Windsor Independent - January 2016
The alternative voice for Windsor and Essex county. Shining a light on local art, music, community, politics and eats. In this issue: The Trailer Park Boys, the Windsor Circus, Council Hijacked, Vance Joy, the Windsor Scene and more...
The alternative voice for Windsor and Essex county. Shining a light on local art, music, community, politics and eats.
In this issue: The Trailer Park Boys, the Windsor Circus, Council Hijacked, Vance Joy, the Windsor Scene and more...
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Saved by the Bell<br />
with Andrew Bell<br />
Cutting<br />
through the BS<br />
of social media<br />
and our online<br />
interactions<br />
Remember the simple days of social media,<br />
where we’d all spend our time bitching<br />
about people who posted pictures of<br />
everything they ate and updated us every time<br />
they had a bowel movement? Ah, the glory days.<br />
This year, we had to suffer through much worse<br />
– Drake pretending to dance, friends pretending<br />
to support social causes through a filter on<br />
their profile pictures, and desperate Americans<br />
pretending that Donald Trump and Kim Davis<br />
had rational ideas. It was exhausting, but it’s<br />
finally over, right?<br />
Guess again. Over the past decade, we’ve watched<br />
through rose-coloured glasses as most of our<br />
social interaction shuffled into a flurry of 1’s<br />
and 0’s, speeding across the world and back<br />
in the blink of an eye. We have access to more<br />
information than ever before, and a logical<br />
person might conclude that we’ve become a<br />
brighter, more educated and worldly population<br />
across the board. That logical person would be<br />
wrong, but a little dreaming never hurt anyone.<br />
The sad truth is that there’s no aptitude test<br />
required to use social media, so anyone with<br />
an email address can instantly add themselves<br />
to the two billion people who already have<br />
profiles. And, just like real life, when you put a<br />
bunch of people with different opinions into a<br />
single room and hand them all megaphones, it’s<br />
guaranteed to be a fucking disaster. If you have a<br />
spare minute, take a scroll through that brainless<br />
void affectionately known as the <strong>Windsor</strong> Star<br />
comments section for prime examples.<br />
But, since the Internet can’t be fixed, I’d like to<br />
take a moment to draw attention to a rift that’s<br />
been widening over the past year, and see if<br />
we can’t come to some sort of logical, mature<br />
conclusion on how to move forward.<br />
This divide isn’t specifically based on one hotbutton<br />
issue, but rather, on our responses to any<br />
given issue on any given day. It’s a metaphorical,<br />
inter-generational dick-swinging contest over<br />
free speech on the Internet. On one end of the<br />
spectrum, we find an ‘enlightened’ generation of<br />
so-called ‘social justice warriors’, who are fighting<br />
to rid the Internet of anything they perceive to<br />
perpetuate racism, bigotry, homophobia, ‘shame’<br />
and other forms of marginalization. And then,<br />
on the other end, we find graduates of the School<br />
of Hard Knocks, who are convinced that we’re all<br />
too sensitive and are fed up with being shamed<br />
out of speaking their minds for fear of offending<br />
anyone.<br />
In my mind, both sides have an argument<br />
to make here. We’re in a time of masscustomization,<br />
where people can build their own<br />
social networks and choose what content they<br />
want to see. We’re also a society in the midst of<br />
a social revolution, redefining what it means<br />
to be equal and safe in a free world. And while<br />
the concept of making the Internet a ‘safe space’<br />
sounds appealing in theory, it doesn’t work in<br />
practice – it’s ludicrous to view social media as a<br />
safe haven to avoid viewpoints you disagree with,<br />
or as a judgment-free shelter where you won’t be<br />
called out for the way you treat people who are<br />
different.<br />
To me, the most dangerous part of this Hard<br />
Knocks uprising is that it fails to recognize an<br />
important truth of social interaction: when we<br />
offend someone, we don’t get to decide if their<br />
outrage is wrong or right. Sure, there’s infuriating<br />
examples of people losing their minds en masse<br />
over the smallest, most inconsequential things,<br />
but we don’t get to decide how people feel and<br />
how they react. We roll with the punches, and we<br />
work towards that elusive common goal of unity.<br />
By and large, people who call you out on your<br />
bullshit are attempting to explain that this better<br />
world we’re working to build is tangible, and that<br />
by recognizing the consequences of your words<br />
and actions, you can make small changes to treat<br />
everyone with respect and dignity. It takes almost<br />
no effort to remove words like ‘gay’, ‘retarded’<br />
or ‘slut’ from your lexicon. It takes even less to<br />
stop judging people based on their appearance,<br />
intelligence level or personal tastes. And I’d like<br />
to think that the premise of a world without<br />
cyber-bullying, depression and teen suicide far<br />
outweighs your cosmetic sacrifice.<br />
It’s possible that these people think they’re edgy<br />
by “fighting against Generation Butthurt” but<br />
to me, they look a lot more like a crying child<br />
throwing a temper tantrum because they can’t get<br />
their way. Losing your privilege is hard to cope<br />
with, but the world isn’t about to throw you a pity<br />
party or hand you a hot cookie. Welcome to the<br />
marginalized perspective, we hope you enjoy it<br />
here.<br />
So if you’re worried that what you’re posting is<br />
going to rub people the wrong way, take three<br />
deep breaths and try to wrap your head around<br />
the fact that what you’re posting is probably<br />
offensive. If you can’t justify a reason to post<br />
something beyond getting a reaction, you’re<br />
either a really good troll or a really bad person.<br />
It’s still your choice, of course – it’s still a free<br />
country, and an even freer Internet. Just accept<br />
that people will probably think you’re an asshole,<br />
and they’ll make sure you know that. If you can’t<br />
come to terms with that, well, put a fucking sock<br />
in it.<br />
Hold off on those songs of victory, Social Justice<br />
Warriors – if you think I’m behind you, you’ve<br />
got another thing coming. Do I think that it’s<br />
crucial that we continue to reframe global<br />
thinking on issues of social justice and human<br />
rights? Sure. But the way that so many of you go<br />
about that monumental task makes it easy to see<br />
why people are getting sick of you. It’s another<br />
lesson in applied entitlement, and I hope you’re<br />
paying attention.<br />
When most of us respond to things we see<br />
online, we have a very short reaction time, and<br />
it often leads to hyperbolic black-and-white<br />
declarations that have little to no basis in fact. We<br />
lob judgment bombs at each other safely behind<br />
our keyboards, and assign labels immediately<br />
based on where we stand on any given topic.<br />
Sometimes they’re merited, but it’s rare. Here are<br />
a few examples:<br />
You don’t think Caitlyn Jenner is a hero because<br />
of the opportunities her wealth and privilege<br />
afforded her? You’re a transphobic piece of shit.<br />
You’re not sure we have the resources to support<br />
an influx of refugees right now? You’re a<br />
xenophobic douchebag who doesn’t belong in<br />
this country.<br />
You still laugh<br />
at clips from<br />
The Cosby<br />
Show? You’re<br />
a pro-rape<br />
misogynist<br />
and I hope you<br />
break your<br />
neck.<br />
Are you picking up what I’m throwing down?<br />
We find ourselves poised at all of these critical<br />
junctures to discuss and reframe our thinking<br />
on things like sexual assault, foreign policy<br />
and gender identity, and instead of focusing on<br />
issues and solutions, you’re wasting your time<br />
drawing subjective lines in the sand between<br />
‘good’ and ‘bad’ people. You don’t even have to<br />
substantiate your decisions – just pick your side,<br />
call a spade a spade (even if you don’t know what<br />
a spade is) and spread your new perception like<br />
wildfire. Assuming you never slip up and Tweet<br />
something bigoted, you get to play judge, jury<br />
and executioner in 160 characters or less.<br />
The truth is that most people on social media<br />
are fucking idiots. That’s why we enjoy it so<br />
much, regardless of how we use it – and I’m just<br />
as guilty on all fronts. We all share the same<br />
shitty personality traits: we easily forget that<br />
other peoples’ opinions are valid, we care very<br />
little about substantiated fact, and we prioritize<br />
the sound of our own voices over the value of<br />
intellectual debate. And if we reach a point in<br />
this social experiment where we can no longer<br />
handle a free exchange of opposing ideas without<br />
digging trenches and lobbing bombs until<br />
one side wipes the other out, we’ll be willingly<br />
marching ourselves backwards through history.<br />
Indulge me for a minute, and imagine if the<br />
Internet wasn’t an endless warehouse of invisible<br />
binary data. Picture it as thousands of physical<br />
message boards planted across town, where<br />
every comment had to be written and posted.<br />
Would we risk running into the people whose<br />
character we’re trashing? Would we willingly<br />
kill a thousand trees every day just so we could<br />
all posts rambling paragraphs echoing the<br />
exact same sentiment? Save the environment,<br />
folks, and have the decency to use the passive<br />
aggressive tools (see: the Like button) that social<br />
media have to offer. If all you want is to be seen,<br />
congratulations – you’re ruining the Internet.<br />
We can’t shame each other into building a better<br />
world. All that does is make people frightened<br />
of each other, and fear can quickly manifest into<br />
hate. By continuing to educate ourselves on the<br />
changing world we live in; challenging each<br />
other’s views with respectful disagreement and<br />
verifiable facts; and striving to move the world<br />
forward together – we might just have a chance<br />
to save this floating piece of garbage before it<br />
sinks.<br />
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m attempting to<br />
explain to a grown man that advocating vigilante<br />
justice in the form of raping and torturing<br />
someone who taped a dog’s mouth shut makes<br />
them a sociopath. No wonder the aliens haven’t<br />
taken over yet – they’re patiently waiting for us to<br />
destroy ourselves.<br />
24 JANUARY <strong>2016</strong> Vol. 04 | Issue 01