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The Actions of One<br />
Affects So Many<br />
Reactions from the UR IT Staff<br />
“<br />
What<br />
is worth<br />
all of this?”<br />
These days, it is known that<br />
a gunman, a robber, or any<br />
other criminal can strike<br />
anywhere and for any reason. Not<br />
long ago, that experience became all<br />
too real for UR IT Magazine owner<br />
and photographer Jeremy Clark.<br />
On June 13, the boyfriend of one<br />
of the magazine’s (former) models<br />
entered Jeremy’s home early in the<br />
morning and threatened<br />
him with a gun to turn<br />
over all photos and other<br />
magazine information.<br />
There went Jeremy’s hard<br />
work, the models’ time and<br />
effort, the writers’ articles,<br />
the graphic designer’s<br />
creativity—everything—<br />
on computers, cameras,<br />
hard drives. All because of<br />
one model and one photo.<br />
Upon hearing the news,<br />
the models and others<br />
were shocked and have<br />
since spoken out and<br />
shared their feelings.<br />
Immediately, the<br />
majority of the models<br />
expressed their hopes<br />
that Jeremy was okay and offered<br />
prayers.<br />
As soon as the news was shared<br />
with models, they responded:<br />
“People overreact over such petty<br />
things; it’s very sad.” “They will<br />
get what they deserve.” “I really<br />
don’t understand some people.”<br />
“Some people are just down-right<br />
cold-hearted.” And one, upon<br />
expressing her anger, questioned,<br />
“What is worth all of this?”<br />
That is one question no one can<br />
answer but the actor himself and<br />
he will likely never provide a public<br />
answer. Maybe he will feel guilt, or<br />
no guilt and, maybe it was all worth<br />
it to him over one photo. Maybe<br />
not…or maybe it won’t be once the<br />
legalities are straightened out. But<br />
no matter what that answer may<br />
be, the incident happened and the<br />
models and UR IT staff are the ones<br />
losing out.<br />
The mother of two UR IT models<br />
said that she is enraged over<br />
the incident, though no one was<br />
physically harmed.<br />
“The thought of some random<br />
person stealing the photos of my<br />
girls as well as many girls I’ve<br />
come to meet through UR IT has<br />
me very angry and upset,” she said.<br />
“I’m concerned as to what he may<br />
do with the photos—where they<br />
may end up.”<br />
This woman said if she could, she<br />
would love to tell the actor<br />
“he had no right to take the<br />
work from the girls.”<br />
“A lot goes into the shoots<br />
and photos from all involved<br />
and it was completely<br />
unnecessary for him to ruin<br />
all the hard work, simply<br />
because he did not like<br />
what his own girlfriend<br />
did,” she shared. “And to his<br />
girlfriend, I’d like to tell her<br />
she’s ridiculous for putting<br />
others in danger for her<br />
poor choice in boys.”<br />
Some models and staff<br />
members were not sure<br />
the threat was real and<br />
questioned if Jeremy was<br />
joking, because they recognize his<br />
friendly and humorous personality.<br />
“I was really hoping he was joking,”<br />
said one model/staff member. Soon,<br />
she realized someone had really<br />
threatened Jeremy’s life and stole<br />
all UR IT materials.<br />
“My mind raced,” she said. “My<br />
heart was racing. I was angry and<br />
worried; who could have done such<br />
a thing? Is Jer‘ okay?”<br />
She, like many others, awaited a<br />
call or news that everything was<br />
okay. Relief was felt as soon as<br />
Jeremy was able to explain what<br />
had happened and say that he was<br />
all right—physically.<br />
“I was relieved,” the model/staff<br />
member stated. “But when I found<br />
out who it was and what happened,<br />
I didn’t know what to say. I was so<br />
angry, hurt and disappointed. Why<br />
did they have to do this? Everything<br />
we have all worked hard for and it<br />
was gone in 10 minutes.”<br />
Frustration is another emotion<br />
ranking close with anger in the<br />
situation. Fright is another: The<br />
actor could possibly have personal<br />
information and photos of nearly<br />
all of the models.<br />
“This guy and girl who have our<br />
information really need help and/<br />
or to possibly reevaluate their<br />
relationship. There is no reason<br />
for any of us to be going through<br />
this,” another model said. “This is<br />
supposed to be fun, not putting<br />
anyone in harm’s way.”<br />
“I have been waiting a few months<br />
to get my pictures, I’ve attended<br />
various shoots, put a lot of time<br />
and effort into these shoots, and<br />
now everything is gone. Sadly, I<br />
may not ever see my pictures that<br />
I have been patiently waiting for,”<br />
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another model summarized, sharing<br />
the thoughts of nearly all who gave<br />
<strong>reactions</strong>. “Everybody within UR<br />
IT is busy enough let alone giving<br />
up more time to pick up whatever<br />
pieces that are left. It also upsets<br />
me to know that a stranger has<br />
pictures of me and information<br />
regarding me and I do not know<br />
what he is doing with them.”<br />
The models agreed that not only did<br />
the actor(s) hurt Jeremy—a great<br />
person who would do anything for<br />
anyone…a fun and caring person—<br />
but, “They hurt the entire UR IT<br />
community.”<br />
“I am devastated that they not<br />
only stole our images that we<br />
put so much time into, but most<br />
importantly that they have robbed<br />
someone of their peace of mind,”<br />
noted one model who has done<br />
many shoots with UR IT.<br />
Everyone working with the<br />
magazine seems to agree that taking<br />
such measures over one photo<br />
is unreal. They said that simply<br />
asking to have the photo removed<br />
from social media, deleted, and not<br />
published would have had greater<br />
results and far fewer ramifications<br />
(probably none at all).<br />
“[The model] knows her comfort<br />
level and if she was okay with<br />
whatever the pictures were, then<br />
this guy needs to accept that<br />
and who she is. We all have our<br />
boundaries and I know Jeremy<br />
is not going to make any of<br />
us cross those boundaries,” a<br />
model said.<br />
“I can’t fathom threatening<br />
someone’s life over photos that<br />
you asked to have done,” agreed<br />
a second staff member/model,<br />
who noted she was shocked and<br />
livid upon hearing the news. “It<br />
doesn’t make much sense.”<br />
“I can’t fathom why the couple felt<br />
they needed to take such action<br />
against Jeremy, knowing that he<br />
is a reasonable, understanding<br />
person,” agreed a model who<br />
recently spent long days in photo<br />
shoots in South Carolina, with<br />
nothing to now show for that<br />
time. “I have used this incident<br />
to remind myself how important<br />
it is to remember safety in this<br />
business. UR IT has pride in taking<br />
on confident, professional models,<br />
and unfortunately there are bad<br />
apples that have slipped through.<br />
I believe this is our opportunity<br />
to change our safety policies with<br />
conducting interviews with the<br />
new models coming in.”<br />
Some models said they have<br />
several unanswered questions,<br />
and some are concerned with<br />
how having their work stolen<br />
and possibly gone forever will<br />
affect their goals and efforts<br />
towards other modeling gigs or<br />
acting auditions.<br />
“I want to go for acting by the<br />
way. All this…I feel like this<br />
man took right from under<br />
my nose. It’s a small scratch<br />
on my dreams, but I hope it<br />
doesn’t affect me too much,”<br />
said one of UR IT’s newer<br />
models who is working to<br />
gain experience.<br />
The legalities in the case<br />
are not yet set straight and there<br />
is likely a long road to go. It is<br />
unknown at this time if any items<br />
can be recovered, but there are<br />
hopes jail time is in the future of<br />
the actor and his girlfriend in the<br />
incident.<br />
“A person who laughs at the<br />
possibility of someone losing their<br />
life deserves to be in jail,” the first<br />
model/staff member shared. “Jeremy<br />
didn’t deserve any of this.”<br />
“I guess my thoughts are that there<br />
will always be ugly people like this<br />
is the world we live in but we can’t<br />
let them take our smile away,”<br />
a model said. “We need to keep<br />
pushing forward and not let them<br />
win.”<br />
There is also hope that Jeremy<br />
won’t “lose his spunk” or let<br />
the threat affect his passion for<br />
photography and drive to continue<br />
UR IT Magazine. So far, everything<br />
is moving forward and there is no<br />
sight of giving up.<br />
“I don’t think they knew the extent<br />
of their actions,” said the second<br />
staff member/model. “We’ve lost<br />
so much irreplaceable work. All<br />
we can do is try to keep working<br />
forward and wait for justice to be<br />
served.”<br />
Arictle by: Adeena Harbst<br />
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