Wishesh Magazine August 2016

No relationship can survive
with a lack of trust between
the individuals involved. It
is very essential to maintain
and continuously strengthen
the trust throughout the
relationship. Trust forms
the basis, on which happy
relationships are built strong
to survive any storm.
A relationship cannot yield
happiness if the persons
involved do not respect
each other. Respect
strengthens, loyalty towards
the individuals. Without
mutual respect it is difficult
to maintain cordiality which
is essential for any happy
relationship.
No relationship can be built
on lies. You have to instill
trust in you by your words
and actions. Only then the
others will be able to share
their thoughts, views and
feelings with you. Individuals
have different needs and
expectations. Hence it is
very much required to show
others, that you can be relied
upon in difficult times. Distrust
and dishonesty are destroyers
of any relationship.
In any relationship, the people
involved need to show how
much they care for the other.
Care can be in the form of
support in turbulent times or
can also be by being a crying
shoulder and listening to the
problems, which other person
is going through in their life.
Giving credit to the other
person when it is due and
genuine appreciation in public
can make the relationship to
grow stronger.
Mutual understanding
plays an important role in
the success of any happy
relationship as, every
individual is different. Each
one of us, have unique
strengths and weaknesses.
Avoid criticizing the other
person’s flaws in public.
This gives rise to a feeling
of insecurity within the
partner and can create
misunderstanding.
Anyone can make a
concerted effort to practice
forgiveness, be kinder and
more helpful. You can be
kinder in simple ways, such
as smiling more often, putting
a spark in the tone of your
voice and giving people the
benefit of the doubt. Be sure
to take note of how you feel,
when you do a good deed
for someone. Kindness is the
food for the soul, and it’s a
great relationship strategy.
You’ll not only decrease your
relationship problems and
bring people closer to you, but
also you will feel wonderful!
AUGUST 2016 | WWW.WISHESH.COM