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1903-04 Volume 28 No 1–5 - Phi Delta Theta Scroll Archive

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i66 THE SCROLL.today. Exactly what it means to be of this minority willalways interest college students and students of colleges.The chapter, or unit, of the national fraternity is generallya club of about twenty men, who club together forsocial purposes, seeking mutual encouragement and strengthof numbers. Where the dormitory system is strongly intrenchedthe system of fraternity homes is not found fullydeveloped, but the prevailing tendency of fraternities everywhereis toward the chapter home—a house where its memberseat, sleep, study, play and entertain.The social unit is founded on an economic principle.Twenty men can obtain more for their money by spendingit together; therefore can be more to their taste.The amount which men might pay individually for rent,or for furniture to be cast aside, will in time pay for permanentlodgings, well-fitted, for rugs, lounges, portraits,pianos and shower baths.The freshman coming to college finds a dozen groups ofmen living there in homes of their own; jolly, energetic,self-respecting and mutually encouraging—a sort of selfconstitutedaristocracy. The freshman will be sought by thesocieties who consider him 'good material.' <strong>No</strong> more definitephrase can be used. The popular notion is that goodlooks, a good family, or athletic promise will win for afreshman his desired 'bid.' The best fraternities judge aman aside from his superficial qualities. Where money, ormuscle, or clothes or cleverness alone are weighed, theresult will be poor, for any artificial standard brings degeneracy.In general it is true that men can find the sortof companions they seek. There is a possibility of errorduring the period of rushing. This is a time of courtship.It can be made a time of senile flattery and fondling uponone side, and of truckling and deceit upon the other; orit may be made a period of manly and straightforwardgood-fellowship by men who wish to become honestly acquainted,to be known for what they are, to choose naturalfriends and to be naturally chosen. The excitement andrivalry of the rushing season tend to artificial friendships.The successful fraternity will make its courtship alwaysnatural, based on real friendship. You cannot make a realbrother of a man by coming behind him unexpectedly, slappinghim on the back and telling him he is elected; nor byinitiating children from the kindergarten. The fraternity

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