Considering Family Reconnection and Reunification after Child Sexual Abuse
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Note From the Authors<br />
Few topics stir up such deeply emotional responses as the sexual abuse of a child.<br />
When we began talking about this guide we were met with a range of reactions<br />
from anger <strong>and</strong> fear to a deep appreciation for taking on a project that will provide<br />
a thoughtful examination of this important issue, sometimes from the very same people.<br />
What we have begun to see is that each reaction is tied to the image that person holds<br />
in the moment of who a “sex offender” is, <strong>and</strong> how fully the person has internalized the<br />
widespread <strong>and</strong> sometimes misleading assumptions <strong>and</strong> stereotypes about people who<br />
have sexually abused a child.<br />
The reactions we have heard to family reunification have tended to be quite different<br />
depending on whether an individual’s image of the sexually abusive person is that of a<br />
child, who is sexually-reactive to his or her own abuse experiences, versus an image of<br />
a manipulative adult family member, who has not acknowledged the harm or respected<br />
boundaries of the family.<br />
<strong>Considering</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Reconnection</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Reunification</strong> <strong>after</strong> <strong>Child</strong> <strong>Sexual</strong> <strong>Abuse</strong> 1