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Richard MacAndrew, Ron Martinez-Taboos and Issues_ Photocopiable Lessons on Controversial Topics (LTP instant lessons)-Heinle ELT (2001)

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True or false?<br />

Read the text again <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> mark the following statements true (T) or false (F):<br />

l.Jennifer got suspicious because Sim<strong>on</strong> started coming home late.<br />

2. Jenr-rifer discovered Sim<strong>on</strong>'s internet affair by accident.<br />

3. Psychologists agree that an internet affair is damaging to any relati<strong>on</strong>ship.<br />

4. Jennifer <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> Sim<strong>on</strong> are divorcing.<br />

5.Jennifer knows what Sim<strong>on</strong> <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> his lover'said'to each other.<br />

Did Sim<strong>on</strong> cheat <strong>on</strong> Jennifer? Discuss this questi<strong>on</strong> in small groups. Then take a class vote.<br />

Language<br />

ln English we often use expressi<strong>on</strong>s to describe serious or taboo matters in an indirect way. These<br />

expressi<strong>on</strong>s are called 'euphemisms.'ln the text below, underline the five euphemisms that really mean<br />

to have sex with some<strong>on</strong>e.<br />

"l've always been more or less faithful to my girlfriend. OK, OK, <strong>on</strong>ce I had a<br />

<strong>on</strong>e-night st<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> with a girl at the office. But we were both drunk. I'm not the<br />

kind of guy to sleep around. I mean, kissing another pers<strong>on</strong> is <strong>on</strong>e thing, but<br />

actually going to bed with them is another story. I d<strong>on</strong>'t know how I could<br />

look myself in the mirror knowing I had been intimate with another woman.<br />

The same goes for my girlfriend. If I knew she had been with another man, I<br />

couldn't let the relati<strong>on</strong>ship go <strong>on</strong>. A very important trust would have been<br />

broken."<br />

lf you are a man, do you have a similar view to the man above?<br />

lf you are a woman, would you be happy to have this man as your partner or not? Give your reas<strong>on</strong>s.<br />

Discussi<strong>on</strong><br />

You <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> your partner, Chris, live together. One night you come home <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> find the following accidentally<br />

left <strong>on</strong> the computer:<br />

I really love chatting with you.<br />

Me too. When are you going to send me your picture?<br />

I'll have to scan <strong>on</strong>e. I'm not very photogenic.<br />

It doesn't matter. I like you for you. You make me feel special.<br />

Yeah, you make me feel special, too. I had a dream about you last night.<br />

You did? What about?<br />

Hmmm. I think I'd better not say.<br />

What would you do next?<br />

a. sit down at the computer <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> see if there are more e-mails like this?<br />

b. c<strong>on</strong>fr<strong>on</strong>t your partner straightaway?<br />

c. give them 'the silent treatment' until they ask what is wr<strong>on</strong>g?<br />

d. pack your bags <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> leave?<br />

e. have a good laugh about it <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> tell your partner to grow up?<br />

Or would you do something else?<br />

Does this e-mail interacti<strong>on</strong> tell you anything about the state of your relati<strong>on</strong>ship with Chris?<br />

What about the state of this internet relati<strong>on</strong>ship? (How serious is it? How l<strong>on</strong>g has it probably been<br />

going <strong>on</strong>?)<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>Taboos</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> /ssues Cheating <strong>on</strong> your paftner 23

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