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‘Tis the Season to be<br />
Jolly…<br />
My Passion - Issue 4 - December 2015 | 9<br />
Karla Dennis<br />
It’s the Holiday season for 2015!! Are<br />
you freaking out yet? Where did<br />
this year go? As soon as September<br />
comes, I am ready. I have my Fall<br />
decorations out, I have my Halloween<br />
decorations out, and my Christmas<br />
décor is just waiting to be unleashed!<br />
I love the holidays, but for you it may<br />
be different. You might honestly say,<br />
“I hate the holidays. There aren’t<br />
enough carols or funny holiday movies<br />
to make me jolly!”<br />
Let’s take Halloween for instance;<br />
what’s not to be jolly about a ton<br />
of free candy?! Well, it’s not a jolly<br />
holiday for the kids who can’t go, or<br />
for the kids too sick to go. We can’t<br />
leave out the problem of costumes.<br />
When I was growing up we had to<br />
make our costumes; nothing new and<br />
flashy for us. Who wants to Trick<br />
or Treat in some non-store bought<br />
costume?<br />
Then comes Thanksgiving; once<br />
again, how can a holiday that celebrates<br />
being thankful with a delicious<br />
turkey dinner not be jolly? It’s not<br />
jolly if this was the worst year you<br />
ever had, or maybe you lost someone<br />
close to you. It’s hard to celebrate<br />
with dinner if you don’t have any<br />
food.<br />
Which brings us to Christmas: one of<br />
the biggest holidays of the year. How<br />
can you not be jolly spending time<br />
with your family, giving and receiving<br />
gifts? It’s not so jolly without family<br />
or money to buy gifts. What a horrible<br />
holiday for any kid who wakes<br />
up with no gifts, or for you to wake<br />
up and the person you love is not<br />
with you.<br />
While I truly believe that the holidays<br />
are meant to be jolly, there is<br />
just so much in life that seems to<br />
dim or remove that joy for us. So,<br />
how do we get it back or find the<br />
jolliness again? I believe I have an<br />
answer for you!<br />
As a kid, there was one Christmas<br />
that looked to be horrible. I remember<br />
knowing, but not knowing, that<br />
this Christmas was going to be different.<br />
My parents didn’t have the<br />
money to do Christmas like usual.<br />
I will never forget the joy of waking<br />
up and having presents under<br />
the tree. Years later, we were told<br />
that some families generously donated<br />
presents to our family. I will<br />
never forget that Christmas! I am<br />
so thankful to the people who made<br />
that holiday jolly. Which brings me<br />
to my answer. When you are trying<br />
to make the holidays jolly for others,<br />
it somehow becomes jolly for you.<br />
I love the holidays because of what<br />
you can do for others. My life might<br />
be a mess and there may not be<br />
much to be happy about or worthy<br />
of celebration, but that doesn’t mean<br />
I can’t bring happiness and celebration<br />
to others. I am never jollier during the<br />
holiday season than when I am doing<br />
for others.<br />
So, maybe there is still hope for this<br />
season, let’s make it jolly. For Halloween,<br />
you can go to the children’s<br />
hospital with treats; or on Thanksgiving,<br />
you can provide dinner for a family<br />
who can’t afford it; and for Christmas,<br />
let’s buy gifts for kids and visit senior<br />
citizens. Let’s get lost in doing for<br />
others, because their joy will become<br />
your joy!<br />
‘Tis the season to be jolly…