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Simple and Effective Science for Self-realization

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epenting <strong>and</strong> asking <strong>for</strong> <strong>for</strong>giveness with the avowal to not<br />

repeat the act of aggression through thoughts, speech or<br />

action. If a person insults you, you should underst<strong>and</strong> who the<br />

real culprit is behind the insult. Is it the one who insults or is<br />

it the one who feels insulted? This should be determined first.<br />

You should underst<strong>and</strong> that the person who insults you is not<br />

at fault at all. He is merely instrumental in the process (nimit)<br />

<strong>and</strong> it is due to the unfolding of your very own karma that the<br />

two of you are brought together. The fault is your own <strong>and</strong><br />

you should do pratikraman if any negative feelings arise<br />

towards him. If you feel that he is worthless or deceitful, you<br />

have to do pratikraman. If anyone insults you, it is due to<br />

your very own karmic account <strong>and</strong> you should see the other<br />

person as an instrument in the process. Even when your<br />

pocket gets picked, the pickpocket is an evidentiary instrument<br />

(nimit) who is settling your own karmic account. Generally,<br />

people blame the evidentiary instrument (nimit) <strong>and</strong> that is the<br />

cause of all conflicts.<br />

In your daily worldly interactions when you do something,<br />

you will know that you did something wrong against such <strong>and</strong><br />

such a person, won’t you? The worldly interactions you carry<br />

out are kraman. Kraman means worldly interactions<br />

(vyavahar). Now if you have a misunderst<strong>and</strong>ing with<br />

someone, you will realize that you used harsh words towards<br />

the other person or that you behaved wrongly towards him.<br />

Will you not know that? All that is called atikraman.<br />

Atikraman is to walk in the wrong direction, <strong>and</strong> to walk<br />

back the same distance in the right direction is pratikraman.<br />

Correct <strong>and</strong> Precise Procedure of Pratikraman<br />

Questioner: What does one do in pratikraman?<br />

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