdam,final destination <strong>German</strong>y. When walking in the column with the otherapprehended men, he saw a chance to escape. When the accompanyingguards were not watching too closely, he jumped out of the column towalk arm in arm with a complete strange girl who was passing by! <strong>The</strong>column went one way <strong>and</strong> they went the other way.Sometimes family members have different loyalties during a conflict likethis was. Uncle Jo Neervoort, married to Aunt Lies, was a goodbusinessman, but a member of the NSB <strong>and</strong> later in the was, a memberof a paramilitary organization. He started to work for Job Gouda <strong>and</strong>later started his own preserving business with v d Vaart. After the was<strong>and</strong> confinement years, he started again with Jan de Beurs in a buildingsituated behind the Hotel Augusta. His son Joop worked for him for awhile, but that arrangement didn’t last. In his later years afterretirement, when living at the Santpoortse Dreef, he took up th epaintinghobby <strong>and</strong> sold several of them.Another story about Uncle Klaar:After Oma passed away <strong>and</strong> Aunt Lena had married Uncle Phil, he wasasked if he wanted a boiled egg. No, I don’t want one. Ah, come on man,take an egg. No, I don’t want one, as far as I am concerned, all chickenscan drop dead!Memories of Uncle Phil <strong>Prins</strong>He remembers my great-gr<strong>and</strong>father <strong>Prins</strong> who was nicknamed 'HazegePhillesie' (Philip). He was a small <strong>and</strong> quick-tempered man. Hazegeprobably comes from the word Haas meaning hare.


In Egmond where they both lived, people still had outhouses <strong>and</strong> theycovered the contents of their biffies with dead 'bent grass' (grass plantedin the dunes to stop the s<strong>and</strong> from blowing away). One day when HazegePhillesie was doing this job he cut some green grass, also cut himself <strong>and</strong>to top it off he got a ticket for cutting the green stuff, because this wasnot allowed. Uncle Phil saw all this <strong>and</strong> stood there grinning whichwasn’t appreciated by his gr<strong>and</strong>father <strong>and</strong> he received a slap around hishead.Gr<strong>and</strong>father Hazege Phillesie was a fisherman; as a sailor <strong>and</strong> as amaster he went fishing upon a born (flat-bottomed fishing boat). A threeto four hour walk along the beach was required to get home, arefreshment was needed at arrival in Egmond. This refreshment wasprovided in a small establishment run by a brother-in-law Willem.Entrance through the front door, a few quick drinks of <strong>Dutch</strong> gin (fivepennies a drink) <strong>and</strong> out through the back door, homeward bound,where trouble was waiting for him.<strong>The</strong> house they were living in must have been a small one; it containedtwo cupboard beds. He kissed his wife; she, smelling the liquor on hisbreath, started berating him. Being quick-tempered, he threw his walletwith the remaining money upon the table with the words: "I will nevertouch the stuff again" <strong>and</strong> exited through the same door he had enteredthe house. According to Uncle Phil this promise was never kept.After his wife died, his youngest daughter, Aunt Henkie, came to live withhim to run the household. When Aunt Henkie <strong>and</strong> her family moved toIjmuiden, he then took his meals with Uncle Phil’s mother Cornelia, shebeing another daughter. And her kids had better behave, becauseHazege Phillesie’s h<strong>and</strong>s were ready to correct any rowdy behaviour.Uncle Phil’s was experiences were overseas. As he was at sea when thewar started, his ship was directed not to go back to the Netherl<strong>and</strong>s, butto stay under Allied control. He was sailing on a boat of the KNSM in theWest Indies from Suriname <strong>and</strong> Curacao to New York. Later in the warhe sailed to Engl<strong>and</strong> unaccompanied but the later voyages were inconvoy. However bad weather or other circumstances could play havocwith the convoy <strong>and</strong> each ship had to set its own course. After the warthe first oppoutunity he got to come back to Holl<strong>and</strong> was not until 1946,almost a full year after, when he sailed from Engl<strong>and</strong> to Rotterdam on aboat of the Batavier line. In the 1950’s he was mate upon a whalehunting ship in the South pole seas. This was a six-month trip huntingwhales for the factory ship where the caught whales were processed.When he <strong>and</strong> Aunt Lena got married, this work phase came to an end<strong>and</strong> he went back to weekly fishing trips with a small fishing boat.


Memories of Kennemerlaan 7 / Living with Oma & Opa <strong>Prins</strong>After the divorce of my parents in 1936 I moved with my dad to mygr<strong>and</strong>parents house at Kennemerlaan 7. This house had the shape of atriangle which gave some of the rooms a most interesting shape. In myeyes the stairway was majestic, painted once a year by Aunt Nel. A signmarked 'we paint' was hung, actually quite unnecessary because of thepaint smell!I don’t remember if I had been at the house before but I surely remembermy first entrée at that time through the front door with my dad. Later Ialways came in through the backdoor <strong>and</strong> the kitchen.I lived with my gr<strong>and</strong>parents until my dad remarried in August 1941.<strong>The</strong> first few years he was still in the merchant marine <strong>and</strong> sailed toSouth America. When I hear the names of Pernambuco, Rio de Janeiroor Buenos Aires, I am reminded of those days. Once in a while he wenton a short trip to <strong>German</strong>y (Hamburg or Bremen). A trip to SouthAmerica took approximately 2 months <strong>and</strong> then only a few days home. Iremember well the welcoming home at the North Sea Canal lock <strong>and</strong>then the walk to the railway station to accompany him home. His trunkwas full of clothes, a bushel of green bananas <strong>and</strong> a boxes with cornedbeef. <strong>The</strong> bananas disappeared into the basement, never had a chanceto ripen <strong>and</strong> were never seen again!<strong>The</strong>re was a dog named Limmie (where did they find a name like that?), arather small, white long-haired dog. Sometimes she was put into the tubto be washed. After the bath, she promptly disappeared under the coalfurnace in the kitchen with predictable results.When my dad was home we always went one day to Amsterdam to theCineac (movie theatre) <strong>and</strong> dinner at Heck’s Restaurant, where we atekale with sausages or pea soup.Early in 1940 my dad got a permanent job in the harbour, adjustingcompasses on fishing boats. On his last trip back from South Americaon either the Eeml<strong>and</strong> or the Zaanl<strong>and</strong>, his ship had to dock in Londonfor inspection of the load, to make sure no strategic materials for the<strong>German</strong>s were on board.It was such a sure thing for me to be cared for by my dad’s family, that Inever realized what it must have been like for my gr<strong>and</strong>parents,especially my gr<strong>and</strong>mother, or Oma as I called her, to take care of a sixyearold boy <strong>and</strong> that for five years.


When I was sick, a few times I had bronchitis, during the daytime I wastransferred to Oma an dOpa’s bedroom because it had the most windowswith a view of the Kennemerlaan <strong>and</strong> Jacob van Heemskerkstraat.<strong>The</strong>re were lots of people in the household <strong>and</strong> you never knew who waswhere. I will name them all. First my gr<strong>and</strong>parents, Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa<strong>Prins</strong>.<strong>The</strong>n there was Klaar, the only brother of my gr<strong>and</strong>mother <strong>and</strong> a dyedthrough the wool bachelor. He was a big help for my Oma as he peeledpotatoes, cleaned <strong>and</strong> fried fish. When he was thirsty, he drank waterwith a little bit of vinegar. In his younger years, he was Master on one ofOpa’s trawlers (if I am not mistaken he also made a few trips with thePerseus after the war) <strong>and</strong> he lived off his money earned during thoseyears. He always gave me pocket money (Zondagcent) when I needed it<strong>and</strong> the Zaanse clock here in Canada (upstairs in the hall) is a gift fromhim.<strong>The</strong>re was a rigid seating arrangement in the kitchen when the noonmeal was served. <strong>The</strong> table was located, with its short side, against thekitchen window. On the one side in the corner Oma <strong>and</strong> beside her,when he was home, my father. On the other side in the corner was Opa<strong>and</strong> beside him the second son, my Uncle Cor. Seated at the short sidewas Klaar. But breakfast <strong>and</strong> lunch were on a first come, first servebasis. Uncle Cor was an electrical engineer at the Hoogovens <strong>and</strong> hebecame my guardian after my dad was killed.In the living room during the noon meal were my Aunts Nel, Lena <strong>and</strong>Greta <strong>and</strong> the younger Uncles Antoon, Jack <strong>and</strong> Klaar <strong>and</strong> I. UncleAntoon got married before the war started to Aunt Aredje. She wasspirited lady <strong>and</strong> I liked her. She told me that when she was engaged tohim she used to climb upon the roof of her house to wave to Antoonwhen he walked to work. She also had a habit of jumping over thegarden gate which Antoon didn’t quite approve of! She passed away afterthe war of a blood disorder <strong>and</strong> left him with two young children; theoldest one of my sister’s age.<strong>The</strong>re were two married Aunts, Aunt Ali, married to Dirk de Groot <strong>and</strong>Aunt Lies married to Joe Neervoort; he is the gherkin man as well as afull cousin to my mother.Uncle Cor <strong>and</strong> Uncle Jack owned a sailboat (<strong>The</strong> Bestevaer). Often onthe weekends we went sailing on a lake close to Haarlem, '<strong>The</strong> Mooie Nel'or on the canal that runs between Ijmuiden <strong>and</strong> Amsterdam. One timewhen the boat went through the locks I had to push it away from thewall. I was on the boat <strong>and</strong> Uncle Jack stood on the wall. I pushed too


hard <strong>and</strong> there I hung suspended between boat <strong>and</strong> wall. A loud <strong>and</strong>scared yell alerted Uncle Jack, he grabbed me <strong>and</strong> pulled me up ontosolid ground. I often went for an overnight stay on the boat with him.In a big family like the <strong>Prins</strong>’ there are always some people you feel morein tune with than others <strong>and</strong> I had the most rapport with Uncle Jack.Especially after my dad was killed I relied quite a bit on him when I hadproblems <strong>and</strong> he really became a second dad to me. He alwaysencouraged me to do things <strong>and</strong> especially when I thought aboutemigrating to Canada he told me not to be scared. If I didn’t like it orcouldn’t get used to it, I always could come back, there was no dishonourin that!To avoid confusion when one of the Jack’s were wanted I became smallJace (kleine Jack) <strong>and</strong> Uncle Jack became big Jack (grote Jack). Thisdistinction lasted through the years <strong>and</strong> finally ended when Uncle Jackpassed away in 1989. I never minded to be called by that name but Kininever liked it.Once, (I don’t know exactly when anymore), Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa <strong>Prins</strong> <strong>and</strong>Klaar (Oma’s only brother) had an argument in the kitchen. To keep itfrom the rest of us, the door from the hallway to the kitchen was closed,but everyone who was home was listening in the hallway, because it wassuch a rare occasion for that to happen. Oma was heard saying to Opa(her husb<strong>and</strong>!) to stay out of it as he was only allied to the family bymarriage!With Opa <strong>Prins</strong>, I was always intrigued by the way his little right h<strong>and</strong>finger was bent as a shepherd’s crook. He told me this was the result ofhis fishnet knitting days. An expression, I still use myself once in awhile, comes from Oma <strong>Prins</strong>; she used to serve custard with blackberryjuice or in her way of pronouncing it in the Egmond dialect 'braamtenat'.Like every child in Holl<strong>and</strong> you were taught to ride the bike at a youngage. <strong>The</strong> task to teach me fell on Klaar <strong>and</strong> here we went to theHavenkade in front of the local cemetery. Mounting <strong>and</strong> dismounting,going fast, going slow, till I mastered the art of riding a bike. Until thisday I still ask myself why he chose to teach me in front of the cemetery!A bit of cemetery history follows.<strong>The</strong> use of houses to pull the hearse was an old tradition <strong>and</strong> was basedupon regional customs. <strong>The</strong>se traditions differed from region to region<strong>and</strong> depended on the prevailing religion in that region. But one thingwas the same; black horses were used to pull the hearse.


If there were no black horses available, other horses were used, eitherbrown or white ones. But a coloured horse with a black one was notappropriate, people called that 'half-mourning'. In the early days ofIjmuiden, a draycart was used to carry the departed to the cemetery inVelsen. Later a new cemetery was used - the Westerbegraafplaats at theHavenkade. But the approach to the Westerbegraafplaats wasparticularly difficult, as the procession had to go through a deep valley.When the climb to the end-destination started, the accompanyingclergyman was asked to go ahead <strong>and</strong> stay out of earshot so the drivercould encourage his horses, using language not heard in church, tobring the departed up the hill <strong>and</strong> to his last resting place.When the roads were built <strong>and</strong> improved, the valley was spanned by abridge (Julianabrug) <strong>and</strong> carriages were used.On our free afternoons or holidays, it was exciting to roam around theharbour where all the trawlers <strong>and</strong> other fishing boats were moored.Uncle Joe (Aunt Lies’ husb<strong>and</strong>) had a business there, preserving herring<strong>and</strong> gherkins. He was always good for a pickled gherkin. <strong>The</strong>re were lotsof buildings where the herring <strong>and</strong> mackerel were smoked producing asmell I liked. We used to go to where the small lighthouse was <strong>and</strong>collect snails between the basalt blocks left dry by the low tide. Iremember doing this with Sally Whnschenk, a Jewish schoolmate. He<strong>and</strong> his family left for Engl<strong>and</strong> during the 1940 May war days; theyreturned after the liberation.Every Monday morning after school, it was a hurry home to watch theunloading of the pigs <strong>and</strong> other cattle at the local butcher shop, situatedin the Jacob van Heemskerkastraat, as the practice at that time was tobutcher the needed animals at the butcher-shop itself. <strong>The</strong> unloading ofthe pigs happened under close supervision of the neighbourhood kids (asa safe distance) <strong>and</strong> the biggest thrill was to see one escape <strong>and</strong> theensuing round-up.My attempt at gardening was in a space of 2 by 6 feet in the courtyard,but it never did very well. I suspect Klaar spit too many times in it.<strong>The</strong> potato-peelings <strong>and</strong> other leftover edibles were collected weekely bySneekes, who came by with horse <strong>and</strong> wagon. Once in a while I wasallowed to come along on his travels through town <strong>and</strong> then to thedunes, where he had his barn which was built into the dunes. <strong>The</strong> feedwas sorted <strong>and</strong> fed to his cows, tied in their stalls. I liked to be therewith the light coming through a few small windows <strong>and</strong> the smell of thecows in the barn. <strong>The</strong>re is nother left of it anymore, as Ijmuidenexp<strong>and</strong>ed <strong>and</strong> that palce is now a busy through way.


Every year, in the late part of the summer, the greengrocer came by withcrates filled with green <strong>and</strong> slicing beans. Everyone in sight was enlistedto snip off bean-ends, breaking or slicking beans, after which they weresalted away in wooden barrels <strong>and</strong> stored in the basement for later use.I also remember the “kant” (quay) <strong>and</strong> the harbour where the trawlersreturned from their fishing trips. After unloading their catch of fish, theywere pulled to the other side of the harbour, refitted again with ice, coal<strong>and</strong> victuals (<strong>and</strong> a few bottles of liquor I suppose), <strong>and</strong> made readyagain for another fishing trip lasting 10-12 days.Opa <strong>Prins</strong>, in his earlier days, owned more than then trawlers, butduring <strong>and</strong> after the depression quite a few were sold for scrap. I stillremember that he had six or seven, but that number had been reducedto two when the war started. His office was located on the quay with awarehouse <strong>and</strong> a machine shop. Anotehr warehouse close to the otherharbour (<strong>The</strong> Haringhaven) was destroyed in the war during an Allied airaid.Opa had two employees working in the warehouse fixing fishing nets <strong>and</strong>doing other jobs. In the corner of the yard was a liquid tar pit used tosoak the fishing nets. I never found out how deep that pit was but I wasalways scared to fall in <strong>and</strong> kept my distance. Thinkin gof it now, it stillscares me. When it was quitting time I made sure to be out of thebuilding so I wouldn’t be locked in. <strong>The</strong>re were wonderful objects storedin the warehouse, from lanterns to cork balls <strong>and</strong> wooden loadingchutes. Uncle Jack once used a chute to make a beach sailing boat, itsure went fast.<strong>The</strong> two trawlers Opa still owned when the war started were the Perseus<strong>and</strong> the Penelope. <strong>The</strong> Penelope was built by Hellyer’s Bros. In 1895 inHull Engl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> was bought by Opa’s company the Praxis in 1911.During the war she stayed in Ijmuiden <strong>and</strong> started fishing again July 17,1941, under strict control of the <strong>German</strong> occupying forces. <strong>The</strong>se shipsoften came under attack from the RAF <strong>and</strong> accidents did happen. <strong>The</strong>Penelope left Ijmuiden for the last time on January 31 1942. <strong>The</strong> nextday she was attacked <strong>and</strong> sunk. According to the book description,Master Frans van der Kuil (husb<strong>and</strong> of Aunt Antje) perished with hisship but according to Klaar, he survived that attack with a h<strong>and</strong> wound.<strong>The</strong> Perseus, built by Welton & Gemmell & Cook in 1897, was bought bythe Praxis in 1911. This ship left Ijmuiden’s harbour on May 8, 1940,with the oldest Master Teun Groen in comm<strong>and</strong>. Two days later the<strong>German</strong>s invaded Holl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> ship <strong>and</strong> crew fled to Engl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong>remained there during the five war years. <strong>The</strong>y continued fishing duringthose years with Fleetwood Engl<strong>and</strong> becoming their home harbour. After


the war, the Perseus sailed back home to Ijmuiden <strong>and</strong> was kept fishingfor a few more years. In June of 1951, she was sold for scrap.I have a copy of a painting of two of Opa’s ships, the IJM 44 Plejaden <strong>and</strong>another one, easy to recognize by their blue-white flag marking on thesmokestack. Beside the Holl<strong>and</strong> series of ships, the Praxis had shipsnamed after the Greek gods <strong>and</strong> all started with the name P. A fewnames come to mind like Plejaden, Pan, Pluto, Pollux <strong>and</strong> then of coursePenelope <strong>and</strong> Perseus. I have a small wooden model of the Perseus,made by Klaar <strong>Prins</strong>. He is my Uncle really, but we were so close in agethat I never got around to it to calling him Uncle, I don’t think he minds.In the family video he is the guy you see so bravely trampling throughthe snow.Aunt Antje lived a few houses down the street from Oma, <strong>and</strong> I went tovisit her quite often to roam upstairs where they had a closet full ofchildren books; names like Kik Trom <strong>and</strong> Pietje Bell come to mind. Withher son Jan, I practiced my skill with the air rifle, aiming at a target thatwas nailed to the fence.Uncle Antoon played soccer for the 'Stormvogels', at that time a firstdivision club. He was a good player once chosen as a reserve player forthe national <strong>Dutch</strong> soccer team. Soccer was played every Sundayafternoon except for the summer months. Once a week a game away,next week a home game. When they played at home, he always let mecarry his equipment bag so I would get in for free. After the gameeveryone congregated at home to chew over the game more than once. Apicture of him <strong>and</strong> the 'Stormvogels' can be found in the book'Nostalgisch Gezicht op Velsen Zuid & Ijmuiden' by Piet de Greef. Acrossfrom Kennemerlaan 7 was a smoke shop where people met whenStormvogels played in another town. As soon as the game was finished,they crowded in front of the shop window <strong>and</strong> craned their necks to readthe scores which the store proprietor wrote on a blackboard.Often in the evening if the weather was good, kids out of theenighbourhood played in the Jacob van Heemskerkstraat, but when itwas eight o’clock, Oma called me home, gave me a bowl of custard <strong>and</strong>then off to bed. Once in bed I could read for a while until she cameupstairs to turn off the light in the bedroom. On Tuesday night therewas a comic entertainment program on the radio from eight till nineo’clock. I liked to listen to that program, but it was off to bed for me. Iused to sneak out of bed, sit on the stairway steps to listen ‘til caught<strong>and</strong> then back to bed. Sometimes she gorgot to turn off the light <strong>and</strong>then I kept reading until I fell asleep. <strong>The</strong> light in the hallway alwaysstayed on because I was afraid of fire. <strong>The</strong> reason for that was probably


that for a long time on my way to school I had to pass by a burned-outgreengrocer’s store <strong>and</strong> that place smelled awful.Wednesday <strong>and</strong> Saturday afternoons, if I didn’t play soccer, I wentswimming. I rode my bike to the Velserbad with a dime in my pocket,five cents to park my bike <strong>and</strong> give cents to buy a ship discuit <strong>and</strong> washappy as a lark. On the old black & white movie we have you can see meplaying soccer on the old Stormvogels field; it must have been acompetition between the local schools.Once coming back from the beach, I think, Klaar <strong>and</strong> I tangled up theh<strong>and</strong>lebars of our bikes with me hitting the pavement <strong>and</strong> banging upmy head, bleeding like mad <strong>and</strong> I needed stitches; the scar is there stilltoday. Klaar looked underst<strong>and</strong>ably unhappy but he couldn’t help iteither.<strong>The</strong> farm in Aslsmeer has always played a big part in my life. As Imentioned already, my first visits there were with my parents, but theycontinued once I was living with my gr<strong>and</strong>parents. <strong>The</strong> first time UncleArie Kramp picked me up at home. He was married to a sister of OpaSohl with another sister of them being Rineke’s gr<strong>and</strong>mother. <strong>The</strong>y livedin IJmuiden in the Keizer Whilhelmstraat <strong>and</strong> had a furniture an draperystore there. This store was constructed out of two adjoining housesmade into one by opening up the inside wall. In the back of thecourtyard was his workshop where he repaired all kinds of furniture.Most people didn’t have cars yet <strong>and</strong> everything was delivered bypushcart or on the bike with a huge baggage carrier in the front. UncleArie put me in this carrier <strong>and</strong> off we went for the two or three hour tripfrom IJmuiden, through Haarlem <strong>and</strong> the Haarlemmermeer, to Aalsmeer<strong>and</strong> the Zuiderlegmeer, where the farm was situated. <strong>The</strong> first time Istayed for one week, later on longer <strong>and</strong> always during the summerholidays. I always tried to get there when it was harvest time; old stylesheaves were piled high upon the horse-drawn wagon <strong>and</strong> then the ridehomeards with Wim Biemond <strong>and</strong> I on top! Wim Biemond was agr<strong>and</strong>son of Aunt Aal, had a twin sister Ina <strong>and</strong> they lived kitty cornerfrom the Van Doorns on another farm. <strong>The</strong>y were about the same age asI <strong>and</strong> made perfect playmates. Wim <strong>and</strong> I played a lot together dammingoff ditches, building shaky bridges across them, constructing shelterswith straw bales in the hay shed. Looking back upon that time with allour activities, they put up with a lot. Later Klaar brought me <strong>and</strong> when Iwas old enough I rode my bike there by myself.I want to quote a saying that Uncle Arie often used:Het is zo gelegenDe een kwam de <strong>and</strong>er tegen


En zo hebben ze elkaar gekregen.Translated freely:This is the case<strong>The</strong> one met the otherAnd that is how they got each other.I also remember that in their store closets, the top shelves were piledhigh with bill-copies of ages ago <strong>and</strong> I wondered why they kept all these!(Dini wonders the same, why I keep all my old farm bills from day one).Aunt Anna Kramp, Opa Sohl’s sister, had a conservative outlook on life.In their furniture store they also sold carpets. Carpets had to be cleanedwith a brush <strong>and</strong> once week they were rolled up <strong>and</strong> dragged outside tobe hung over a wooden railing <strong>and</strong> beaten to remove the dirt. Whenvacuum cleaners came onto the market, Aunt Anna was dead set againstthem until she noticed that the carpets cleaned by vacuum wore out wayfaster than the ones cleaned the old fashioned way. How she changedher mind about vacuum cleaners.I’m not finished with the farm yet. Besides bringing in the grain crop,there were many other things to do like feeding the yard animals <strong>and</strong>gathering the eggs. One time I went out with the egg pail to the chickenhouse <strong>and</strong> other stops where they were hiding their eggs. One hen wasstill on the nest; when I approached her she flew up towards me <strong>and</strong> Istepped back, fell right into the pail with eggs, I must have yelledbecause Alie came running out of the house to see what was the matter.<strong>The</strong>y were rather nice about it, but there were many broken eggs thatday.Willem, one of the sons, had a subtle way of putting you in your place.When I was boasting of how far I could jump in gymnastics, he took meto the widest part of a waterfilled ditch (sloot) <strong>and</strong> told me to show himhow far I really could jump. I always made it across, but a few times hehad to reach out to catch me.In the evening we often walked to the back of the farm to the 'ringvaart'(canal) for a refreshing swim. <strong>The</strong> only problem was that the bottomalong the edges was very muddy <strong>and</strong> you had to wade through that muckbefore it was keep enough to swim.Until the war started my first mother used to come to IJmuiden to visither parents once a month <strong>and</strong> also wanted to see me. (At that time shelived in <strong>The</strong> Hague <strong>and</strong> was a dressmaker). She remarried in 1941 or1942. Her sisiter Aunt Truus then used to come to my gr<strong>and</strong>parents


(<strong>Prins</strong>) house to ask if I could come over to see my mother. It was alwaysallowed, however without enthusiasm. When the war started, our townpretty soon became a restricted area because it was situated on thecoast. Only people who lived there <strong>and</strong> had a valid reason were allowedto be there. My mother’s visits stopped then. When I think abouteverything now, I am sorry athat I didn’t visit my gr<strong>and</strong>pareants Sohlmore often, I practically went by their house every day when I went toelementary school; this must have hurt them. <strong>The</strong> first time I met myfirst mother again was after the war in 1947.Before the <strong>German</strong>s occupied IJmuiden the <strong>Dutch</strong> army was stationed inour town. Aunt Nel <strong>Prins</strong> met her future husb<strong>and</strong> at that time as he wasin the army, stationed in IJmuiden; after the war was over they did getmarried.I want to add a bit more about my gr<strong>and</strong>father <strong>and</strong> mother <strong>Prins</strong>. Opa<strong>Prins</strong> was born in Egmond <strong>and</strong> left school after finishing grade six.Egmond is a coastal town <strong>and</strong> fishing was the main source of income. Asa boy of twelve years old, he got a job on a fishing boat <strong>and</strong> became asuccessful Master of a trawler before he was twenty-three. <strong>The</strong>re was noharbour in Egmond, the trawlers used the harbour in IJmuiden <strong>and</strong>people from Egmond walked the distance between the two towns alongthe beach <strong>and</strong> this would take them 3 – 4 hours carrying their pack <strong>and</strong>some fish. Later he became a partner in the deep-sea fishing companyHoll<strong>and</strong> - Praxis. When he marrie dGrietje Zwart they settled inIJmuiden where my father was born on March 31, 1900. 11 morechildren were born to them (two died in infancy) <strong>and</strong> Oma was alwaysbusy to keep the household going. I can still remember how she slicedbread for the whole family, holding the loaf vertically against her chest<strong>and</strong> the knife horizontally, producing neat slices.Monday was washing day <strong>and</strong> a big wash it was for a family of more thanten people! No automatic washing machine or dryer yet. When theweather co-operated the clothes were hung to dry on clothes-lines strungup in the narrow lane (poort) beside the house <strong>and</strong> coming home withyour bike you had to find your way to the court-yard through the dryingwash. In the winter, the wash had to be dried indoors <strong>and</strong> the 'office'was used for that purpose; coal stove burning <strong>and</strong> the window open. Atother times I often played in this room <strong>and</strong> I especially remember ajigsaw-puzzle that I must have made a hundred times. Four separateunits made up the complete puzzle which had as subject the firstairplane flight delivering mail from Amsterdam to Batavia (now Djakarta,Indonesia). This room was also used by me to set up <strong>and</strong> play with myelectric Trix train which my dad brought along on one of his trips to<strong>German</strong>y.


4. 1941-1945<strong>Family</strong> NeervoortStyn de Boer & Alex<strong>and</strong>er (S<strong>and</strong>er) Neervoort = Oma & Opa NeervoortFive daughters & two sons1. Bart·marrie to Gerrit van de Outenaar2. S<strong>and</strong>er·married to Pollon Harrelaar3. Jannie·was marrie to Dalmeyer4. Mary·married to Jan Tol5. Anna·married to Philip <strong>Prins</strong>6. Meindert·married to Corrie Dekker7. Styn·married to Cor Visser*Jan Tol is another Stormvogels player seen in the picture with UncleAntoon.**Cor Visser was a captain in the merchant marine. Peter Knorren’sfather sailed with him as a machinist. (Peter Knorren is Rineke’s Kalfhusb<strong>and</strong>.)<strong>Family</strong> van Doorn (Farm in Aalsmeer)Alida Hermina Sohl & Willem van Doorn = Aunt Aal <strong>and</strong> Uncle WillemFive daughters & four sons1. Jannie·married to Jan Biemond (Teunis, Ali, Wim <strong>and</strong> Ina)2. Dina·not married3. Klaas·not married4. Neel·marriend to Jacob van Zyverden5. Kee·married to Jan Buys6. Hannes·not married7. Ali


·not married8. Willem·married to Sara Jongstra (Ali, Wim, Siep, Dirk, Saartje <strong>and</strong> Klaas)9. Harry·married to Nel van der MeerMemories of Aunt Styn Visser-NeervoortShe lived in the President Krugerstraat 78 as long as she can remembertill she got married to Uncle Cor Visser. As far as she knows,everydaughter married out of that house, the only time the front doorwas used! However, the second daughter Jannie separated from herhusb<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> came with her daughter Jeanne back to live at home.Uncle Cor was studying fo rhis fourth rank mate rating, commutingbetween IJmuiden <strong>and</strong> Amsterdam when he met Aunt Styn at a dance inthe Willem Barendz, a popular entertainment place in those days. At theend of the evening he asked her if he could walk her home to which shesaid yes. From that point on it eventually progressed to a happymarriage. <strong>The</strong> first part of their marriage they lived in the VanSpilbergenstraat with her mother-in-law. From there they moved toAmsterdam, Amstelveen, Schoorl, Bergen <strong>and</strong> finally to the isl<strong>and</strong> ofSchiermonnikoog.This isl<strong>and</strong> is one of the Wadden Zee isl<strong>and</strong>s on the north coast ofHoll<strong>and</strong>. Uncle Cor’s parents were born there, but moved later on toIJmuiden. His dad was one of the Spanish flue eqidemic victims in 1919.After their daughter Hennie was born, their only regret was that theydidn’t get anymore children. And she told me it was not that didn’t try!Being the wife of a merchant marine captain meant being long periods oftime separated from him; but visits to the family in IJmuiden <strong>and</strong> theother way around were often made. And she joined him for a fewvoyages, enjoyed by both of them.Dad’s 2nd Marriage <strong>and</strong> Sister AnnekeAunt Styn, the youngest sister of my second mother, told me that Anna<strong>and</strong> my father met after a Stormvogels soccer game. Uncle Antoon, <strong>and</strong>(later) Uncel Jan Tol who was married to Mary, sister of Anna <strong>and</strong> Styn,were team mates <strong>and</strong> after the game they often enjoyed a drink of <strong>Dutch</strong>gin at Willem Koster’s establishment. Friends <strong>and</strong> supporters camealong too <strong>and</strong> it was there where my dad was introduced to Anna.Sometimes after that, I met her <strong>and</strong> the rest of the Neervoort family whowere living in the President Krugerstraat 78. On a Sunday morning we


hair with a cute face, even then already! I was happy <strong>and</strong> never thoughtof her as a half sister, she was my sister till the end of her life.<strong>The</strong> War YearsWW 2 started for the Netherl<strong>and</strong>s on May 10, 1940; the fighting lastedonly five days as the <strong>Dutch</strong> capitulated after the Luftwaffe bombed thecentre part of Rotterdam with a loss of more than a thous<strong>and</strong> civilianlives. We were occupied by the <strong>German</strong>s for five years.<strong>The</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> garrison in IJmuiden had the necessary firepower to down<strong>German</strong> aircraft <strong>and</strong> this did happen. One bomb came down on theJuliana bridge, close to where we lived. This made a lot of noise butthere was not much damage done to the surrounding area <strong>and</strong> thehouses in that neighbourhood. After the capitulation, when the<strong>German</strong>s arrived to occupy IJmuiden, they marched through the JulianaKade, but not many people came out to watch. <strong>The</strong>re were numerousstreets <strong>and</strong> quays named after the Royal House of Orange, but afterawhile they were renamed; names now less offensive to the <strong>German</strong>s <strong>and</strong>their sympathizers. <strong>The</strong> original name-plates, so I heard, were carefullykept <strong>and</strong> hidden in a safe place till after the war was over when the nonameplates were removed <strong>and</strong> the original plates mounted in theirrightful places.During the actual five days of fighting in May 1940, there were manyJewish people fleeing to Engl<strong>and</strong>. <strong>The</strong>y crowed the fishing harbour,trying <strong>and</strong> succeeding to buy passage upon some of the trawlers leavingfor Engl<strong>and</strong>. <strong>The</strong>re were lots of big cars left at the Kennemerplein. Onewho did not go was Mr. Van der Zyl. He <strong>and</strong> his wife ran a camera <strong>and</strong>portrait store a few houses down from where we were living in theKennemerlaan. It must have been in 1943 when they were deported. Iwas visiting in the house across from their store when 2 <strong>German</strong> policeofficers came <strong>and</strong> took them along. I don’t know if they came back afterthe war.When the <strong>German</strong>s declared war upon Russia in June 1941, it was abeautiful Sunday morning <strong>and</strong> they hung lots of banners with the V signin the street. One of our high school math teachers, Mr. Kleefstra, wastaken into custody as a hostage <strong>and</strong> was interned at the Vught camp; hewas released with a shaved head <strong>and</strong> he was quite skinny.During the war, the occupying <strong>German</strong>s established a garrison inIJmuiden <strong>and</strong> laid claim to the fort <strong>and</strong> several schools including ourschool, the Cort van der Linden school. We had to move <strong>and</strong> share aschool with mentally h<strong>and</strong>icapped children. When it came to playingsoccer in the schoolyard they certainly were not h<strong>and</strong>icapped; you better


watched your shin bones. We always played before school started <strong>and</strong>during recess. Later, this school became the post office <strong>and</strong> some timeafter I left for Canada it was demolished. Presently there is now a newhome for retired people where Uncle Phil <strong>and</strong> Aunt Lena now live. This isthe same street where I used to live; the Houtmanstraat.<strong>The</strong> <strong>German</strong> army was building trenches quite close to where we wereliving <strong>and</strong> they had a huge barn there where thy stalled their horses(never mind the 'mechanization' of the Wehrmacht!). Most of thesehorses were requisitioned from the <strong>Dutch</strong> farmers.In the beginning of the war live mainly went on as usual, but more <strong>and</strong>more changes <strong>and</strong> restrictions were imposed upon us as the warprogressed. Of course this is all seen through the eyes of a twelve-yearold boy. In the movies about the war, you quite often see rifle-totingsoldiers at every corner of the street. This, I definitely don’t remember.Later on when the underground resistance came into being, they hadmore to fear from the Gestapo, Sicherheidsdienst <strong>and</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> informers.(A <strong>German</strong> you usually would recognize him by his accent; a <strong>Dutch</strong>informer you wouldn’t). <strong>The</strong> underground resistance groups aided Jewswho faced deportation to the concentration camps <strong>and</strong> other personswho refused to go <strong>and</strong> work in the <strong>German</strong> factories with hiding places<strong>and</strong> rationing cards. As he war progressed more <strong>and</strong> more food rationingcame into effect.All the news on the <strong>Dutch</strong> radio stations was censored of course by the<strong>German</strong> authorities, but people tried to listen to the BBC stations fromEngl<strong>and</strong> but this was illegal <strong>and</strong> the stations were 'jammed' <strong>and</strong> it wasimpossible to get a clear sound. Later on, all the radios were to beh<strong>and</strong>ed in but not everybody did, so the underground press had stillaccess to radio Oranje in Engl<strong>and</strong>.By the end of 1942 half of the town of IJmuiden was being evacuatedbecause the <strong>German</strong>s needed room to build their 'Atlantic Wall. Nonessential<strong>and</strong> older people were moved to Friesl<strong>and</strong> in the northern partof Holl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> considering what followed in the 1944 'hunger winter'those people were relatively well off. Opa <strong>and</strong> Oma <strong>Prins</strong> moved acrossthe North Sea canal to the Geelvinkstraat because Uncle Cor, who wasstill living at home, worked at the Hoogovens Steel Works. <strong>The</strong>y livedthere for year <strong>and</strong> a half <strong>and</strong> then they had to move again.During this time the underground resistance assassinated a policemanwho collaborated with the <strong>German</strong>s; he lived in the same neighbourhoodas my gr<strong>and</strong>parents. <strong>The</strong> <strong>German</strong>s retaliated by conducting a 'razzia'(door to door roundup of people). Young men found would be deported to<strong>German</strong>y. <strong>The</strong>y were just having breakfast at Oma’s house <strong>and</strong> Uncle


Jack <strong>and</strong> Klaar disappeared into the crawlspace under the house. <strong>The</strong>seating at the breakfast table was rearranged to 'cover-up' for the twomissing man <strong>and</strong> the <strong>German</strong> soldiers left without suspecting that twomen hiding right below their feet!From the Geelvinkstraat in Velsen-North Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa moved to theGerritse house on the Zeeweg in Beverwijk. In the backyard of thathouse were horse stables, an interesting place for me to roam around.<strong>The</strong> next house was called the 'Rommel' house (the family Rommel usedto live there). <strong>The</strong> English word for rommel is messy. <strong>The</strong>y lived in thishouse ‘til the war was over. After the war, when the house in theKennemerlaan was made liveable again they moved back there.My dad, mom, Anneke <strong>and</strong> I also had to move more inl<strong>and</strong> but stayed inIJmuiden because my dad’s job was essential, re-aligning compasses forthe fishing boats but later he also had to do this same job on <strong>German</strong>torpedo boats. First we lived for awhile on the Zeeweb, a house close tomy former home on the Fazantenlaan. We lived there together withUncle Antoon <strong>and</strong> Aunt Aredje; that arrangement didn’t work out toowell, the use of the kitchen being the main bone of contention. Wemoved to Rembr<strong>and</strong>laan 67, where we stayed till the last months of1944.Our high school building was occupied by the <strong>German</strong> army <strong>and</strong> we hadto share a building with another school. This meant shorter class time<strong>and</strong> only school in the afternoon. In our free time we played soccerwherever we could find a place to play. Once somebody stepped hard onmy instep with his feel which caused a deep cut <strong>and</strong> needed stitches. Iwalked to Dr. Rutte’s house <strong>and</strong> had it taken care of. It was a hot day<strong>and</strong> when walking home, when about half way, I had to sit down on thesidewalk to clear my head. But once closer to home I fainted. (I was toldthis later on.) <strong>The</strong>y must have called my dad. He came, picked me up<strong>and</strong> carried me home. He was not such a physically strong man <strong>and</strong> Inever forgot this; he really was there when I needed him.Gradually during the war, the Allied forces started bombing runs into<strong>German</strong>y <strong>and</strong> other parts of occupied Europe; some of it directed atstrategic targets like railway emplacements, the steelworks <strong>and</strong> theharbour, but most of the flights were high in the sky on their way to<strong>German</strong>y. During the spring of 1943 <strong>and</strong> 1944, still under <strong>German</strong>occupation, the war for them in Russia took a heavy toll upon theirarmy. When <strong>German</strong> troops were relieved for a while, they came toHoll<strong>and</strong> in their white painted war equipment <strong>and</strong> were very glad to bealive <strong>and</strong> to be in the west.


As the war progressed, provisions became scarcer <strong>and</strong> I made more tripsto the farm in Aalsmeer to supplement our shrinking supplies. I camehome with wheat, milk, cheese etc. Aunt Aal made a remark about thisafter the war which I still remember. She said: "We always have hadfamily visiting us (before the war), but during the war the family tripledin size!"During the final year of the war (we didn’t know that at the time ofcourse) everything deteriorated in a hurry. We knew the invasion wasimminent but in the newspapers we were still reading that <strong>German</strong>y waswinning upon all fronts. In the third week of September 1944 we saw theglider fleet from Engl<strong>and</strong> fly over l<strong>and</strong> to l<strong>and</strong> near Arnhem. We figuredthe war for us would be over in no time, but it was not to be.It must have been October or November that year when we had to moveagain; this time to the Kennemerlaan 142. <strong>The</strong> <strong>German</strong>s had their gunspositioned on the Moerberg, the highest dune at the south side of thetown. To have an unobstructed view on the canal locks <strong>and</strong> the railwaybridge across the canal they moved in the wrecking crews <strong>and</strong> tore downall the houses in their way, including the house we lived in. In a way,this was not that disastrous for us for we had lots of doors, windowframes <strong>and</strong> beams to burn to keep us warm <strong>and</strong> to cook the food. And Istill have my mangled thumbnail to show for it.<strong>The</strong>re were, beside the army, the sea forces (Kriegsmarine) stationed inIJmuiden. <strong>The</strong>re main force consisted out of torpedo boats <strong>and</strong> I haveseen some one or two man U-boats in the harbour. Of the later ones, Idon’t know if they ever employed them; they looked more like suicideboats to me.During the last year of the war, as mentioned before, provisions werebecoming very scarce. Bread was baked at home from wheat obtainedfrom the farm. This wheat was milled at home in a h<strong>and</strong>-cranked coffeegrinder.To increase the volume squashed tulip bulbs were added to thedough. It gave the bread a sweet taste, but at least it was edible. Syrupwas made by boiling a mixture of shredded sugar beets <strong>and</strong> water, thanseparating the pulp from the liquid.<strong>The</strong>re was no school during those last months. <strong>The</strong> railway workers wereon strike <strong>and</strong> all essential services ground to a halt. Electricity <strong>and</strong> gaswere cut off <strong>and</strong> we had only the bare minimum of food. Once a month Iwent to the farm <strong>and</strong> they helped us through that 'hunger' winter. I alsowent with Aunt Lena on the bike to the eastern part of Holl<strong>and</strong> (Overysel<strong>and</strong> Drente) to buy food, mainly rye. My bike had one 'good ' tire <strong>and</strong> onenon-inflatable <strong>and</strong> the trip took us six days. You always had to watchout for checkpoints on the road; they would confiscate your stuff if you


were too heavy loaded. An ideal checkpoint for them was the bridgeacross the river Ijssel, everybody coming out of the east had to use thatbridge <strong>and</strong> indeed, there they were. We teamed up with two ladies, threegoing across the first time, each with a part-load. Than two of us back<strong>and</strong> then across again with another part of the obtained supplies. Wemoved everything we had without loss.<strong>The</strong> trip to Aalsmeer took me two to three hours, depending on the winddirection which always seemed against me, coming or going. <strong>The</strong>household on the farm had grown to double its normal size. <strong>The</strong>re werea few guys who had gone 'under ground' because they didn’t want to goto <strong>German</strong>y to work in the factories. <strong>The</strong>n there was the Dirk Kalf familywho are related to my Opa Sohl <strong>and</strong> Aunt Aal. Dirk Kalf had butcheredanimals without a permit <strong>and</strong> was going to be locked up, something hedidn’t appreciate very much. <strong>The</strong>y, the Kalf family, came to farm <strong>and</strong>stayed till the war was over. <strong>The</strong> family consisted of the parents Nel <strong>and</strong>Dirk <strong>and</strong> the children Hans, Rineke <strong>and</strong> Adri. I met them for the firsttime there on the farm. During the fifties, the family emigrated toEdmonton in Canada <strong>and</strong> in 1968 I moved with my family from TerraceBC to Fort Saskatchewan; we met again <strong>and</strong> our families have been closefriends since that time.15 December 1944It is not easy to write about what happened that day. It was a disasterthat affected the whole family, each in his or her own way. <strong>The</strong> daystarted normal enough with my dad leaving home to go to the harbour todo his work on the boats; once on his way he came back to get a paperbag so he could bring us some sugar. This caused a ten-minutes delaywith a life-long impact.We had had some air attacks before, mainly aimed at the harbour <strong>and</strong>the steelworks <strong>and</strong> some misdirected bombs which had left a lot of hotshrapnel in the streets. This particular day the air attack came at tenminutes after three in the afternoon. My mother was grocery shopping atMr. Ott’s store. And at that same time she had a premonition thatsomething had happened to my dad. She came running home, veryupset <strong>and</strong> crying. I went to the harbour to see if I find anything outabout my dad but the police had blocked the road to the harbour <strong>and</strong>they didn’t let me go through. I never go to the place where the bombhad hit.I went to see Obersteuerman Lange whom we knew <strong>and</strong> he confirmedthat my dad was on the boat that was returning to the bunker <strong>and</strong> hadbeen only 20 - 30 years away from safety. Apparently the bomb hadfallen beside the boat amidships. A few days later when Opa <strong>Prins</strong>,


Uncle Jack <strong>and</strong> I went to the harbour, we saw the aft <strong>and</strong> the front bowof the boat sticking straight out of the water. <strong>The</strong>y had brought in afloating crane <strong>and</strong> first lifted the front end out of the water. <strong>The</strong>re wereno bodies in there. <strong>The</strong>n they lifted the aft part <strong>and</strong> found nine bodies,but not my dad. He was never found, the only thing they recovered washis jacket. <strong>The</strong> nine men were originally buried in the cemetery on theHavenkade. Aunt Annie Zwart told me that the remains were lifted in theseventies <strong>and</strong> reburied in <strong>German</strong>y.According to Aunt Nel the pastor of our church, pastor Moleman, at firstrefused to have a memorial service for my dad because he never attendedchurch services. Opa <strong>Prins</strong> must have written to the bishop to request aservice <strong>and</strong> this service was held in the Good Shepherd church where theAnglicans were temporarily worshipping. After the initial refusal Opa<strong>Prins</strong> must have said, "If there is no service for my son you will never seeme or my family in this church again".Because my dad was missing <strong>and</strong> his remains were never found, he wasofficially declared deceased five years later. Even now, when I am inIJmuiden <strong>and</strong> walk by the Haringhaven, I am still reminded of whathappened during those December days in 1944.It must have been March or April of 1945, when, by prior agreementbetween the occuping <strong>German</strong> forces <strong>and</strong> the Allies, planes came over<strong>and</strong> dropped supplies for us at pre-designated fields, food as flour <strong>and</strong>dried eggs. This food was supplied by the Swedish Red Cross. <strong>The</strong> prioragreement was necessary, so that the planes would not be fired on by the<strong>German</strong>s. It must have been one of these flights, when they flew at lowaltitude over my hometown. Being an agile boy of fifteen years I wassitting on top of our roof, watching them fly over, the planes being lowenough to see some of the personnel in their Plexiglas enclosures, wavingat him <strong>and</strong> he waving back at me.(Photo) <strong>The</strong> Quay, where we watched5. 1945 - 1955Years After the WarAfter the war, life slowly returned to normal. We were liberated by theCanadians. When they entered the town with their jeeps <strong>and</strong> other warmaterial there was no comparison between the reception they received<strong>and</strong> the <strong>German</strong>s in 1940. <strong>The</strong> Canadians of course were quite popularwith the <strong>Dutch</strong> citizens, especially their evening parade, jeeps, cigarettes<strong>and</strong> chocolate. When my sister Anneke tasted chocolate for the first timeshe asked me what it was!


<strong>The</strong> streets were crowded with excited people who were so glad the warfinally for them was over <strong>and</strong> done with. <strong>The</strong>re was a lot of partying <strong>and</strong>dancing in the streets. Of course it was a different matter for the Nazicollaborators, one of them was Uncle Joe, the gherkin man. He was anactive member of the <strong>Dutch</strong> National Socialist Party (NSB) <strong>and</strong> a member<strong>and</strong> spent a few years in an internment camp. Aunt Lies <strong>and</strong> their sonstayed that time with Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa <strong>Prins</strong>. When he was released, theymoved into their own house again.<strong>The</strong> Canadians disarmed the <strong>German</strong> forces; piles of small arms werecollected upon the field behind the high school building. <strong>The</strong> disarmedsoldiers were used to clean up the l<strong>and</strong>mine fields in front of the tankwall. After a days work they were required to walk side by side acrossthe cleaned field. I suppose they did a thorough job of finding <strong>and</strong>removing all the l<strong>and</strong>mines. <strong>The</strong>y were housed in the empty part of townuntil they could return to their homel<strong>and</strong>. Canadian sentries wereposted around this area to keep the <strong>Dutch</strong> <strong>and</strong> the <strong>German</strong>s separate.After a while, they were released <strong>and</strong> had to march back to <strong>German</strong>y.<strong>The</strong>y left a lot of clothing behind <strong>and</strong> some remarkable drawing upon thewalls of the houses where they had stayed. At the kennemerlaan 7 therain-collecting cistern was full of clothing.School started right away after the liberation, first in a school building inSantpoort, but it took a year yet before we were back into our originalhigh school building. <strong>The</strong> grade ten year was lost so straight from gradenine to grade eleven; to ease the hiatus the following exams were madeeasier for us. It was the first time for me to enter this building.Quite often when I had some free time in the morning, I went on the biketo the harbour to watch the arrivals <strong>and</strong> departures of the fishingvessels, always finishing the trip with a visit to Opa’s office. A big officewith two persons in it, Opa smoking his pipe <strong>and</strong> Mr. Verschoor, thebookkeeper, with a cigarette burning away in the ashtray. As Mr.Verschoor was quite deaf, you automatically raised your voice when youwere talking there, a habit carried over when you came home, so Maalways knew where I had been.During the war, any display of patriotism was strictly forbidden. Wecouldn’t fly the <strong>Dutch</strong> flag or sing the national anthem. After the warpeople were proud to fly the flag again <strong>and</strong> the singing of the anthem,'Het Wilhelmus' was often an emotional occasion.In the spring of 1946 I was confirmed as a full member of our church<strong>and</strong> joined the youth group DGS. In 1947, I wrote my high school examwith good results (not a brilliant student, but I made it).


In the meantime my mother, Anneke <strong>and</strong> I had moved to the ReinierClaessenstraat 31, as the former inhabitants of the house in theKennemerlaan wanted to come back to their original home. Financially itwas better for my mother to move to a smaller house because of thecheaper rent, but I never felt at home in the Reinier Claessenstraat. Itwas also a very small house. <strong>The</strong> second floor was kind of an attic withtwo bedrooms. Ma had an unused overhead light hanging in the atticright in the path to the rooms, so low that you had to duck your head.Long after the light was removed, I still ducked.I still was an avid soccer player, but my aspirations to play soccer anyhigher than at the junior level were dashed when I wrecked my rightknee during an exhibition match. I would have liked to pursue aseafaring career; I tried for the Royal Navy <strong>and</strong> later on for the merchantmarine but found out that my eyesight was not good enough for thoseprofessions. After discussions with my guardian (pretty hard to avoidthat), we made the decision to study veterinary medicine in the town ofUtrecht. I actually had preferred to study agriculture in Wageningen, butfinancial restrictions made Utrecht preferable because my gr<strong>and</strong>parentsSohl lived there at that time <strong>and</strong> I was able to live with them. Living withfamily also made it easier to get used to living away from my home-town.Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa Sohl lived in the centre part of the town on the OudeGracht, above a shop selling flutes. Opa had heart <strong>and</strong> prostate troublesbut couldn’t, because of his heart, be operated on anymore. He wasbedridden most of the time <strong>and</strong> passed away in the apring of 1948. Hewas buried in Utrecht; there is a picture of his grave in our picturebooks. Oma Sohl is buried there as well. <strong>The</strong> time I stayed with them Ialways had to clean his pipe <strong>and</strong> fill it with tobacco; you would knowwhen he didn’t want to smoke his pipe that he really felt bad.<strong>The</strong> second year I was in Utrecht I stayed in a rooming house full ofstudents, I passed my exams <strong>and</strong> called it quits.In the spring of 1948, I met Atie. I was studying in Utrecht already <strong>and</strong>was home for Easter. Part of our church youth group was putting on aplay with a dance to follow <strong>and</strong> I decided to stay one day longer so I couldattend. I don’t remember anything about the play anymore, except thatit was held in the Thalia theatre <strong>and</strong> the dance in the hall beside it. Wesat at a table with our regular group under the steel stairway. A cousinof Agatha Plug, another Agatha Plug, joined us <strong>and</strong> I think it was love atfirst sight for me. She had raven-black hair <strong>and</strong> blue eyes. When shewas nervous she showed a bit of a harelip <strong>and</strong> I thought it was cute. Ittook her a bit longer. We had a good time together for a year <strong>and</strong> a halfhad then we went each our own way again.


In the mean time, several marriages had taken place in the <strong>Prins</strong> family;Aunt Nel <strong>and</strong> Uncle <strong>The</strong>o Traa; Aunt Greet <strong>and</strong> Uncle jan Dykstra; Klaar<strong>and</strong> Leni van der Wolde; Uncle Cor <strong>and</strong> Aunt Doortje Rykeboer; <strong>and</strong>Uncle Jack married Aunt Maartje Smit.In February 1949, Oma <strong>Prins</strong> passed away. She was ill already for quitea while with diabetes <strong>and</strong> was on a diet prescribed by Dr. Rutte. Shewas buried at the Driehuis-Westerveld cemetery. Opa had a small benchinstalled at the graveside <strong>and</strong> it the weather was good twice a week hetook the train to Driehuis-Westerveld, sat at the grave of Oma <strong>and</strong>smoked his pipe. Opa <strong>Prins</strong> used his birthday cigars as pipe tobacco; hehad once a cancerous growth removed from the inside of his mouth,probably caused by his pipe.When Klaar married Leni, I thought there were three obstructions ontheir path, but more about that later. <strong>The</strong>y met in high school; whenLeni had some difficulties with chemistry, Klaar came to the rescue, butapparently not to teach her chemistry because at her final exam she triedto burn H+ ions! But she was pretty good in the language department<strong>and</strong> gave me a h<strong>and</strong> with learning proper <strong>Dutch</strong>. According to me, thegovernment went to the races; no she said, the government went onrecess.Back to the obstacles on their path. First, she came from Z<strong>and</strong>voort.Second, 'she isn’t one of the tallest ones'. Oma <strong>Prins</strong> must have said,"She is kind of small. She doesn’t show". Third, once when she stayedovernight at Oma’s <strong>and</strong> was going to her bedroom, she had to go throughthe men’s bedroom where she managed to squeeze Uncle Cor’s big toeinstead of Klaar’s. Wish I could have been there to hear that commotion!In the summer of 1949 Dick van Iren, a friend of mine, <strong>and</strong> I made abicycle trip through Holl<strong>and</strong> which took us about four weeks to complete.We went across the 'Afsluitdyk', through Friesl<strong>and</strong>, dropped down southto Limburg, then westwards <strong>and</strong> northwards back home again; <strong>and</strong> thatall for the cost of one guilder a day a person. We kept a journal of thistrip <strong>and</strong> I have that account now here in Canada.Other summer holidays I either worked for Opa at the Perseus, or laterGenius, Uncle Jack’s company. Uncle jack had started this businesswith two partners at Opa’s premises but a growing workload made itnecessary to exp<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> set up a new <strong>and</strong> bigger building. <strong>The</strong>windows, high up in the work hall, were all second h<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> I did all theremoving of the old putty, cleaning <strong>and</strong> priming.


When the Perseus was in the harbour it always was a hectic time to gether ready for sea again. Sometimes, she went with her first catch toEngl<strong>and</strong> to the auction market in Hull, if I am not mistaken. <strong>The</strong>n,fishing again bringing her catch this time to Kjmuiden. I made sure tobe there when she came into the harbour; most of times I cam away witha package of English cigarettes. I never had a chance to go along on afishing trip; with six bunks in the front <strong>and</strong> six bunks in the aft, <strong>and</strong> acrew of twelve men, there was no room for an extra sailor. Once, when itwas close to departure time <strong>and</strong> I was still aboard doing the odd job, theyopened a bottle of gin <strong>and</strong> passed it around. I had to take my turn. Idon’t remember if I liked it or not but it sure hasn’t been my last drink.Another time, when the boat was ready to sail, one man was still missingbut a little later we saw him coming, staggering towards the boat; youmight say he was drunk. With one foot balancing upon the jetty, he wasyelling that he wasn’t ready to go to sea yet. <strong>The</strong> mate though pulled himaboard <strong>and</strong> off they went to go fishing.I also like to mention another story of the farm in Aalsmeer. I oftenhelped in the field when I was there <strong>and</strong> on day after lunch when Klaas<strong>and</strong> I walked back to the field <strong>and</strong> funny thing happened. At the end ofthe yard was a dam, with a gate, across a water-filled ditch. <strong>The</strong> gatewas there to keep the cattle out of the yard. You never opened this gateor went over it but you would swing around the end post. An extra boardwas placed against this post <strong>and</strong> in the ditch, but apparently this boardwas not secured. When Klaas grabbed it to swing around the gate (heprobably wasn’t quite awake yet after his nap) he ended up in the waterfilledditch, fully submerged, his cap floating upon the duckweed. Ididn’t dare to laugh out loud, not knowing how he would react. Hecrawled out of the ditch, went back in the house to change clothes <strong>and</strong>off we went again to the field, this time without a mishap.After I left Utrecht, I studied for a year at a chemistry school in the centreof Amsterdam, close to the 'Muiderpoort' railway station. <strong>The</strong> thing Ilearned there was a methodical approach to chemical problems; <strong>and</strong> notmuch else. It was quite a neighbourhood; you only heard undilutedAmsterdam’s dialect spoken there. <strong>The</strong> café, where we ate our lunch,was frequented by the market merchants. <strong>The</strong>y treated you as if youwere one of their own; lots of salted comments when we played ournumerous games of pool.In the fall of 1950 I went to work at the MEKOG, a sister company of theSteelworks as an apprentice lab technician; they wanted to promote meto a first class technician when I left. You started working shift, directplants, all variations on the several processes of binding nitrogen.However, after a year or so, it became very routine work <strong>and</strong> when theyasked me to come <strong>and</strong> work in a pilot plant extracting potash out of


seawater, I didn’t hesitate too long. To explore this project, the MEKOG<strong>and</strong> a Norwegian company NORSK HYDRO formed a partnership underthe name of NORDUCO, to which company I now transferred. <strong>The</strong> ideawas to precipitate potash on a small scale by using 3 cubic meter/hourof seawater per hour. I worked in this set-up for over a year; interestingenough with constant process changes being made to determine severaldifferent ways of how to succeed. <strong>The</strong> next stage of 30,000 cubicmeter/hour plant never became a reality; the numbers showed that theprecipitation material losses were too high, so it wasn’t economicallyviable. Even then, they were concerned with the effect of the effluent; Iremember taking a lot of effluent samples <strong>and</strong> sitting in on meetingswhere results of the testing were discussed. As far as I experienced itthere, it was a pretty open atmosphere; all the technical problems wereon the table.When the pilot plant run came close to its end, a place became open inthe service department of the MEKOG lab. At that time, there wereapproximately 100 analysts working, divided over several departmentsincluding plant control, fertilizer, metals, gas, water <strong>and</strong> some research.<strong>The</strong> service department was an interesting lab to work; any unusualsamples that came in <strong>and</strong> didn’t fit into one of the regular labs came tothe service lab. Quite often it would be a mysterious substance broughtin by one or other engineer <strong>and</strong> he really wanted to know its consistency.Sometimes you had to construct some fancy contraptions to do youranalysis, but you could always depend upon the three glassblowers tocome up with something what would do the job for you. I liked to go tothe glassblowers place <strong>and</strong> watch them work; I never stayed too longthough. Here I met Ger Hofman who has been my friend ever since. <strong>The</strong>last year that I worked at the lab, I rented a room in the boarding housewere Ger <strong>and</strong> Pieter Meyer also stayed; Saturday nights were the 'talknights'with a bottle of wine <strong>and</strong> a package of cigarettes. (I quit!)During this time, Uncle Antoon got remarried to Ger <strong>Prins</strong> (a far relationin the Egmond family tree). Aunt Lena was the last of the brothers <strong>and</strong>sisters to get married. She married Uncle Phil <strong>Prins</strong>, who is the son of asister of Opa <strong>Prins</strong>, who herself had also married a distantly related<strong>Prins</strong>, so she was a <strong>Prins</strong>-<strong>Prins</strong> <strong>and</strong> so is Aunt Lena.Texel <strong>and</strong> Meeting Dini HaskenBy this time, I already had ideas about seeing something of the rest ofthe world. First, I wanted to go to New Zeal<strong>and</strong> (Australia, South Africaor the United States never attracted me), but being a lab technicianthough prevented me from being accepted as an immigrant to thatcountry.


A while after that, the <strong>Dutch</strong> government put a program in place to reschoolprospective emigrants. Farmers were always wanted <strong>and</strong> this iswhat we were taught to become. By that time I had decided that Iwanted to go to Canada, a bit closer to Europe <strong>and</strong> a more industrializedcountry. Peter Knorren went through the same experience as I, learninghow to become a farmer, except when he arrived in Canada, he never leftthe city of Edmonton anymore!Goodbye MEKOG <strong>and</strong> here I come Texel. In March 1954, I arrived on theisl<strong>and</strong> accessible only by ferry. We stayed in a bunkhouse close to ayouth summer camp in the vicinity of <strong>The</strong> Cocksdorp <strong>and</strong> almost rightunder the northern lighthouse. We were with some thirty to thirty-fivebike ride; then ten hours of work <strong>and</strong> a half-hour ride back. It took me awhile to get used to the work <strong>and</strong> the long hours <strong>and</strong> then in the eveningwe still had courses to follow in agriculture <strong>and</strong> English.Every fourth week we had along weekend <strong>and</strong> could leave Friday evening,but had to be back with the first ferry or train from home on Mondaymorning.<strong>The</strong> farmer I worked for invited me to eat my lunch with the family in thekitchen, gave me coffee with my s<strong>and</strong>wiches; not everyone was so lucky.I got along fine with the two hired men, Clemens <strong>and</strong> his son Joe.Making long days in the field, they had a lot of stories to tell about theisl<strong>and</strong>. Most memorable were the ones about the end of the war uprisingdidn’t succeed <strong>and</strong> the Russians suffered a lot of casualties. <strong>The</strong> farmwas situated behind the small local airport; this airport used only by themilitary. <strong>The</strong> airplanes used it to pick-up <strong>and</strong> drop decoys there used forfiring practices. <strong>The</strong> returning of dropped decoys in our field gave themen free plane rides, so they told me.In July, I was off work for two weeks because of an infection under mythumbnail caused by a non-removed sliver. I went to see the doctor in<strong>The</strong> Cocksdorp to get it removed, which he did without freezing. Ipromptly fainted; the only thing he said "Nobody will every know whathappened here". Small comfort!Dini arrived at the came when I was laid-up <strong>and</strong> how lucky she was tomeet me there right off the boat. We spent a lot of time together <strong>and</strong>later, during my long weekends, I went to Amersfoort to visit her <strong>and</strong>meet the Hasken family. <strong>The</strong> first time I went there, I wanted to make agood impression so I bought flowers for her mother. I liked her motherright away, but the other members of the family took some getting usedto. I had a 'discussion' with her dad about Texel <strong>and</strong> he proceeded bytelling me how much better he knew Texel than I did while I didn’t thinkhe had ever been there. Herman, her oldest brother came in, saw the


flowers <strong>and</strong> looked at them as if they were stinging nettles. I don’t thinkI met Johan at that time. <strong>The</strong>re were also the three younger siblingsBen, Loes <strong>and</strong> Jaap.Dini came twice to Texel between the long weekends to visit me; greattimes. Picking her up in Oude Schild from the ferry; seven people pilinginto a small Renault passenger car to go to Den Burg to a dance. Seemsto be safer than traveling the local bus when it was reported in theweekly paper "Prospective emigrant hurt, hit by falling suitcase". Back tothe dance, around a table full of prospective emigrants; buying oneround of drinks to get glasses <strong>and</strong> a full bottle under the table for refills!When the camp closed around Christmas time I went to a camp in theBeemster polder for a few months to work for another farmer <strong>and</strong> thiswas quite a change again; heavy clay up to your ankles <strong>and</strong> eat yourlunch in the horse stable.<strong>The</strong>n the medical <strong>and</strong> inoculation against smallpox. This took me out ofcirculation for a few days <strong>and</strong> I stayed in the Verloren van <strong>The</strong>maatlaanwith Aunt Maartje <strong>and</strong> Uncle Jack taking care of me.Early in March 1955, I was ready for Canada, or so I thought. UncleJack brought me to Rotterdam <strong>and</strong> I sailed from there on the Maasdam 4for Canada.(Photo-Uncle Jack, S Wedding)(Photo-Anneke Catherina)6. 1955 - 1959Emigrating to Canada<strong>The</strong> first part of the journey went pretty smooth. <strong>The</strong> 'Maasdam' dockedin Le Havre (France) then in Southampton (Engl<strong>and</strong>), Cobb (Irel<strong>and</strong>) <strong>and</strong>finally across the Atlantic Ocean to Halifax. <strong>The</strong> weather gotprogressively worse <strong>and</strong> I spent the last two days of the trip in my cabinin bed, not even able to eat <strong>and</strong> keep an orange down. It was a relief tofeel solid ground under my feet again when I stepped off the boat inHalifax.My destination was Calgary; it took four days <strong>and</strong> three nights on thetrain to get there. I came through Montreal, Winnipeg, Saskatoon <strong>and</strong>arrived in Calgary on March 20, 1955. My first impression was one ofsnow <strong>and</strong> rocks. How could anyone make a living here?I found a job on a dairy farm owned by Fred Anderson, a bachelorfarmer, who lived close to Balzac. Starting at five in the morning till


seven at night; one day off in the month <strong>and</strong> that only between themilkings. It was a primitive set-up with an old barn, no manure gutters,hauling out the manure with the wheelbarrow, etc.. Two months wasenough for me <strong>and</strong> I felt for Edmonton to stay a few days with the Kalffamily. I then took the train to Vancouver where I l<strong>and</strong>ed a job on adairy farm near Cloverdale, close to White Rock <strong>and</strong> just a few milesnorth from the US border.This job was a lot better. Bill Hartman was a decent guy to work for, thefarm a bit more modern, <strong>and</strong> the hours of work a little more humane.Bill Hartman had a nice way of getting things across to you by saying "Itell you a story" <strong>and</strong> then it came. I stayed there till the New Year,opened a bank account <strong>and</strong> bought my first vehicle, a 1952 Chevroletpick-up. I left the farm when Dave, Bills son-in-law, came to work on thefarm.<strong>The</strong> purchase of the truck cost me most of my money. <strong>The</strong>y wereadvertising for jobs in Kitimat to work in the newly started aluminiumsmelter; they were opening up new lines <strong>and</strong> needed personnel. I applied<strong>and</strong> had my medical in New Westminster; but now I needed money to getthere. I gug peat for two weeks to earn money to buy a plane ticket to flyto Terrace, the closest airport to Kitimat. It was my first plane flight ever!I worked there for the aluminium company, Alcan, <strong>and</strong> stayed there forover ten years.While digging peat I lived in New Westminster with the Berquist family.This was only for two weeks, but we stayed in contact for many yearsafter <strong>and</strong> visited with them a number of times. I left my truck with them<strong>and</strong> had it shipped to Kitimat later in the year.Bachelor Life in KitimatAfter I arrived in Terrace, I took the train to Kitimat as this was the onlyl<strong>and</strong> connection between the two towns. My arrival in Kitimat was anevent I will never forget. Coming from a green world (Vancouver) <strong>and</strong>stepping into a town in the middle of nowhere with snow banks five to sixfeet high (it was early February). I saw a line-up of men 'snaking' aroundthe hotel adjacent to the railway station trying to get into the beerparlour. Primarily a population of single men, living in bunkhouses, withthe beer parlour as the only entertainment, although there also was arestaurant <strong>and</strong> coffee bar close by <strong>and</strong> the waitresses there were verypopular. <strong>The</strong> next day we went to the smelter to join the workforce; busservice to <strong>and</strong> from the camp to the smelter site was free.My lodging was in Riverside camp; each bunkhouse provided shelter foreight men. <strong>The</strong>re were eight beds <strong>and</strong> eight chairs <strong>and</strong> an oil-heater; talk


about living out of a suitcase! <strong>The</strong> camp was still under constructionwith piles of plywood around; another guy <strong>and</strong> I organised a few sheets<strong>and</strong> built ourselves some shelves to stack our belongings. With eightmen to one dwelling, it was not any ideal arrangement as they weredivided to work over different shifts. Try to sleep when there are guystalking, coming <strong>and</strong> going. <strong>The</strong> bunkhouses were keph clean by a bullcook; he was usually half drunk <strong>and</strong> by the time he reached ourbunkhouse, his last one for that day, it was time to take a nap upon oneof our beds!Kitimat is located at the head of the Douglas Channel on the West Coastof British Columbia. It lies across they bay from Kitimat village, wherethe Haisla people, a branch of the Kwakiutl Indian Nation are living. Inthe Haisla language, Kitimat means 'people of the snow'.<strong>The</strong> Aluminium Company of Canada chose this location in 1950 forseveral reasons. By damming off the Nechako River further inl<strong>and</strong>, awater reservoir was created. Water from this reservoir was divertedthrough tunnels dug through the mountain to kemano, whtere turbinesgenerate the necessary power for the smelters in Kitimat. Aluminiumproduction depends on a cheap hydro-electric power source as was thecase here. Lots of money was made during the construction of thetunnels <strong>and</strong> how this money was spent with reckless ab<strong>and</strong>on was thetalk of the town. <strong>The</strong> power line had its ups <strong>and</strong> downs; the fifty milelong transmission line between Kemano <strong>and</strong> Kitimat was wiped out twiceby snow slides. After the second time, a by-pass was build around theslide area.Another reason to choose this location was the natural, deep sea harbourof the Douglas Channel which could accommodate the ships bringing inthe aluminium ore <strong>and</strong> shipping out the aluminium ingots.When the first construction crews to build the plant moved in during theearly fifties, an original paddle wheeler riverboat <strong>The</strong> Delta Queen wastowed in <strong>and</strong> moored close to the ocnstructiojn site. It was used toaccommodate the workers setting up the plant <strong>and</strong> later also the peoplewho worked in the production once the plant was running. <strong>The</strong> storywen tthat people there spent more time gambling than sleeping.<strong>The</strong> terrain around Kitimat was very rugged <strong>and</strong> inhospitable. In 1954an airplane disappeared with several people aboard <strong>and</strong> wasn’t founduntil two years later on top of a mountain. Due to an extremely hotsummer snow had melted at a higher level than usual <strong>and</strong> it was onlythen the remains of the plane were spotted.


<strong>The</strong> plant started up in 1954 with two pot lines; number 1 <strong>and</strong> number2. In that year the first shutdown occurred due to a snow slide whichdamaged the power line. <strong>The</strong> same thing happened again in 1957.A pot line consists of three buildings with two rows of pots each. <strong>The</strong>reare two sections in a building with approximately 27 pots per section,each section operated by three people: a crust-breaker operator, atrimmer <strong>and</strong> a section chief. Each crew worked an eight-hour shift.A pot consisted of a carbon anode <strong>and</strong> a carbon cathode (the inside wallof the pot) <strong>and</strong> contained a molten bath of Na3A1F6 (cryolite or“Greenl<strong>and</strong> spar”) serving as the electrolyte <strong>and</strong> A1203 (aluminium ore).In the process, the molten aluminium ends up in the bottom of the pot<strong>and</strong> this liquid metal will be tapped once a day. A 100 000 amp DCcurrent flows through the pots with a voltage difference of five volts ineach pot. <strong>The</strong> bath reaches a temperature of about 900 degrees Celsius.Extreme care had to be taken not to short-circuit a pot across the line ora part of the enclosing building, <strong>and</strong> to use only warm <strong>and</strong> dryequipment when checking a pot. A power failure lasting longer thaneight hour would cause the pots to “freeze” <strong>and</strong> the contects would haveto be broken up with a jackhammer <strong>and</strong> dug out.In the summer time it was extremely hot in the line, especially theafternoon shift from four o’clock till midnight. Tools were too hot toh<strong>and</strong>le without gloves, simples upon your bum from the crust breakerseat <strong>and</strong> I was guaranteed to lose twenty pounds every summer! <strong>The</strong> salttablet container was a well-used dispenser.<strong>The</strong> wintertime, temperature wise, was a lot easier to h<strong>and</strong>le <strong>and</strong> theweight came back on. If I was on shift during the Christmas days, the 25men who worked in the line on our shift chipped in for a few turkeys plustrimmings. Among the Italians we had on shift, there usually was a cook<strong>and</strong> he prepared the turkey, wrapped in foil, up on one of the pots. Weate in two groups as the sections couldn’t be left unattended. <strong>The</strong> fruitbasket (about one apple a person), our Christmas bonus from Alcan, wasdonated to the local hospital.Cooling air was provided by big fans, blowing air directly through gratesin the floor between the rows of pots. When I arrived in Kitimat lines 3, 4<strong>and</strong> 5 were under construction, differently designed then the originallines one <strong>and</strong> two. When they were ready I worked there for a while butwas glad to go back to line 2. In the new lines the cooling air was blownin to cool the pots first!In any case, the working conditions were not exactly for the faint ofheart, the smell, the dust, the smoke <strong>and</strong> the heat you had to endure


them all. I got hired on with approximately 35 men all at the same timebut after two weeks there were not more than ten to fifteen men left ofthat group.<strong>The</strong> camp caterer, Crawley McCracken, looked after us very well; goodfood <strong>and</strong> plenty of it. I refused a few overtime Sunday afternoon shiftswhen I didn’t want to skip my strawberry ice cream serving.Alcan built a more permanent camp, named Riverlodge, where two menshared one room. My roommate was an Italian named Joe; he was a niceguy but constantly broke, too many card games I suppose. Charges forroom <strong>and</strong> board were $1 a day, which amount was deducted from yourpaycheque. It was good deal if you figure that the hourly wage for asection chief was around the three dollars. My truck was shipped toKitimat from Vancouver by barge, paid for by Alcan oce I had worked forthe company for six months.In 1956 they started building a road from Kitimat to Terrace; at first agravel road with a Bailey bridge across the Kitimat River <strong>and</strong> you had todrive through two creeks where they were building permanent bridges.<strong>The</strong> last fifteen miles of the road between Lakelse hot springs <strong>and</strong>Terrace was an old logging trail winding in <strong>and</strong> out of the trees <strong>and</strong>along creeks. Sometimes in the early sixties a big chunk of this roadslid in the lakelse lake after a heavy rainfall. When that happened I wasliving in Terrace <strong>and</strong> I had a friend ferry my across the lake when I hadto go to work. It is now replaced by a newly constructed highway,reducing the travel time between the two towns by a fair margin, butsafety wise you were more careful with the old road. Once on our way towork for a Saturday night shift, we witnessed the aftermath of a head-oncollision on the new part of the highway, in which eight people werekilled; it sure slowed us down for quite a while.It was an improvement of course to be able to get out of town by car, butyou had better have a saw in the trunk because there often would be afallen tree across the road. It is tall timber country growing spruce,hemlock, fir <strong>and</strong> cedar trees in abundance. Once they logged a cedartree eleven feet in diameter. <strong>The</strong> sun didn’t penetrate too far in theseforests <strong>and</strong> there was still now on the ground in the month of June.Over the years I have seen my share of wildlife: moose, black bears, somewolves, lynx, a mountain lion <strong>and</strong> not to forget the bald eagles.During the first few years in Kitimat I befriended several families. It wasa treat for us camp inhabitants to sit in an easy chair <strong>and</strong> /or have ameal at the table. Mike <strong>and</strong> Ann Nykolaishen became good friends; they


came from Kenora in Saskatchewan <strong>and</strong> Mike <strong>and</strong> I worked the sameshift in the plant. Mike <strong>and</strong> Ann have passed away but we still havecontact with their daughter Barbara who has a family of her own <strong>and</strong>still lives in Kitimat. A while later I met Henry <strong>and</strong> Bethel Papenbrock,originally from Osnabruck <strong>German</strong>y. Henry <strong>and</strong> I also worked together<strong>and</strong> after work we washed each other’s back. Henry was a carpenter bytrade <strong>and</strong> he later helped me build my first house on the Graham road(this was after I had married). One of his sons, Andrew, lives not too farfrom us <strong>and</strong> keeps us posted about the rest of the Papenbrocks.<strong>The</strong>n there was 'Bies <strong>and</strong> his wife Jopie Bisenberger, a <strong>Dutch</strong> couplefrom Z<strong>and</strong>voort. Small world as he was a cousin of Klaar’s wife Leni.Jopie <strong>and</strong> Bies moved to Smithers BC a couple of years later. At thattime I lived in Terrace <strong>and</strong> once in a while we drove to Smithers to visitthem; more about them later in the journal.<strong>The</strong> road between Terrace <strong>and</strong> Smithers was built during the war by thearmy. Running mostly along the Skeena River there are several rockbluffs, which had to be blasted to facilitate the road building. <strong>The</strong> armyblasted just enough for a narrow two car passage with not much room tospare. Beside the rock bluffs the rest of the road was gravel, mostly'washboard' gravel after a rainy day. After we left Terrace for Alberta theywidened <strong>and</strong> straightened the road to a modern highway; some of thepassages through the rock costing more than a million dollars a mile.Once lines 3, 4 <strong>and</strong> 5 were on stream, we were able to make a lot ofovertime. For three weeks in a row I worked my regular 8 hour shift <strong>and</strong>right after that shift 8 hours overtime, then 8 hours of sleep <strong>and</strong> myregular shift followed by 16 hours off <strong>and</strong> repeat this work pattern. <strong>The</strong>extra money earned over these three weeks paid for a big part of myholiday in Mexico.I first flew to Vancouver <strong>and</strong> renewed acquaintances in the lowermainl<strong>and</strong>. I stayed with the family Berquist in New Westminster, <strong>and</strong> inthe mean time, obtained my visa to enter Mexico. I boarded theGreyhound bus for San Francisco <strong>and</strong> Los Angeles to stay a day in eachcity to visit the tourist spots <strong>and</strong> then via Arizona <strong>and</strong> New Mexico to ElPaso in Texas. When you travel through this part of the United Statesyou do not exactly see the 'American dream', at least that how it seemedto me in 1957. In El Paso I switched busses <strong>and</strong> it was another 36 hoursto Mexico City.To travel through that country was quite an experience. <strong>The</strong> only greenareas you see are the irrigated areas. Whenever the bus encountered adetour on the road you just travel on through the fields beside it <strong>and</strong>when the road was alright again up we went <strong>and</strong> on the road again. On


the bus I met three other Canadians <strong>and</strong> we pretty well stayed togetherfor the rest of the trip. Mexico City was a busy city with many peoplebegging for h<strong>and</strong>-outs; but there were nice parks where you could sitdown <strong>and</strong> soak up the sunshine, beer parlours with betting games <strong>and</strong>singing, a boat ride in the floating gardens, bullfights <strong>and</strong> lots ofbeautiful churches <strong>and</strong> of course lots of beautiful <strong>and</strong> friendly girls.One of the things I didn’t like when they took us along to the cockfights.<strong>The</strong>re is a lot of betting going on at those fights but I thought it wascruel. <strong>The</strong>n for a week off to Acapulco to the beaches <strong>and</strong> to drink beerat the marketplace. <strong>The</strong>y had warned us not to drink the tap water <strong>and</strong>only once I forgot with dire consequences! Travel in Mexico City is anadventure in it self. Taxi is the mode of transportation, it was fairlycheap <strong>and</strong> the drivers brought you were you wanted to go <strong>and</strong> sometimeswhere you didn’t want to go. Cab drivers used to stop in the middle of anintersection, have their windows turned down <strong>and</strong> conduct livelyarguments with each other accompanied by gesturing <strong>and</strong> yelling, nevermind the traffic. When my holidays were over, I flew back from the cityto Vancouver. My last night in Mexico City was a night to remember <strong>and</strong>I didn’t sleep at all so when I boarded the plane at six thirty in themorning the flight attendant thoughtfully h<strong>and</strong>ed me a balnket <strong>and</strong>pillow; I woke up once an dremember seeing the Gr<strong>and</strong> Canyon from wayup high.Back in the pot lines again, I started saving money for a trip back toHoll<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> I also invested some money in a rental house in Terrace onthe Keith road. Henry <strong>and</strong> Bethel had moved to Terrace <strong>and</strong> I visitedthem quite often on my days off.In Kitimat, I went into partnership with Bies <strong>and</strong> Jopie to run the coffeeshop in the YMCA building. This building was situated in the Riversidecamp complex, adjacent to the mess hall <strong>and</strong> the post office. <strong>The</strong>re wereapproximately 1000 men living in Riverlodge, but even with so manysingle men around, the coffee bar wasn’t very profitable. I put up themoney to get it going <strong>and</strong> it gave me something to do in my spare time.We had to work long hours, first to come <strong>and</strong> last to leave; I ended upwith $200 profit for a year of work. <strong>The</strong> camp slowly but surely wasclosing down, they didn’t fill any empty rooms anymore. I wanted out<strong>and</strong> Bies wanted to stay so he <strong>and</strong> Jopie ran the coffee shop after theybought me out. <strong>The</strong>y closed shop within a year; no more business.Life in Kitimat ahd its moments! <strong>The</strong> average snowfall over the winter is20-33 feet <strong>and</strong> it happened more than once that you had to dig yourvehicle out of the snow bank. <strong>The</strong> town was prepared for it though withplenty of graders <strong>and</strong> snow blowers available to keep the roads passable.<strong>The</strong>re are several hills in the town <strong>and</strong> once on a bus during a heavy


snowfall all male passengers had to get off the bus <strong>and</strong> push it up thehill <strong>and</strong> then we jumped back on again.Bears a plenty. Behind the plant property was a dump site; when I wason afternoon shift in the summertime, we often saw eight or more blackbears scavenging for food.During the spring <strong>and</strong> summer, the Kitimat River was a favourite placeto relax <strong>and</strong> many people (Mike nykolaishen) liked to cast a line. <strong>The</strong>rewas a bulldozed path from Riverlodge camp to the river <strong>and</strong> one daywhen I walked to the river I met a black bear scrounging away. I don’tknow who was more surprised, the bear or I; at least the bear took off ina hurry <strong>and</strong> so did I. My picture-taking try wasn’t too successful either.In the summer, we looked eagerly towards our days off to escape the heatof the pot line. Often we bought a few pounds of scrap meat to catchcrabs off the wharf; we boiled them on an open fire <strong>and</strong> with a case ofbeer it was a good way to end a summer’s day.In the summer time after day shift we usually stopped to have two beersin the beer parlour, at least you kept your appetite <strong>and</strong> in any case thebeer tasted better than the lukewarm milk they served with supper.Once in one or other summer I went with a few guys on a trip to a lakeclose to Mount Elizabeth; we build a shelter <strong>and</strong> stayed there over night.Another time, I went exploring by myself towards the bay <strong>and</strong> came upona deserted Indian village; later on I heard that it was the earlier livingplace of the Indians across the channel. Across the bay we could seeKitimat village, only accessible by boat. Some of the natives worked atthe plant.(Photo-Newspaper Clipping)8. 1959 - 1968<strong>Family</strong> Hasken (future in-laws)Lummigje Niessink & Herman <strong>German</strong> Gerhard Hasken = Oma & OpaHaskenTwo daughters & four sons1. Dini·married to Jacob <strong>Prins</strong>·children: Philip, Robert, Caroline2. Herman·married to Marja van Voorst·children: Mary-Lou, Ellen, Herman, Scott


·living in Wisconsin, USA3. Johan·married to Ellen Dykshoorn·children: Anoesjka, Merlyn·living in the Netherl<strong>and</strong>s4. Ben·married to Juliana Duyser·children: Maarten, Hugo, Steven·living in the Netherl<strong>and</strong>s5. Loes·was married to Sicco Hoekstra·children: Mir<strong>and</strong>a, Marcel·living in Fort Saskatchewan6. Jaap·was married to Genevieve van Hal·children: Melanie·living in Josephburg(Photo-No comment-Balcony lange nieuwstraat)Marriage to Dini HaskenDuring my Kitimat years, I did keep contact with Dini. Ourcorrespondence had its high <strong>and</strong> its low points, <strong>and</strong> when I went onholidays to Holl<strong>and</strong> in December 1958, I certainly planned to surpriseher with a visit! I had saved my holidays for 1958, took some from 1959,<strong>and</strong> got a four-week leave of absence. <strong>The</strong> itinerary was to fly fromTerrace to Vancouver, stay over a day, then to Seattle <strong>and</strong> Chicago, staya day, then in New York for a day <strong>and</strong> fly from there to Amsterdam. Butinclement weather changed all that. Terrace was fogged in <strong>and</strong> I stayedat Bethel <strong>and</strong> Henry’s place. Next day we were bussed to Smithers onlyto find out that Vancouver was fogged in. Finally the next day I arrivedin Vancouver, two days late <strong>and</strong> my flight bookings in disarray. Thatclose to Christmas it was very difficult to find a seat on a flight toAmsterdam, but after a day I was lucky to get a seat on a turbo prop toAmsterdam (the ticket price in cluded a flight to Paris). A sixteen hourflight with a short stop in Edmonton then to Goose Bay Larbrador whereI could see the blue lights along the l<strong>and</strong>ing strip for miles beforetouching down. We walked from the plane to the terminal to stretch ourlegs; unbelievably cold.


No one knew my exact arrival date <strong>and</strong> as it developed neither did I. Wecame in low over IJmuiden to l<strong>and</strong> at 'Schiphol' the <strong>Dutch</strong> nationalairport, only a half-hour drive away. When I looked down upon the town,with cars <strong>and</strong> bikes going here <strong>and</strong> there, I felt a certain kind ofdetachment; it’s my howetown but I was not really a part of it anymore. Itook the train from the central railway station to IJmuiden <strong>and</strong> walked toUncle Jack’s house. <strong>The</strong>re was nobody home, so I left my luggage at theneighbours <strong>and</strong> went to Ma <strong>and</strong> Anneke’s house in the LangeNieuwstraat 590 for an emotional reunion with my mother <strong>and</strong> sister.After a while Uncle Jack <strong>and</strong> Aunt Maartje came, their neighbours hadtold them I had arrived. I went back with them to the Verloren van<strong>The</strong>maatlann. That same evening we went to see my gr<strong>and</strong>father <strong>Prins</strong>still living in the Kennemerlaan 7. In general, the people I had seen thatday <strong>and</strong> later on the rest of the family hadn’t changed very much, butOpa <strong>Prins</strong> had aged quite a bit.Next day I took the train do Delft to see Dini, living at Oude Delft 47. Irang the bell <strong>and</strong> introduced my self to the l<strong>and</strong>lady as the sender of theairmail letters out of Canada. I waited for a while upstairs in her room. Ileft <strong>and</strong> tried again after a few hours <strong>and</strong> had more luck this time. Sheopened her door, toothbrush in h<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> a mouth full of toothpaste; wasshe surprised!!! After an evening of getting acquainted again she walkedme back to the railway station <strong>and</strong> showed me she still knew how to kiss.Dini went home for Christmas <strong>and</strong> she invited me to come over for a fewdays. Since it was my intention to spend as much time as possible withher, I didn’t hesitate to accept. Her parents hadn’t changed very much.Her dad still loved ot argue, but I came to see Dini. Dini’s mother was alittle surprised that we had kept in touch over the four years I had beenin Canada. I noticed that Dini had her mother’s ankles!We explored Amersfoort, walked through 'Klein (little) Switzerl<strong>and</strong>' a parton the outskirts of the city not far from there Dini lived an dvisited withher Aunt Adri, where I stayed overnight during my stay in Amersfoort.On Boxing Day every one came together at “Huize De Roek”, Dini’s home<strong>and</strong> in the evening we all danced in the front room. I danced with thegirl who was destined to become my wife. Herman, her oldest brother,who had emigrated to the United States in 1957 was there with hisgirlfriend Marja.Herman was drafted into the US army <strong>and</strong> stationed in <strong>German</strong>y, but onleave during the Christmas holidays. Marja <strong>and</strong> he had met during thesummer when he was visiting Amersfoort from <strong>German</strong>y throuhg amutual friend; she certainly softened his behaviour quite a bit.


Once back I IJmuiden, I visited with most of the <strong>Prins</strong> <strong>and</strong> Neervoortfamilies again <strong>and</strong> it was good to see them all. Dini was now working ina hospital in <strong>The</strong> Hague as a medical laboratory technician <strong>and</strong> wasstudying for her last exam. I went quite often to Delft to visit her, helpher with her studies <strong>and</strong> at the same time to woo her. <strong>The</strong> curfew timein the boarding house was at eleven o’clock at night; everybody who wasvisiting had to leav by that time. Here I, as a 29 year old guy, <strong>and</strong>another male visitor who was late, had to sneak down the stairs at eleventhirty to catch the train; we couldn’t keep from laughing. And what doyou know, after a month I asked her to mary me <strong>and</strong> she said “yes”.Next day back in the Verloren van <strong>The</strong>maatlaan I had to buy 'taartjes'(pastries) for the whole family to celebrate. It must have been anassurance for them to know that I would go back to Canada with a wife<strong>and</strong> companion. However nice the visit was, Holl<strong>and</strong> was not for meanymore.Our marriage took palce in Amersfoort on February 26 1959. I travelledon the morning of the 26th with Uncle Jack, Aunt Maartje <strong>and</strong> my sisterAnneke to Amersfoort <strong>and</strong> arrived at the Utrechtseweg 88 with bridalbouquet in h<strong>and</strong>. Lilies of the valley with orchids <strong>and</strong> freesias. I wentupstairs to get the bride, lovely with a shy smile on her face she waswaiting for me. I feel so funny is what she said to me. Together we camedown to the living room where everybody was waiting except Opa <strong>Prins</strong><strong>and</strong> Aunt Nel who stayed home with him. My best friend Ger Hofman<strong>and</strong> his wife Lies were also there; the previous weekend we had been inAntwerp in Belgium with them to visit his parents. We had a civilwedding ceremony at the City Hall of Amersfoort <strong>and</strong> a reception later atDini’s home. It was, that nearly in the year, a beautiful spring weddingwith crocuses in full bloom on the lawn in the back yard.Things were a little complicated with my two mothers. My first motherstill had to put her signature on the marriage certificate because I wasn’tthirty years old. She came with her three sisters. My mother fromIJmuiden came later with one of her sisters (Aunt Jannie) because shedidn’t want to meet my first mother.In the evening we left by plane for our honeymoon in Paris. In Paris westayed in a hotel close to Gard du Nord <strong>and</strong> spend a week visiting theplaces you have to see when in Paris, among other things. <strong>The</strong> Versaillespalace, the Lido, the book market along the river Seine <strong>and</strong> an exhibitionof works by Toulouse Lautrec were admired.Back in Amersfoort I said goodbye to the Hasken family. We left forIJmuiden, by that time I had developed a bad cold <strong>and</strong> felt quite sick.My flight to Vancouver was cancelled when we arrived at the airport, butthe next trip to Schiphol better luck <strong>and</strong> I was off to Vancouver, Terrace


<strong>and</strong> straight into bed for a week. This was in early March <strong>and</strong> Diniwould arrive in May; that gave me time to arrange things. I didn’t wantto spend time in the coffee bar anymore <strong>and</strong> was rather relieved thatJopie <strong>and</strong> Bies agreed to buy me out of the enterprise. My marriage wasone reason, but I also realised that the Riverlodge camp was going toclose. No new lodgers were admitted <strong>and</strong> the coffee bar would close mostof its customers.I didn’t want to live in the house I owned on the Keith road in Terrace;Henry <strong>and</strong> I agreed to swap properties. He owned 7 acres with an oldhouse on it on th eGraham road, this became ours with a bit of extramoney to come from Henry. Instead of paying he would help me to startbuilding a new house. <strong>The</strong> location of this 7 acres property was more tomy liking, but the house lacked a proper foundation, had no insulation,no running water an dno sewer system.In January 1960 I heard from someone outside the family that mygrnadfather Jacob <strong>Prins</strong> had passed away in December. When Dini <strong>and</strong> Ivisited him before I left again for Canada, he was bedridden <strong>and</strong> he aswell as I know that we wouldn’t see each other again in this world. Butto be so out of the minds of the family did hurt. I wrote a rather harshletter to IJmuiden. Uncle Antoon who was apparently in charge of all thearrangements wrote me to apologise.Birth of PhillipWe built the basement for the new house into the hill right behind theoriginal house. It was poured in one day with the help of a few of my coworkersfrom Kitimat. Dini was pregnant at the time an dthe baby wasexpected towards the end of May 1960. No sickness of any kind <strong>and</strong> onthe morning of May 27 she went in the hospital. At that time you werenot encouraged to attend the birth <strong>and</strong> I really didn’t mind. I phoned afew times during the day; at eight o’clock that evening, when I was up onthe scaffolding nailing the gable end boards on the new house, the phonerang. I came down in a hurry <strong>and</strong> heard the tired voice of Dini tell methat we had a son. As it seems to be the tradition in the <strong>Prins</strong> familythat the first child of the oldest son is a son, this tradition was upheldagain <strong>and</strong> our son couldn’t escape the same Philip which was my fathersname who was the oldest son of Jacob <strong>Prins</strong> my gr<strong>and</strong>father.A real fast drive to the (old army) hospital in Terrace to see them. In thecorridor in front of Dini’s room stood a crib with Philip in it; a child, partof us both <strong>and</strong> for us to take care of. Dini was lying in bed, her hairspread out upon the pillow <strong>and</strong> I felt very honoured to have her as mywife <strong>and</strong> mother of our son. <strong>The</strong>y stayed in the hospital for five years<strong>and</strong> then we brought Philip home.


In the summer of 1960 I had been a 'l<strong>and</strong>ed immigrant' for five years inCanada <strong>and</strong> became a Canadian citizen. My witnesses were MikeNykolaishen <strong>and</strong> Harry Paine, my line foreman at Alcan. During theswearing in ceremony the Reverend George Keenleyside, minister of theUnited Church in Terrace spoke a few words of welcome to the newcitizens. His speech sounded honestly <strong>and</strong> eloquently. Philip was laterbaptised in this church <strong>and</strong> we also became members of the UnitedChurch of Canada.Work on the new house progressed steadily <strong>and</strong> in 1961 we moved intoour new home. <strong>The</strong>re was still lots to be done to finish it off an dthis wasdone when time <strong>and</strong> money became available.Commuting to Kitimat was time consuming, but with carpooling, I had touse my own car only twice a week, the other days someone else drove<strong>and</strong> I could sleep. During that period it happened only once or twice thatI missed a shift because of the road conditions. Especially afternightshift was it sometimes difficult for the driver to stay awake on thetrip back to Terrace when the passengers were all sound asleep. Often Ihad to stop half way <strong>and</strong> freshen up with some creek water or osme snowat the side of the road.In the spring of 1962 we went on a holiday to southern British Columbia<strong>and</strong> Seattle where the World fair was held that year. Philip was just twoyears old that time, <strong>and</strong> not used to all the noises <strong>and</strong> crowds at the fair.Visiting a small wildlife park in Osooyos seemed a more enjoyable way ofspending a holiday to him! We renewed acquaintances with theBerquist’s <strong>and</strong> stayed over night at the farm in Cloverdale, where Dave<strong>and</strong> Teresa (Bill Hartman’s daughter) now lived in the main house. Davewas a friendly fellow <strong>and</strong> we talked quite a bit with him; Teresa, spittingimage of her mother, disappeared after supper, claiming a headache,what was to be expected of her. After having worked there pretty hard<strong>and</strong> being underpaid I didn’t feel quilty at all to claim one night oflodging.In November of 1963 Dini went with Philip for a trip to Holl<strong>and</strong> to visither parents <strong>and</strong> friends. First by train to Montreal <strong>and</strong> then on the“Ryndam” to Rotterdam. I am sure Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa Hasken enjoyed thevisit of their oldest daughter <strong>and</strong> first gr<strong>and</strong>son. Dini also visited otherrelatives <strong>and</strong> friends <strong>and</strong> sometimes Philip stayed behind in the care ofOma <strong>and</strong> Aunt Loes.New Years day I had made an arrangement for a phone call to Holl<strong>and</strong>; inthe sixties you had to do this <strong>and</strong> for sure on New Years eve. From theoperator in Terrace via Montreal <strong>and</strong> London then to Amsterdam <strong>and</strong>


Amersfoort it felt like taking giant steps <strong>and</strong> l<strong>and</strong>ing in Holl<strong>and</strong>. Iphoned at four o’clock in the night <strong>and</strong> talked with Dini at twelve noon<strong>Dutch</strong> time.A few months after Dini arrived in 1959 we bought our first new car, aVauxhall. In early 1964 when Dini <strong>and</strong> Philip were in Holl<strong>and</strong> I lost thecar in an accident which wasn’t my fault. Driving home after dayshift Iwanted to make a right h<strong>and</strong> turn off the highway to drop off one of mypassengers (Casey van den Brook). At the same time a logging truckloaded with power poles with an overhang of approximately 30 feet hadstopped at the side road <strong>and</strong> then proceeded to make a right h<strong>and</strong> turnonto the highway. In doing so the power poles managed to crush the roofof my car. Everyone ducked, got showered with glass but no one wasinjured. Cool <strong>and</strong> collected driver I thought I was, but I shook like a lieafwhen half an hour later I had to show my drivers license to theinvestigating RCMP officer.When Dini <strong>and</strong> Philip came back in early March 1964 they had to stayone night in Prince George to get on the train to terrace. But I arrangedfor a day off from work <strong>and</strong> drove to Prince George in my newly acquiredVolkswagen beetle, the day before their arrival. I met them at the stationearly next morning which was a big surprise! Philip was shy the firstday, probably didn’t recognise me, but this didn’t last long. I kept thatbeetle car only for a while, it was a disaster on icy roads; any time thecare went into a skid it ended up in the snow bank. In a heavy snowfallarea, the only benefit you have is snow banks at the side of the road <strong>and</strong>you do not go into the ditch. Ater a short while I got rid of that car! Ourlife returned to normal <strong>and</strong> we were expecting our second child inDecember.Birth of RobertOver the summer months we moved to <strong>Dutch</strong> Valley, just outside thetown to live for awhile with the Kennedy’s, Bill <strong>and</strong> his son Jackie. Billwas going through a divorce <strong>and</strong> needed someone to take care of his sonso he would be able to gain custody. We rented out our house on theGraham road to a ticket agent for a national airline at first, but when hewas transferred we sold it to Roman <strong>and</strong> Johanna (second daughter ofBethel <strong>and</strong> Henry) Weissner. Financially it was a good move for usbecause we saved money, living without expenses. Dini took care ofJackie who was a little older than Philip. Bill was a logger <strong>and</strong> truckdriver <strong>and</strong> away a lot in the bush <strong>and</strong> on the road. I bought a fifteenacre property adjacent to the Kennedy place from Chester Stade. <strong>The</strong>rewere two cabins on this property which I started fixing up; I foundbetween the walls old newspapers dated from the World War 2.


Robert was born December 20th 1964, on a Sunday. I had to work theafternoon shift, drive to Terrace <strong>and</strong> left my car in a trailer park to ridewith an co-worker to work in Kitimat. I knew the baby was on its way<strong>and</strong> in the plant I didn’t stay too far away from the phone, located in theforeman’s office. But there were no phone calls for me that evening.Arriving back in Terrace that night Bill Kennedy was waiting for me atthe trailer park <strong>and</strong> told me I had another son. He drove me to the newhospital were Dini <strong>and</strong> new son were, she had only been in labour for onehour. A tremendous feeling to see a new life added to the family. Wenamed him Robert Gerhard, Herhard being the second name of myfather-in-law.Life in TerraceIn the mean time, I kept working to fix up the cabins on the newlyacquired property. <strong>The</strong> cabins were beside each other but of differentheights. I built one new continuous roof over them, put a properfoundation under it <strong>and</strong> at a right angel added a living room <strong>and</strong> porch.It was an interesting building project <strong>and</strong> we were quite happy with theend result; but when you work upon a slippery icy roof make sure thereare snow banks around the house for a soft l<strong>and</strong>ing, I did.One day when driving to town to run a few err<strong>and</strong>s, down the hill onKalum street in Bill Kennedy’s old truck, I lost control, probably becausethe brakes locked <strong>and</strong> we swerved off the road rolling two or three timesdown the hill (who had the itme to count the exact number). Philip waswith me <strong>and</strong> he yelled "I don’t like it, I don’t like it!" - <strong>and</strong> of courseneither did I. Lucky enough we weren’t hurt, but the truck was a writeoff.To reimburse Bill for the loss of the truck I built a double insulatedcool room <strong>and</strong> covered entrance, joining his house, for him.In 1966, Anneke was getting married to Simon Kistemaker. I was notable to go to Holl<strong>and</strong> to celebrate with them but we talked over the phone<strong>and</strong> sent presents. We enjoyed the pictures they sent us of the ceremony<strong>and</strong> the reception. To recognise some of the people in the pictures tooksome time though.Around that time I was ready to look for other work. Travelling back <strong>and</strong>forth to Kitimat for six <strong>and</strong> a half years <strong>and</strong> all the heat <strong>and</strong> dust wasenough for me. In the spring of 1966, I quit Alcan <strong>and</strong> started workingfor Cor Bruggeman, a <strong>Dutch</strong> farmer from Zeel<strong>and</strong> who came to Canadaafter the flood in the western parts of the Netherl<strong>and</strong>s in 1953. Inhindsight it was a good move health wise; some guys ended up withbladder cancer, presumably as a result of inhaling fluorospar fumes. Cor<strong>and</strong> his wife had a farm in the Remo district, a ten minute drive from


Terrace, grew a lot of potatoes <strong>and</strong> vegetables. We lived rent free on theirfarm, but financially I didn’t gain anything.We sold the house <strong>and</strong> property in <strong>Dutch</strong> Valley in record time at marketvalue but asked a low down payment; they buyers were Frank <strong>and</strong> TinaDoell. I wasn’t too keen to rent the house <strong>and</strong> property, because thevalley was prone to flooding during sprintime when the snow melts onthe mountains or with a heavy rainfall. A few years later though whenwe were living in Alberta already the house burnt down due to amalfunctioning furnace <strong>and</strong> Tina Doell died in that fire. She went backinto the burning house under the mistaken assumption that there stillwere children inside.I worked on the Bruggeman farm for year <strong>and</strong> a half <strong>and</strong> although themonetary benefits weren’t that great, I honed my tractor driving skills<strong>and</strong> learned several cropping techniques. In order to obtain more arablel<strong>and</strong> we had to clear a five acre parcel of stumps; the trees had beenlogged off already. Some of the stumps were huge from five to eight feetin dismeter. We used dynamite, blowing up two or three stumps at atime. First on estick of dynamite in each stump to make a holeunderneath <strong>and</strong> then filling that hole with up to twenty sticks <strong>and</strong> athree foot long fuse, waiting expectantly for all two or three stumps toblow up! It never completely removed the stump, but split it upsufficiently to allow the small bulldozer to push the pieces apart <strong>and</strong>build a big pile to burn them. You wouldn’t think so, but people in theknow told me that the blasting cap, the piece clamped to the fuse, ismore dangerous then the dynamite itself.Usually I worked together with their son Len; we got along quite well,although he had a temper. Once when he was fixing the bulldozer, therepairs didn’t go too well; his face got all red <strong>and</strong> he said with clenchedteeth "I am going to blow off some steam". "All right with me", I said, "I’llgo for a walk". Once outside I heard the tools bouncing around insdiethe machine shop.In the summer of 1967 Dini became a Canadian citizen; she had madethat her centennial project. During our holiday that summer we went toAlberta, the four of us in the International truck we now possessed,visited with the Kalf family <strong>and</strong> toured around the province to have alook at several farms. Later on in the same year Dini went to apresbytery meeting of the United Church in north-west British Columbia<strong>and</strong> met the Rev. MacNeill, who was the minister in Kitimat. He ownedl<strong>and</strong> close to Fort Saskatchewan. When Dini mentioned that we hadvisited Alberta that summer <strong>and</strong> liked the area around Edmonton, hesaid that if we ever decided to move there, he had two properties therewith 'housing accommodation' <strong>and</strong> we would be welcome to move in if we


so desired. In February 1968 I boarded the train to Edmonton whereDick <strong>and</strong> Nel picked me up. <strong>The</strong> next day, it was Dick’s day off, we wentto Fort Saskatchewan to look for the housing accommodation <strong>and</strong> after abit of searching we found the cabin on the correction line close to theBethany Lutheran church.(Photo-Kennermerlaan 7 with Margriet, Ton <strong>and</strong> Maryke-As Opa’s officelooks now)8. 1968 - todayMove to AlbertaSoon after my arrival in Fort Saskatchewan I went for a job interviewwith Dow Chemicals, but wasn’t hired on. I also put in job applicationsat Sherritt Gordon <strong>and</strong> Inl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals. Both companies wanted tointerview me on the same day but I preferred Inl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals becauseit was a smaller company. I had been just a number in a large companylong enough! I stayed with Rineke <strong>and</strong> Peter <strong>and</strong> found employment atInl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals within two weeks. My first impression of Steve Sumka,who hired me on, was correct: difficulty of coming to a point. On March11 1968, I started working at inl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals <strong>and</strong> stayed with thecompany, through two name changes, for 26 years. I retired inDecember 1994 at age 65.After the first three weeks on the job I had a lont weekend off, rented apick-up truck <strong>and</strong> Peter Knorren <strong>and</strong> I left the Fort on Friday evening<strong>and</strong> arrived in Terrace on Saturday afternoon. Dini had loaded our owntruck already with help of the boys <strong>and</strong> after a night’s rest we filled therented truck <strong>and</strong> were ready for the trip to Fort Saskatchewan. We leftSunday afternoon but not before Cor had me sign a note stating that weowed him rental money for the house; so much for putting trust in yourfellow countryman! We lost our bed <strong>and</strong> mattress before we reachedPrince George (who tied it down?) <strong>and</strong> we had to backtrack thirty miles tofind it. When crossing the BC - Alberta border our spayed cat jumpedout of the truck when we had stopped for breakfast <strong>and</strong> a stretch yourlegs break, <strong>and</strong> disappeared, not to be found again. I drove all the wayback hopping from truck to truck. Whenever I saw the trailing truckzigzagging across the road I knew it was time to relieve the driver toprevent the furniture from disappearing into one or the other ditch.Once in Edmonton we stopped at 149th street <strong>and</strong> had supper there atNel <strong>and</strong> Dick’s <strong>and</strong> could plug our deep freezer in, full of food.Life in Fort Saskatchewan


Our 'house' wasn’t ready yet, so we moved in with Rineke <strong>and</strong> Peter whohad moved to their acreage in the fall of 1967, just eight miles from theplace we were going to live. <strong>The</strong>y were still working on their house <strong>and</strong>we 'camped' in their family room. Our cabin was a very primitive affair;power was provided by a generator <strong>and</strong> the existing driveway across theditch was a few hundred yards to the east. Try to get to the housethrough the field with the truck after a rainfall! <strong>The</strong> county ofStrathcona put in an approach close to the cabin, we had gravel broughtin for a driveway <strong>and</strong> made an agreement with the Rev. MacNeill to bringin power from the provincial net. We paid the monthly installationcharges during the time we lived there. In time I installed a septicsystem, put the cabin upon a foundation, built a skirting around it <strong>and</strong>built a small porch in front of the backdoor.<strong>The</strong>re was a well but it had to be cleaned out which we had done.However after a few weeks though we started pumping quicks<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong>gave up on it. I put two barrels in the back of the truck <strong>and</strong> broughtwater in from the plant. <strong>The</strong> parcel of l<strong>and</strong> that came with the housewas hilly <strong>and</strong> rocky but we farmed several small pieces of it afterscouring several auctions to buy suitable <strong>and</strong> affordable basic pieces ofmachinery. We seeded <strong>and</strong> harvested barley <strong>and</strong> made hay.Our next-door neighbours, Alfred <strong>and</strong> Rose Naundorf, were always veryhelpful <strong>and</strong> made us feel welcome. In my first years of farming he didthe combining for me. When he built a new garage, he left me have theold garage; we put it on skids <strong>and</strong> pulled it over the road to our place.With a lean-to built against it, we had shelter for the equipment.From Knox United Church, we transferred to Partridge Hill UnitedChurch, a church in the middle of the prairie, part of the pastoral chargewith Fort Saskatchewan. I served a number of years as a member of thesession. Its long-time minister at that time was Peter Ream; he is retirednow, but still a grateful receiver of the stamps I collect for him.In September 1968 Jake, Dini’s youngest brother came over to stay <strong>and</strong>the next spring her parents came over for a six month visit untilSeptember 1969. To add sleeping accommodation we built an extra freest<strong>and</strong>ingbedroom. When we moved later on to Range Road 205, wherewe still are now, we dismantled this room, extended it <strong>and</strong> this is nowour garage beside the house.We heard about this house through Jake; he was working Don Fluker,custom straw <strong>and</strong> hay baling for farmers around here. He heard thatEarl Schneider was selling his old house, as he had built a new one forhim <strong>and</strong> his wife. It looked to me that the new one was not very muchsmaller than the one he was leaving. We were able to purchase a 2-acre


piece of l<strong>and</strong> from Carl Schneider for $1000, kitty-corner from whereEarl’s house was located. All this action took place in October -November 1969. In February 1970 the house, bought for $500, wasmoved to its new location <strong>and</strong> left sitting on blocks, as there was nopossibility to build a basement so late in the winter. <strong>The</strong> house movesdidn’t want to move it any earlier, the ground had to be frozen deepenough, so the trailer & house could be moved across the road (thepower line had to be cut) <strong>and</strong> through the field <strong>and</strong> deposited on our 2acres. It was quite a job <strong>and</strong> very interesting to see how they managed toraise the house off its foundation. <strong>The</strong> brick chimney was removed first,then the house was pulled onto the trailer, which was parked beside thefoundation. <strong>The</strong> mover told me that he figured the house weighedapproximately 60 tons. It took the movers four <strong>and</strong> half days to get thehouse onto the trailer <strong>and</strong> three hours to bring it where it is now.We now had the house upon our property, but no basement ready yet.Pouring a basement beside it <strong>and</strong> then moving the house again was toocostly. <strong>The</strong> purchase of the house, property, bringing the power in etc.cost me a (pretty) penny!That summer we poured a footing <strong>and</strong> foundation under the house. Irented a number of jacks <strong>and</strong> with help of the Knorren <strong>and</strong> Kalf familieswe lowered it down, perfect fit! As the supporting beams were extendedbeyond the walls of the house, openings were left in the foundation <strong>and</strong>that is where the basement windows are now. Sears designed thefurnace <strong>and</strong> piping-layout; in the meantime Jake <strong>and</strong> I built the chimney<strong>and</strong> poured a septic tank. In November 1970 we moved into our newhome, the lone house on that side of the road. A crawlspace under thehouse was unsatisfactory – it took me two winters to dig the basementout by h<strong>and</strong>. It’s amazing how much more dirt you take out than youthink there is. It took six filled pails to one tractor bucket <strong>and</strong> I dumpedthat in the shallow spot in the back (of the property).Now 31 years later, in the year 2000 we have two new neighbours to thesouth of us. <strong>The</strong> closest to us is Debra, Earl’s gr<strong>and</strong>daughter, <strong>and</strong>further south is Morley Gabert, gr<strong>and</strong>son of one of the early settlers ofthis area.In September 1971 Dini went to Holl<strong>and</strong> to attend the 40th weddinganniversary of her parents in her hometown of Amersfoort. It was toodifficult for both of us to attend as Philip <strong>and</strong> Robert were too small to beleft on their own.Birth of Caroline (1972)


We always wanted a daughter to complete our family <strong>and</strong> so we madesure; we adopted Caroline Maria, named after Dini’s mother (Lien). InFebruary 1972 our girl arrived, a cute face <strong>and</strong> a “wipneus” (pert nose!).After picking Caroline up that very day we went with her to the old Searsstore at Princess Elizabeth Avenue to buy some more baby supplies. Iwas walking around iwht her <strong>and</strong> there she awoke, the clearest eyes Ihave ever seen. Philip, at first, wasn’t to enthusiastic about theadoption, but he was the one, in what he thought was an unobservedmoment, making funny faces at her! She sure had to laugh about it.To feed some rained upon hay we couldn’t sell, we started to buyHolstein bull calves from the dairy farms to feed them milk powder, thenhay wise, are low on the totem pole, we switched to a Hereford cow-calfoperation, having accumulated some money with the Holsteins.(Photo-)(Photo-<strong>The</strong> farm in wintertime)Working at Inl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals<strong>The</strong> job at Inl<strong>and</strong> chemicals was a h<strong>and</strong>s-on experience, the operatorsshowed you what was to be done <strong>and</strong> how it was to be done. Quite somedifference between one <strong>and</strong> the other operator. Four real good ones comein mind: Heinz Heiring, Jerry Schacher <strong>and</strong> later on Ed Lamoureux <strong>and</strong>Paul Zeniuk. You took the best of each one <strong>and</strong> made it your own.<strong>The</strong>re were several operators I won’t mention. <strong>The</strong>re were no writtenprocedures available, when you wanted to know something, you asked(but not the foreman). You always could ask Steve Sumka, Mr. Inl<strong>and</strong>,as he was know; it took him awhile but eventually you got the answer.He used to tour the plant <strong>and</strong> come to Plant 1 where the control panelswere situated <strong>and</strong> the operator <strong>and</strong> other personnel used to gather.When we saw him come (Plant 1 used to have windows at that time)everybody scattered; out through the north, west or east door, only theoperator on shift was not so lucky <strong>and</strong> had to stay. Usually a literarypiece in the logbook followed with phrases to urge for more cleanliness:'bent down to the pickings' or when caught relaxing 'starting into spaceis not operating'. But his technical knowledge I respected.As soon as I started at Inl<strong>and</strong> I studied to obtain my 4th class steamticket. With an interim exam from SAIT, supervised by Rev. HallSambell, I got my ticket within a year. A year after I did the exam for the3rd class ticket, a two-day affair <strong>and</strong> that went all right. After two yearsworking as a helper I got promoted to operator. Sure a different feeling tobe in charge, no direct shoulder to lean upon, but a good experience tosolve your problems. <strong>The</strong>re were two acid plants running, number 1 an


approximately 120 ton/day plant <strong>and</strong> number 2 an approximately 450ton/day plant. <strong>The</strong> plants produced 93 % <strong>and</strong> 98 % sulphuric acid byburning liquid sulphurie, coverting the produced sulphuric dioxide intosulphuric troxide inside a coverter <strong>and</strong> then leading the gas through thecirculating acid in the absorber tower, adding water at the same time tomaintain the acid strength. Only on dayshift was there directsupervision in the plant; afternoon <strong>and</strong> night shift <strong>and</strong> the weekends wewere the only two persons in the plant. Till we installed stainless steelacid coolers, combined with some other modifications, plant number 2sure had some fun with the old acid collers! <strong>The</strong> produced acid wascooled by running cooling water over cast iron pipes. Those pipes wereconnected by 180 degrees cast iron return bends. And there were thetrouble originated; these return bends had steel plugs inserted instead ofcast-iron plugs. One plug after the other corroded away <strong>and</strong> there wasan acid leak. Fix it with a Teflon plug <strong>and</strong> away you went again, but youstill had to neutralise the acidic cooling water by adding bags of sodaash. One operator had no night shift to add 125 bags <strong>and</strong> got heck fromthe foreman next morning for not cleaning up the empty bags! This wasthe same guy who wrote the plant orders in the logbook (no computermessages then) as "Do not pump no acid to SGM" (it was underlined). Bythe way we didn’t follow that order. He also figured there was a supperheater in the plant, somewhere.In 1973 the <strong>Dutch</strong> club in Edmonton organised a charter flight toHoll<strong>and</strong> for a four-week duration. I felt like going as it had been fourteenyears ago I had been there. Combining my 1972 <strong>and</strong> 1973 holidays,Philip <strong>and</strong> I went to visit Holl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> family. We visited the family formboth sides <strong>and</strong> went for a trip to see the Delta works <strong>and</strong> the Evoluon inEndhoven. During our stay in Kjmuiden on a Sunday morning Philip<strong>and</strong> I went to visit Uncle Jan <strong>and</strong> Aunt Mary. <strong>The</strong>y were living in thePresident Krugestraat in the same house my gr<strong>and</strong>parents used to live.Old habits die hard <strong>and</strong> we came in the backdoor. <strong>The</strong> youngestdaughter, Maryke, not recognising me, said to her mother "<strong>The</strong>re is astrange fellow (vreemade kerel) coming inside" but Aunt Mary knew meright away. <strong>The</strong>se days whenever I phone maryke I introduce myself as'die vreemde kerel'.During our visit to Amersfoort we met Dini’s sister Louise, newly marriedto Sicco Hoekstra who was living upstairs at Utrechtseweg 88. He musthave been favourably impressed by our stories of Canada because theycame over, with their daughter Mir<strong>and</strong>a, for a visit the year after - withtheir friends the Bysterveld family. A few months later they emigrated toCanada. <strong>The</strong>y stayed at our place for a few weeks, until they found anapartment in the Fort. With a little bit of help from me they (Bob &Sicco) secured employment at Inl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals, where they stayed for awhile. Inl<strong>and</strong> Chemicals at that time was purchased by CIL <strong>and</strong> changes


were coming. Steve was transferred to the acid plant in Coppercliff <strong>and</strong>Bill Bentley came in to take over. As the foreman had quit half a yearbefore that, they now needed a foreman. I wasn’t very keen on it; thefinancial rewards weren’t that impressive <strong>and</strong> I sure liked to run the acidplants, be my own boss <strong>and</strong> have more free time to run the farm. But asense of duty prevailed <strong>and</strong> so the foreman period started, not thehappiest time for me at CIL. One positive experience was the contacts Imade with personnel in the other plants. I went for seminars <strong>and</strong>meetings to Prince George, Rochester, Cornwall, Calgary, Montreal,Toronto, Houston. When we had problems or needed information, theconversation went a lot easier when you had a name you could refer to.This was abnout the time my sister Anneke started the first signs ofcancer, a kind of virulent skin cancer. A year later she passed away. Aswell at the plant, Mr. George Grant, the plant manager, passed awayduring a cruise <strong>and</strong> Bill Bentley took his place. To have an experiencedacid engineer he asked Steve to come back to the plant. If I would’veknown this would happen, I wouldn’t have taken the foreman’s job,period! But now I was stuck with it. I continued to study for the lastthree papers of my ticket, wrote them one by one <strong>and</strong> became a fullfledgedsecond class steam engineer. This right away included being thechief steam engineer in the plant.Towards the end of 1975 I received my last letter of Anneke of which atranslation will be included. We phoned a few times to Kjmuiden untilwe got the call to come over as the end was near. We, Dini <strong>and</strong> I left forHoll<strong>and</strong> in the beginning of June, arrived to stay at my Uncle Jack’splace.We went to see Anneke right away; she was cared for by her husb<strong>and</strong>Simon <strong>and</strong> my mother. She spent the last few months of her life at herhome at the Dennekoplaan, a newly built neighbourhood in the dunestowards the beach with a view of the harbours. Even though we wereinformed, it was quite a shock to see the condition she was in. We madea short trip to Kamperl<strong>and</strong>, where Dini’s parents now resided, tocelebrate Didi’s mother’s birthday <strong>and</strong> then we went back to Kjmuiden inPa’s car. <strong>The</strong> car overheated on the way back (second day of Pentecost<strong>and</strong> endless car-queues). Bert <strong>and</strong> Carien had to rescue us at a gasstation in the Haarlemmermeer.With my sister you could see the end was near, there was hardlyanything left of my oce so beautiful sister; constantly treated withValium. She went into a coma <strong>and</strong> died in the evening of the 17th ofJune. She was cremated at the Driehuis-Westerveld crematorium withan attdendance of about 200 people. This passing away of so young alife, left me pretty down for a while, but life goes on if you want it to or


not. <strong>The</strong>re was a pilot strike on <strong>and</strong> we had to wait another 2 weeksbefore we could leave for home again.On the evening of December <strong>21</strong>, 1976, we got a phone call from Ben, oneof Dini’s brothers, who is a physician, that Ma was in the hospitalsuffering from a heart attack. One hour later another call (<strong>and</strong> then youknow it is serious indeed) that she had passed away at 68 years old.Right away we made arrangements for Dini <strong>and</strong> Louise to fly to Holl<strong>and</strong>,to be picked up at Schiphol <strong>and</strong> driven to Kamperl<strong>and</strong>, to attend thefuneral. All the children were there, except the youngest brother Jake.She was buried in Kamperl<strong>and</strong>, now also the resting place of Dini’sfather.Life in the plant kept on going <strong>and</strong> after the upgrade of the number 2acid plant (this was necessary to meet emission st<strong>and</strong>ards) Bill Bentleywent off to Toronto <strong>and</strong> we got a new manager for our complex, BobDyck. In the mean time plant I was shut down <strong>and</strong> dis-mantled as it wastoo costly to upgrade.A new period of management was started by bringing in the teamconcept. <strong>The</strong> idea of the team concept is that the personnel of aparticular department in the plant, like acid, alum, alpak, office,maintenance, management form a team <strong>and</strong> make decisions to run theirdepartment by consensus, within the guidelines <strong>and</strong> rules set bymanagement. A lot of meetings <strong>and</strong> workshops were organised <strong>and</strong>attended to bring everybody up to par. In the end the teams were formed<strong>and</strong> started to function. This mad ethe foreman’s job obsolete. <strong>The</strong> jobof technical assistant was created; I really didn’t want to leave the plantas we still had to make mortgage payments to make on the 80 acres wehad bought.<strong>The</strong> job now was to conduct induction sessions for new employees <strong>and</strong>workers coming in for the annual shutdown. Also attack tests, here <strong>and</strong>in Prince George, were done by me <strong>and</strong> I started <strong>and</strong> finished an acid <strong>and</strong>alum plant manual, containing technical information <strong>and</strong> jobdescriptions. This was an interesting <strong>and</strong> learning experience for me. Atthe end of that project I wanted to go back to operation the acid plantagain. Bob was doubtful that I would like it there, but he was told howreluctant I had accepted the foreman’s job. I don’t think he everregretted it that I went operating again, as I was, after Steve gotpensioned off, one of the few operators who could successfully start theplant in a cold start-up.<strong>The</strong>re had been another benefit of the foreman’s job <strong>and</strong> that was thearranging of summer jobs for Philip <strong>and</strong> Robert when they had the age to


take a summer job in an industrial plant, <strong>and</strong> work there for decentwage.ChildrenPhilip graduated from high school in 1978, went for one year to NAIT <strong>and</strong>then completed a university study in chemical engineering in four yearsto graduate in 1983. He then secured a job with Syncrude in FortMcMurray. During his study-years he met Judy Sanby <strong>and</strong> they decidedto get amrried the time Philip moved to Fort McMurray. Her introductionto the farm was in style. As we were installing a new septic system, therewas a 12 feet deep hole in front of the backdoor, brideged by a plank.But she didn’t hesitate, stepped upon the plank <strong>and</strong> passed with flyingcolours.And after a while the children came, Jacob Ian in 1986, Daniel Sean in1988, Terence Evan in 1989 <strong>and</strong> the twins Johanna Marie <strong>and</strong> KathrynAnneke. Philip <strong>and</strong> Judy knew how much I would appreciate it if theoldest one, a boy of course, would be named Jacob to maintain thetradition of sequence in names. And now in the year 2000, when I amwriting this, how they show their individuality, Jacob with a sense ofquick wit <strong>and</strong> very committed to excel in school, Daniel the ocmposer<strong>and</strong> artistic one, Terence the sportsman <strong>and</strong> the one having a sweettooth. <strong>The</strong>n the twins Johanna <strong>and</strong> Kathryn play, laugh <strong>and</strong> crytogether. I was very touched when they told us that the second name ofKathryn would be Annkek. As there were breathing problems when thegirls were born, they were flown to the University hospital where we werto look at them, baby girl A <strong>and</strong> baby girl B. How they have grown sincethen!Robert finished high school in 1981, took one semester in engineering<strong>and</strong> saw that it was not for him. He then enrolled in forestry <strong>and</strong>graduated after six years of study in 1988. A postgraduate studycommenced <strong>and</strong> was concluded with a master degree two years later. Hemet Danelle, another forestry student, during his university years; theywere married in 1990 in Vancouver, where Stan (Danelle’s dad) during aspeech at the reception almost figured us (Albertans) as coming out ofouter space!Caroline graduated from high school in 1989, couldn’t wait to leave thefarm <strong>and</strong> moved to Edmonton, where she took an arts course at VictoriaComp high school <strong>and</strong> then off to Calgary’s art school.After Dini’s mother died, Pa kept his house in kamperl<strong>and</strong> for a while,but his heart was not in it anymore. He kept on travelling <strong>and</strong> after afew years finally settled down with us with grequent trips to his other


children, Herman <strong>and</strong> Marja in Strathfield, Wisconsin, Johan <strong>and</strong> Ellenin Ijzendoorn, Ben <strong>and</strong> Juke in Kamperl<strong>and</strong>. He sold his house <strong>and</strong>shipped all his furniture in one big container to our address. Ben told us– be prepared, everything is ocming, even the garden path paving bricks!Most of the furniture stayed here. After he passed away in 1990 it gotdivided up between the children as well as Philip (the old writing deskamong other things) <strong>and</strong> Ellen <strong>and</strong> Steve (Herman’s second daughter) asthey liked antique furniture. To spend the time when he stayed at ourplace, he built the front porch for us <strong>and</strong> later, when we had acquiredthe adjacent 80 acres we crected a big garage, where he parked his car<strong>and</strong> had a workshop.In 1979 the 80 acres north of our 2 acres for sale as the owner, Mrs.Schneider, had passed away <strong>and</strong> her three daughters wanted to sell theproperty. As the yard of that property is straight north of our house <strong>and</strong>contained quite a few bushes <strong>and</strong> trees, acting as a proper windbreak, wereally didn’t want to see that removed as might have happened with anew owner. Also I wanted to continue farming, the location was ideal forus; good soil <strong>and</strong> no sloughs. So we didn’t hav emuch of a bargainingposition <strong>and</strong> agreed to the asking price of $1000 an acre. We dealtmainly with the oldest daughter Elsie <strong>and</strong> her husb<strong>and</strong> Pete (school busdriver for years). As we needed a down payment, Pa agreed to let us havethe money on which we paid a yearly interest. Where was the well to do<strong>Prins</strong> family? To make the payments Dini started to work for the homecare department in Fort Saskatchewan. At that time the bank didn’twant to touch any outlying properties for a mortgage, I obtained a closedmortgage for five years with First City Trust, fixed rate <strong>and</strong> no chance forextra payments. Five years of pay gave us a reduction of the principal byabout $5000 with interest payments of $35000. As we wanted betterrepayment conditions, half a year before the renewal date, we let themknow that we wanted a better kind of deal. No answer until two weeksbefore the renewal date <strong>and</strong> no better deal. During those five years, thebanks changed their policy about lending money for properties in therural areas. Since we didn’t expect much co-operation from First City,we had already made arrangements with the Bank of Commerce <strong>and</strong>obtained an open mortgage, which gave us the opportunity to increasepayments <strong>and</strong> make yearly payments of 10% on the outst<strong>and</strong>ingprincipal. This we accomplished by our own efforts, a sum of moneyfrom my first mother, a sum of money from my mother in Kjmuiden <strong>and</strong>a loan from Robert. We paid the mortgage off in five years. <strong>The</strong>re is nowa clear title of the property in our names, the same goes for the tow acreproperty + house.In the summer of 1979 we had visitors from Ijmuiden. My mother hadsufficiently recovered from the loss of Anneke <strong>and</strong> came with theKistemaker family (Anneke’s in-laws) for a four week visit. It was the


first time she saw Robert, age 14 <strong>and</strong> Caroline, age 7. We had planned atwo week long trip <strong>and</strong> my mother, the kistemakeers <strong>and</strong> I went by car toJasper, the Yellowhead route to Prince George with a side trip to the oldmining settlement of Barkerville, then up to Terrace - Kitimat to meetwith some old friends. With the ferry from Prince Rupert to Vancouverisl<strong>and</strong> for a two-day stay in Victoria, where of course we visited thetourists spots. All in all a successful fourteen-day sightseeing trip ofAlberta <strong>and</strong> British Columbia, especially after they got used to Canadi<strong>and</strong>istances.Our 25th wedding anniversary came in February 1984; we didn’t paymuch attention to the previous once, but we celebrated this one. It wassuch nice weather that day, we took pictures of the family outside ourhouse on the lawn, however no crocuses as on the day we got married.We had a dinner at the Pots <strong>and</strong> Pans with all the Canadian familypresent, about 24 people.Visits to Holl<strong>and</strong>In 1986 my mother in Kjmuiden wanted us to come over for a visit whichwe did by the end of October. It was good to see Robert again in Holl<strong>and</strong>,where he was staying for a number of months after a student exchangeprogram in Sweden. <strong>The</strong> three of us travelled a bit through Holl<strong>and</strong>,visited Texel, <strong>and</strong> with Willem van Doorn JR. took in the sights of thenew polders in the former Southern sea. When we arrived in Holl<strong>and</strong> mymother arranged a get-together for all the remaining family <strong>and</strong> it wasvery nice to see almost everybody there, it was a long time ago since thathad happened. It reminded me so much fo the New Year <strong>and</strong> birthdaycelebrations we had in the President Krugerstraat, when Uncle jan <strong>and</strong>Aunt Mary were living there. My mother must have been afflicted withthe first signs of dementia, it runs in the family. Looking back that willexplain several seemingly strange remarks she made during our stay,only than we didn’t realise it for what it was.Sometime in 1987 or 1988 maryke Kunst-Tol informed us that it was notlonger possible to have her unattended in her own house; upon doctororders she was admitted to the Zeeweg hospital <strong>and</strong> from there, whenthere was room, she moved to Velserduin, a nursing home. In October1989 I went to Holl<strong>and</strong> to visit her in the hospital. Maryke <strong>and</strong> I wentthere an dI was happy enough that she recognised me. <strong>The</strong>re weremoments she didn’t make much sense; when you talked about earliertimes she was not too bad. With Maryke I went to the Lange Nieuwstraat590 to visit her house for the last time. An assortment of pictures, thepainting of the rural road, a h<strong>and</strong>crafted copper shield <strong>and</strong> some of herjewellery came to Canada. <strong>The</strong> rest of her belongings held no memoriesfor me as she must have bought it after I left for Canada.


First visit outside Ijmuiden was to <strong>The</strong> Hague to see my first mother.Uncle Jack offered to go with me, I was glad for that as it was adepressing affair, with Ma <strong>and</strong> Mr. Gritters constantly bickering <strong>and</strong> sheshowing signs of depression <strong>and</strong> dementia. Later during the visit I wentto see Hennie <strong>Prins</strong>, an old girlfriend of Dini, whom I had met when shevisited us. Form Amersfoort to johan <strong>and</strong> Ellen, where there had been aphone call for me out of IJmuiden. I phoned back right away to hearthat Uncle Jack suddenly had passed away of an embolism. Lately hishealth hadn’t been too good, lots of smoking <strong>and</strong> a fairly steady drinker;it had caused blood <strong>and</strong> circulation problems. After saying goodbye toIjzendoorn I went for a shortened visit to the farm in Aalsmeer. Sundayafternoon I went back to IJmuiden.<strong>The</strong> funeral was that Monday afternoon at Driehuis-Westerveld, the samecemetery where Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa <strong>Prins</strong> are resting. <strong>The</strong>re were a lot ofpeople attending, several cousins <strong>and</strong> other family members I hadn’tseen since I left for Canada. It seemed to be one of those occasions youare able to meet everybody. I didn’t see Ben <strong>and</strong> Juke that visit, but Italked to them by phone.It was on a Sunday dayshift, March 22, 1992 that Dini phoned me to saythat she had a phone call from Maryke. My mother had passed awaythat day. Luckily enough I knew the travel agent by name, so afterseveral phone calls I was able to fly to Vancouver Monday evening <strong>and</strong>then late at night to Amsterdam, arriving at Tuesday noon. Thatafternoon to the bank to change money, order a wreath at the flowershop <strong>and</strong> after a short nap visited Bram <strong>and</strong> Maryke to hear about thelast days of my mother. <strong>The</strong> funeral was that Wednesday, it was a rathersimple occasion, no Minister present. I was the only one to speak,thanking the persons who took care of her during her last years shewasn’t well <strong>and</strong> mentioning the memorable episodes in her life. <strong>The</strong>translation of this tribute is included with the memories. Upon her wishshe was creamted there, just like my sister Anneke.A 10-day stay was long enough <strong>and</strong> as my leave of absence wasn’t al thatlong I was rather glad to be home again. Bob Dyck must have left bythat time as I had to deal with his replacement Rick McInerny. He wasmore of an chemical engineer <strong>and</strong> wasn’t all that smooth with people.<strong>The</strong> time came they decided to close the acid plant down <strong>and</strong> purchaseacid from SGM. This caused a lay-off of many people; Dave Axford, mydirect supervisor left on his own accord to go to Canadian Oxy <strong>and</strong> as theadministration got downsized (Toronto head office taking over) officepersonnel were included as well. After the transition period wascompleted, they let even Rick go.


When it was offered to him, Norma Fulleylove took early retirement. Hewas the sales manager for Marsulex <strong>and</strong> negotiated all the acid <strong>and</strong> alumcontracts. He was on the road most of the time, but when he was in (<strong>and</strong>I had dayshift) we always had time for a talk. As I was the oldest <strong>and</strong>one of the most experienced operators when evaluation time camearound, I was in pretty good shape <strong>and</strong> so stayed on till retirement came,December 31st of the year 1994. And it was time to go, the challege wasgone after they shut the acid plant down <strong>and</strong> the job consisted ofreceiving <strong>and</strong> shipping acid.(Photo-Threesome-<strong>The</strong> fmaily)RetirementMy retirement party came as a complete surprise; that’s probably why itwas called a surprise party! Dini knew I didn’t like to go to plant parties.But for this one she had me completely fooled. She arranged, later withhelp from Dave <strong>and</strong> Eric, a retirement party for me under the pretence ofit being an appreciation party for Rusty Hull, the caretaker of the GoodHope Hall. As I know him quite well, he having worked for a contractorin the plant <strong>and</strong> he did some private jobs for me, I didn’t hesitate to gothere. And here were Philip <strong>and</strong> his family, Robert <strong>and</strong> Danelle out ofVancouver, Caroline just arrived out of Irel<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> all the neighbours,Partridge Hill church members <strong>and</strong> fellow workers, it was a surpriseindeed. <strong>The</strong> cowboy boots <strong>and</strong> hat were appreciated! Later in the monthI got a phone call from Bob Dyck, the company presdient Ross Craigie<strong>and</strong> as a farewell present a set of book supports <strong>and</strong> a picture of theplant site. This is the picture hanging in the study of our house.After my retirement I promptly spent two more weeks in the plant, myown time, to dismatle the Quonset hut partition. Beside piles of lumber<strong>and</strong> plywood, I got isulation <strong>and</strong> electrical material. Most of this stuff isnow used tin the replacement cow barn we built beside the hay shed.That summer (1995) we took the Chrysler van <strong>and</strong> went for a trip toAlaska. Caroline looked after the farm with a bit of cattleman’s help fromEd Schoepp; one calf was born during that period. On the way in we sawmy former boss Bob Dyck, who had left Marsulex <strong>and</strong> was working inTaylor for Westcoast Energy. Dini kept a logbook of this trip I wasactually surprised to notice how far north the woodl<strong>and</strong> reaches; wedidn’t reach the treeless surroundings until we left Dawson City to driveto Alaska <strong>and</strong> Fairbanks. <strong>The</strong>re were several highlights, one being apicture we took in the early morning of a lake close to Skagway, the otherone a guided day tour we took to the Denhali park. I will never forget thehairpin turns on the gravel road we travelled. Not a barrier in sight <strong>and</strong>a drop-off of at least a 1000 feet, the driver, otherwiase a nice guy,


talking away <strong>and</strong> pointing out all the interesting sights <strong>and</strong> animals, oneh<strong>and</strong> on the steering wheel. But we saw wildlife <strong>and</strong> we panned for gold.On our way back we took the Steward Cassiar highway leading us toTerrace where we visited with remaining friends. <strong>The</strong>re aren’t too manyleft anymore but almost 30 years is a long time.As soon as we came back home Caroline travelled to irel<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> fromthere to Scotl<strong>and</strong> where she fell ill. In October, after she was well enoughto travel, Dini went to see her <strong>and</strong> accompany her to Holl<strong>and</strong>, where shestayed at the Keizershove to recuperate.In January 1996 we both went to Holl<strong>and</strong> to attend the 50th weddinganniversary of Klaar <strong>and</strong> Leni. <strong>The</strong>re was a house full of people but noother cousins of mine than their children, one of them I met for the firsttime. That’s the result of the emigartion, as most of the brothers <strong>and</strong>sisters of my dad got married after the war, it follows that their childrenwere very young or had to be born yet, when I felt for Canada in 1955.And as a consequence I really never got to meet <strong>and</strong> know them.We saw my first mother again in the Hague <strong>and</strong> this time she didn’trecognise any of us. After the visit we had dinner with hr Gritters, Peter<strong>and</strong> his new wife Bernadette, <strong>and</strong> Caroline. We had a good realtionshipwith hr Gritters, you think there would be a degree of animosity becauseof the divorce. That might have been the case in the beginning butcertainly not in the later stages. He passed away in March 1997; shepassed away in the summer of 1997, she went fast down hill after hispassing. Peter said “Even in her condition, she msut have felt that hepassed away”.In the summer of 1997 Caroline started searching for her birthmother<strong>and</strong> in relative short time she had success. She found her birthmotherliving in Kelowna with a full sisiter as well. What a surprise for her.Apparently the mother married her (Caroline’s) birthfather <strong>and</strong> they hada son <strong>and</strong> a daughter. <strong>The</strong> father as well as the brother died in separatecar accidents. If you see the pictures of Deana (sister) when she wasyoung, exactly the same <strong>and</strong> even now there is quite a resemblancebetween them. Deana stayed with us for a number of months <strong>and</strong>during that time we got the opportunity to meet with her mother.Cruise time came in April 1998; it had always been a dream of mine to goon a cruise to the Caribbean isl<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> further down, worry free travel,no packing <strong>and</strong> unpacking of clothes <strong>and</strong> visiting lots of places. Safewith the Holl<strong>and</strong>-America line, no Greek or Panama-flagged cruise shipfor me. Peter <strong>and</strong> Rineke went as well <strong>and</strong> there we flew to FortLauderdale in Florida; on the flight in we had a flight lay-over to repair a


oken – down air conditioning unit, re-assuring for Dini’s fear of flying!After a morning excursion to Butterfly world to see thous<strong>and</strong>s ofbeautiful creatures, we were ready to crusie. <strong>The</strong> cab driver told us thatany water holding places could have unwanted visitors swimming in itlike alligators. From the motel to the MS Maasdam for a cruise of 20days through the Panama canal up to Vancouver. <strong>The</strong> MS Maasdamnumber 4 where I came over with to Canad awasn’t as half luxurious asthe MS Maasdam number 5. One of the amazing things of this one wasthat there weren’t any tugboats needed when entering or leaving theharbour. With the help of side thrusters they managed everythingthemselves, speed changes were done through a change of screw bladespitch by constant shaft rpm. From Fort Lauderdale we sailed to the HalfMoon Cay at the Bahamas. Depending on harbour facilities the shipeither moored in the harbour or anchored in the by itself. If it stayed inthe bay you were ferried by motorboat to the l<strong>and</strong>ing place. Anunbelievable white s<strong>and</strong> beach <strong>and</strong> clear water as far as you dared toswim. This part of the isl<strong>and</strong> is owned by the company, so everythingwas free including an excellent barbecue. On the way to Curcao wesailed by Cuba to arrive at our destination early in the morning with afull day to roam around in the town. <strong>The</strong> early <strong>Dutch</strong> influence wasclearly to see in the building style of the houses along the quay. It usedto be a colony of the <strong>Dutch</strong>, but the main language spoken is English.<strong>The</strong> canal took one day to cross, the locks bring you up an 100 feet thenan artificial late <strong>and</strong> through another set of locks you go down an 100feet <strong>and</strong> you are in the Pacific ocean sailing to Guatemala. Armedsoldiers watching the dis-embarkment when we took a day trip inl<strong>and</strong> fora trip across a lake to a village where you were surrounded by thevillagers to buy their wares, the only thing I heard Rineke say constantlywas “Too much, too much”. After dis-embarkment off to a luxury hotelfor a noon meal, magnificent gardens around it where we took quite a fewpictures. What we saw, people don’t seem to be rich, primitive housingbut they seemed to enjoy life as a community; it helps that the climate isa moderate one, nother like what we have here in the winter time.Four stops in Mexico; in Acapulco the only place I recognised was themarket place, ther’s were I used to drink beer in my long-time ago visit.In Puerto Vallarta we took another bus-tour, visited a mountain village.If you think the cars away, it is if you step back in time a hundred years.And the people there didn’t accost you as much with their “artefacts” asthey did in Guatemala. <strong>The</strong> four of us had dinner downtown on the roofof a hotel, after we mastered the elevator operation. Magnificent view ofthe harbour <strong>and</strong> town, flowers, music, I thought it was terrific, even if themeal was not exceptional yet expensive enough. On the Maasdam thebreakfast <strong>and</strong> noon meal were buffet style, however you could go to thedining room too where you were served; this we did several times. <strong>The</strong>


dinner was more formal with always the same table guests, two couples<strong>and</strong> one lady out of the Vancouver area, one lady out of Toronto <strong>and</strong> thenus four out of Alberta. We got along real well <strong>and</strong> according to the moreexperienced cruisers, this can make a big difference in the success of thetrip. Next stop was San Francisco where of course we rode the cabletram to the centre of the city; high, impressive buildings, homelesspeople sleeping on the street not a stone throw away. Seattle was thenext stop <strong>and</strong> then Vancouver where Danelle was waiting for us; westayed with Robert <strong>and</strong> Danelle for a day before going home, back to thereal world.In March 1999 we celebrated our 40th anniversary with our children,gr<strong>and</strong>children, family, friends <strong>and</strong> neighbours in the Josephburgcommunity hall; it was very enjoyable. Everybody liked the entourage ofthe hall, white tablecloths <strong>and</strong> flowering plants, food supplied by acaterer <strong>and</strong> a wine <strong>and</strong> beer bar.During a regular medical check-up that month the doctor discovered agrwoth at my thyroid, lucky enough it was non-mailgnant. After severaltests it was decided to remove it, which happened in the Grey Nunshospital in July. Into the hospital in the morning, operation in the earlyafternoon <strong>and</strong> out the next morning; some nice nurces, who really caredfor you. Apparently they put a tube through your throat to assist in thebreathing during the operation; that bothered me later more than theoperation itself.I am practically caught up now with my story, there were lots of visitsfrom friends <strong>and</strong> relatives that will be mentioned when Dini writes herjournal.Attachment #1<strong>The</strong> following is a translation of the speech Fred, one of Aunt Mary’ssons, gave at the funeral of his mother. Most parts are specific to herlife, but some parts portray all the sister Sohl (typed in italic). <strong>The</strong>inclusion of this speech is with permission of Aunt Mary’s husb<strong>and</strong> JookHofman.14th of August 1996We went back along the beautiful road from Overveen to IJmuiden, theplace where our mother’s life started.Our mother was born the first of May 19<strong>21</strong> <strong>and</strong> all her youth years werespent here. Many times she used the bike to take this road to go toOverveen <strong>and</strong> Haarlem. This is the region were our mother’s memories


come from. Here she roamed around with her girl friend Rie <strong>and</strong>together they spent the summer time in a cabin on the beach.And it was here that she met our father, a meeting upon the beach ofIJmuiden. He was drafted into the army during the mobilisation in1939. He carried responsibilities for the defence of the coast (FortIJmuiden).Our mother went along with him to the big city (<strong>The</strong> Hague) where theywere married in 1942.Our mother did show then already how well she adapted to changingsituations; she had a born-intuition into hum<strong>and</strong> relationships.She followed our father to the province of Limburg, where they spent thelast part of the war. This move l<strong>and</strong>ed her in one of the most importantperiods of her life. After she encouraged our father to agree to a requestto join the staff of Prince Bernhard in London, she joined the Americanarmy. With her psychological perception <strong>and</strong> a natural feeling forlanguages she fulfilled the role of translator in the Allied army in<strong>German</strong>y. She was in her mid-twenties <strong>and</strong> in this important period ofher youth she really developed her talents.I am glad that our father <strong>and</strong> our mother found each other again aftertheir war experiences <strong>and</strong> Wouter <strong>and</strong> I saw our existence realisted.Our mother was beautiful <strong>and</strong> charming <strong>and</strong> with all her qualitiesdeveloped into a very beloved woman. I remember very well, how manypeople surrounded her <strong>and</strong> how easy the social contacts were made <strong>and</strong>also how well she could listen to people <strong>and</strong> advise many friends. Ourmother was a self-taught person, leaving many a psychologist behindher.Another peculiarity of our mother I would like to mention was her abilityto look very elegant by simple means; she had a feeling for colour <strong>and</strong>style <strong>and</strong> we, as children, were always very proud of how she looked.It worked out all right <strong>and</strong> our mother kept herself busy with thesematters. Our father was often intense, busy with his work <strong>and</strong> quiteoften our mother ran the household by herself. She never did let us feelthat this effort was sometimes very stressful.Another important part of her life was connected with the field hockeyclub HDM, our father’s favourite club. In her own way she created aspace for herself, giving our father the opportunity to participate withmore people <strong>and</strong> more commitment.


During a later period in her life she got another opportunity to realise hertalents. Together with some girlfriends she ran a coffee shop in a districtof <strong>The</strong> Hague. Pretty soon this developed into a social meeting point <strong>and</strong>it filled an enormous void for the exploiters as well for the guests. Formany years she was the hostess for the district <strong>and</strong> she enjoyed itimmensely.After this period it went somehow downwards. Our mother developedphysical complaints <strong>and</strong> her mobility decreased. This was the time shecould depend upon her friendships; in those years we saw many friendscome to visit her. However her health continued to deteriorate whenabout a year ago she had a setback she didn’t overcome.During this time we greatly admired our father, showing patience <strong>and</strong>carefulness. In this period of his life it showed how important ourmothers influence has been. After her example, through all the years,our fathers introvert <strong>and</strong> surly character changed into an interested,open person, a formidable feat!We hope that when you think about our mother, you remember her as acharming, characteristic woman, using her talents to the limit.My remarks: Aunt Mary’s girlfriend was Rie Hoek, who lived in theKennemerlaan, across from Oma <strong>and</strong> Opa <strong>Prins</strong>. Aunt Mary went to theelementary school E; one ime I was allowed to come along, so I could sitbeside her in her school bench.Attachment #2Anneke’s last letterIJmuiden the 3rd of December 1975Dear Dini, Jack, Philip, Robert <strong>and</strong> Caroline:Congratulations, however I know that I didn’t send this letter in time, butlater a bit more about it, but the congratulations are just as sincere.It has been a while since you phoned out of Canada, I was flabbergastedbut really enjoyed it. How are the boys <strong>and</strong> Caroline doing? <strong>The</strong>Christmas report cards are probably coming again.Here everyhting is going so-so, the radiation treatments are finished,gives me some peace; it was long enough.


Upon medical advice, I work only half time so I can rest in the afternoon,which is nice. In conjunction with the radiation, they startedchemotherapy of one week in a month for two years. Since the 1st ofDecember is it the third month.But since last week complications started <strong>and</strong> that is why this letter islate. I wished, that by waiting awhile longer with this letter, I could havegiven you some answers, but up until now, I myself am unsure of what ishappening. I noticed myself a lymph node lump an dbecause I had to gofor those injections last Monday anyway, I decided to wait. In themeantime eight more started to swell <strong>and</strong> all over my body; that MondayI let them know about it. <strong>The</strong> physician who saw me couldn’t sayanything about it <strong>and</strong> referred me today to his boss, he is a professorwho leads that medical team. But I didn’t get to know very much. Toknow if it is malignant, they have to do an autobiopsy <strong>and</strong> that only canhappen in fourteen days, because a certain surgeon is on holidays. <strong>The</strong>only thing what gives me a lift that it could be a reaction upon theinjections they are giving me. But I have to have a few weeks patience toknow what it is.Sorry that it is a hospital letter again, but I suppose that you wanted toknow. I will write you the result.Are you going to celebrate Christmas?It’s sure a pleasant time; if everything turns out alright, Simon <strong>and</strong> Iwant to go to London for a few days during the Christmas season. Itlooks so good to me to be in Engl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> feel the Christmas spirit. Butof course it is not sur e<strong>and</strong> we wait <strong>and</strong> see; in the first place I hope upona favourable result for myslef <strong>and</strong> in the second place our car starts toshow deficiencies that we should have to buy a new one, so there goesyour profit.Well people, now you know how things are here <strong>and</strong> I certainly expect aletter from you fro my birthday. <strong>The</strong>se letters will cross each other forsure <strong>and</strong> I will know something about you.Manay pleasant days <strong>and</strong> with love from me.AnnekeAttachment #3My talk at my mothers funeral.March 25th 1992.


I am sure that I speak for all of you when I thank Maryke, Bram, Styn<strong>and</strong> Engel for the caring of my mother, your sister <strong>and</strong> Aunt. I don’tthink she could have received more sincere care. Since about 1940, Iwas part of the Neervoort family, when my dad <strong>and</strong> I went to number 78of the President Kruger street on a Sunday morning for a cup of coffee<strong>and</strong> for me to meet Aunt Anna. It has been the only time I enteredthrought the front door, later on always through the backdoor into thekitchen; in the kitchen don’t you dare to touch the countertop!Sometimes, when I talked with Ma about the period before she met mydad, she said: Mary (her older sister) <strong>and</strong> I went quite often dancing inthe Cycloops (Aunt Styn was not allowed to come along, too young), butonce I met your father, I didn’t feel like it anymore. My dad <strong>and</strong> AuntAnna got married in August of 1941 <strong>and</strong> it went from Aunt Anna tomother (she didn’t answer when I made a mistake) <strong>and</strong> called her AuntAnna. Anneke was born in December 1942.15th of December 1944, at three o’clock in the afternoon, Ma was at thegrocery store of Mr. Ott; she came home in a hurry, all upset <strong>and</strong> askedme to go <strong>and</strong> have a look in the harbour area, where my dad was atwork. <strong>The</strong> harbour entrance was barricaded <strong>and</strong> the guards wouldn’t letme through. Later on the circumstances improved <strong>and</strong> life was easier.It was not an easy time for her after the war, a very small allowance, soshe went to work to keep the household together. Later on thecircumstances improved <strong>and</strong> life was easier.She was never stuck for a word (as a matter of fact the whole Neervoortfamily isn’t either) <strong>and</strong> when the occasion arose, she let go. Once I camehome with a girlfriend, she wasn’t too fond of, she said to her: do youknow you are number 22? Later on she took me aside <strong>and</strong> said: youknow the saying: "Hay that follows the wagon isn’t much good." Imarried number 23, much to Ma’s liking.I will close with a talk I had with her during one of my last visits toHoll<strong>and</strong>. We were talking about everything that had happened after shewas married. She said: Jack, I had much grief when your dad <strong>and</strong> lateron Anneke passed away, but the time has softened the sorrow. I hopethe same will happen now, we won’t forget her, but hope the sorrow willlessen with tiem. Her name will be carried by my twin gr<strong>and</strong>daughters,her great-gr<strong>and</strong>daughters Johanna Maria <strong>and</strong> Kathryn Anneke. I thankyou once again for your sympathy.

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