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<strong>and</strong> "efficient" manner. 40 This issue merits special consideration <strong>in</strong> mediationsthat <strong>in</strong>volve people who cannot participate <strong>in</strong> extended sessions, expresstheir views clearly, or reach decisions quickly. 41Beyond this issue <strong>of</strong> flexibility <strong>in</strong> time <strong>and</strong> cost, mediation <strong>of</strong>fers basicconvenience, which may be <strong>of</strong> paramount importance for work<strong>in</strong>g parties orfor family members who are not mobile. The proceed<strong>in</strong>g is not conf<strong>in</strong>ed to aspecific courtroom at a specific date <strong>and</strong> time, but rather is subject to theneeds <strong>of</strong> the participants. 42II. THE USE OF MEDIATION IN THE ESTATE PLANNING PROCESS<strong>Mediation</strong> is typically viewed as a technique for resolv<strong>in</strong>g disputesheaded for or already embroiled <strong>in</strong> litigation. However, if a family dispute actuallyreaches litigation, irreparable harm to the family relationship may beunavoidable. 4 1 In recognition <strong>of</strong> this sad possibility, the utilization <strong>of</strong> mediationor "process consultation" 44 as a "preemptive strike aga<strong>in</strong>st potential litigation"45 has begun to take root <strong>in</strong> the community <strong>of</strong> lawyers <strong>and</strong> other estateplanners. 46 The emphasis <strong>in</strong> this type <strong>of</strong> mediation, just as <strong>in</strong> all other mediations,is to urge the <strong>in</strong>terested parties to construct their own resolutions, ratherthan settle for those imposed upon them. 4740. See id.41. While not limited to elderly persons alone, these characteristics are more likely concernswhen elderly persons are parties to the mediation or other process. See Schmitz, supra note6, at 76, 79, 80-81.42. Schmitz notes, however, that if a mediation is held <strong>in</strong> a private home, "the mediatormust gently take control <strong>of</strong> issues such as seat<strong>in</strong>g, light<strong>in</strong>g, potential disruptions, <strong>and</strong> undesiredparticipants <strong>in</strong> order to ensure privacy." Id. at 76.43. Gerald LeVan refers to family litigation as a "Doomsday Mach<strong>in</strong>e," mean<strong>in</strong>g "a destructivedevice so powerful that once activated, it can't be shut down . . . . Its destructivepower can't be recalled. Everyone loses. Nobody w<strong>in</strong>s." Gerald LeVan, Litigation - The Family'Doomsday Mach<strong>in</strong>e,' LEVAN's CORNER, February 1999, .44. The LeVan Company, which specializes <strong>in</strong> multi-discipl<strong>in</strong>ary family bus<strong>in</strong>ess consult<strong>in</strong>g,uses the term "mediator" <strong>in</strong> the context <strong>of</strong> litigation <strong>and</strong> the term "process consultants" <strong>in</strong>the family plann<strong>in</strong>g context <strong>in</strong> their correspondence. E-mail from Gerald LeVan on behalf <strong>of</strong> TheLeVan Company (Feb. 12, 1999) (on file with the author).45. John A. Gromala, The Use <strong>of</strong> <strong>Mediation</strong> <strong>in</strong> Estate Plann<strong>in</strong>g: A Preemptive Strikeaga<strong>in</strong>st Potential Litigation," CA. TR. & EST. Q., Fall 1996, at 29.46. Mr. Gromala states "<strong>Mediation</strong> <strong>in</strong> conflict resolution is a pr<strong>of</strong>ession <strong>in</strong> its adolescence.<strong>Mediation</strong> <strong>in</strong> estate plann<strong>in</strong>g is <strong>in</strong> its <strong>in</strong>fancy." Id. at 31. Mr. LeVan reports that "[tihere hasbeen much 'consciousness rais<strong>in</strong>g' among lawyers <strong>and</strong> other advisors s<strong>in</strong>ce we began consult<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> 1986. Lawyers are much more respectful <strong>of</strong> relationship issues <strong>in</strong> families, less dismissive <strong>of</strong>their importance as "touchy feely." LeVan, supra note 44.47. Mr. LeVan describes the emphasis his company places on family <strong>in</strong>volvement as follows:"It is our credo that a family that has the resources to create a valuable bus<strong>in</strong>ess or amasssignificant wealth ord<strong>in</strong>arily also has the resources to work out the family relationship issues

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