The Good Life – November-December 2016
Featuring Christopher Zimmerman - Conductor of the FM Symphony, Mr. Full-Time Dad, Local Heroes - Fargo Police Community Trust Officers and more in Fargo Moorhead's only men's magazine.
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BY: BEN HANSON • MR. FULL-TIME DAD • PHOTO BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
Ahh, Thanksgiving. A time when<br />
families gather into confined spaces<br />
and around overcrowded dining room<br />
tables to stuff their faces, give thanks<br />
and air their grievances about politics<br />
and their employers. It’s dinner and a<br />
show, and you don’t even have to tip.<br />
Two weeks after the most ridiculous<br />
presidential election we might ever<br />
see, this Thanksgiving promises<br />
to be particularly enjoyable. I’m<br />
already thankful for the prodding and<br />
mocking that will grow less subtle as<br />
the day drags on... and the punch bowl<br />
dries up.<br />
Aside from the passive-aggressive<br />
Midwestern political dinner theater,<br />
I’m also thankful for several very<br />
specific reasons. As a stay-athome<br />
dad, I’ve developed a serious<br />
appreciation for things that I either<br />
used to take for granted or otherwise<br />
completely overlooked. It’s a running<br />
total, but here’s the list (as it stands<br />
right now):<br />
<strong>The</strong> enduring legacy of stereotypical<br />
gender roles.<br />
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I’m no sexist, but I sure am thankful<br />
for the slow pace of gender equality<br />
when three hours into a five-hour road<br />
trip I pull the family station wagon<br />
into a rest stop and find that only the<br />
women’s restroom is equipped with a<br />
baby changing station. It’s a small gift,<br />
but as I sit in the blissful silence of the<br />
men’s room (while my wife tends to<br />
our son), I give thanks for the poopy<br />
diaper pardon this unjust world has<br />
bestowed upon me.<br />
Drop-in daycare at the gym.<br />
You wouldn’t know it by looking at me,<br />
but I’m in the best shape of my adult<br />
life… and I owe it all to being a stayat-home<br />
dad with a gym membership.<br />
For two hours a day—almost every<br />
day—I get to drop Macklin off to play<br />
with kids his own age under the care<br />
of the best staff I’ve ever dealt with.<br />
It’s a beautiful arrangement: Mack<br />
cheers when I drop him off, I go<br />
admire myself in the mirror while I<br />
do some curls, and then I come back<br />
to a well-fed, even more cheerful kid.<br />
Thank you gym. Don’t ever leave me.<br />
Brilliant bibs.<br />
One of my daily goals is to keep<br />
Macklin in the same outfit throughout<br />
the entire day. It’s not as easy as it<br />
sounds, considering his lack of fine<br />
motor skills and his relentless need to<br />
eat. Nonetheless, I’m successful most<br />
days thanks to… and I can’t believe I’m<br />
saying this… IKEA. It may be my least<br />
favorite place in the world—seriously,<br />
it’s a human ant farm—but, damn if<br />
those Swedes don’t know they’re way<br />
around a bib. All the way around. To<br />
give you a visual, imagine putting on<br />
a rain jacket backwards. With one of<br />
these full-sleeve, straight-jacket-esque<br />
IKEA bibs, you could wear your (or<br />
your wife’s) wedding dress, eat a pile<br />
of runny spaghetti with your bare<br />
hands and walk away spotless.<br />
Liquid ibuprofen.<br />
Drugs are bad, kids. But drugs for<br />
kids are great. When Mack’s gums are<br />
getting shredded by two blunt molars<br />
and a prison shank-worthy incisor (all<br />
at once), I can’t leap off my “Down<br />
with Big Pharma” soapbox fast<br />
enough. And if you think that makes<br />
me a bad parent, come over and let<br />
me stab you in the mouth with a<br />
handful of toothpicks while you try to<br />
take a nap, then we’ll talk… if you can.<br />
<strong>The</strong> family zoo membership.<br />
Economically speaking, our family<br />
membership to the zoo has been<br />
the best $65 we’ve ever spent. It’s<br />
a built-in outing whenever we want<br />
(or need) it. <strong>The</strong>re’s food, animals, a<br />
playground and sunshine. Plus, that<br />
single membership has gotten us into<br />
other zoos and aquariums around the<br />
country for free, and free anything is<br />
my favorite.<br />
Restaurants. All of them.<br />
Family dinners that require no cleanup...<br />
enough said.
Three-hour naps.<br />
Unfortunately, Mack’s epic three-hour naps are<br />
becoming a thing of the past, but they were great<br />
while they lasted. Not only would he wake up<br />
refreshed and singing to himself in his crib, I’d get<br />
a ton of work done while he snoozed… usually with<br />
enough time for a quick nap of my own. (Yes, you<br />
should be jealous.)<br />
Never having to set an alarm clock.<br />
<strong>The</strong> worst part about having a regular job is being a<br />
slave to the alarm clock and other people’s arbitrary<br />
schedules. True, Mack’s schedule can go from<br />
predictable to bonkers without explanation, but he’s a<br />
baby. It makes sense for him to act childish. It makes<br />
no sense, however, for an adult to throw a fit and<br />
demand a team meeting at 4 p.m. on a Friday. As a<br />
stay-at-home dad with an above-average happy child,<br />
I’m incredibly thankful for the ability to take each day<br />
as it comes without worry of deadlines or alarms…<br />
and I’ve got the blood pressure to prove it.<br />
Bathtime resets.<br />
Bathtime gets a bum rap for reasons I don’t<br />
understand. Macklin loves them, and they’ve proven to<br />
be a reliable reset button whenever we’ve mistakenly<br />
hopped onto the struggle bus and missed our stop.<br />
Just the sound of the tub filling up is enough to turn<br />
his cries into giggles.<br />
Buckles.<br />
Hear this: buckles save lives. I had no idea. Buckles<br />
on car seats, strollers, high chairs, booster seats and<br />
changing tables save lives every day in this country.<br />
My home is brain injury free thanks to buckles.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y’re the last line of defense against a baby case of<br />
CTE. I mean, I can’t be expected to watch him all the<br />
time, right? That reminds me… I’m also thankful for<br />
low expectations. Happy Thanksgiving! •<br />
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Contents<br />
VOLUME 4 • ISSUE 3<br />
NOV-DEC <strong>2016</strong><br />
18<br />
ON THE COVER<br />
CHRISTOPHER ZIMMERMAN<br />
MOVING TO THE MUSIC<br />
FM Symphony<br />
02<br />
MR. FULL-TIME DAD<br />
10 Things This Stay-at-Home Dad<br />
is Thankful For<br />
06<br />
BUILDING A BRIGHTER FUTURE<br />
Non-Profit Helps Troops Get New Homes<br />
10<br />
HAVING A BEER WITH ...<br />
Dom Izzo - WDAY Sports Director<br />
14<br />
26<br />
CHASING STORMS<br />
Ryan Mauk - Storm Chaser<br />
HOW TO DRIVE A ZAMBONI<br />
In Six Easy Steps<br />
30<br />
LOCAL HEROES<br />
COMMUNITY TRUST OFFICERS<br />
LIGHT IN A DARK TIME<br />
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BY: JESSICA BALLOU ■ PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA
Homes for our Troops (HFOT) is a<br />
non-profit that helps build mortgage<br />
free, specially adapted homes<br />
nationwide for severely injured<br />
veterans post-9/11 to help them<br />
rebuild their lives.<br />
HFOT provides pre and post<br />
home delivery, financial planning,<br />
household budgeting, home<br />
ownership education and a fullyear<br />
warranty coverage to ensure<br />
the veteran is set up for long-term<br />
success as a homeowner. Since<br />
HFOT’s founding in 2004, nearly<br />
90 cents out of every dollar donated<br />
to HFOT has gone directly to<br />
the program services supporting<br />
veterans.<br />
HFOT assists the most severely<br />
injured service members of all<br />
branches of the military who were<br />
injured in the Iraq-Afghanistan war<br />
since Sept. 11, 2001. HFOT builds<br />
four-bedroom, two-bath, specially<br />
adapted energy-efficient homes of<br />
approximately 2,650 square feet<br />
with more than 40 major special<br />
adaptations to give the veteran full<br />
access, including wider halls and<br />
doorways, automatic door openers,<br />
pull-down shelving and much more.<br />
HFOT aims to build the highest<br />
quality homes using top quality<br />
products that endure the test of<br />
time from brands like Kohler,<br />
Whirlpool, etc. All homes are built to<br />
Energy Star standards to maximize<br />
efficiency and lower utility expense,<br />
and they look for builders with a<br />
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track record of high quality workmanship to reduce<br />
maintenance and expense to the veterans.<br />
<strong>The</strong> nationwide average cost for HFOT to build one<br />
specially adapted home is $430,000. <strong>The</strong>se homes can<br />
help veterans launch a new career or business, start and/<br />
or grow families, maintain lifelong physical and mental<br />
wellness, complete education, and recover and rest in a<br />
safe, accessible home.<br />
“Myself and my family are<br />
so blessed and lucky.”<br />
<strong>–</strong> Master Sergeant<br />
Eric Marts<br />
<strong>The</strong> 18-24 month timeline for these projects involves<br />
about six to seven months for construction. <strong>The</strong> rest of<br />
that time is spent on land search and permitting. Veterans<br />
do not pay a fee toward the cost of the home, and there is<br />
no mortgage to be paid in the future. <strong>The</strong> veteran decides<br />
where he or she would like to live, considering proximity<br />
education. Since 2010, more than 90 babies have been<br />
born to parents in HFOT homes with more than 15 due as<br />
of February of this year.<br />
to family and medical centers, school systems, jobs and<br />
more. <strong>The</strong> HFOT land team locates and provides lots to<br />
the veteran, who makes the final selection.<br />
A veteran must be approved for the Specially Adapted<br />
Housing (SAH) benefits by the Veterans Administration.<br />
Benefits are awarded to veterans with severe physical<br />
injuries, including one or more amputations, full or partial<br />
paralysis or severe traumatic brain injury.<br />
HFOT requires the veteran to participate in a financial<br />
planning program with a pro bono financial planner<br />
for three years. <strong>The</strong>y also provide the veteran with<br />
information on property tax exemptions for which he or<br />
she may qualify.<br />
Sixty-six percent of HFOT home recipients have at least<br />
one child. Seventy-two percent say living mortgage free<br />
has allowed them to start or expand a family, and 50<br />
percent say it allows them to save for their children’s<br />
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As of May 27 of this year, HFOT has built 213 specially<br />
adapted homes in 41 states nationwide. <strong>The</strong>re are<br />
currently more than 70 veterans on the active project list.<br />
For the fifth consecutive year, HFOT has been awarded<br />
a 4-star rating for sound fiscal management and<br />
commitment to accountability and transparency by Charity<br />
Navigator, America’s premier charity evaluator. HFOT<br />
hosts many fundraisers throughout the year, including<br />
silent auctions, conferences, golf tournaments, sporting<br />
events, races and much more.<br />
HFOT is privately funded. Almost 70 percent of the<br />
operational budget is generated by private and family<br />
foundations, individual donors and community fundraisers<br />
nationwide. As a non-profit, all contributions are tax<br />
deductible. To make a donation or for more information,<br />
visit www.hfotusa.org.<br />
Master Sergeant Eric Marts hosts a radio show for AM<br />
970 WDAY called Heroes of the Heartland. When doing<br />
research on issues troops were facing, he saw Homes for
ERIC MARTS<br />
Our Troops. He started looking into the organization,<br />
and he filled out an application. After going through<br />
a background check and other vetting processes,<br />
he was approved to be a part of the program, and<br />
construction is now underway for his new Moorhead<br />
home.<br />
“Myself and my family are so blessed and lucky,” he<br />
said.<br />
Since HFOT chooses a certain number of projects to<br />
work on each year, Marts said he feels so blessed to<br />
be chosen, saying it felt like winning the lottery.<br />
He’s most looking forward to more space and “having<br />
something that is our own with no wheels underneath<br />
it,” he said, as well as “the independence and the<br />
freedom it’ll offer me and the<br />
space to have our kids and<br />
grandkids to be over.”<br />
“I’m so lucky to be involved<br />
with Homes for our Troops,” he<br />
added. “<strong>The</strong>y really are a great<br />
organization with loving, caring<br />
people.” •<br />
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BY: MEGHAN FEIR ■ PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
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Dom Izzo isn’t from around here, but<br />
we’re certainly glad he’s a Fargoan<br />
now. <strong>The</strong> WDAY News sports director<br />
is an adventurous transplant from<br />
Oswego in western New York State,<br />
another city in which the temps drop<br />
and the snow piles up. He was willing<br />
to go wherever his career dared him<br />
to travel, and for 10 years, he’s let<br />
the Fargo-Moorhead area know all<br />
the highlights on high school, college<br />
and Minnesota Vikings updates.<br />
<strong>The</strong> New Yorker is half Italian and<br />
a full-blooded sports lover, and we<br />
were able to enjoy a glass of water at<br />
Drekker Brewing Co. in downtown<br />
Fargo, though that’s not what they’re<br />
typically known for around town.<br />
<strong>Good</strong> <strong>Life</strong>: What’s one thing about<br />
yourself that you think people would<br />
be really surprised by?<br />
Dom Izzo: I drive with two feet.<br />
GL: Like, you steer the wheel with<br />
them?<br />
DI: I have my left foot for the break<br />
and my right for the gas, and I drive<br />
like a grandpa, which drives my fiancé<br />
nuts.<br />
GL: What does being a sports director<br />
require of you?<br />
DI: It’s not for everybody, this<br />
profession. It’s not like we’re curing<br />
cancer or sending people to the moon,<br />
but there are a lot of sacrifices. It’s<br />
weekends. It’s holidays. It’s nights. I’m<br />
on call almost all the time. As soon as<br />
I get up every day, I’m checking and<br />
reading stories to make sure I’m on<br />
top of everything. It’s not a 9-5 gig.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re’s a lot of grind and grit that<br />
goes into the three or four minutes I’m<br />
on each night. I do my own makeup.<br />
I write my own scripts. I shoot and<br />
edit my own video. And I’m glad I do.<br />
It keeps me in touch with all my skills<br />
and sharpens them.<br />
GL: If you could play any sport with a<br />
historical figure from the past, which<br />
sport would you choose, and with<br />
whom would you want to play?<br />
DI: Baseball because I grew up<br />
playing. It was my favorite sport, even<br />
though I wasn’t very good at it. And<br />
probably Lou Gehrig. He was such<br />
an unbelievable baseball player, but<br />
he was an unbelievable guy, too. He<br />
was totally overshadowed by Babe<br />
Ruth. Babe Ruth was setting every<br />
kind of record, and every newspaper<br />
guy wanted to follow what he was<br />
doing. Lou Gehrig is only known for<br />
two things: the number of games he<br />
played in a row and his death. I’m not<br />
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a go-out-and-party kind of guy, and<br />
neither was he. He worked hard.<br />
GL: What is one prank you can recall<br />
pulling on your younger sister?<br />
DI: My favorite team in the whole<br />
wide world is the New York Mets. I<br />
bleed blue and orange. <strong>The</strong>y’ve been<br />
my favorite since I was 5 years old. I<br />
don’t know why I remember this, but<br />
we were at my grandmother’s, and<br />
there was a taped broadcast of a Mets<br />
game on television from the previous<br />
day, which I had already seen. So I<br />
told my sister, “I bet you $5 the guy<br />
up hits a home run,” knowing full well<br />
he would. So, of course, the guy hit a<br />
home run, and I was like, “Hey, you<br />
gotta pay up!”<br />
GL: What is your heritage?<br />
DI: My mom is kind of convoluted. I<br />
think she’s German, for the most part.<br />
My dad’s side is completely Italian,<br />
which is fabulous when I go home.<br />
<strong>The</strong> eats when I get to go home…<br />
That’s no slight to the Italian joints<br />
in Fargo-Moorhead, but it’s nothing<br />
compared to anything back in upstate<br />
New York.<br />
GL: What are some habits or traits<br />
you acquired from your Italian side?<br />
DI: I think their flare for loudness.<br />
We talk with our hands. That’s the<br />
Italian way. I definitely do that, and I<br />
definitely have the loudness. <strong>The</strong>y’re<br />
very outspoken people, and I love and<br />
hate it about my family. <strong>The</strong>re’s no<br />
filter, but that’s a good thing. We wear<br />
our emotions on our sleeves, and I’m<br />
certainly like that. I have no poker<br />
face whatsoever. Could it help me in<br />
certain situations? Absolutely. But I<br />
wouldn’t change who I am.<br />
GL: If you were to personify yourself<br />
as a type of food, which would you<br />
choose?<br />
DI: Oh, my gosh. So you’re asking my<br />
personality reflected in a type of food?<br />
GL: Yeah! Just your typical Tuesday<br />
question.<br />
DI: Oh, goodness. I would say chicken<br />
parm. It’s my absolute favorite food,<br />
and I don’t know many people who<br />
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don’t like it. I know there are some<br />
people that probably don’t care<br />
for my persona and how I act on<br />
television, but for the most part, I<br />
think I’m a pretty likable guy who<br />
people can sit down with and have<br />
a conversation. Chicken parm is<br />
definitely reliable. It’s never not<br />
good. If someone needs something<br />
from me, I would be there for them.<br />
GL: What’s your favorite game?<br />
DI: Monopoly is probably my<br />
favorite. I play pretty strictly to the<br />
rules. You don’t get any money for<br />
landing on free parking or anything<br />
like that. You’re not supposed to. It<br />
says it in the rules. I can play that<br />
game ‘til the cows come home.<br />
It was the Simpson’s themed<br />
Monopoly, by the way, which is still<br />
one of my favorite shows.<br />
GL: Who do you think would<br />
be a better athlete, Batman or<br />
Superman?<br />
DI: Oh, Superman is a better<br />
athlete, no doubt, because he<br />
doesn’t get tired. He doesn’t even<br />
sweat or bleed.<br />
GL: Who would have more sports<br />
knowledge?<br />
DI: Probably Batman. He’s a<br />
smarter dude than Superman—not<br />
that Clark Kent wasn’t smart, but<br />
Bruce Wayne knows everything.<br />
GL: I think we all know this,<br />
but who would have the better<br />
equipment?<br />
DI: I mean, Superman’s cape<br />
is nice, but the utility belt, the<br />
Batmobile, the Batwing—Batman,<br />
by far.<br />
GL: What does the good life mean<br />
to you?<br />
DI: I think being comfortable in<br />
your own skin and being able to<br />
adjust to anything that life throws<br />
at you. Also, finding balance<br />
between work and home. My work<br />
still dominates my life, and I want<br />
to have a family. I think a lot of<br />
people are still in search of that—to<br />
have that mix of being really good<br />
at home and being really good in<br />
the workplace. I think that’s, to me,<br />
what the good life would symbolize.<br />
I’m working toward it. •<br />
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BY: KRISSY NESS ■ PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
Ryan Mauk, 36,<br />
has been chasing storms<br />
since he could drive<br />
Ryan Mauk, 36, has been chasing storms since he could<br />
drive - though not always knowing what he was doing.<br />
Over the years Mauk has amped up his knowledge in<br />
meteorology in sever weather; and for the past three<br />
years he has been chasing tornados semi-seriously<br />
locally and regionally from the tri-state area down as far<br />
as Kansas. He, his wife Alissa and friend/chaser Tom<br />
Reichel formed Northern Plains Chasers in 2015.<br />
When Mauk gets ready to head out for a chase he looks<br />
at different weather models including but not limited to:<br />
GFS (Global Forecast System), NAM (North American<br />
Model) and Euro Models. It is important to gather all the<br />
information you can before and during your chase so<br />
you have the proper tools on your chase. “Meteorology is<br />
the art of professional guessing,” Mauk Said, “I have an<br />
intermediate level of knowledge, enough to know where I<br />
should be in a 75-100 mile radius.”<br />
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At the beginning of this year Mauk began working with WDAY. He emailed<br />
Meteorologist John Wheeler and the two of them sat down with News<br />
Director Jeff Nelson and they hashed out a plan. Since Mauk would be<br />
going out and filming the storms regardless, he suggested his gas be<br />
compensated while he was filming in the viewing area and both Wheeler<br />
and Nelson agreed. Mauk has caught some great storms on film and in<br />
pictures you can find his work online at their website, www.npchasers.com<br />
or on www.youtube.com by searching Northern Plains Chasers. You can<br />
also follow them on Facebook/NortherPlainsChasers and Instagram by<br />
searching: npchasers.<br />
It is important to be very careful and safe when chasing storms. <strong>The</strong><br />
proper knowledge is half the battle the other half is protection. Mauk drives<br />
a 2008 Nissan Xterra that is sprayed head to toe with Line-X, a protective<br />
coating, and body armor that fits the contour of the vehicle. This provides<br />
protection from hail and small debris. This does not mean his vehicle is<br />
hail proof and he can go driving recklessly into a storm, but “It does do a<br />
good job of deflecting the big stuff,” stated Mauk. <strong>The</strong> windshield is made<br />
from Lexan a polycarbonate, which is bullet and impact resistance. <strong>The</strong>re<br />
is also a metal frame with steel tubing with a 4X6 grate that slides out<br />
from the main frame, which covers the windshield. <strong>The</strong>re is no special<br />
insurance is needed for storm chasing, just full coverage on your vehicle.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> thing with tornados is that hail will always be there,” affirmed Mauk.<br />
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“Seeing a tornado<br />
IS ALWAYS AWESOME,<br />
but to see a crazy storm cell<br />
is also exciting.”<strong>–</strong> Ryan mauk<br />
Mauk is also a nurse at Essentia Health, so he is always<br />
prepared to be a first responder, if needed, in the case<br />
of an emergency while chasing. He carries a pretty<br />
substantial first aid kit and thankfully has never had to use<br />
it.<br />
When chasing, Mauk usually has a “co-pilot” whether it be<br />
a fellow chaser or his wife, but there are occasions where<br />
he goes out alone. <strong>The</strong>re is a lot of work that goes into<br />
chasing storms and you have to be quick but efficient when<br />
heading out. <strong>The</strong>re are good and bad outcomes when on<br />
the chase, “seeing a tornado is always awesome, but to<br />
see a crazy storm cell is also exciting” exclaimed Mauk.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n again, you could drive hundreds of miles to find<br />
your supercell has diminished. Nature will do whatever it<br />
wants, whenever is wants. “<strong>The</strong>re is something that is very<br />
comforting about the whole, storm chasing thing,” stated<br />
Mauk.<br />
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STORM PHOTOS SUBMITTED BY: RYAN MAUK<br />
Storm chasers prefer discreet supercell<br />
thunderstorms, “Supercells almost make their own<br />
environment, but that being said, if it starts sucking in<br />
cold air it will kill the thunderstorm real quick,” said<br />
Mauk. “Tornado weather is likely to happen on a hot<br />
and humid day with very little cloud cover.”<br />
I asked Mauk for some advice for first time storm<br />
chasers. “If you follow online blogs, or storm chasers<br />
pages, safety is above all, always have an escape<br />
route, always, always, always,” warned Mauk. “<strong>The</strong>re<br />
was this one storm we were chasing in Killdeer, ND<br />
it has a beautiful supercell and it was really foggy and<br />
we saw trailers that were essentially sand blasted<br />
with hail. Windows were blown out and shingles<br />
were ripped from the roof.” Storms can take a nasty<br />
turn at any minute and you need to be aware of your<br />
surroundings and pay attention to maps and wind<br />
direction or you can find yourself in a very dangerous<br />
situation.<br />
Finally I asked Mauk what the good life means to<br />
him, “Living every moment like it’s your last, as cliché<br />
as it sounds, when you are totally in the moment,<br />
witnessing something with that much power and that<br />
much of its own entity it's like you’re kind of one with<br />
God. You are mesmerized, you can’t really explain it,<br />
and it’s just an air of peace.” •<br />
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BY: MEGHAN FEIR ■ PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
If you ask Christopher Zimmerman, the conductor of<br />
the F-M Symphony, if he can play any instruments, he’ll<br />
modestly say he “can still play the piano a little bit.”<br />
Fast forward a few days to a Masterworks Concert,<br />
where you find yourself enraptured in the beauty the F-M<br />
Symphony emits with every sound from the strings, hum<br />
from the horns, and rumble from the timpani.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re he is on stage, taking a break from conducting<br />
as he plays the piano, accompanying cellist Sergey<br />
Antonov, the Gold Medal Winner of the 2007 Tchaikovsky<br />
Competition in an encore piece. By his modest,<br />
aforementioned comment, you may have assumed he<br />
could recall how to play “Heart and Soul” on command,<br />
not a Rachmaninoff piece.<br />
Zimmerman has been a grounded wanderer for the<br />
past 22 years of his life. He appears to be comfortable<br />
wherever the music leads him, even if that’s over 4,000<br />
miles away from his original stomping grounds. Lacking<br />
the quintessential dialect of the north, he stands out as he<br />
speaks with his pleasing English accent that occasionally<br />
hints at the decades he’s lived near the East Coast.<br />
Despite his many years spent living in America, no real<br />
sense of home has been felt, and the streets of London<br />
still attempt to beckon him back from time to time. Yet,<br />
somehow, Fargo holds a certain sense of belonging for<br />
Zimmerman.<br />
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“I really like this downtown part of Fargo, and I feel really<br />
comfortable here, for some reason. Having been here for not very<br />
long, you can make an identity with a place, just because it’s a nice<br />
place,” Zimmerman said. “I have to say, my wife was not expecting<br />
to like it, but she loved it, she really did.”<br />
Currently residing in Fairfax, Va., close to the Washington D.C.<br />
area to lead the Fairfax Symphony Orchestra and the American<br />
Youth Philharmonic, the salt-and pepper-haired maestro has been<br />
traveling to Fargo a week before each one of the orchestra’s five<br />
Masterworks Series Concerts to rehearse with the musicians.<br />
By listening to their seamless execution, you’d assume they had<br />
practiced more than five times together before the performances.<br />
This is proof that ever since his role as conductor began here in<br />
2013, he has easily been able to connect with the performers on<br />
stage at a professionally personal level.<br />
Beginning in London<br />
Raised in a suburb just south of London, Zimmerman and his two<br />
brothers were used to classical music blaring in their household.<br />
<strong>The</strong>ir mother, an American, was a singer and a pianist, and their<br />
father, an Englishman, played the violin. <strong>The</strong> cultural combination<br />
meant dual-citizenship for the three boys, which would later help<br />
Zimmerman acquire careers in conducting an ocean away.<br />
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While attending Yale for his undergraduate<br />
degree in music, Zimmerman’s interest in<br />
the orchestra as a whole began to brew as he<br />
played in the large ensemble and studied the<br />
piano and violin.<br />
“I wasn’t interested in standing up in front of a<br />
bunch of people and making a complete idiot<br />
out of myself,” Zimmerman said, “but I was<br />
interested in learning the mechanics of this<br />
music.”<br />
During his senior year of college, Zimmerman<br />
decided to take a course in choral conducting<br />
and directed his classmates for his final project.<br />
“I was so nervous, but I got a lot of really<br />
positive feedback. I set up my own little choral<br />
group, and we did a whole program. <strong>The</strong>n I was<br />
kind of hooked.”<br />
Through more serendipitous encounters, he<br />
became the successor to direct the Yale Bach<br />
Society and eventually attended graduate<br />
school at the University of Michigan to study<br />
orchestral conducting.<br />
Two teaching gigs at music conservatories<br />
and a few orchestras later, Zimmerman<br />
has garnered years of experience with<br />
both teaching in academia and conducting<br />
professional orchestras, encouraging each<br />
musician he encounters to play with precision,<br />
grace and emotion.<br />
Reassessing the Symphony<br />
While Zimmerman loves and conducts classical<br />
pieces, he, like many others, has a penchant for<br />
rock, specifically English progressive. He grew<br />
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up loving bands like Genesis (before Peter Gabriel went off<br />
on his own), Cream, Yes, and King Crimson, to name a few.<br />
He’s a regular guy who happens to equally love classical<br />
music and rock.<br />
But Zimmerman knows there is an apprehension toward<br />
the music made by the composers of old, especially among<br />
men. So he created the perfect analogy to describe the<br />
quick judgments many make before fully experiencing<br />
classical music in all its glory.<br />
“It’s kind of like this. You say to someone, ‘Let’s go get<br />
some sushi,’ and they say, ‘Raw fish? Horrible.’ And then<br />
you ask, ‘Have you ever had any?’ ‘Oh, no, but I know I<br />
don’t like raw fish because it’s squiggly and squishy.’ If you<br />
have sushi, it’s not usually squiggly and squishy, and most<br />
people who have at least somewhat of an open mind can<br />
really get into it. I think it’s the same with classical music.<br />
It’s not going to sound like rock ‘n’ roll. Sushi is not going<br />
to taste like a burger and fries. Given. But it tastes good.”<br />
“For decades, people have said, symphony orchestras are<br />
on the way out; they’re an anachronism; the audiences are<br />
older and dying off. But today, our audiences are bigger,<br />
we have more young people in the audiences than at any<br />
point in our history,” Boyd said. “No matter how much<br />
technology or society changes, people still are drawn to<br />
human excellence. That’s why people watch the Olympics.<br />
That’s why people go to football games. That’s why<br />
people go to rock concerts. When you see human beings<br />
performing at such high levels right in front of your eyes,<br />
there is nothing like that. That’s what symphony concerts<br />
are still all about.”<br />
In the symphony’s 85-year history, it has come alongside<br />
the community as not only a source of entertainment, but<br />
of hope and solidarity, whether that was after the fighting<br />
of the 2009 flood as they put on celebration concerts or<br />
other ways to help the community express and celebrate<br />
itself. It’s a part of the DNA of the area, promoting the<br />
Men need not be dragged to the footsteps of the concert<br />
hall before being seat-belted in by the expectations of the<br />
women who brought them. Linda Boyd, the executive<br />
director of the F-M Symphony since 2007, wants to assure<br />
men that it’s a welcome environment for everyone. <strong>The</strong>re’s<br />
even a stand in the lobby providing beer, wine and nonalcoholic<br />
beverages to nervous newcomers and relaxed<br />
patrons.<br />
Boyd has been involved with the orchestra since 1993 and<br />
has seen a dramatic shift take place in recent years.<br />
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surging energy of music throughout the veins of<br />
its residents. <strong>The</strong>y even host Urban Overture, a<br />
sophisticated and fun night out for people in their<br />
20s and 30s as a preview for upcoming concerts.<br />
“This is a fun night out, and people are still looking<br />
for interesting and meaningful experiences,” Boyd<br />
said.<br />
“We’re trying to not make it snotty in any way and<br />
make it a fun time,” Zimmerman went on to say. “I’m<br />
convinced that many of the people who think they<br />
don’t like classical music, whatever that is, would<br />
like it if they tried. If you just open your ears to the<br />
sounds themselves and not have a preconceived<br />
notion, it will speak to you more than you would<br />
think it would.”<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Masterworks<br />
Concert Series is<br />
held at NDSU’s Festival<br />
Concert Hall with the next<br />
concert taking place Nov. 12<br />
and 13. Pieces featured are the<br />
“William Tell Overture” by Gioacchino<br />
Rossini, “Concierto de Aranjuez” by<br />
Joaquin Rodrigo, featuring Paraguayan<br />
classical guitar soloist Berta Rojas, and<br />
“Symphony No. 1” by Johannes Brahms.<br />
<strong>The</strong> pre-concert “Informance” talks begin<br />
45 minutes before each concert in the<br />
adjoining Beckwith Recital Hall. Learn<br />
more at www.fmsymphony.org. •<br />
Christopher Zimmerman<br />
Favorite composers:<br />
“As I get older, the real classical guys like<br />
Bach and Mozart I like more and more. I<br />
used to not like them so much. This is why<br />
I think some people think they don’t like<br />
classical music; it’s so far removed from<br />
today’s world in a way. But I like their music<br />
more because there’s a reason they are so<br />
great.”<br />
Favorite time period:<br />
“Every era, whether you liked the dress<br />
code or not, people are dressed in a certain<br />
way. <strong>The</strong>n it would change to another<br />
way. Now, someone could come in with<br />
a three-piece suit and we wouldn’t think<br />
he was weird. Everybody can do their<br />
own thing. With the 20th century, that’s<br />
what happened. Some of these geniuses<br />
composed the most amazing music. In the<br />
last 100 years or so, the variety of music<br />
is so great. So that, in a way, is my favorite<br />
time.”<br />
What does “the good life” mean to you?<br />
“Well, like most people, I like lazing around<br />
and eating and drinking; but I think “the<br />
good life” is when life is full of vibrancy and<br />
stimulation, where we are able openly and<br />
unthreateningly to really engage with the<br />
myriad of amazing things that the world<br />
has to offer. Drinking seriously good beer,<br />
seeing the Taj Mahal or trying to get your<br />
head around Bach’s ‘Goldberg Variations’—<br />
it doesn’t really matter.”<br />
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SERGEY ANTONOV, LINDA BOYD, CHRISTOPHER ZIMMERMAN
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BY: KRISSY NESS ■ PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
Have you ever wondered how to drive a Zamboni? <strong>The</strong><br />
technical name for this machine is the ice-resurfacing<br />
machine. <strong>The</strong> machine was named after the inventor<br />
Frank Zamboni; his surname was the registered<br />
trademark for the resurfacer. <strong>The</strong> Zamboni began as a<br />
propane fueled machine but has been modified in the<br />
recent years to be electric, which is more environmentally<br />
friendly.<br />
I had the opportunity to do a ride along with Lars Hegland<br />
at the Scheels Arena. Hegland has been working at the<br />
arena since 2009, and has worked his way downstairs,<br />
from working in the parking lot to operating and<br />
maintaining the Zamboni(s). This is Hegland’s part time<br />
job - which is a pretty awesome one at that. His full<br />
time job is playing in his band Tripwire. Hegland is very<br />
knowledgeable when it comes to Zambonis and the stepby-step<br />
process was made easier because of that. Lets<br />
kick this off by letting you in on the secrets of driving a<br />
Zamboni.<br />
In six steps I will explain how to run a Zamboni. For this<br />
specific step-by-step we will be talking about electric<br />
Zambonis.<br />
STEP ONE<br />
To begin you must unplug the battery pack, turn on the<br />
machine and fill it with water, which will be laid onto the<br />
ice.<br />
STEP TWO<br />
Lower the hopper - which is where all the snow is<br />
collected. It is raised when you are finished to empty the<br />
snow and dry it out.<br />
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STEP THREE<br />
Release the break, back up and get onto the ice. From<br />
there you will turn on the brush. <strong>The</strong> brush is used to<br />
pick up excess snow from along the boards; you will only<br />
use the brush for the outside lap.<br />
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STEP FOUR<br />
Make sure the Zamboni is moving forward and lower the<br />
conditioner, the conditioner shaves the ice, collects snow,<br />
rinses the ice and allows new water to be laid onto the ice.<br />
STEP SIX<br />
Turn on the hot water that goes on the ice. <strong>The</strong>n turn on<br />
the cold water, which is the wash water, it gets snow out of<br />
the cracks in the ice. Finally turn on the wash water pump.<br />
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STEP FIVE<br />
Turn on the vertical and horizontal<br />
augers. <strong>The</strong> horizontal auger gathers<br />
the snow and the vertical one propels<br />
it into the hopper.<br />
Once you have finished all these<br />
steps you can begin to condition<br />
and smooth the ice. You will take<br />
two outside laps and then go in an<br />
oval shape and come up the middle<br />
until you have covered the entire<br />
rink.<br />
After you have finished conditioning<br />
and smoothing out the ice you will<br />
do all of these steps in reverse and<br />
finish by parking and turning off<br />
your machine.<br />
This article will not make you an<br />
expert at driving a Zamboni but it<br />
will give you enough knowledge to<br />
brag to your friends. So the next<br />
time you find yourself at a hockey<br />
game you can educate all your<br />
friends on what it takes to drive and<br />
operate a Zamboni. •<br />
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<strong>The</strong>y are the guys students ask for by<br />
name at recess. <strong>The</strong>y’re the friendly<br />
faces that represent authority figures.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y are the two men tasked with<br />
creating rules and plans for something<br />
that’s never been done before in<br />
their community. <strong>The</strong>y are the Fargo<br />
Police Department’s Community<br />
Trust Officers, and their mission is<br />
to establish a legacy of trust between<br />
the police and the community they're<br />
sworn to protect.<br />
LOCAL HEROES<br />
BY: ALEXANDRA FLOERSCH ■ PHOTOS BY: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
Officers Michael Bloom and Matthew<br />
Niemeyer willingly left the downtown<br />
beat to take their positions in October<br />
of 2015. Thanks to a federal grant<br />
to support the National Initiative for<br />
Building Community Trust and Justice<br />
across the U.S., both officers were able<br />
to fill a crucial role in the community:<br />
to reach out and educate citizens.<br />
“To boil our position down, it is to build<br />
trust and transparency,” Niemeyer<br />
said. “<strong>The</strong> trust part is significantly<br />
more complicated. We are trying to<br />
do something significant within our<br />
community. We are looking for different<br />
holes that need to be filled, where the<br />
police department can play a role in<br />
really making this community better.”<br />
One of the biggest opportunities the<br />
two trust officers first identified was<br />
working with area youth, specifically<br />
from low-income, minority and new<br />
American populations. “We’re working<br />
to help them develop some interests<br />
and hobbies within the community,”<br />
Bloom said. Nationwide studies show<br />
that doing so helps students behave<br />
better in school, perform better<br />
academically and keep them out of<br />
trouble.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re are a lot of things that go into<br />
that programming, not only to reduce<br />
crime, but also to have the police<br />
department play a big role in helping<br />
a lot of these kids pursue a better<br />
life,” Niemeyer added. <strong>The</strong> goal is to<br />
focus kids’ attention, kids who “would<br />
otherwise just end up playing around<br />
in the park and—out of sheer boredom<br />
and availability—end up getting into<br />
trouble,” he said.<br />
Our job gives us freedom to connect<br />
with people on deeper levels<br />
than most cops ever get to. — Bloom<br />
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LOCAL HEROES<br />
By partnering with organizations<br />
like Charism, the Boys and Girls<br />
Club of the Red River Valley, Legacy<br />
Children’s Foundation, First Assembly<br />
Church and <strong>Life</strong> Church, to name<br />
a few, the officers are able to hold<br />
events such as Cocoa with a Cop,<br />
Cool Off with a Cop, Fargo United and<br />
C-4 (Character, Community, Charism,<br />
Cops) Summer Camp.<br />
<strong>The</strong> two officers also work handin-hand<br />
with five area schools to<br />
be a presence in the hallways,<br />
classrooms and playgrounds where<br />
signs of trouble often first show<br />
up. But no matter how much effort<br />
they make, they say it rarely feels<br />
like enough. Originally, the Fargo<br />
Police Department requested four<br />
Community Trust Officers through the<br />
grant, but were only rewarded two.<br />
“It’s such an interesting thing<br />
because—being just two people in<br />
a city of 120,000 people—it’s like<br />
what do we do and how do we do it<br />
effectively,” Bloom wondered aloud.<br />
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“You can have 10,000 ideas, but how<br />
do you accomplish them?”<br />
<strong>The</strong> answer is slowly. <strong>The</strong>y’ve found<br />
day by day, little by little their progress<br />
becomes more evident.<br />
“When you go to a school and kids<br />
are name-dropping and asking where<br />
(Matt) is when I’m the only one there,<br />
it just shows that the seed he’s planted<br />
is taking root,” Bloom said. “It’s<br />
meaning something.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> Best Part<br />
Considering the officers are often<br />
flying by the seat of their pants,<br />
Niemeyer said one of his favorite<br />
parts of the job is seeing things come<br />
together, people open up and the<br />
community jumping at the opportunity<br />
to fill a role or contribute in some way.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re are some parents that just flatout<br />
hate cops—for whatever reason.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y will fight us tooth and nail to<br />
work with their kids,” Niemeyer said.<br />
But when they least expect it, they<br />
receive parental consent from parents<br />
they never dreamed would.<br />
For Bloom, relationships mean<br />
everything. “I care about people in<br />
general a lot, which is why I wanted<br />
this spot,” he said. “Our job gives us<br />
freedom to connect with people on<br />
deeper levels than most cops ever get<br />
to.”<br />
In a role like this, it’s easy to become<br />
attached. Bloom admits it's one of<br />
his favorite parts of the job. Unlike a<br />
typical cop who may be tied to a single<br />
beat, Bloom and Niemeyer have the<br />
leeway to not only make those special<br />
connections with the kids they serve,<br />
but also to carve out time to foster<br />
those relationships whenever and<br />
wherever needed.<br />
“It sounds simple but, to me, that’s<br />
the world,” Bloom said. “That’s what<br />
gets my heart stirring—the freedom to<br />
really connect with people and show<br />
them how much an officer really cares<br />
about them.”
<strong>The</strong> Double Edge<br />
<strong>The</strong> most fulfilling aspect of the job also doubles as the<br />
hardest. While the officers treasure the relationships<br />
they build, they’re also conscious of the boundaries<br />
they must abide.<br />
“As an officer, you can’t get too close, because it’s my<br />
responsibility—and Matt’s as well—to protect our<br />
families,” Bloom said. “<strong>The</strong>re’s this one boy I want to<br />
take to church every Sunday with me, I want to take<br />
him to the gym with me, I want to be the man in his<br />
life that he doesn’t have.”<br />
A father himself, Bloom admits that he’d adopt a<br />
couple of the boys he works with in a heartbeat… if<br />
he could. “If you don’t see a dad, you want to be a<br />
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LOCAL HEROES<br />
dad,” he said. “But you can’t be a dad<br />
necessarily, because you’re crossing<br />
the line, especially if you have to bust<br />
them one day.”<br />
For Niemeyer, the job exposes life's<br />
harshest realities—people’s stories<br />
that often go untold. He gets to<br />
know people in the community on a<br />
different level; they start to open up.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re are some people that live<br />
really difficult lives and they struggle<br />
with almost everything—food,<br />
clothing, where they live, neighbors,<br />
etc.” he said. “You walk away from<br />
some conversations feeling awful for<br />
what some people are having to deal<br />
with but, at the same time, admiring<br />
them for how they are approaching<br />
their situations.”<br />
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Fighting the Stigma<br />
In the last few years, police<br />
departments across the country have<br />
been forced to deal with the social<br />
and political fallout from the string<br />
of highly publicized police shootings<br />
and subsequent charges of racial<br />
discrimination and profiling.<br />
“Just knowing how only two of us are<br />
taking on that misportrayal over our<br />
entire city is intimidating,” Niemeyer<br />
said. “<strong>The</strong>re’s a lot to do, there’s a<br />
lot of ground to cover, and it’s not<br />
something that’s going to happen<br />
quickly.”<br />
In a very real sense, the role of the<br />
Community Trust Officer is to break<br />
that stigma. “It’s an exciting time to<br />
show people that a lot of the media<br />
has it twisted,”<br />
Bloom said. “It’s<br />
hard when the<br />
story’s always<br />
against your<br />
people. We’re<br />
trying to be light in a dark time.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> more officers that focus on<br />
building rapport in the community,<br />
the more easily the feeling of trust<br />
will spread. “Once is goes from<br />
two officers to maybe three officers<br />
to five, six, seven and so on… now<br />
you’re getting to that point where<br />
the concept of the department as a<br />
whole being there for the community<br />
becomes a little more fathomable,”<br />
Niemeyer said.<br />
A Balancing Act<br />
Little by little, Officers Bloom and<br />
Niemeyer aim to not just tell people,<br />
but actually show people they<br />
care. “For Matt and I—our whole<br />
department—the whole focus is<br />
to show no matter your race, your
eligion, we’re police and we care about our city,”<br />
Bloom said.<br />
Achieving that level of trust requires a delicate<br />
balancing act of getting close to those who need your<br />
help, but not too close to jeopardize your sworn duty.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> nature of police work has the hard contacts<br />
already in it,” Niemeyer said. “You’re making arrests,<br />
you’re writing citations, you’re taking reports. You’re<br />
doing all those things that policing will always involve<br />
and arguably has to involve.” But the soft, social<br />
contacts are also crucial in building relationships and<br />
trust within the community.<br />
Niemeyer said it's the same challenge any authoritative<br />
figure faces—whether a parent, teacher, boss, etc. If<br />
the only time they interact with you is to scold or come<br />
down on you, the relationship will falter. “You’re not<br />
going to have a positive relationship with that authority<br />
figure unless that person is also coming around and<br />
uplifting you, and is encouraging you, letting you know<br />
that they care,” he said.<br />
A balance between the two is crucial. “If you are out<br />
of balance, that relationship is going to be strained,”<br />
Niemeyer said. “If it’s in balance, I think those bad<br />
times or those hard times, you can absorb them and<br />
you can get through them easier.”<br />
For now, the focus is creating good times, creating<br />
strong relationships in the community. Being in a<br />
position where he can make that possible is part of<br />
the good life for Niemeyer. <strong>The</strong> good life “is being able<br />
to love what you do,” he said. “Getting that sense of<br />
reward of what you are able to be a part of, knowing it<br />
matters.” That’s true fulfillment.<br />
For Bloom, life’s about starting strong and finishing<br />
strong. Period. <strong>The</strong> good life means being bold,<br />
courageous and fearless for his community—“leaving a<br />
legacy that people were impacted by,” he said.<br />
“Speaking of the good life,” Bloom said, beaming and<br />
referring to the photo of his one-year-old his wife had<br />
just texted. “That’s my daughter. She’s so cute.” •<br />
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