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The orland park prairie | March 9, 2017 | 21<br />
<strong>OP</strong> pastor discusses ‘crisis’ that led to award<br />
Brittany Kapa, Assistant Editor<br />
Stone Church recently<br />
welcomed a new pastor, who<br />
this past year was awarded<br />
for actions that came with a<br />
bit of controversy.<br />
This past December, the<br />
Rev. Wes Modder, a retired<br />
Navy chaplain, was honored<br />
by the Freedom Alliance<br />
in Washington, D.C.,<br />
from which he received the<br />
2016 Defender of Freedom<br />
Award.<br />
The Freedom Alliance bestows<br />
the award upon an individual<br />
who, “in the face of<br />
adversity, exemplifies faith,<br />
courage and fidelity to the<br />
Constitution and the principles<br />
of freedom,” according<br />
to the Freedom Alliance’s<br />
description of the award.<br />
Modder had been counseling<br />
individuals within<br />
the Navy, but his methods<br />
did not coincide with those<br />
laid out by the United States<br />
Navy. Modder entered into<br />
a long legal battle after the<br />
Navy tried to fire him and<br />
strip him of his retirement.<br />
Tom Kilgannon, the president<br />
of the Freedom Alliance,<br />
said that the organization gets<br />
roughly 25-30 suggestions a<br />
year for who should be selected<br />
to receive the award.<br />
Kilgannon added that Modder’s<br />
particular ordeal was<br />
one that they wanted to recognize<br />
from the start.<br />
“We are doing a lot of<br />
work in this area of religious<br />
liberty in the military,<br />
and ensuring service members<br />
have the ability to practice<br />
their faith,” he said.<br />
In a struggle of changing<br />
societal views, and the acceptance<br />
of transgendered<br />
and homosexual individuals<br />
in the armed forces, Modder<br />
was tasked with counseling<br />
these individuals.<br />
“I’m the first military<br />
chaplain in the history of<br />
our country to be fired for<br />
doing my job,” Modder<br />
said, noting he ultimately<br />
retired in good standing.<br />
Modder added that the<br />
counseling sessions he had<br />
with individuals in the Navy<br />
always revolved around his<br />
religious beliefs, as he states<br />
was his job.<br />
“I don’t mind following<br />
policy, cutting my hair<br />
short and deploying,” said<br />
Modder, who has served<br />
nine deployments between<br />
his time in the Marines and<br />
the Navy. “It eventually got<br />
down to the chaplain level,<br />
where policies and procedures<br />
were then contradicting<br />
scripture. I found myself<br />
in a precarious position;<br />
I was either serving my creator<br />
or my commander.”<br />
Modder said he was not<br />
preaching intolerance to<br />
these individuals but simply<br />
carrying out beliefs in<br />
the words of his religious<br />
leader.<br />
“We were very impressed<br />
with his courage and his<br />
strength of character that he<br />
showed throughout the process,”<br />
Kilgannon said about<br />
the decision to choose Modder<br />
for the award. “We’re<br />
very impressed with his<br />
desire to stand up for principle,<br />
and the character and<br />
integrity with which he did<br />
that. We wanted to recognize<br />
that, and bring it to the<br />
public’s attention.”<br />
Modder admitted outright<br />
that compared to past winners<br />
he does not believe<br />
he deserves the award, but<br />
is “humbled and honored”<br />
nonetheless.<br />
“The crisis has made me<br />
better,” Modder said. “It<br />
has made me a better minister;<br />
it has made me a better<br />
husband. I cry easier and I<br />
preach better.”<br />
Meet the Modders<br />
After his departure from<br />
The Rev. Wes Modder. Photo submitted<br />
the Navy, Modder said he<br />
decided to let God lead<br />
him this time. He sent out<br />
multiple letters to different<br />
churches who were looking<br />
for a pastor. And after<br />
multiple rejections, Modder<br />
finally found a place to call<br />
home.<br />
“[Stone Church] actually<br />
turned us down, and I<br />
was like, ‘OK, another turn<br />
down. No problem,’” Modder<br />
said of the church’s initial<br />
rejection of his services.<br />
“I think people didn’t know<br />
what to do with me.”<br />
Modder said that he received<br />
another letter from<br />
Stone Church that said the<br />
congregation had reconsidered<br />
and offered Modder<br />
the position of pastor.<br />
Modder and his family<br />
touched down in Illinois<br />
this past October. Wes, his<br />
wife, Beth, and the couple’s<br />
four children — James, Julia,<br />
Joy and Jana — were<br />
welcomed with a small<br />
party thrown by the church<br />
upon their arrival.<br />
Modder talked about the<br />
generosity of the congregation<br />
and the church board<br />
members upon the family’s<br />
arrival. His youngest,<br />
Jana, turned 6 the day the<br />
family arrived in the area,<br />
and Modder said they were<br />
welcomed with a feast that<br />
looked similar to what one<br />
would find on Thanksgiving.<br />
The welcome party did<br />
not forget the cake for the<br />
youngest Modder, and that<br />
spoke volumes to Wes.<br />
“I have never been treated<br />
in all my years in the military,<br />
anywhere in my life, as<br />
well as I have been treated<br />
here at this church,” Modder<br />
said.<br />
The Modders closed on<br />
a house in Orland Park on<br />
Dec. 30 and officially became<br />
residents. But the<br />
family already has started<br />
extending its reach far beyond<br />
the village limits of<br />
Orland Park.<br />
“One of our goals is to be<br />
an outward-reaching church<br />
to the community, not just<br />
right here in Orland Park,”<br />
Beth said. “We support<br />
the Chicago City Church.<br />
So, we go there once a<br />
month and serve meals to<br />
whoever comes and give a<br />
message.”<br />
Both Beth and Wes are<br />
not blind to the problems<br />
plaguing Chicago. They believe<br />
that with outreach and<br />
faith in God, they can help<br />
others.<br />
“We can change it,” Wes<br />
said. “We can change the<br />
messaging.”<br />
Beth said she wants her<br />
family’s influence to “increase<br />
their footprint”<br />
throughout the community<br />
and the city. Beth said she<br />
plans on doing outreach<br />
through a variety of programs<br />
in association with<br />
the church. Trunk-or-treats<br />
for the children, and establishing<br />
a women’s group are<br />
just a few of her ideas.<br />
“I think a great thing we<br />
can do is acknowledge people,”<br />
Wes said. “I think the<br />
church has forgotten how to<br />
talk to people. Look at their<br />
face, even if they don’t look<br />
at you.”<br />
The couple is also planning<br />
to stay for the long<br />
haul and hopes to one day<br />
build Stone Church outward<br />
to include a school or perhaps<br />
a sanctuary.<br />
“I don’t think heroes see<br />
themselves as heroes,” Wes<br />
said about receiving the Defender<br />
of Freedom Award.<br />
“I just saw myself as being<br />
faithful to being a good<br />
chaplain.”<br />
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