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Who Votes in the<br />

March 5th Election?<br />

By LeNae<br />

Goolsby, JD<br />

“If you cannot be positive,<br />

at least be quiet.”<br />

~ Joel Osteen<br />

One <strong>of</strong> my core beliefs is that life happens<br />

for me, not to me. This is not a belief<br />

that I was imprinted with during the<br />

formative years <strong>of</strong> my childhood, nor was<br />

it a belief that I bought into from church<br />

or school, or other potential influencers<br />

growing up. In fact, for a better part <strong>of</strong><br />

my young adult life, it did not at all appear<br />

that my life was doing anything other than<br />

pulling me down and working overtime to<br />

hold me back in the muck and the mire <strong>of</strong><br />

struggle and lack.<br />

It was not until a few years ago, actually,<br />

that I consciously chose to shift myself out<br />

<strong>of</strong> the subconscious and innate belief that<br />

I am destined to be “like a plastic bag drifting<br />

through the wind,” as Katy Perry puts it.<br />

I chose to adopt a new belief, a belief that<br />

actually serves me, that actually puts me<br />

more into alignment with faith, peace, and<br />

joy. Ergo, life happens for me.<br />

<strong>The</strong> biblical corollary to this is, “And we<br />

know that in all things God works for the<br />

good <strong>of</strong> those who love him, who have<br />

been called according to his purpose.” Romans<br />

8:28. Guess what? As all people are<br />

aspect <strong>of</strong> the Divine, and all aspects <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Divine are “called,” life is happening for all<br />

<strong>of</strong> us, all <strong>of</strong> the time.<br />

“When you complain you make<br />

yourself a victim. Leave the situation,<br />

change the situation, or<br />

accept it. All else is madness.”<br />

~ Ekhart Tolle<br />

Last week I had the oddest day. <strong>The</strong> kids<br />

were 20 minutes late for school because<br />

we sat in traffic for 40 minutes. <strong>The</strong> dog<br />

got sick in the back <strong>of</strong> my car on the way<br />

to taking him to the vet. After waiting for 2<br />

hours for the auto detailer to clean what I<br />

could not, I had to wait another 40 minutes<br />

because for some bizarre reason they neglected<br />

to so much as vacuum the back <strong>of</strong><br />

the SUV where the incident occurred.<br />

At the end <strong>of</strong> the day I calculated that<br />

I had spent about 4 hours <strong>of</strong> my day just<br />

waiting. If this kind <strong>of</strong> day had happened<br />

to me a few years ago I would have complained<br />

myself into an absolute state <strong>of</strong><br />

disgust, angst and ire. But here’s the thing<br />

with complaining, not only does it self-induce<br />

unnecessary stress, but doing so actually<br />

creates more opportunities to complain<br />

about. What we speak about, we<br />

bring about.<br />

“If you don’t like something,<br />

change it. If you can’t change it,<br />

change your attitude.<br />

Don’t complain.”<br />

~ Maya Angelou<br />

Instead <strong>of</strong> putting more and more negative<br />

energy into a situation that I do not<br />

prefer, I choose to pivot my attention to<br />

what I do desire. One <strong>of</strong> the most practical<br />

methods I have discovered for accomplishing<br />

this is to consciously choose to step<br />

outside <strong>of</strong> my immediate emotional state<br />

and become an unattached observer to<br />

the experience.<br />

For example, when I am sitting in traffic<br />

on a clear sunny day for no apparent<br />

good reason, and I notice that I am getting<br />

stressed out because being late is something<br />

that I do not prefer to be, I choose to<br />

release my state <strong>of</strong> frustration and agitation,<br />

and just notice that yep, I’m in traffic.<br />

Yep, I’m probably going to be late. It is what<br />

it is, and this is happening for me, even if I<br />

do not understand why or how. My mantra<br />

<strong>of</strong> choice becomes, “All is well,” because,<br />

even if it does not immediately register in<br />

our reality, all really is well.<br />

LeNae Goolsby, JD<br />

is a Personal<br />

Empowerment Life<br />

Coach and the<br />

Practice Administrator for Infinite Health<br />

Integrative Medicine Center. She is also an<br />

adored wife, blessed mother <strong>of</strong> three<br />

awesome and amazing kids, and an<br />

infinite being in a body working on<br />

counting her blessings at every stoplight.<br />

<strong>The</strong> upcoming<br />

March 5th<br />

Presidential<br />

Preference<br />

Primary is a<br />

CLOSED PARTY<br />

PRIMARY by the<br />

choice <strong>of</strong> the Democrat and Republican<br />

parties in <strong>Louisiana</strong>.<br />

That means only Democrats<br />

will vote for candidates on the<br />

Democratic Party Ballot and<br />

only Republicans will vote for<br />

Republican candidates on the<br />

Republican Party Ballot.<br />

Angie Quienalty, Calcasieu<br />

Parish Registrar <strong>of</strong> Voters, reminds<br />

us to exercise our right to<br />

vote. “A lot <strong>of</strong> people have sacrificed<br />

and given their lives so we<br />

have the right to vote on leaders<br />

who make decisions that affect<br />

our daily lives,” Quienalty said.<br />

“Other countries would love to<br />

have this election process.”<br />

Echoing Quienalty’s statements,<br />

Lynn Jones, Calcasieu<br />

Parish Clerk <strong>of</strong> Court, said,<br />

“While you read this, there is a<br />

soldier in a foreign land fighting<br />

for his or her life – and for your<br />

safety. This soldier has left family,<br />

parents and children behind.<br />

This soldier is not the first. He<br />

or she is one <strong>of</strong> so many who<br />

fought or died for you and me<br />

and our freedoms. This should<br />

give us great pause. To cast your<br />

vote, even if you can’t agree fully<br />

with the options or the candidates,<br />

is to honor those who<br />

have literally given everything<br />

to help you keep the right to do<br />

so.” Continues Jones, “Your vote<br />

is an affirmation <strong>of</strong> freedom. It<br />

is a privilege some would, and<br />

have, given their life to exercise.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> March 5, 2016 Presidential<br />

Preference Primary and Municipal<br />

Primary is a Closed Party<br />

Election in <strong>Louisiana</strong>. A Closed<br />

Party Election means voters<br />

wishing to vote in this election<br />

must be registered Democrat<br />

or Republican. If you are registered<br />

as No Party, None, Other<br />

Party, Green, Reform or Libertarian<br />

Party Member you will NOT<br />

be eligible to vote in the Presidential<br />

Preference Party Primary<br />

on March 5th. <strong>The</strong> opportunity<br />

to change your party affiliation<br />

has passed for this election. This<br />

is the only election in the state<br />

that is restricted to party affiliation.<br />

Independents and members<br />

<strong>of</strong> other parties will only be<br />

able to vote on local issues. For<br />

additional information regarding<br />

your voting status, ballot<br />

information, registering to vote,<br />

upcoming election dates and<br />

more go to: www.sos.la.gov/<br />

electionsandvoting, www.calclerk<strong>of</strong>court.com/elections,<br />

or<br />

geuxvote.com. Additional information<br />

can be obtained by<br />

calling the Registrar <strong>of</strong> Voters’<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice at 337-721-4000 or the<br />

Clerk <strong>of</strong> Court’s <strong>of</strong>fice at 337-<br />

437-3500.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Open Primary Presidential<br />

and Congressional Election<br />

will be November 8, 2016. All<br />

registered voters will have the<br />

opportunity to participate in<br />

this election. Exercise your right<br />

and privilege to vote by going<br />

to the polls on every Election<br />

Day and voting. Early Voting<br />

dates: Saturday, February 20th<br />

– Saturday, February 27th (excluding<br />

Sunday). Locations for<br />

Early Voting: Registrar <strong>of</strong> Voters<br />

Office hours: 8:30 AM – 6:00 PM;<br />

West Cal Business Center at 500<br />

A N. Huntington Bldg. B (next<br />

to police station); Moss Bluff Library<br />

261 Parish Road.<br />

LOCAL NEWS, EVENTS, STORIES & PEOPLE<br />

FEBRUARY 2016 THEVOICEOFSOUTHWESTLA.COM Volume 3 • Number 7 Volume 3 • Number 7 THEVOICEOFSOUTHWESTLA.COM FEBRUARY 2016

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