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The orland park prairie | March 9, 2017 | 21<br />

<strong>OP</strong> pastor discusses ‘crisis’ that led to award<br />

Brittany Kapa, Assistant Editor<br />

Stone Church recently<br />

welcomed a new pastor, who<br />

this past year was awarded<br />

for actions that came with a<br />

bit of controversy.<br />

This past December, the<br />

Rev. Wes Modder, a retired<br />

Navy chaplain, was honored<br />

by the Freedom Alliance<br />

in Washington, D.C.,<br />

from which he received the<br />

2016 Defender of Freedom<br />

Award.<br />

The Freedom Alliance bestows<br />

the award upon an individual<br />

who, “in the face of<br />

adversity, exemplifies faith,<br />

courage and fidelity to the<br />

Constitution and the principles<br />

of freedom,” according<br />

to the Freedom Alliance’s<br />

description of the award.<br />

Modder had been counseling<br />

individuals within<br />

the Navy, but his methods<br />

did not coincide with those<br />

laid out by the United States<br />

Navy. Modder entered into<br />

a long legal battle after the<br />

Navy tried to fire him and<br />

strip him of his retirement.<br />

Tom Kilgannon, the president<br />

of the Freedom Alliance,<br />

said that the organization gets<br />

roughly 25-30 suggestions a<br />

year for who should be selected<br />

to receive the award.<br />

Kilgannon added that Modder’s<br />

particular ordeal was<br />

one that they wanted to recognize<br />

from the start.<br />

“We are doing a lot of<br />

work in this area of religious<br />

liberty in the military,<br />

and ensuring service members<br />

have the ability to practice<br />

their faith,” he said.<br />

In a struggle of changing<br />

societal views, and the acceptance<br />

of transgendered<br />

and homosexual individuals<br />

in the armed forces, Modder<br />

was tasked with counseling<br />

these individuals.<br />

“I’m the first military<br />

chaplain in the history of<br />

our country to be fired for<br />

doing my job,” Modder<br />

said, noting he ultimately<br />

retired in good standing.<br />

Modder added that the<br />

counseling sessions he had<br />

with individuals in the Navy<br />

always revolved around his<br />

religious beliefs, as he states<br />

was his job.<br />

“I don’t mind following<br />

policy, cutting my hair<br />

short and deploying,” said<br />

Modder, who has served<br />

nine deployments between<br />

his time in the Marines and<br />

the Navy. “It eventually got<br />

down to the chaplain level,<br />

where policies and procedures<br />

were then contradicting<br />

scripture. I found myself<br />

in a precarious position;<br />

I was either serving my creator<br />

or my commander.”<br />

Modder said he was not<br />

preaching intolerance to<br />

these individuals but simply<br />

carrying out beliefs in<br />

the words of his religious<br />

leader.<br />

“We were very impressed<br />

with his courage and his<br />

strength of character that he<br />

showed throughout the process,”<br />

Kilgannon said about<br />

the decision to choose Modder<br />

for the award. “We’re<br />

very impressed with his<br />

desire to stand up for principle,<br />

and the character and<br />

integrity with which he did<br />

that. We wanted to recognize<br />

that, and bring it to the<br />

public’s attention.”<br />

Modder admitted outright<br />

that compared to past winners<br />

he does not believe<br />

he deserves the award, but<br />

is “humbled and honored”<br />

nonetheless.<br />

“The crisis has made me<br />

better,” Modder said. “It<br />

has made me a better minister;<br />

it has made me a better<br />

husband. I cry easier and I<br />

preach better.”<br />

Meet the Modders<br />

After his departure from<br />

The Rev. Wes Modder. Photo submitted<br />

the Navy, Modder said he<br />

decided to let God lead<br />

him this time. He sent out<br />

multiple letters to different<br />

churches who were looking<br />

for a pastor. And after<br />

multiple rejections, Modder<br />

finally found a place to call<br />

home.<br />

“[Stone Church] actually<br />

turned us down, and I<br />

was like, ‘OK, another turn<br />

down. No problem,’” Modder<br />

said of the church’s initial<br />

rejection of his services.<br />

“I think people didn’t know<br />

what to do with me.”<br />

Modder said that he received<br />

another letter from<br />

Stone Church that said the<br />

congregation had reconsidered<br />

and offered Modder<br />

the position of pastor.<br />

Modder and his family<br />

touched down in Illinois<br />

this past October. Wes, his<br />

wife, Beth, and the couple’s<br />

four children — James, Julia,<br />

Joy and Jana — were<br />

welcomed with a small<br />

party thrown by the church<br />

upon their arrival.<br />

Modder talked about the<br />

generosity of the congregation<br />

and the church board<br />

members upon the family’s<br />

arrival. His youngest,<br />

Jana, turned 6 the day the<br />

family arrived in the area,<br />

and Modder said they were<br />

welcomed with a feast that<br />

looked similar to what one<br />

would find on Thanksgiving.<br />

The welcome party did<br />

not forget the cake for the<br />

youngest Modder, and that<br />

spoke volumes to Wes.<br />

“I have never been treated<br />

in all my years in the military,<br />

anywhere in my life, as<br />

well as I have been treated<br />

here at this church,” Modder<br />

said.<br />

The Modders closed on<br />

a house in Orland Park on<br />

Dec. 30 and officially became<br />

residents. But the<br />

family already has started<br />

extending its reach far beyond<br />

the village limits of<br />

Orland Park.<br />

“One of our goals is to be<br />

an outward-reaching church<br />

to the community, not just<br />

right here in Orland Park,”<br />

Beth said. “We support<br />

the Chicago City Church.<br />

So, we go there once a<br />

month and serve meals to<br />

whoever comes and give a<br />

message.”<br />

Both Beth and Wes are<br />

not blind to the problems<br />

plaguing Chicago. They believe<br />

that with outreach and<br />

faith in God, they can help<br />

others.<br />

“We can change it,” Wes<br />

said. “We can change the<br />

messaging.”<br />

Beth said she wants her<br />

family’s influence to “increase<br />

their footprint”<br />

throughout the community<br />

and the city. Beth said she<br />

plans on doing outreach<br />

through a variety of programs<br />

in association with<br />

the church. Trunk-or-treats<br />

for the children, and establishing<br />

a women’s group are<br />

just a few of her ideas.<br />

“I think a great thing we<br />

can do is acknowledge people,”<br />

Wes said. “I think the<br />

church has forgotten how to<br />

talk to people. Look at their<br />

face, even if they don’t look<br />

at you.”<br />

The couple is also planning<br />

to stay for the long<br />

haul and hopes to one day<br />

build Stone Church outward<br />

to include a school or perhaps<br />

a sanctuary.<br />

“I don’t think heroes see<br />

themselves as heroes,” Wes<br />

said about receiving the Defender<br />

of Freedom Award.<br />

“I just saw myself as being<br />

faithful to being a good<br />

chaplain.”<br />

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