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Chai Cancer Care Together Magazine 2016<br />

Believing<br />

in better<br />

The potential to transform lives is a defining factor<br />

in the causes that attract Andrew and Orly Wolfson.<br />

It’s why Chai’s innovative approach to cancer<br />

support means so much to them<br />

One of the joys Andrew Wolfson<br />

has discovered in his 40s, is the<br />

breadth of Jewish festivals. ‘I was very<br />

much a Rosh Hashanah/Yom Kippur<br />

Jew,’ he says. Born into one of this<br />

country’s most philanthropic dynasties,<br />

the Wolfson family’s bequests benefit<br />

countless British, Jewish and Israeli<br />

causes and institutions. His very<br />

orthodox great-grandfather was<br />

Solomon Wolfson, a cabinet-maker<br />

who grew up in the Gorbals in<br />

Glasgow; his great uncle Isaac<br />

re-shaped retail as head of Great<br />

Universal Stores. His father, David was<br />

Next’s chairman during the 90s (a role<br />

now held by his brother Simon) and<br />

both are Tory peers. Andrew ‘probably<br />

didn’t do what was expected’ and his<br />

career took him not into big retail but<br />

niche investment. As MD of Pembroke<br />

VCT, his portfolio of brands include<br />

restaurants Five Guys and Chucs,<br />

fashion designers Bella Freud and<br />

ME+EM, and digital media businesses<br />

Boat International and Rated People.<br />

A largely secular upbringing took him<br />

to Radley College boarding school<br />

during term time, and to the country at<br />

weekends. Now, through his children,<br />

Lily 8 and Charles 7, who attend a<br />

Jewish primary school, he and his<br />

Dutch-born wife Orly, 39, delight in<br />

being a part of Jewish community life<br />

that neither was exposed to as a child.<br />

‘We get Simchat Torah and Shavuot<br />

– which I didn’t know about as a<br />

child,’ says Andrew, 47. ‘Moving from<br />

Hyde Park to Belsize Park and then<br />

Finchley has changed our philosophy<br />

of community.’ Adds Orly, whose father<br />

converted to marry her Israeli mother,<br />

‘We weren’t very involved in Jewish<br />

traditions when I was a child, and I<br />

wanted our children to have a greater<br />

sense of belonging. We’re learning and<br />

celebrating with them and it’s lovely.’<br />

POSITIVE IMPACT<br />

The potential for transformation is<br />

lost on neither. Orly is a trustee of<br />

Beit Halochem UK and has chaired<br />

their annual fundraising dinner for the<br />

last three years. Beit Halochem have<br />

rehabilitation centres across Israel<br />

which provide support for 51,000<br />

disabled soldiers and victims of terror.<br />

Her mother went through several years<br />

of rehabilitation after an accident, so<br />

it’s work that’s close to her heart. ‘A<br />

20-year-old soldier wakes up in a totally<br />

new body and has to re-learn everything<br />

from step one. Beit Halochem helps that<br />

person become a member of society<br />

again, focusing on what they can do,<br />

not what they can’t. Much like Chai,<br />

it’s about not being left on your own.’<br />

RayaCottrell Photography<br />

Orly admits she was nervous about<br />

her first visit to Chai’s flagship centre.<br />

‘When you hear the word cancer, you<br />

feel a bit of a chill; the older you get,<br />

the more stories you hear. We all know<br />

someone who’s been through it. I won’t<br />

forget the day Louise took us around. It<br />

showed Andrew and I that the journey<br />

can be made easier. It’s such a positive,<br />

uplifting place. People want to hide<br />

their fears from their children, parents<br />

and partners. Here, you can share them<br />

and become part of the Chai family<br />

of support. The people involved are so<br />

passionate and inspirational.’<br />

“The couple are drawn<br />

to projects that redefine<br />

or disrupt what is currently<br />

out there”<br />

Meanwhile, Andrew is the founder of<br />

MiSST (Music in Secondary Schools<br />

Trust), which grants funds to schools<br />

Andrew and Orly Wolfson with children Charles and Lily<br />

in challenging areas, to buy classical<br />

instruments and provide instruction so<br />

that whole year groups can participate<br />

in compulsory classical music. This<br />

September there will be 3,500 young<br />

people in the programme. ‘In schools<br />

with 60+ first spoken languages, music<br />

breaks down the barriers of ethnicity,<br />

age, religion and socio-economic group<br />

like no other subject.’ Since 2013, the<br />

scheme has seen one student go to<br />

Oxford to study music, and another join<br />

the National Youth Orchestra. Andrew<br />

blanches, however, at the memory of<br />

his own squandered musical education.<br />

‘I was so lucky. My parents paid for<br />

lessons at primary school and they don’t<br />

know this, but I used to tell my English<br />

teacher that I had a music lesson, I’d tell<br />

the music teacher that I wasn’t feeling<br />

well and I’d go off and play cards in the<br />

loo.’ For sweets, he adds.<br />

Betting on the conventional certainly<br />

isn’t Andrew’s style. He spent one day<br />

at Exeter University before<br />

deciding ‘it wasn’t really my<br />

scene.’ He proposed to Orly<br />

just ten days after meeting<br />

her. For seven of those days<br />

they were apart, as Orly’s<br />

modelling career meant<br />

non-stop travel for brands<br />

such as Escada, Gottex<br />

and Wolford. Andrew flew<br />

to Israel where she was<br />

based, for the second date.<br />

‘It was so exciting, I knew<br />

the rest of my life was going<br />

to change.’ Ten years on,<br />

‘It’s the best decision I ever<br />

made.’ For her part, Orly<br />

was taken with Andrew’s<br />

‘gentlemanly manners and<br />

his humour. He reminded<br />

me of Colin Firth, but a better<br />

version!’ Their contemporaryclassic,<br />

art-filled home is on an elegant<br />

North-west London street, where they<br />

enjoy as much family time as possible<br />

– especially playing sport with the<br />

children. They are expecting their third<br />

child imminently.<br />

‘It is very powerful<br />

discovering for yourself<br />

what a difference a<br />

charity makes. That’s<br />

what happened to us<br />

with Chai’<br />

Both as an entrepreneur and as a trustee<br />

of the Charles Wolfson Charitable<br />

Trust, Andrew is captivated by projects<br />

that ‘do things that redefine or disrupt<br />

what is currently out there and try<br />

and create a new normal’. It’s why<br />

he is drawn to Chai. ‘In its holistic<br />

approach, it gives an extra level of<br />

support on those days when you’re not<br />

in hospital having chemotherapy, but<br />

feel rotten. Not only that, it sustains<br />

all those around the cancer patient.<br />

There’s the security, too, of knowing<br />

that Chai understands Jewish traditions<br />

and values. It’s a fantastic – and vital –<br />

service. It’s acknowledged outside the<br />

community that we go the extra mile to<br />

care for our vulnerable.’<br />

THE YOUNG VOTE<br />

With his passion for creating<br />

opportunities for the next generation (he<br />

is also involved in Access Aspiration,<br />

a work placement charity, and PaJes),<br />

he believes businesses and charities<br />

need to gain the confidence of the<br />

young to win their support. ‘Both<br />

have a responsibility to be transparent,<br />

charities especially with their<br />

fundraising and administration costs.’<br />

He advocates organisations working<br />

together strategically for the longterm<br />

good of the community and sees<br />

Chai’s expansion in an existing Jewish<br />

community building in Manchester as a<br />

good example of this.<br />

‘The home is also an important base<br />

for learning about caring for the needy,’<br />

says Orly. ‘Our mum always taught the<br />

six of us, if you can help someone, why<br />

don’t you? If ever a neighbour had a<br />

problem, she was right there. You build<br />

on that with education. Hopefully our<br />

children see the amount of work that<br />

Andrew does, and the charities I’m<br />

involved with.’ She adds, ‘It is very<br />

powerful discovering for yourself what<br />

a difference a charity makes. Visit the<br />

charity. Meet the people who work<br />

there and the ones who are looked<br />

after. Understand the potential for<br />

your donation – and then you’ll feel a<br />

much stronger connection than simply<br />

attending an annual dinner. That’s what<br />

happened to us with Chai.’ ■<br />

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