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Considering Family Reconnection and Reunification after Child Sexual Abuse

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Note From the Authors<br />

Few topics stir up such deeply emotional responses as the sexual abuse of a child.<br />

When we began talking about this guide we were met with a range of reactions<br />

from anger <strong>and</strong> fear to a deep appreciation for taking on a project that will provide<br />

a thoughtful examination of this important issue, sometimes from the very same people.<br />

What we have begun to see is that each reaction is tied to the image that person holds<br />

in the moment of who a “sex offender” is, <strong>and</strong> how fully the person has internalized the<br />

widespread <strong>and</strong> sometimes misleading assumptions <strong>and</strong> stereotypes about people who<br />

have sexually abused a child.<br />

The reactions we have heard to family reunification have tended to be quite different<br />

depending on whether an individual’s image of the sexually abusive person is that of a<br />

child, who is sexually-reactive to his or her own abuse experiences, versus an image of<br />

a manipulative adult family member, who has not acknowledged the harm or respected<br />

boundaries of the family.<br />

<strong>Considering</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Reconnection</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Reunification</strong> <strong>after</strong> <strong>Child</strong> <strong>Sexual</strong> <strong>Abuse</strong> 1

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